I need some clarification on some things, cause I seriously have lost my way.

Been married for 1 year now, work as a part-timer 40h per week(this is an important part) and we usually do not fight.

She works part-time too, a few days a week and she does not really want to work. She is the type that likes to stay at home and chill, clean sometimes and cook.

Yesterday she basically gave me an ultimatum, find a full-time job or I might divorce you. She told me this is a waste of her life and there is someone better out there. That I do not try hard enough and that I do not care about her enough to go out there and find myself a full-time job.

For example, yesterday we had a one day trip with the company and instead of going, I should have looked for work.

I like my part-time job, I am pretty good at it and I got a group of friends there. I also have a chance of getting full-time in 6 months or so.

So my question is, am I wrong in thinking that there is nothing wrong in working part-time for the time being? Should I be out there and work my ass off to find a job that I will probably hate? She is making it very hard for me to like her these days. I am starting to think that it might be better to just let her go.

Sorry for the long read.

Tldr; wife gave me ultimatum, get full time or I will divorce you.