Storytime:

My gf was constantly keeping tabs on me. Checking my phone for messages or calling my friends to ask them where I am if I didnt pick up. Her mother hated me for some reason and her father (I shit you not) told me that his daughter is insane and if " I were sure what I am getting in to here". I still feel sorry for him. I think his marriage is beyond repair but back to the topic. Last night she called at 3 am and I was sound asleep. I was extremely pissed and turned off my phone. I'd just call her in the morning I thought. Oh boi.

(mind you there were other numerous problems but this was what ended it all.)

When I woke up I went through the motions. My mom and little brother were in the kitchen waiting for me. I asked them whats up. And they tell me that they had gotten at least 300 + messages by my gf. At first I was concerened if something bad happened to her but that immediately cleared up after they showed me their chats. She spammed my family from 3am up till 9am. 6 hours bombardement. I checked my phone. I had over 100+ messages, voice mails, various bad words also. For what you might ask, right? What was so important that she needed to spam me and my family for 6 hours? She had a bad dream and couldnt sleep. So she decided to stay awake...at that point I lost it.

I grabbed all her stuff and face cremes, shirts and whatnot put them in a shoebox and drove to her house. I rang the bell. Her father opened the door. I think he immediately realized what was going on. He smiled and called his daughter. She wanted to say a buncha idiotic nonsense but I stopped her immediately. I tought about saying this very carefully beforehand obviously. But when I saw her infront of me it just all came out like a broken fire hydrant.

"Being with you is the most cancerous thing I had to ever endure. You are permamently trying to control me and you dont respect a single thing I do. You harass my family and friends and even your own father has warned me about you. Sex with you isn't worth this shit and I am breaking up with you. I'd like to say I will try to remember the good times but seriously I'm having trouble remembering a single good thing. Stop calling me or my friends and family or I will call the cops on your ass. Here is all your stuff. Bye!"

( Along those lines)

Gave it to her at the doorstep. She was completely puzzled by all this and i left before she could say anything. Screamed bye to her dad who I assume was listening to all of this.Went back to my car. Went home told my mom first then the rest. Every1 was happy for me. Said I should have done this months ago.

Feel already better but this toxic ass relationship has changed me. Also I am not sure what to do next tbh. Kinda feels voidy and over the course of this relationship I became more, way more cynical and sarcastic than ever before.

It was a bitter lesson and it left it's marks.