I know I probably shouldn’t ask about wife problems here but I don’t know where else to go. So I’m 24 and my wife is 22. We met in college, kept in touch after I graduated, and over the last year, we’ve been trying for a kid. Unbeknownst to me, she has had something called constitutional delay, which means she apparently didn’t finish puberty, although she seems like a pretty normal sized girl. She couldn’t get pregnant on her own, so the fertility doctors decided she should go on some hormonal stuff to increase her chances of becoming pregnant. The hormones basically triggered something to do with her constitutional delay and over the last eight months of injection treatments, she’s outgrown me physically by about five inches. Keep in mind, I’m 5’7, which I know is not short or that tall but I am lanky and she’s always been a lot more naturally muscly, which I had originally figured was because she was just short.

Lately I’ve been getting pushed around by her, physically, and I’m not really sure what to do. I didn’t really like when she grew taller than me and now she just uses that as leverage. Before, she was really nice about my lack of height and didn’t wear heels around me but she’s done a complete 180 and has become a total bitch. If I’m not doing the chores when she wants, she’ll just drag me off the couch and I can’t really put up much of a fight currently. Her endless nagging has turned into a lot of shoving and it’s really humiliating to be physically coerced into doing all this dumb shit for her. I’m thinking of going to a gym but I don’t know how much it’ll work for me. I don’t really eat that well, she would have to pay for my membership since I don’t make that much, and I think she’s getting some ego-craze out of this. I’m not happy at all, I’m stuck with a crazy lady who’s about to become pregnant, and I don’t know what to do.

I’m thinking of divorcing her but my parents would be so disappointed and I don’t know if I could get another girl that quickly.