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You Never Hear About the "Rapists"

Cynderella04

February 6, 2023

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Title	You Never Hear About the "Rapists"
Author	Cynderella04
Upvotes	44
Comments	23
Date	February 6, 2023 5:56 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/10uz5qw/you_never_hear_about_the_rapists/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/you-never-hear-about-the-rapists.1151784 https://theredarchive.com/post/1151784

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[–]Unnecessary_Timeline1 points 3 years ago* [recovered] (17 children) | Copy Link

[–]Punder_man 32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

[–]Angryasfk 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]Punder_man 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Exactly!We live in a society where women have the freedom to level serious accusations against men without having to worry about being held accountable for making a false accusation.

It also doesn't help that thanks to the #MeToo and #BelieveALLWomen movements we now live in a trigger happy society that is ready to proclaim any man accused, guilty as charged without stopping to consider trivial things like "Evidence"

To see further how this hypocrisy has played out go dig a little deeper into the #MeToo movement and how they closed ranks around Asia Argento when she was accused of using her power to push an under aged co-actor into sex.

When the accusations came out instead of holding her to the same level of accountability they wanted to hold men to they instead said:

"Asia Argento abuse claim should not discredit movement"

"None of us know the truth of the situation and I’m sure more will be revealed. Be gentle."

"While we cannot fully know the allegations against Asia Argento; BUT, SEXUAL predators are usually victims of abuse themselves (sexual or otherwise) ... we must look at this issue holistically and not just selectively ....we cannot just demonize the perps...as they were victims 2"

Yeah.. that's right.. when it was one of their own instead of grabbing their torches and pitchforks they pivot and say "We need to know all the facts first"

Its absolute bullshit and a clear example of the "Rules for Thee (Men) but not for Me (Women)

And its also the very reason why I can not and still do not take the #MeToo movement seriously.

[–]Angryasfk 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Punder_man 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]lemons7472 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This might sound goofy, but feminist see themselves like superheros almost, and do not think that they can do anything bad to others. Sure they will act all heroic and be against sexist stereotyping if it affects other women and them, but since men are like the villains or bad guys in their eyes, that’s when it’s perfectly fine to be as sexist and hateful as much as you want based on a popular new heading about a dude hurting a woman, meanwhile feminist will downplay whenever another woman or feminist hurts another person, and will defend feminism for being called out for their sexism and hatefulness by lecturing you not to generalize them as hateful or sexist or straight up deny all of those things that feminist do, and will deny that women can even be sexist to men at all. As long as you are the bad guy to them, or part of the BadGuysTM group, then all of that stuff is seen as justified, or her being defensive for her sexist attitude, or generally harmful actions to men, even physical.

[–]Angryasfk 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The dark secret (and let’s face it, not so secret) is that a large number of women are attracted to “bad boys”. A good friend of mine (now in a long term lesbian relationship) was drawn to “bad boys”, SS uniforms and what her best friend said “dangerous men”. She, at least, sometimes questioned if there was something wrong with her. The crazed LA night stalker (rapist and murderer, and with notoriously poor hygiene to boot) got loads of letters from young women, including explicit pictures of them, hoping for a “personal relationship” during his trial. Women attracted to the dregs of the male of the species is a thing. Of course feminists blame men. We supposedly brainwash girls. But that’s because they won’t face the unpleasant reality. Women often want to change the guy their with, and imagine that they’re so much woman that a dangerous, violent thug will change “for them”.

This is an issue for sure. But it’s one for women to deal with. I certainly don’t gain by women seeing a violent criminal as more “sexy” than I am. But it’s too hard for feminists to deal with. So they do what they always do: blame men for everything, especially their own poor judgment.

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[–]Punder_man 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He most certainly knows her name / identity but as you have said, due to the court orders around her name being suppressed he is not allowed to reveal it at all under threat of contempt of court.

The saddest thing here is he was looking at 10 years in jail for being falsely accused and not only will his accuser have most likely walked away with a slap on the wrist and maybe a finger waved in her face with a stern "Don't ever do that again young lady!"

But she also gets 100% anonymity and so doesn't suffer ANY social hardship falsely accusing a man and ruining his social standing.

All because "We don't want to scare 'Legitimate' victims from coming forward.
And I agree that legitimate victims should never be afraid of being called liars for coming forward.. but when we get it wrong then as a society we need to put things right..

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