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| 28 | The boy mom vs girl dad double standard.It's also very telling that their response to any gender swap is accustions of "whatabout-ism" or (more often than not) silence. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/26 06:41 AM |
| 52 | Why men don't go to therapyMy problem with therapy is there seemed to be no goal at all, and no attempt at progress. I’ve seen three different talk-therapists and it was the same issue with all of them. Every session felt like our first session. The closest to actual advice any of them gave was the vague suggestion of exercise. 25+ sessions totaling $5k+ out of pocket, and every session was just sitting in their office ruminating on bad memories or on what upset me that week, without any guidance on how to stop wallowing … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 46 | ABC pulls new season of The Bachelorette over domestic violence footage | US televisionHappy they decided to pull the season, especially since the season had already been filmed and edited. I'm sure that's a financial hit. It was set to air just 3 days from now, on March 22nd. But the "leaked" video was from 2023, and she was arrested during that incident. News outlets even reported on it at the time. There is no way the network/producers/executives didn't know about this when they cast her, yet they cast her anyway. I'm happy that it seems like they're not getting away with it, b… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/26 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Unspecified allegations against labor rights icon Cesar Chavez lead to cancellation of celebrationsYes, Egalitarianism isn’t difficult to understand, and it’s also not difficult to understand that you’ve gone off topic. Conservative Christian politics aren’t relevant in this conversation. I’m specifically criticizing how these accusations show how liberals have distorted Chavez‘s political beliefs. The liberal unions and political organizations Chavez influenced/created are now disavowing him based on unsubstantiated, anonymous accusations that have now been made against him 30 years after hi… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 04:55 PM |
| 10 | Are Feminists Right in Seeking Equal Treatment With Men?Who do you think does all of that when you’re single, working 8-5, and live alone? | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 01:12 PM |
| 20 | Unspecified allegations against labor rights icon Cesar Chavez lead to cancellation of celebrationsHe has been dead for 30 years. He was a leftist, union organizing, workers rights activist. Arguably created the most powerful agricultural unions. The unions he created have now abandoned him due to anonymous unsourced accusations of unspecified crimes. It’s wild that you can be one of the most far left people to be named in an American textbook, dead for decades, and still get canceled by American liberals over accusations of nothing from nobody. I’ll bite my tongue if proof is ever provided. … | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 19 | It's all the men's fault at this pointThe start of your post reads like you’re saying men should ignore feminists, to respect women but not waste energy engaging with feminists because engaging with them gives the feminist movement power. But the end of your post sounds like the opposite, that the world is boring because chill men won’t socialize because feminism is trying to limit men’s interaction, so don’t let it, that men need to keep socializing even when uncomfortable because feminists want us quiet and controlled. Idk man, do… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 07:35 AM |
| 24 | Are Feminists Right in Seeking Equal Treatment With Men?I can’t speak for him, but it’s probably because divorce means he’s likely to lose half or more of every cent in savings, retirement, property, and overall economic safety he’s been working toward for his entire adult life. Suffer in silence in the hope the relationship issues pass, or lose the majority of the progress and safety you’ve built over years? How long would it take for you to convince yourself to do the latter? Watched this happen to my own dad, he decided to stay. He's miserable. Bu… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 05:15 AM |
| 12 | Are Feminists Right in Seeking Equal Treatment With Men?But where it starts to feel off is when “equal” only seems to apply in certain directions or in certain circumstances It’s about that difference between equal and equitable. Feminists often publicly advocate for equality, whereas their actual goal is equitability. Equality can be measured quantitatively, it can be measured. Equitability is a perversion of equality. It can’t be measured, it’s based on an opinion. Feminists purposely conflate the two in order to justify their prejudices. Equitabil… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/26 04:50 AM |
| 3 | UK gov announces £31.6M support for female offendersTheTinMen made a really good post about this https://x.com/thetinmenblog/status/2033834785739583973?s=61 | /r/MensRights | 17/03/26 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Sabrina Carpenter gets 100,000+ audience of young girls and women to say men are "useless"They already have a narrative against him, accusing him of being too sexually suggestive with his audience of mostly teen girls. But he’s an adult and his biggest songs are about sex, just like many female pop stars. It’s not his fault parents buy their children tickets to his shows. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/26 10:58 PM |
| 11 | Patriarchy doesn't have to be run by men. Women run patriarchal systems toosociology That isn’t a science. Sociology “research” isn’t replicable. Hierarchy and unequal distribution of power are defining features of patriarchy No, thats capitalism. There is one person on the top who controls, followed by the subordinates of the leader, beneath whom are more inferior members of the community No, that’s a government based on capitalism. But even a woman can be controlling a patriarchal system Correct, because it’s not a patriarchy it’s capitalism Research has shown that m… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/26 01:10 PM |
| 5 | What would you say was the biggest online/pop culture misandry stunt of 2025?It’s this. It won 4 Golden Globes this weekend. It has directly influenced UK politics and EU political discourse It has directly influenced educational programming for public school kids. The western world sees this show as if it is an accurate depiction of male childhood. They publish their demonization of boyhood on Netflix and are literally being awarded for it. (I’m late to this post, my bad) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 12:12 PM |
| 5 | “Crazy ex girlfriend”It pisses me off when women with untreated mental health disorders get an infantilizing pass after physically, verbally, or mentally abusing my friends, all under the guise of “needing help”. They’re grown adults who’ve hurt people. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/26 09:53 AM |
| 35 | Killed "15-year-old child" vs killed 22-year-old "female" protestorUp until around 2017, I genuinely trusted Wikipedia. (Yes I knew you had to check the cited sources, but you get it) I really thought Wikipedia was a group of genuinely altruistic people contributing to a free online encyclopedia with regularly updated references from unbiased sources. Then I learned about the discussion and edit pages. And even more tragically, the user pages. The vast majority of Wikipedia is people editing articles to propagandize. 99% of people that choose to dedicate time t… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/26 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Stereotypes and mental healthThis isn’t meant to be mean, but yes. It is because you are a woman. Progress in social issues usually begins among those who have comparable experiences. We’re talking about men expressing their emotions, so it makes sense that the change is happening between men first. It’ll take time for women to see it too. But, it will also require women to make progress. Men are continuing stoicism toward women because our stoicism is still validated by women. The outcome of expressing negative emotions to… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/25 01:54 AM |
| 4 | I dont view men as "human"In the political/corporate/non-profit advocacy world, yes. Fight fire with fire. When talking to real people with humanity, no. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Stereotypes and mental healthI can only speak from a US perspective, but think many younger American men have moved past the whole “men being emotional is gay” trope. It has become more acceptable for men to open up emotionally to other men. However, it needs to be about something appropriately distressing and the emotions need to be appropriate for the issue. A man telling his friends that he’s worried about the a fender bender he got into last week is fine. Sure he might get jokingly called a dumbass, but guys will give h… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 11:29 PM |
| 2 | I dont view men as "human"Yeah, and thats a good thing (within conversations with everyday people, not politicians/corporations etc). Feminists are unnecessarily combative. They dont convert anybody with their hateful attitude, and in fact often drive people away. Let them be the hateful ones, we dont have to be like them. We’ll continue to be logical, open to criticism, willing to hear other experiences. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 11:00 PM |
| 3 | I dont view men as "human"You have fallen for propaganda meant to foster indiscriminately dehumanizing, discarding, or even actively fearing and hating, an entire section of humanity. Take a look at a history book and learn what that kind of systemic and indiscriminate ostracization of a population has led to. It is never good. You have to think independently. This applies to all issues, not just this. But the point is, it’s extremely hard for people from the group you are discriminating against to convince you to feel e… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Woman beheaded ex-husband and disposed of his head before marrying his sonShe’s been convicted, but not sentenced. In mother/female perpetrator cases like this, you always need to wait for the sentencing hearing. Most recent article I found said that her sentencing hearing is scheduled for January 8. We’ll need to wait til then to see if she faces any meaningful justice. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 07:23 AM |
| 56 | Why are the adult female faces redacted in the newly released Epstein photos?Why are journalists allowed a lower standard for citing images than I was nearly 20 years ago in middle school? This article is citing images from the House Oversight Committee, why dont they LINK IT. No ‘The Guardian’, “House_Oversight_083516” as a footnote within fucking jpg of your image is NOT AN ACCEPTABLE CITATION. To find the source, we normal humans must search “house oversight committee”. But then you get the general government house oversight committee webpage. Guess what? There’s a di… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/25 02:28 PM |
| 33 | I 20M was falsely accused of sexual assault at 18. I just can’t do this anymore I really need helpHey, I read your post. Unfortunately I don’t have any direct advice for you. But, there is a sub that might be better equipped to help: r/SupportForTheAccused. It’s not super active but there are guys there that have gone through what you are going through and might be able to give advice from a first-hand perspective. It sounds like you might be seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist already, since you said you’ve been diagnosed. You went through a traumatic event and in the context of PTSD, the… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/25 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Sabrina Carpenter’s songwriting advice: “Add the weird chord progression and key change, and call men stupid in as many ways as you can”I really thought this was going to be a quote taken out of context, like a critique of the music industry wanting her to hate on men for money. But no. She’s really saying that “calling men stupid in as many ways as you can” is an act of real artistry, an act of rebellion against the industry. Lol. https://youtu.be/MCw4hwewFe8 Start at 2:16 of that video for the full context. She really is that blatant, she really says that bashing men is “the opposite of a hit” song. She really thinks bashing m… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/25 07:13 PM |
| 12 | Sitting next to an elderly couple today and watched the wife physically abuse her obviously disabled husband...in public, in front of a cop.I never know what to do in these situations. Inserting yourself into their situation almost always escalates the aggressor. So by interacting we’ll likely make things worse, either for the victim or for ourselves, probably both. But by doing nothing we allow abuse to continue and the abuser walks away thinking their actions are normal and justified. In my experience, the least risky way to intervene is to shout at the aggressor from a distance. Shouting something like “cut it out” “knock it off”… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/25 07:14 AM |
| 76 | Daily Reminder: Avoid Female-Dominated WorkplacesThis was my exact experience as staff (non-teaching/admin) at colleges/universities. Especially if your colleagues are overwhelmingly women and you are all supervised by an older woman. They passive aggressively hate each other, they whisper about their hatred for the supervisor, and they happily and loudly discuss their hatred for you. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/25 09:35 AM |
| -2 | Where do you fall PoliticallyI’m far left. There are serious consequences of gender within the class war and that is reflected in the statistics around homelessness and unemployment and education and suicide. But we must remember that the only real war is the class war, that these are consequences of a class war that selfish people have manipulated into meaningless conflict as a distraction from the root problem. The cause and solution to most gendered arguments will be economic. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/25 09:16 AM |
| 3 | International Men's Day 2025: What I Am DoingKudos to you for putting together a visible, tangible awareness campaign. That isn’t easy. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/25 07:40 AM |
| 8 | The DoorDash girl who was fired after reporting on-job sexual assault has been arrestedShe’ll get a suspended sentence dependent on probation, minus any time served. Plus maybe a small fine. They always get suspended sentences and time served… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/25 07:05 AM |
| 24 | Did you know if a boy gets sexually assaulted by an adult as soon as the boy turns 18 he now owes back child support to his abuser.There’s also interest on child support arrears in most states. So the payments he was “responsible” for as a minor can have interest applied. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/25 07:01 AM |
| 64 | Mother kills 9yo boy, after boy had confessed fear for his life to the authoritiesCourt documents…show Giovanni had previously expressed fear of being alone with his mother…When asked why, he added: “She was strangling me,” later describing how “Mom grabbed me by the neck, squeezing it with both hands.” Reports indicate that previous warnings from Giovanni’s father about her being “dangerous” were documented, along with earlier allegations – including a reported attempt to strangle the child – that were dismissed by prosecutors as potentially accidental … Authorities are now … | /r/MensRights | 17/11/25 11:23 AM |
| 46 | Reminder: When Ukraine banned men from leaving, the West protested the discrimination of trans women who got stranded in Ukraine because of their second-class-citizen (male) passportsRemember, when the war started men were being apprehended at the border in front of their wives and children, and even at the train stations that lead to the border. Men even attempting to board trains going to border cities alongside with their wives and children were being apprehended. I remember Poland choosing to help Ukraine apprehend men attempting to cross the border; I remember accusations of Polish military on Ukrainian trains within Ukrainian territory apprehending men attempting to bo… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/25 10:54 AM |
| 0 | Wow what a shocking take Hasan, maybe that’s why Kaya yelped…..EXACTLY. Goddamn, you’re so close! | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Wow what a shocking take Hasan, maybe that’s why Kaya yelped…..Hasan isn’t liberal, if you don’t understand the difference between leftist and liberal, then you will never understand the joke | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Wow what a shocking take Hasan, maybe that’s why Kaya yelped…..liberal satire account spams chinas flag in the description Yeah, that is exactly the kind of thing people that follow Hasan would do | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 09:14 AM |
| -1 | Wow what a shocking take Hasan, maybe that’s why Kaya yelped…..You obviously didn’t know it was a joke when you posted it | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Wow what a shocking take Hasan, maybe that’s why Kaya yelped…..This is a liberal satire account you fucking idiots https://www.instagram.com/p/DRBAA7wgReD/?igsh=bTk5aGI5bjFjZGl5 | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 09:07 AM |
| -4 | Wow what a shocking take Hasan, maybe that’s why Kaya yelped…..Yeah, I like to repost absurdly funny shit too | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 08:58 AM |
| 15 | A Disgusting Rape Apologist ArticleAfter this, she was also featured at the 2020 DNC Convention in a pre-recorded segment. Yet the Democrat Party wonders why far-left voters hate the D party just as much, if not more, than right leaning voters do. They still waste hundreds of millions of dollars “trying“ to figure out “why“ left-leaning voters aren’t motivated to get out and vote for Democrat cut-and-paste establishment nominees. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/25 07:28 AM |
| 31 | Man, 41, Asks for a ‘Gen Z Perspective’ After a Co-Worker, 24, Called Him Out in a Tense Work MeetingBack in my days working as staff in higher education (very female dominated) it was extremely common to allow each person on a team to individually speak about their own findings relevant to the discussion. It was nice in the sense that everybody got credit for their contributions to the issue, but the downside was that it made meetings 2x or 3x times longer than they need to be. This resulted in everyone having packed schedules filled with 2+ hour meetings where nobody was even listening to eac… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Be light to your brothers, not all have had male role models“Needing to survive” absolutely justifies it, otherwise I’d be homeless, dead, or have grown up in foster care. Your “sorry” means nothing, you have no idea what you’re talking about. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/25 09:59 PM |
| 14 | Be light to your brothers, not all have had male role modelsSo many of us didn’t have present father simply because he had to work. My dad left for work before I woke up and came back after we had eaten dinner. As a child, I didn’t even know him. It sucked. He was a stranger to me, and it wasn’t his fault. He was supporting us, his family. I only realized that as an adult. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/25 02:02 AM |
| 9 | "The Long Walk" Is a Rare Example of Hollywood Celebrating Positive Masculinity“Toxicity” is not exclusive to masculinity, that’s why the term gets so much backlash. The concept of masculinity being “toxic” is just a social media buzzword for antisocial behavior. But for some reason, it’s only acceptable to point out antisocial behaviors in men and boys. So they had to invent a gendered term for antisocial behavior. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/25 01:40 AM |
| 20 | "Women, Gays, and They's"... a Proposed Social Event in my AreaThe most effective protest against this kind of bullshit is to screenshot it and post it online without any additional commentary. Reddit, Twitter, Instagram, whatever. People realize the ridiculousness of these things when they are presented without political commentary. When presented by itself, the absurdity is very clear. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/09/25 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinity"The Purpose Of A System Is What It Does" If the original "intent" of Feminism is widely "misunderstood", then it's intent is irrelevant. LIke any system, the purpose of Feminism is what it actually does, not what it intends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:54 PM |
| -1 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?Men want sex so they get married only for access to sex as quickly as possible. Yeah, it’s definitely not a cultural staple of western marriages that sex dies almost immediately after the ceremony. Definitely not something that institutions like late night shows and comedians and books and TV shows have been joking about for over 50 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Why do you assume men are only looking for sex?His whole post is based on religion and spirituality; he’s saying there are plenty of men in his religious social group who are not sex-focused. If you believe that being religious is “abnormal”, why even comment? Your opinion has no relevance to the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:14 PM |
| 70 | I feel for her poor son.unashamed misandrist single mother who seems to have lost custody (very rare) eternal victim/“vulnerable narcissist” (term feminists like to use) irresponsible/no accountability Her only problem is that her son is now mature enough to understand the kind of person she is. She is a bad person and she knows that her son has figured her out; yet her main concern is her own emotional discomfort with knowing that she can’t emotionally manipulate him or mask her own hatred for him as effectively anymo… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/06/25 10:00 PM |
| 53 | "Berniesbros" Misandry 2016 to NowThey’re reviving it after Mamdani’s win in the NYC mayoral primary. They’ve learned nothing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/25 10:18 AM |
| 14 | What's happening in Sweden? Consistently high gender differences in self reported victimization of sexual offenses?The results regarding exposure to crime in 2006–2015 have been recalculated as the SCS was carried out using a different method in this period. Read more about this in the 2018 SCS, Technical report (Brå 2019). This disclaimer of data manipulation is in the footnote of 15 of their 29 "figures" in the publication. I need to know if they manipulated the methodology to cause that spike. I've spent two hours trying to find out exactly how they changed their methodology, but it's all in Swedish so I … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 10:52 AM |
| 21 | Is The "Women And Children" Narrative Misandrist?It is misandrist, it relies on the belief that male lives are inherently less valuable. It was never a law, more an unwritten moral code for sailors after the sinking of HMS Birkenhead in 1852. Also remember that when this idea was most popular (1850ish-1912ish) boys as young as 12 were often seen as grown men with moral, physical, and economic obligations to women. All that to say, "women and children first" has no place in modern society. I believe that "children first" should still apply when… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 09:44 AM |
| 5 | 'My Experience with Femininity' - An upcoming indie-animated web series about male victims of rape perpetrated by females.The author's portrayal of a male SSA victim was controversial and the author admitted that they wrote the character before they truly understood the male SSA victim perspective, and that their perspective for the character changed over time as they learned more about the male victim experience. Some things were retcon'd as a result. They apologized and admitted their faults. And IMO, that is why they are making a purposeful effort to disassociate their original account from this account. People … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/25 08:49 AM |
| 4 | 'My Experience with Femininity' - An upcoming indie-animated web series about male victims of rape perpetrated by females.I agree, and the creator does appear to have grown and matured. I personally will wait to watch the upcoming web series myself before choosing to support it from a LWMA perspective. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/25 07:01 AM |
| 8 | 'My Experience with Femininity' - An upcoming indie-animated web series about male victims of rape perpetrated by females.If you are familiar with the creator of this potential series, then you’re aware of the controversy. There’s a reason the creator is making an intentional effort to separate the channel you linked from the original channel where they experimented with this potential storyline/character. I’m not saying they’re doing anything intentionally harmful, the creator has admitted their faults on their original channel. But the history seems to be steeped in controversy, apologies, and ignorant moral gran… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/25 06:44 AM |
| 13 | 'My Experience with Femininity' - An upcoming indie-animated web series about male victims of rape perpetrated by females.The creator of this series seems to be steeped in controversy unnecessary for this community to be involved in. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/25 06:27 AM |
| 12 | Are autistic men infantilized?I think there certainly is a large group of adult autistic men who are infantilized; treated as if they are children even though they are mentally capable and independent. But there is also a wide swath of autistic men who are demonized, seen as dangerous and potentially violent and could attack at any moment. Autistic men are more often assumed to be uncontrollable vessels of rage or violence that could explode at any moment (in my opinion). Both of these are disgusting misandric/ableist genera… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 02:39 PM |
| 22 | Democrats Have Spent 20 Million Dollars Trying To Figure Out How To Talk To MenConsider this in combination with the other recent article about a study asking participants to use an animal to describe each party, and a pattern of “slow, plodding, passive” animals like “tortoises, slugs or sloths” being used to describe the Democratic Party. Democrats don’t fucking do anything. Even when they hold the power, they bend over to appease advisors that have no actual hard power, like the parliamentarian in 2021. They do this because they never actually wanted to achieve the goal… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 02:50 PM |
| 61 | Teacher: Reagan Anderson, 28, who was originally arrested for two counts of sexual battery, was sentenced to five years of probation for second-degree assault and battery. "A predator hiding in plain sight, waiting for her prey,” said the victim’s mother. [pussypass]Multiple victims, no prison time just probation, no requirement to register as a sex offender, she must only attend sex offender “counseling“. If a “rape culture” does exist, this is what it actually looks like | /r/MensRights | 04/05/25 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Male violence is punished. Female narcissism rewrites your pain as hers.Maybe an anonymous blog? | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 07:15 PM |
| 22 | Male violence is punished. Female narcissism rewrites your pain as hers.This lesson isn’t even exclusive to romantic relationships, I think a sizable portion of men first see this twisted reframing of our emotions in childhood, from our mothers. When you did something wrong, or if you were visibly depressed/anxious, or just generally upset, your mom might have said phrases like: Do you know how this will make me look? I thought I raised you better, what did I do wrong? You're making me cry, am I a bad mom? Do you hate me? So this is all my fault? Do you wish you had… | /r/MensRights | 02/05/25 06:58 PM |
| -11 | My friend believes the left is too misandrist and has fallen for the alt-right.the Left Wing in general carries the attitude that it isn't their job to educate people with opposing views the left say that it isn't their job to educate anyone, they are saying they are too lazy to do the job or that they think you're not smart enough to understand The left refuses to put in the work or they refuses to try to reach across the aisle Why isn’t the Right held to this standard? The Right never reaches across the isle and that lack of outreach has become their winning strategy. Mo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/25 01:25 PM |
| 34 | What did they get right and what did they get wrong? (Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!)You’ve posted a 2.5 hr long video which starts with baiting quotes in the first 1:30. You cannot expect anyone to sit down and watch a cinema-length youtube video before they can respond to your post. This is not a genuine prompt for participation in this topic. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/25 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Homophobia and Misogyny although linked aren't the same and people who say that think we aren't men.Mine disbanded too! 2 years after this story, it disbanded because their last supporting faculty member refused to be their sponsor any more, and because they were unable to properly hold elections for club positions. This meant that the university went the next ~2 years without any LGBTQ club at all, all because the combative and hateful attitude from the attending members. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/05/25 08:34 AM |
| 19 | (US) Is it really that easy for a woman to get a man thrown in jail over just words alone and no further investigation? For example, false allegations? (R*pe, domestic violence)Dude, if you legitimately have OCD and this is an intrusive thought for you right now, then you need to get off the internet for a few hours. OCD is the fear/anxiety network of your brain going haywire. You need to get off the internet, go lay down, and let these thoughts pass through you. Chill out, breathe, know that these thoughts are just passing through your mind. They’ll be gone soon, but you have to let them work their way through you instead of what you’re doing right now, which is obses… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 12:15 AM |
| 9 | (Ireland) “New plan to allow naming of violent domestic abusers in family law cases”. A concern is whether people could end up being named simply on the basis of one complainant without a proper trial of the evidence? Disgruntled partners can be vengeful. Allegations can harm someone’s reputation.The report detailed one case in which a child’s guardian explained to the child’s school that they were going through an extremely difficult and stressful family law case, by way of explaining a sick note for the child. OK, clearly that is too strict. If your child starts exhibiting new behavioral problems at school after being dragged in front of courts and counselors and “child advocates” as a result of family court proceedings, a parent should be able to inform the school that it may be due t… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 05:28 PM |
| 15 | New independent press to focus on male writersLooking at my bookshelf right now, it's mostly memoirs and academic, but those are a few years old too. But of the fiction I have, it's all from when I was a teen, like hunger games and perks of being a wallflower (both I very much enjoyed back then). I have a local book store that I browse through like twice a month, and I agree, there's literally nothing in there that interests me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 29 | Homophobia and Misogyny although linked aren't the same and people who say that think we aren't men.I think most queer men who have ever attended a college LGBT club meeting knows exactly the feeling you're describing. The air in those meetings were thick with this sentiment. Any non-hetro guy wanting to rant in a breakout group for a minute about something he experienced (which was literally the point of the breakout groups) would be quickly met with someone passive-aggressively "explaining" how what he experienced was actually misogyny, or blatantly not receive the group support that the wom… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/25 01:13 PM |
| 56 | New independent press to focus on male writersThe reactionary outrage and disdain in r/books and r/literature to this extremely small, independent initiative, blatantly proves Cook's point. We can only wait and see where he goes with it. He intends to publish only 3 books initially. The disproportionate outrage in the literary corners of social media would make one think that Cook is on a personal crusade to prevent women from being successful in literature. It's absurd. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/25 12:42 PM |
| 125 | Woman falsely accuses male customer of kidnap attempt, man goes to jailFolks, look up this whole case. This man has been in jail for over a month now. There are literally over 10 different angles of the incident that the store released. NONE of them validate her accusation that he was trying to rip her child out of her arms. She was using one of those motorized fat people scooters, which she admitted she was only using because her kids wanted to ride on it, not because she has any disability that required her to use it. After he allegedly tried to kidnap her child,… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/25 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Women's actions? A man's fault.This is the obsessive and parasocial activity that all of these celebrity worship/online stalker weirdos always descend into | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 05:42 AM |
| 60 | Women's actions? A man's fault.It’s not so much manipulation as it is utilizing the in-group bias women have 1 2 which men do not have. (The study of course blames men for our lack of in-group bias, saying men’s desire for sex with women makes us defer to women, men’s supposed “sexual frustration” and/or “homosexual inclination”, etc. the typical feminist bulletpoints encompassed in their religion of toxic masculinity) A sizable percentage of women will defend other women no matter her circumstance; even when the woman doesn’… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/25 03:26 AM |
| 39 | After passing a budget that aims to cut Medicaid by $880 billion in ten years House Speaker Johnson says: "You return the dignity of work to young men who need to be out working instead of playing video games all day."Meanwhile the US labor force participation rate for those 20+ years old as of March 2025 was 70.0% for men and 58.7% for women. But I’d never expect a politician to care about meaningless things like proven statistics or the working class experience. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/25 09:00 AM |
| 18 | How to change my mindset around men’s emotions?I’m gay and I agree. We also learn not to be emotionally vulnerable to women, from experiences when I was in the closet but also even experiences after I was out. Even “fruit flies” (to use the less offensive/less likely term to be reported) get “the ick” when gay guys are too emotionally vulnerable for their liking. Meanwhile the fruit flies constantly cry on our shoulders and expect unlimited, nonjudgmental, uncritical support of their feelings even when their actions were clearly antagonistic… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/25 07:33 AM |
| 16 | Misandrist makes generalisation on entire genderThis is such a cringy cry for attention. “I’m so ugly but even I can’t get men to stop being attracted to me, all because I’m young!” Yeah right. What a weird combo of modern young adults infantilizing themselves and narcissistic self-obsession. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/04/25 07:59 AM |
| 28 | Being gay is misogynistI witnessed this kind of misandrist homophobia from supposedly gay and bi women in my college LGBT club back in 2011. And I say “*supposedly* gay and bi women” because these young women were clearly not in the LGBT club to find community and acceptance from other LGBT people, they were there first and foremost to perpetuate feminist ideology and fight over who was the *most* feminist. I only went to three club meetings before giving up because the club was dominated by these misandric and homoph… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/04/25 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Only women know how to keep a tidy homeIf you google “maternal gatekeeping”, you’ll find that even mommy bloggers and academic researchers acknowledge it as a real phenomenon. I personally think it’s also applicable to household duties and other things husbands/boyfriends have been made to appear inept at by wives/girlfriends over the decades, but that’s my anecdotal experience. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/04/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Only women know how to keep a tidy homeThe whole point of these kind of complaints is to manufacture conflict so she can feel superior. She complains you don’t do the household chores, but any time you have done the chores she complains that you didn’t do it her way. It doesn’t matter if the outcome of your work is the same quality as hers, the very fact that you did it differently than her is justification for more outrage. She’ll angrily undo your work and complain that she “has to redo everything.” This has a name when it’s specif… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/04/25 01:14 PM |
| 3 | If it's #YesAllMen, then what is the fault of gay men?There are a not-insignificant percentage of feminists that literally believe this. They also like to say that doing Drag is misogynistic, that gay men acting whatever they deem to be too feminine for a man is misogynistic, that gay men explaining how we’ve felt accessorized or patronized by women is misogynistic, that gay men having exclusively female friends is misogynistic, that gay men having exclusively male friends is even more misogynistic…the list keeps going, it’s ridiculous. I haven’t h… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/25 02:55 AM |
| 9 | An exemplary reminder on how feminists organizations trivialise men's issues.Sorry buddy, I think you’re right. It wasn’t Gish Gallop, you were just asking two purposely rude rhetorical questions to rile yourself up. My mistake! | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 07:05 PM |
| 9 | An exemplary reminder on how feminists organizations trivialise men's issues.Two irrelevant completely out of pocket questions is absolutely Gish Gallop | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 06:32 PM |
| 6 | An exemplary reminder on how feminists organizations trivialise men's issues.Why would the National Organization for Women focus on men? Do you often wonder why the World Health Organization doesn’t focus on fixing your creaky staircase? Weird attempt at Gish Gallop, but okay. have a good day buddy. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 06:30 PM |
| 19 | An exemplary reminder on how feminists organizations trivialise men's issues.Helen Grieco ... stated "No, I don't think the shirts are cute. But I spend every day on life-and-death issues and don't have time for T-shirt campaigns." This is the claim I was responding to. If we don't have time to focus on anything but "life-and-death issues" and we "don't have time for T-shirt campaigns", then the statistics plainly show that male victims should be the focus; as they're the vast majority of the injured and dead every year, worldwide. Point being, I don't appreciate the min… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 05:46 PM |
| 28 | An exemplary reminder on how feminists organizations trivialise men's issues.Helen Grieco ... stated "No, I don't think the shirts are cute. But I spend every day on life-and-death issues and don't have time for T-shirt campaigns." Women of nearly any population group, in the majority countries, of any age, of any ethnicity, of any sexuality, of any marital status, of any employment status, are statistically less likely to be victim of nearly any measure of violence, especially murder aka a "life-and-death issue", than any man of the exact same circumstance. I am so tire… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 05:27 PM |
| 12 | “Buy Sex – Pay the Price” - London Anti-Prostitution Poster. A counter-propagandist has added a sticker calling it "Anti-Male Rubbish" (2012)love this kind of random, public resistance to cop-aganda; legit puts a smile on my face | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | 95% of people shopping in Whole Foods during working hours are women.I agree with you, but this is also such an "old person" gripe, lol. Going to the grocery store at 10:00am on a Tuesday and saying to yourself "Why the hell is it so busy, doesn't anyone work any more?!" ...Meanwhile, you also aren't at work. I do it too, but you've got to accept it is a very "get off my lawn" kind of complaint! | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Colorado father who uncovered child custody expert's faked degree concerned for othersAbsolutely insane how much work this man had to do himself in order to find that her credentials were fraudulent. The Colorado State Board of Psychologist Examiners and/or Colorado Department of Regulatory Agencies should never have granted Shannon McShane’s license as an “Addiction Counselor” or a “Psychologist”; they should’ve been the ones to verify the legitimacy of her degree. For fucks sake I’ve had to call universities for degree verification for entry level positions before, including in… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 03:52 PM |
| 28 | This Is Why MARRIAGE Is The WORST Deal For Men In 2025I honestly hate nearly every clip I’ve seen of these guys. They have like three clips that went viral because those are legitimately the only times they were actually able to articulate their position to the guests and their audience. The rest of the time they’re a bunch of idiots drooling on that table together. All of them, hosts and guests, just a bunch of people so stupid they think they’re smart. It’s infuriating, which is why they get clicks. Because they make people so fucking mad, no mat… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 12:29 PM |
| 32 | “This Sask. woman called the police for help after a fight with her ex. She ended up getting charged”"I was crying because I kept saying to them, 'I called you to protect me,'" Dobni said. "I won't ever do that again. I'll phone a friend, I'll phone a neighbour, but you people are the last people I will call if I'm ever in a situation." Textbook example of how a woman can justify and perpetuate violence-by-proxy. Then, after one of her friends or neighbors that she called ends up hurting or murdering whatever man she lives with at the time, she’ll claim she never wanted him to get hurt, that sh… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Enforcement of child support through the county: how to pay it directly to the motherIn most states, if not all, is extremely unwise to pay the mother through any method outside of the payment system set up in your state. it is common for money transferred to the mother outside of the official state system to not be counted as child support because the state says it cannot be proven that the intent of the money you sent was to fulfill your child support. Even when it can be proven that the intent of the transfer of money was for child support (a text, a note in the comment secti… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 09:13 AM |
| 6 | Researcher supposedly claims that most child sexual abuse victims in Australia are female and most perpetrators are male, in spite of international data contradicting such erroneous claims.This report also repeatedly stresses “caution” when “interpreting” victims identifying women as their perpetrator. It happens not just once, but three times. Also, here are some questionable or concerning quotes from the ABS 2005 study this report cites repeatedly: Funding for the women's component of the 2005 Personal Safety survey is provided through the National Initiative to Combat Sexual Assault and Partnerships Against Domestic Violence - Australian Government initiatives administered by t… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 08:36 AM |
| 11 | Researcher supposedly claims that most child sexual abuse victims in Australia are female and most perpetrators are male, in spite of international data contradicting such erroneous claims.https://acf.gov/sites/default/files/documents/cb/cm2023.pdf Victims reported to CPS by professionals surveyed on their relationship to their abuser in the US in 2023, collected by the federal government from each state CPS authority. “Each state's file only includes completed reports with a disposition (or finding) as an outcome of the CPS response during the reporting year.” The FFY 2023 data shows 89.0 percent of victims are maltreated by one or both parents. The parents could have acted toget… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/25 06:33 AM |
| 22 | Jason Isaacs, star of Harry Potter and recently the HBO series White Lotus, comments on the gendered double standard of exposing genitalia on camera.I don’t know the true reasons, but my theory is that “the OA“ and “awake“ were just too abstract for general audiences at the time. It’s really unfortunate. I mean, season two of The OA ended with some kind of Inter-dimensional octopus controlling alternate timelines or something…it was very “different”. The general audiences of streaming services were not ready, haha. But if you Search on Twitter, you’ll find many threads enraged about its cancellation at the time. There were a lot of people th… | /r/MensRights | 17/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 92 | Jason Isaacs, star of Harry Potter and recently the HBO series White Lotus, comments on the gendered double standard of exposing genitalia on camera.He has been in so many fantastic TV series that got canceled (plus his movies); I have been a fan of this man for so long. I’m so happy that he was cast in a proven successful series like this, and if this bullshit feminist outcry fucks his career again, I’m gonna lose my marbles. The OA (cancelled), Castlevania, Awake (cancelled), Avatar. He is so good and I have been begging for him to find a successful TV series. Especially after the cancellation of The OA…that really pissed me off | /r/MensRights | 17/03/25 12:32 PM |
| 63 | Jason Isaacs, star of Harry Potter and recently the HBO series White Lotus, comments on the gendered double standard of exposing genitalia on camera.Nearly 15 years ago? Come on. Be real. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/25 12:02 PM |
| 77 | Jason Isaacs, star of Harry Potter and recently the HBO series White Lotus, comments on the gendered double standard of exposing genitalia on camera.It’s also worth noting that there was absolutely no discussion of Mikey Madison‘s vulva as a result of her film. This is the absolute definition of gaslighting. They are speaking about Isaac‘s dick only to redirect the conversation back to victimizing/infantilizing women. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Jason Isaacs, star of Harry Potter and recently the HBO series White Lotus, comments on exposing his genitalia on camera for HBO.https://x.com/popcrave/status/1900740983282676178?s=61&t=As2l8hZSvbsS1yaPCU_lww | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/03/25 11:38 AM |
| 500 | Jason Isaacs, star of Harry Potter and recently the HBO series White Lotus, comments on the gendered double standard of exposing genitalia on camera.Unsurprisingly, his opinion has been met with degradation and insult from feminists. https://x.com/popcrave/status/1900740983282676178?s=61&t=As2l8hZSvbsS1yaPCU_lww | /r/MensRights | 17/03/25 11:35 AM |
| 35 | "stop ignoring us men".…it seems like a large amount of black men and Latino men and probably some foolish women voted for Dunk Face To nobody’s surprise, other voting demographics exist only to support affluent white women, just as their first-wave idols originally intended. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/02/25 06:06 PM |
| 20 | Suddenly poor conditions in prison are an issue, I wonder why that is?Their priorities are clear. Meanwhile: Proportionally males make up 96% of the total prison population and females 4%. Since pre-COVID (2019) the female prison population has decreased by 13% (from 3,832 to 3,315 prisoners) and the male population has increased by 3% (78,802 to 81,057 prisoners). | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 02:07 PM |
| 11 | Name me one guy who was saved from any rape accusation (true or false), who isn’t a rich guy, celebrity, politician, or someone with really good connections to famous figures.Well, the entirety of The Innocence Project. Although, their success stories are almost entirely of men who had already spent years (or decades) in prison before their convictions were overturned due to new DNA evidence or evidence of false testimony by the prosecutor/police or witnesses on the stand. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/02/25 01:36 PM |
| 5 | TIL: A US men's health campaign existed with the slogan: "This year thousands of men will die from stubbornness."I think something similar happens to the US too. Women aren’t directly contacted, but from childhood, girls and women are encouraged to visit the doctor much more frequently than men are. Once they hit puberty not only are they seeing their pediatrician but they’re also likely seeing an another physician who specializes in female anatomy, gynecologists. There is no male equivalent for a gynecologist. So by the time girls become adults, they’re already more likely to have been seeing doctors far … | /r/MensRights | 05/02/25 05:54 AM |
| 7 | another dream of being falsely accused of sexual harrassment.I can’t really help you with your specific situation, but I want to recommend a couple of other subs that I think would be better equipped to support you: r/SupportForTheAccused r/mensupportmen r/malementalhealth I’ll try to answer your question from your post, but again please know I’m not a mental health professional: Yes, it’s normal to still be affected by traumatic events like the one you went through, even years later. It’s normal to have dreams about it and feel very affected by those dre… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/25 11:36 AM |
| 175 | Why is the left losing younger men to the right?So back to the question, imo the general messaging to young men from the left is “the world’s problems are your fault, your problem’s are your fault, fuck you”. Even more so, that is the message the left gives to men, if they even speak to men at all. The overwhelming majority of US politicians/political groups/nonprofits/etc never address men as a population group specifically. That’s despite the fact that men as a population group are very differentiated as taxpayers and workers. The only thin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/02/25 06:26 AM |
| 15 | If sexual harassment includes unwelcome or inappropriate sexual behavior that makes other people feel uncomfortable, as feminists have defined it, then wearing sexually provocative clothing in public should be considered sexual harassmentI meant in the sense that men are usually bare-chested at the beach and women usually expose more of their legs and stomach at the beach, point being the social expectations at the beach or pool are different. You really can't talk about women's swimwear modesty in the early 20th century without acknowledging that it was expected for men to wear full-body one-piece suits too. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/25 08:48 AM |
| 34 | If sexual harassment includes unwelcome or inappropriate sexual behavior that makes other people feel uncomfortable, as feminists have defined it, then wearing sexually provocative clothing in public should be considered sexual harassmentThis is such an inflammatory topic for them because there is no male equivalent. The obvious exception is at a beach or pool, but otherwise there is no equal male version of showing cleavage, or wearing pants so low-cut that they expose your underwear (90s whale-tails anyone?), or shorts so short that they expose your buttcheeks. The closest you might get is a man wearing a tank-top, but exposing his arms/biceps isn't the same as exposing your boobs or chest or ass or where your thighs meet your… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/25 08:16 AM |
| 76 | Stop saying the left has changed. Stop calling it the left. It’s Feminism.Personally, I believe that American academia is the primary source of the rot within both feminism and the Democratic Party. And I say this as a committed American leftist (which is why I consider myself a leftist and not a democrat). Academic language has invaded normal human dialogue like a parasite. So many people use therapeutic and academic terms which previously had specific use-cases exclusively used in research articles. They’ve been purposefully diluted into meaninglessness and derogato… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 02:16 AM |
| 25 | Women end up hating the Men they create.I will never understand why someone would get into a relationship with a person they want to fundamentally change. It’s manipulative and self-centered. Sure everybody can become a better person throughout life, but only when they decide to do it themselves. But if she’s getting into a relationship with the intent to manipulate him into changing…Then she’s not in love with him. She’s greedy and covets the fantasy of what she thinks she can change him into, not who he actually is. They can sugarco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 01:51 AM |
| 17 | Five Catholic college students charged with luring a 22-year-old soldier before they falsely accused him of being a pedophile as part of "Catch a Predator" TikTok trendI wonder how many of the fear-mongering “true” crime creators will cover this case…? Little to none, I’m sure. This is why, when I do watch any kind of crime videos, I like to watch the ones that actually go through FOIA and therefor show real pieces of evidence lawfully released to them. The vast majority of the true crime genre creators invent a story from unconfirmed local news segments and overlay it with stock footage. A very small segment of the genre is actually based on obtaining evidenc… | /r/MensRights | 16/01/25 11:38 PM |
| 18 | More gayphobia from womenThis is why I like @jacbailey1 on twitter. He‘s a gay MRA who is trans-inclusive. Every once-in-a-while I disagree with his take on an issue, just as we all do with any person. Yet overall, I think the overwhelming majority of his takes align with all men’s issues, regardless of the subcategories of “male/men” political groups try to divide us into. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/01/25 01:02 AM |
| 64 | Married middle school teacher charged with sexual assault of a studentEven when the sheriff is trying to be empathetic and describe the student as a victim, he refers to the boy as a “young man“ repeatedly. He’s 14, he’s a boy, a child. It’s that kind of latent, unconscious bias that subtly assigns agency and responsibility onto boys who have been victimized. I’m sure that isn’t what the sheriff intended to do, but thats exactly the kind of rhetoric that permeates our society. It’s that kind of language that gives the general public ‘permission’ to withhold the pr… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/25 07:39 PM |
| 29 | An insane intersection of both sex and class discrimination, especially when men overwhelmingly work these delivery jobsI enjoyed this person's response...sometimes the best response is to laugh <image> I think it shows how service industry workers aren't respected, but when Feminists call for some type of activism on behalf of the service industry like this, it's usually meaningless, performative, gender-war rhetoric. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/01/25 02:47 PM |
| 61 | Well, apparently women CAN do everything a man can do. Christian school shooter was 15 year old girl.Everyone should be aware that there are quite a few tabloids and social media clout accounts circulating a 2 - 6 Page “manifesto“ they claim to be written by her, but there have not been any reputable publications or authorities verifying this document. I know that we do have to keep into account that “reputable” publications very rarely, if ever, post manifestos from these mass shooters. But for at least the coming day, we should hold reasonable suspicion regarding the source of this document. … | /r/MensRights | 17/12/24 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Feminism makes me want to defect to RussiaRussia literally had to make a deal to trade ICBM and submarine tech with NK so they could use emaciated, growth stunted NK men that have never seen combat for their Ukrainian war because Putin fears that another mobilization will cause too much revolt among the RU public. RU is grasping at straws, their last hope being the west invests too much resources in the middle east bullshit that the west placates him and officially cedes some Ukrainian land to him, then forget about RU for 5ish years wh… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/24 11:24 AM |
| 8 | There's so much deficiency in male upbringingI agree that you had a different childhood, but to me that aspect of “don’t tell your dad” still has the air of punishment and fear around dad finding out about anything mom didn’t like. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/24 05:51 PM |
| 26 | There's so much deficiency in male upbringingYeah, the whole point of my rant is that boy’s childhood experience is heavily influenced by mothers consistently framing their husbands, aka his father, as a person who punishes and is to be feared. As a person who takes her word as law and enforces the rule of the home accordingly because he is literally unable to be in the home like she is. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/24 02:09 PM |
| 80 | There's so much deficiency in male upbringingI don’t want to point fingers, but, imo, this is highly attributed to mother’s demonizing their children’s fathers. I don’t know when or where you grew up, but when and where I grew up, my and the majority of my friend’s mom’s were stay at home. And this wasn’t the 50’s it was late 90s to late 2000s. Everyone’s dad worked from 6 AM to 5 or 7PM. Dad left before you got on the school bus and came home during or after you’d eaten dinner. Kids didn’t, and still don’t, get to see or interact with the… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/24 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Men's issues in society being self-inflictedYes, that’s why I prefaced my opinion with The left doesn’t even talk about men, but if they were to try… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 05:54 PM |
| 30 | Men's issues in society being self-inflictedMy thought is that the right’s message is more successful because they still talk about men as people with the ability to change his circumstances. Yes, it’s the “bootstraps” rhetoric applied to gender idpol, and it works because it doesn’t place men as victims in need government help. It’s a narrative that places men as temporarily downtrodden, and if only men would stand up and fight for himself, he will regain his position and status. The left doesn’t even talk about men, but if they were to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 05:28 PM |
| 15 | 14 y/o dies by suicide after schoolmates bully him about being homeless: Father speaks on their circumstancesThe schools have shown themselves to be categorically unable to address any kind of bullying or assaulting or threatening etc. I really think parents must start going straight to the police when these situations are severe enough. It doesn’t matter that these are kids, it’s still illegal for one child to assault another child at school. To be clear, Im not advocating criminal charges for playground bullies. I highly doubt police would pursue charges on, say, a 10-year-old punching another kid on… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 11:15 AM |
| 7 | whats your experience with Misandry in your life?He’s a good, hard-working man. Caring, but quiet, very quiet. He enjoys his work but he’s getting old and he should really try to get out of it soon, but I think his passion for the trade keeps him healthy somewhat. He loves driving, he loves engines, he loves tinkering with things, he loves off-roading. He just loves driving and building things that he can drive. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 10:36 AM |
| 15 | whats your experience with Misandry in your life?It was just the fact that I moved out in order to go to college, I was able to be independent for the first time and not have my mother’s rules (enforced by my dad) hanging over me all the time like I did when I lived at home. He’s a trucker so when I was in college he would pass through the city my college was in occasionally. We’d be able to get breakfast and hang out together without my mom or siblings around. That’s when I had a depressing realization I didn’t think I even knew who my dad wa… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 09:33 AM |
| 65 | whats your experience with Misandry in your life?My mother making my father the bad guy in every situation throughout my childhood. She made me terrified of my father because she would always say things like “wait until your father comes home” and demand that he punish me for whatever infraction she believed I committed. Of course my dad was never there to see these infractions for himself because he was working until 7pm or later, so moms word was truth. It really ruined my entire childhood relationship with my father. It wasn’t until I left … | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 09:11 AM |
| 123 | 14 y/o dies by suicide after schoolmates bully him about being homeless: Father speaks on their circumstances…father said his teenage son took his own life after being bullied by other students … because he was homeless he heard from other students that his son's teammates bullied him for being homeless and having no mother. Dad and son became homeless after they were evicted from their apartment earlier this year. Bautista questioned if the school district is holding those suspected of bullying his son accountable. This is what juvenile boys in mental health crisis look like. Boys in insecure housing … | /r/MensRights | 14/11/24 08:51 AM |
| 61 | Apparently, Men Expressing Their Predicament = Declaring War On WomenDon’t make coffee for them (or make it poorly) They literally think they’re secretaries in 1962 lol | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/11/24 03:17 PM |
| 17 | The Guardian/Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young menWell, yes, you’re right they should’ve run a primary. But Biden should have abided by his campaign promise to be a 1 term president which would have allowed them to run a primary on the normal timeline. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 02:55 PM |
| 21 | The Guardian/Richard Reeves on why Democrats lost young menIf Biden would have done what he actually promised when he was running for the presidency against Trump, which was to be a 1 term president, she would have had a much better chance. It also would have allowed the D party to completely reinvent itself with her as a “fresh” candidate and overhaul campaign staff with younger people. Instead, they decided to do the same thing they’ve been doing since they lost the unions in the 60s. Talk to working people like condescending academics from the ivory … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/24 01:58 PM |
| 16 | push mens issues into the dem partyEvery single Lib Dem social media account is spouting the same "it's not the end" "we will endure" "talk to your representatives" "you must organize with us" Why should any left-leaning voter continue to organize with the party? I'm sorry to those desperate party organizers, but they have failed AGAIN. Every single time that it has come down to the wire, that our international relations were risked on an election, or the outcome might end an unjust war we're perpetuating, or might result in meas… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 07:20 AM |
| 21 | After a bar owner witnessed ‘a young lady just beating on her boyfriend’, and the owner herself being punched by the woman, owner decides to raise minimum age requirements to ‘Keep it safe for all’… 30 for men, 25 for womenI do understand the business logic of wanting more women than men in your bar if you’re trying to attract a younger, college age crowd and create a ‘party’ type atmosphere. But clearly that’s not what the owner is trying to do, the owner is trying to cultivate a calmer atmosphere after her experience with that woman. But her solution is to… Still allow younger women like the one that assaulted her? There’s no business logic in this decision, to me it sounds like a result of the misandric belief … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/10/24 12:27 AM |
| 51 | After a bar owner witnessed ‘a young lady just beating on her boyfriend’, and the owner herself being punched by the woman, owner decides to raise minimum age requirements to ‘Keep it safe for all’… 30 for men, 25 for womenTL;DR: owner says a belligerent young woman was inside her bar, she left but started beating her boyfriend at the door of her establishment, when owner told her to stop beating her boyfriend, she punched owner. So owner decided to implement an age requirement for her bar which restricts men more than it does women. What?! At the end of the very short article, the owner says that she may consider raising the age for women to 30 as well… When the person that was so violent that you implemented an … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/10/24 12:14 AM |
| 6 | More boys are now out of school globally than girls, and things will get worse (for boys): UNESCO ReportI absolutely hate it, but part of me wonders if the authors of this report know that the only truly viable path to significant support for boys is to reframe the support as a benefit for girls. If so, that’s a smart strategy. Depressing as fuck, but using their game against them is a viable solution until supporting boys outright gets institutional approval. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 16 | Positive stories against MisandryThere was a lot of categorical discrimination against boys in my child education (K-8). At the very least there were other incidents when I was in 4th grade and 7th grade. Boys constantly complained but outside of this 5th grade incident, none of our complaints were ever given legitimate concern. Since almost exclusively boys were deemed problem students or class disruptors, boys who complained about unfair treatment were just seen as liars. It’s been very validating to watch these studies come … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/09/24 09:06 AM |
| 63 | Positive stories against MisandryWhen I was in 5th grade our “Music” teacher was an older woman who hated all the boys, and all the students knew it. She would allow girls to take as many bathroom breaks as they wanted but refuse any boy bathroom breaks. She would reprimand boys for talking the second he spoke but allow girls to whisper in the back for the entire period. Her hatred of the boys was really that open, obvious, and unashamed. We had a program where if you got straight A’s for the midterm grades of each semester, yo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/09/24 08:24 AM |
| -5 | AI is going to challenge womenThe type of guys that see these AI voice chat girlfriends as a viable alternative to human relationships are the same guys that will/already have fallen into paying porn streamers for 1 on 1 interaction. By that I mean, they are both symptoms of the same problem: social isolation. AI Chatbot girlfriends are not creating a different market. They may create a cheaper market, but it is not a different market. If this market’s target consumer is the socially isolated person seeking human-social conn… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 05:00 PM |
| 84 | How feminist culture erases fatherhoodLiterally any season before season six of The Simpsons shows how Homer supports his children, loves Marge, works almost exclusively for his children’s benefit, loves his own father, and even respects his neighbor Flanders. There are even more examples but, I think the primary examples are before season six. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/08/24 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Solo income/budgetsYou’re going to need to retain a lawyer to fight for supplemental income from your ex. The argument for supplemental income is to allow you to stay in the same HCOL area that your ex-spouse is in, because living within reasonable distance of one another facilitates the children’s relationship with both parents. You should also discuss with a lawyer the possibility of placing limits on relocation for both parents for the same reason. If you don’t already have a lawyer, you need one. If you want t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/24 07:59 AM |
| 2 | I need to vent to someone on hereCall a crisis hotline. They’re not the best but they're at least usually good at letting you be emotional and vent to them. It won’t fix anything long term but they can help “in the moment” by just being there to listen to you. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/24 01:15 PM |
| 29 | Why is majority of self-improvement content, if not all, targeted merely at men? I thought we men were privileged pandered-to creatures, why have I never seen any dating or self-improvement content aimed at women?Because that whole genre is focused on making men work and extracting economic value out of men. Women simply are not culturally expected to contribute financially to their households like men are. In the US, the labor force participation rate for adult women is 15% lower than the male rate. Yet men are always the ones being criticized as lazy, unemployed, “failure to launch”, etc. https://www.bls.gov/emp/tables/civilian-labor-force-participation-rate.htm It’s the result of a culture that sees m… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | End the "female biological superiority" rhetoric I see so often in men's rights spaces.How about you reread my comment, in which I explicitly stated that biological differences should not convey any superiority or inferiority. And then delete this ridiculous throwaway account and go to bed. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 11:57 AM |
| 3 | End the "female biological superiority" rhetoric I see so often in men's rights spaces.I was not accusing you of anything or trying to be combative in any way. I was only trying to answer your question. I honestly thought this was a genuine conversation between normal people until now. Though, I guess I should have known better than to expect human interaction from a 7 hour old account fishing for ragebait. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 11:49 AM |
| 5 | End the "female biological superiority" rhetoric I see so often in men's rights spaces.Because there really is quality research showing that the brains of boys and girls develop differently. For example, girls typically develop fine motor skills and experience puberty earlier than boys. Boys typically develop connections in the “corpus callosum” and develop “white matter” earlier and more abundantly (both related inter-brain communication). Point is, we do have different brains that develop differently and are better at different things. We are not better or worse than one another… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 11:29 AM |
| 12 | End the "female biological superiority" rhetoric I see so often in men's rights spaces.Feminists refer to this concept as “gender essentialism“ or “biological essentialism“ and they passionately deny it’s existence whenever topics like childhood education, transgenderism, dating age gaps, sex differences in socializing, fertility, athletics, etc are the topic of discussion. Yet whenever topics like criminality, violence, horniness, or literally anything socially undesirable is discussed, suddenly they become the most fervent supporters of “gender essentialism“. Asserting bigoted p… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 10:19 AM |
| 78 | Mom lied about my fatherI’m sorry this happened to you. I truly wish this kind of deception was a criminal offense. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/24 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Moment teen mum, 19, is caught trying to SELL her son, 2, as she’s seen accepting huge wad of cash ‘to start a business’Can’t forget the blame shifting of “but where was the fatherrrrr” | /r/MensRights | 06/06/24 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are men still signing up for the military?I’m happy it worked out for you but do you not think those recruiters were being fucking predatory? 30 olds with at least 8 years experience walking around a fucking high school cafeteria of literal children trying to convince them to join the government war machine? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are men still signing up for the military?No, I agree that is the positive. The issue is that they're recruiting literal children while they’re eating lunch at school because they know those children don’t have the context to think about the long-term consequences. The United States government literally created the G.I. Bill as incentive for high schoolers to join the armed forces in an effort to create a “volunteer“ military force after Vietnam. The govt knew they could never implement a draft ever again. The point is to encourage desp… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 12:22 PM |
| 17 | Why are men still signing up for the military?It is purposefully designed to appeal to teen boys as a way to escape generational poverty and, for those who live in gang affiliated areas, a way to avoid going to prison like many men around them have. There’s a reason the military is allowed to sit in a high school cafeteria at lunch time and propagandize to 13-17 year olds every day, because those boys are naïve and susceptible to the pipe dreams recruiters are selling. Kids that age can’t think that long-term, they can’t really comprehend h… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/24 09:35 AM |
| 50 | What a way to tell the world that you’re a homophobeThe nerve to say gay men are invading women’s spaces. So many gay bars now exist in name only, the reality is that they’re filled with straight women every night to the point that gay men literally stop going. And if these women who proclaim to be “Allies” are hit on by a lesbian in the gay bar, they have no problem saying every slur and accusing lesbians of being creepy predators just like they do to men. Not to mention the lawsuits various women have won against exclusive gay male establishmen… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/06/24 09:16 AM |
| 2 | I get this is not groundbreaking or newly-discovered, but with that said why do we assume fault when a guy is single[basement dweller, still lives with parents, he's probably too broke] and assume innocence when a girl is single[OMG guys these days are disloyal, focus on them career goals girl!]?I don’t deny that biology also has a sizable impact, but personally I think this specific concept of agency is primarily socially enforced and we react emotionally to those social queues. Of course all emotions have biological components, But socially driven emotions such as shame or pride, clearly have a learned element in my opinion. Yes we are innately built with the ability to feel those emotions and there may be gender differences, but we learn from those around us when to feel them. We lea… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 05:02 PM |
| 44 | Oh lord- this take from r/feminismWow so she thinks I can’t benefit from this “patriarchy” just because I’m gay? Feels kinda homophobic…problematic af… But in their own terms, she’s literally tokenizing gay men with that last paragraph. It’s her providing a symbolic but ultimately meaningless inclusion of a sub section of the opposition group. And it’s also dehumanizing. They literally invented all these categories and classifications of discrimination yet commit them all the time with a complete lack of self-awareness. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/05/24 03:31 PM |
| 23 | I get this is not groundbreaking or newly-discovered, but with that said why do we assume fault when a guy is single[basement dweller, still lives with parents, he's probably too broke] and assume innocence when a girl is single[OMG guys these days are disloyal, focus on them career goals girl!]?The concept is referred to as “agency“. It’s basically how in charge you are of the things in your life, how much control you have. And most western societies, our baseline is/was that men are hyperagent (lots of agency) and women are hypoagent (little agency). They each have their positive and negatives. To be hyper agent means that every success is yours and yours alone and you are a champion, but every failure is also yours and you are alone and you are a failure and you are worthless. To be … | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 11:05 AM |
| 16 | This is why I say Anti-Male sentiment is starting to lose steamI’m not sure it’s quite that optimistic haha, you might be in an algorithmic bubble. If you ever wade into academia Twitter or American white women Twitter, or centrist democrat Twitter, they are all very much drinking the feminist koolaide. But on the other hand, I agree, the overall feeling of feminist dominance over social media has lessened recently. But they’ve still got some bubbles. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 10:04 AM |
| 11 | This is why I say Anti-Male sentiment is starting to lose steamI got a little optimistic when the neck beard-ish type of guy had a moment of redemption recently Example! KnowYourMeme page I’m really not trying to demean this man personally, but back in the early 2000s he is the exact kind of guy that South Park made fun of in the World of Warcraft episode; basically an entire episode about basement dwelling video game playing loser young adult virgin man that shits himself. A large white guy in a leather jacket and a little ponytail in the back were synonym… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 09:40 AM |
| 27 | If Men Really Are the Problem in Relationships Then Why is the Lesbian Divorce Rate So High?I am a gay man and I’ve met some fantastic and really cool lesbian women in my life. But I do notice a trend that the cool ones are exclusively the single ones. And if they get into to a relationship after we become friends, she’ll completely disappear from my life. in my experience, it’s very common for a lesbian woman in a new relationship to completely lose themselves in that new relationship, so much so that she neglects all other relationships in her life and just kind of disappears from ev… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 08:22 AM |
| 13 | Why does this sub exist?FYI, if you’re afraid of receiving “straw-man” replies, then check out that sidebar! With the FAQ and Wiki combined, there’s around 70 different citations from publications, academic articles, official govt statistics, (and more!) that provide factual basis for every “reason” we exist! | /r/MensRights | 26/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 14 | Why does this sub exist?If he goes to those subs and asks them why we exist, the passion in their responses (or them insta banning him) might actually be a good little intro! | /r/MensRights | 26/05/24 08:56 PM |
| 27 | Why does this sub exist?Well, you’ll be happy to hear that the people who run this sub Reddit, actually wrote all of that stuff. So it comes straight from the people who run the place! Pretty convenient | /r/MensRights | 26/05/24 08:42 PM |
| 38 | Why does this sub exist?Almost every sub Reddit has something called the “sidebar”; usually it includes a lot of useful information that probably will answer this question for you. This sub has a very extensive one with lots of info. If you have more specific questions after reading the sidebar links, feel free to come back and ask! | /r/MensRights | 26/05/24 08:39 PM |
| 54 | Why is porn presented as a recent male discovery?Internet porn is part of online media. Online social media has had measurable negative impacts on social cohesion, economics, and even international relations. Men supposedly consume more porn than women do. At least, when feminist academics conduct their research, men admit to consuming it more often than women admit to it. Tying internet porn into the online social media discussion allows the discussion to target men as the villain. Men as the instigators, men as the ones responsible for degra… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/24 07:56 PM |
| 36 | A bus load of Ukranian men trying to evade conscription by escaping to Romania get caughtNo. my understanding is that, prior to the war, the recently implemented law required women within a certain age range *and* within certain professions to only *register* with their draft. Upon start of the the war, draft-eligible women or women who had registered with their draft were not in any way restricted from leaving the country. However, in the fall of 2023 Ukraine announced that draft eligible women with medical training may begin being restricted from leaving the country , if they have… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 01:05 PM |
| 58 | A bus load of Ukranian men trying to evade conscription by escaping to Romania get caughtFor the draft eligible men who have fled Ukraine, their sanctuary depends on the country they now reside in. 90%+ of Ukrainian refugees are children or adult women, since men 18 - 60 are banned from leaving the country. At the start of the war, Poland was returning men or even violently repelling men at the border who attempted to flee. Even today Poland has offered to deport Ukrainian men within Poland. Romania seems to be allowing fleeing men to reside within their country without deportation … | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 12:54 PM |
| 326 | A bus load of Ukranian men trying to evade conscription by escaping to Romania get caughtA valid question, especially since Ukraine passed a law in late 2021, before the war began, which would subject women working within specific professions (not all women as it is for men) to draft measures only during wartime. https://www.military.com/daily-news/2021/12/27/ukraine-requires-women-register-military-conscription-russia-threat-looms.html https://coffeeordie.com/ukrainian-women-register-military Despite this, adult women of eligible draft age were allowed to flee the country and offer… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 10:28 AM |
| 18 | Bisexual woman is disgusted at the thought of being with a bisexual man (this is a very common experience for bi men dating bi or straight women)It’s the extreme level of cognitive dissonance that aggravates me. Sure, ease of dating may be a factor but in my experience these bi women are literally disgusted by bi men who have actually had previous relationships with men and arent afraid to tell him and her friends that she was disgusted. They never have that repulsion for bi women. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/02/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Help for emotional / narcissistic abuse in BCI dont have any answers, but if you don’t find help here, you might want to try posting in r/divorce_men or r/mensupportmen. And also try to post around 8am-noon as that is when the most people are browsing their subreddits. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 07:46 AM |
| 31 | Bisexual woman is disgusted at the thought of being with a bisexual man (this is a very common experience for bi men dating bi or straight women)She literally admits that she’s sexist and homophobic to bi men because she thinks women are better people. Why date a man at all then? we get it, you’re going to become a femcel political lesbian. Just do it already. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/02/24 06:43 AM |
| 12 | Why is there more discrimination against gay men than lesbians?Male on male violence does not happen in a vacuum. Men are greatly pressured by society, including close women in our lives, to be violent or aggressive enough to receive their social approval of our masculinity. The “men are doing it to other men” rebuttal is tired and aggressively ignorant. There was just a good post either here or in LWMA explaining how it is a bigoted derailment tactic which is used disingenuously shut down the conversation. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 52 | Why is there more discrimination against gay men than lesbians?Because part of the male gender role is to be provider and protector of women; gay men violate this rule. We live in a society that does not expect women to be economic contributors to their households (compared to men) OR to risk their lives to protect others. Society attacks gay men because they do not perform these roles, and if men as a whole were to see them and also decide that he doesn’t need to default to being the economic provider for women, or to risk his life for women, that would up… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 01:57 AM |
| 10 | Man claps happily while using self-checkout; he literally did not interact with any person. Still, nearby woman manages to feel “intimidated”.It’s just insane to me that a man, mentally disabled or not, can mind his own business and happily go about his day. Yet unbeknownst to him, some person he doesn’t know he crossed paths with and literally doesn’t even knows exists, was so impacted by his mere presence that they want to tell others about him. Yeah sure, the post was overall supped to be nice, I guess. IMO it was backhanded. If she was trying to tell a feel good story then there was no reason to mention her “intimidation”. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/01/24 11:23 PM |
| 12 | Man claps happily while using self-checkout; he literally did not interact with any person. Still, nearby woman manages to feel “intimidated”.Mentally disabled man claps to himself with excitement when he achieved the smallest of successes; OP even went on to say that it appeared his family was watching on from nearby. He never talked to her or looked at her. But he made three key mistakes: being male in public, being a large male in public, and being a large male in public who did not make himself invisible enough. It doesn’t matter if a man goes so far as to deliberately avoid any human contact while out, these pathological victims … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/01/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Comments on a post where two men are complimenting another manYour reply is out of place. Re-read my comment, there’s nothing in it that would imply any level of anger on my part. But congrats, your whataboutism has annoyed me. The OP was highlighting how women and femininity shame men when he strays from traditional masculine social norms. If you want to discuss how men enforce social masculinity on other men, you can go do that basically anywhere else. Yet you felt the need to derail this conversation around feminine enforcement of masculinity. I hope yo… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/24 10:42 AM |
| 7 | Imagine if the roles were reversed in this comment...pocketknifeMT Probably nonsense, simply because doing all that while pregnant or with small children is unrealistic. It doesn’t matter that women could technically do the job if it’s not practical for a huge portion of your expected lifetime huh? who are you talking to? I never mentioned pregnant women. I never said or implied that pregnant women were alongside men as they hunted for sustenance.… Women spend the vast, overwhelming majority of their lives NOT pregnant Were you meaning to reply to… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 01:39 PM |
| 5 | What society might be better for relationships?To answer your main question: No. There is no society on this planet which a person could move to where the social atmosphere is “better” at facilitating relationships. Maybe there are places where the collapse of the social atmosphere would take a little bit longer, but there is no place where it wouldn’t eventually implode. It’s too late now, that place doesn’t exist because all 9 billion of us humans are far too connected than we can handle. To state my belief as concisely as I can: I think w… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 10:53 AM |
| 7 | One thing that doesn’t make sense with the Gypsy Rose caseI agree with that, from what I read she did orchestrate the murder. Ideally, I don’t think either of them should have been subject to criminal prosecution. She was being tortured, and I do believe she acted in self-defense, yea it was unique and non-traditional self defense but still. and he obviously has diminished mental capacity and should have just recieved court ordered mental healthcare and living assistance. This really wasn’t something court should have handled at all. It’s something doc… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 06:58 AM |
| 76 | I absolutely hate term "Emotional Labour"Emotional labor was originally a term that described how customer service employees are never allowed to act like actual humans. They have to hide their own emotions and always have a smile on their face and be very accommodating, despite how they might be being yelled at. They have to put on a performance and mask their emotions, and that takes effort. It was perverted by feminists into relationship contexts. Its original meaning has been completely lost. Nevermind the fact that, IMO, men are t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/24 06:34 AM |
| 8 | One thing that doesn’t make sense with the Gypsy Rose caseHe had prior nonviolent convictions and may have expressed a desire to perform necrophilia on Gypsy’s mother’s corpse in text messages, which Gypsy said she dissuaded him from doing. Not a good look to a jury…but according to what I read, the jury had the option to convict him of some type of manslaughter OR 2nd degree murder OR 1st degree murder. And they went with 1st degree, which I think was excessive and overly punitive. More importantly, I don’t think he should have even been considered co… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 05:49 AM |
| 26 | Imagine if the roles were reversed in this comment...There is a somewhat recent theory, which has become pretty popular, is that the advent of agriculture and its cultural dominance was the cause of a lot of the gender roles we still see today. That before the dominance of agriculture, when we nomadic, hunter-gatherers, the social roles of men and women were likely quite similar (meaning there would be very little “oppression”) https://www.theguardian.com/science/2015/may/14/early-men-women-equal-scientists Farming and agriculture often requires l… | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 05:19 AM |
| 21 | Comments on a post where two men are complimenting another manThat kind of behavior always exposes how it’s women and feminine social norms, not men, that define and enforce what “acceptable” masculinity is. I think the vast majority of men would agree that, as children, the first person to shame or punish us for not being masculine enough was our mothers, or some other matriarch within our families. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Got falsely accused today. Happy new year to me.Alright well…kinda sounds like she might have purposefully spread a rumor because she wants to inconvenience/exclude you. I guess I’d say, look into lawyers and keep a shortlist of ones you’d be comfortable hiring at a moment’s notice…both criminal and civil..but hopefully she’s just a lying attention sealer who will get bored of this quickly and then disappear | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 03:15 PM |
| 20 | Got Falsely Accused [Update]I think you’re getting ahead of yourself. You need a criminal defense attorney right now, to find out if there is an active investigation and potentially hire as your defense in the event that you are charged. After that is all resolved, you’d then seek a lawyer that would pursue civil charges and damages against the other party (possibly for slander or defamation, and possibly to try to convince a prosecutor to peruse criminal false report charges). Basically, you need a criminal defense attorn… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 01:36 PM |
| 25 | Got Falsely Accused [Update]You really need to get an attorney so that they can start probing police and find out if there really is an actual investigation happening…and so that they can properly document these kinds of potentially damaging social media activities…and to prepare an argument for a bond and a method of payment for bond in the event that a warrant is issued…otherwise you’re going to be doing all of this last minute, potentially from a jail cell. Will be a lot more difficult, and more expensive. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Are there any gay men's rights activists? Just asking.Yup, I’m one. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 10:09 AM |
| 93 | USA: Women-only skiing event will host NAKED after-hours lap on chilly Colorado slopes: Event is open to non-binary skiiers and those who are 'female identifying' OP: Would not be allowed if it were men only.'It’s a normal ski day with your clothes on and then it’s an after-hours thing,' We get it, you have a fetish for group sex/public exposure/voyeurism. Go have an orgy in a fucking sauna like normal kinky people. Why do they have to turn their sex lives into some kind of public display, into some kind social statement? Jenny Verrochi, the event's founder, who is also described as an 'event enchantress,’ Smells like a cult in its infancy. FYI folks, if you wanna go walk around naked in the woods w… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 10:04 AM |
| 17 | Another feminist dog whistler looking to redefine what rape means and expand big brotherFolks, it’s tempting to read this bullshit and write it off fringe extremism that could never find mainstream acceptance. Unfortunately, that brand of extremism is the literal bread and butter of Feminism and is a legitimate threat to tech industries, digital art and media, as well as general human autonomy and men’s rights. This idea that people being assholes in a VR space is literally the same as real, physical, violent sexual assault or rape, is not new. Feminists have been pushing this narr… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 09:24 AM |
| 12 | Got falsely accused today. Happy new year to me.If there really is a police investigation happening and this isn’t just a scenario of the manager having a friend who doesn’t like you and wanted to get you banned from a bar they know you frequent without actually having to engage in any legal process, then the only other scenario I can think of that makes sense is: This unknown woman made a police complaint about you, police go to the bar and try to gain any evidence from that night (surveillance video, financial transactions proving your or h… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/24 09:17 AM |
| 34 | UN study finds almost 90% of men and women are biased against womenIt’s honestly impressive how consistently unproductive and useless they are, but on the rare occasion they actually have an impact it’s a negative one and we wish they would’ve just remained inert. Some real Monkey’s Paw tomfoolery. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/23 06:36 PM |
| 107 | UN study finds almost 90% of men and women are biased against womenEven the incessantly feminist editors of Wikipedia allow criticism of the methods of this index. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_Gender_Gap_Report#Limits_and_criticisms It only takes into account gaps between women and men, so any gains are unaccounted for and comparison of rights within one country to another are unaccounted for, and it only accounts for gender gaps where women are disadvantaged compared to men. Any and all male disadvantages such as life expectancy, dangerous child labor,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/12/23 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Females are far creepier towards males, on average, than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way.I gave you the benefit of the doubt when I shouldn’t have, you’re clearly just a little shit stirrer. Have fun. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Females are far creepier towards males, on average, than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way.Bad bait. Fuck back off to whatever subreddit you post on to masturbate about being a gaping asshole on the internet. Congratulations on being an insufferable bastard on Reddit. So innovative. Groundbreaking. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 03:32 PM |
| 7 | Females are far creepier towards males, on average, than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way.Plus, he has appealed multiple times for different reasons, each one denied. I’ll secede that he said some weird shit at certain points, but his own parents said he’s diagnosed autistic, been struggling with medication all his life, and at least one psychiatrist said he was mentally unwell and potentially very intellectually impaired at the time of the trial. The jury had a choice between manslaughter, second-degree murder, or first-degree murder. They went with first degree. So needlessly malic… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 02:21 PM |
| 10 | Females are far creepier towards males, on average, than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way.This wasn’t the place for that comment. I’ll take you in good faith and assume that it was unintentional, but that kind of thing happens all the time here. On Reddit but in real life too, from friends and family and healthcare workers we pay to try to help us through it. Get told things like “it happens to way more women” or “welcome to being a woman” or “so many women have been through a lot worse” or “that’s nothing compared to the average woman” or “1 in 4 college women…” or…blah blah you get… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 08:26 AM |
| 4 | I would try to bring more evidence that feminism harms men, but I think feminists try to cover it upYou "debate" by building your own narrative along side theirs and the "winner" is the person that made the most convincing narrative for the observers. This is the only way for mens rights to really win I think. We must use better tact. That’s a good way to approach it. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 07:48 AM |
| 5 | I would try to bring more evidence that feminism harms men, but I think feminists try to cover it upHonestly, I don’t know. It’s always been hard for us to realize what’s happening, and why, as it’s still happening. It seems like some random thing always snaps humanity back to reality, and we finally turn back and look at what we’ve done, and try to promise ourselves never to be that fucking stupid ever again. Like Enron. Or the 2006 housing collapse. Or the satanic panic. Or that time Cincinnati let out 1.5 million balloons. Western, or at least American, academia is in for a really big recko… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 07:40 AM |
| 6 | Advice for those who post feedback/complaints about this sub.boyx 🍿 I’ll admit, you’ve put more effort into a baiting shitpost than I’ve seen in quite a while. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 07:20 AM |
| 16 | I would try to bring more evidence that feminism harms men, but I think feminists try to cover it upThere has been a slow but steady drip of respectable academic research published over that last decade that has begun to support our experiences. It’s nice to have those saved to throw at them every once in a while; I mean, the info will never change their positions even if it’s published in their own feminist-run academic journals, but it is nice to throw their own ivory-tower rhetoric back at them occasionally. The truth is, it’s not really worth your time to discuss any of this with someone w… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 07:02 AM |
| 26 | Females are far creepier towards males, on average, than vice versa, but society mostly looks the other way.This is the truth, that boys and men are held to the extreme of accountability, that we’re assigned “hyper-agency” at a very young age. Yet feminists live in some alternate reality where parents apparently let boys run around, destroy everything, rape and pillage, and dismiss it with “boys will be boys!” It’s such a blatant lie. The statistics are damn near unanimous that boys have historically been, and currently still are, significantly more likely to receive violent corporal punishment for ch… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 06:03 AM |
| 15 | Almost didn’t believe this when I found it on the shelfShe’s has a bachelors in advertising and has shat out about 40 books of similar quality. She proclaims to be an “avid researcher” of “psychology” and “neuroscience” and is a huge proponent of therapy and counseling and couples counseling and yadda yadda yadda. When one of the most recognizable brands about psychology and therapy and counseling put (Psychology Today) puts someone like her as a front and center columnist, it’s no fucking wonder men don’t trust therapy or the entire mental health/t… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 05:25 AM |
| 5 | I’m really wonderingThere honestly aren’t many exclusively male communities on Reddit, even the ones I list below are centered around men but still have sizable groups of women commenting. The only subs that I think are almost exclusively male posters and commenters are the subs about beard and facial hair styling/maintenance. r/Daddit for dads r/askmen and r/askmenover30 r/mensupportmen though it’s not very active r/malementalhealth r/leftwingmaleadvocates for men’s rights discussion from politically left leaning … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 04:12 AM |
| 8 | Why is it looked down upon to say "not all men" but people are accepted in saying "not all women?"The generalizations are insane. Just search up the entire concept of “punching up”. Feminists believe that women, even western women (the only women feminists really think about), are so eternally dispossessed and subjugated that they are justified in demonizing not only adult men, but young boys too. Some of the posts on these text only subs like TwoX, AITA, OffMyChest, TrueOffMyChest, etc filled every single week with fiction about women being victimized by their own underage sons or stepsons … | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:15 AM |
| 19 | Why are men's tears so "wrong"?Male social value is externally awarded. Female social value is innate. This means that male social value is much easier to lose than female social value. Even feminists agree on this, look up the research studies about how masculinity is externally awarded by family and friends, but femininity is an inherent value of all women and is not externally judged to the degree that masculinity is. Men are constantly being judged by their social circles, and I dare say, especially by the women in their … | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:01 AM |
| 0 | Are gen z men not becoming step dads?Unfortunately, according to actual U.S. data, while overall remarriage rates are declining, still more men remarry than women. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/11/14/chapter-2-the-demographics-of-remarriage/ Although, this data is only as recent as 2014. I couldn’t find more recent data, but I’m also on mobile so I didn’t dig as deeply as I usually do. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 01:50 AM |
| 14 | Bari Weiss: Why DEI Must End for GoodLet’s not celebrate a woman who used her social media platform to purposefully put a target on the head of a prominent male journalist within an active war zone, Refaat Alareer. He had sarcastically called Bari Weiss out for spreading previously disproven propaganda. She retaliated not by attempting to prove her stance, but by accusing him of being pro-baby burning. Alareer knew that she had very seriously endangered his life by doing this, and the very last tweet he made said “if I get killed b… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/23 04:03 PM |
| 9 | UK court removes daughter from care of mother who disputed use of expert | Family lawDoes anyone else think this article is incredibly biased in favor of the mother…? Also, there are TWO CHILDREN in this story, Child A and Child B, but the article makes no mention of Child B anywhere, who is a boy and 3 years younger than A and was removed from the mother at the same time for the same reason. I just spent way too long reading the public court documents, and all I can say is that this mother is insane and has caused serious psychological harm to her children. She was also deemed … | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 07:33 AM |
| 15 | I'm a woman, and I'm angry. I'm coming to the source to ask for advice and insight.Research has repeatedly shown that the most successful programs for homeless people, both those who are addicts and those who aren’t, have a “housing first” mindset. The first step is to provide a stable, somewhat private, living space for them (where they aren’t kicked out in the morning and isn’t a bunkhouse with 50 beds in one large room), and then provide them addiction counselors, job placement, state assistance, etc. The vast majority of programs basically require people to resolve their a… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/23 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Alimony and child support CaliforniaI also suggest getting a second opinion. I am not a lawyer, but just plugging the info you’ve provided here into various alimony calculators for legal offices based in OC, they put your alimony payment closer to $5.5k/mo. And that amount is assuming that your lawyer’s estimate for CS is correct, because alimony is supposed to be calculated from your remaining income after CS. (Are you sure your lawyer calculated alimoney after CS? But, your income being commission based might make things much mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 10:52 AM |
| – | "Sex bots" or android women are a net positive for everyone and don't threaten us human women at allI think you’re seeing these bots a cause of social decline/isolating behavior when they’re really a result of such behavior. The bots have only become widely available within the last year. Yet research shows that feelings of isolation, deficits of socialization, and antisocial behavior have been on an incline for years, even 10 years, already. AI chatbots literally couldn’t have been an inciting factor. many men who would have otherwise grown up into healthy relationships will get stuck in a st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 09:56 AM |
| -11 | So I wanted to talk about an old case and see what other's view was of itSure, can’t prove his intent. Maybe it’s different in the country this happened in, but ignorance of the law and/or your intent while breaking the law are almost never winning arguments for the defense. But sure, maybe the judge did make the right call based on a lack of evidence that he ever became aware of her age. But if I was 19 and my 19 year old friend had to go to court for pursuing an 11 year old, I wouldn’t want to talk to them anymore. I just can’t believe an 11 year old could be plaus… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/23 02:56 PM |
| -15 | So I wanted to talk about an old case and see what other's view was of itI don’t think I could give the guy the benefit of the doubt in this case; I don’t think the judge was correct. She was within a 16+ space and he still felt the need to ask her for an ID. That means he obviously felt something was off about her age. The fact that he asked for her ID within a venue where she was already supposedly verified to be at least 16 to enter, makes me think he knew she was younger than she said. It makes me think he knew she was too young to be there and was actually tryin… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/23 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Must cut! New Bill wants male circumcision made mandatory in KenyaCorrect, but that doesn’t stop these organizations from claiming that foreskin facilitates the spread of HIV. https://www.who.int/teams/global-hiv-hepatitis-and-stis-programmes/hiv/prevention/voluntary-medical-male-circumcision | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 09:41 PM |
| 94 | If only Will Smith slapped more men. Jeda Pinkett Smith praises her husband physical assault of another man and says it saved their marriage“Relationship”? What relationship? Within the last few weeks she admitted that her and Will have been living apart since 2016. “Who knows where our relationship would be if that hadn’t happened”?? What?! According to her own extremely self-indulgent memoir, They haven’t had ANY relationship for years! She is an abusive partner and a liar. Even worse, she is an abuser who has had decades of media training and publicist guidance. She’s a professionally trained narcissist. I’m not saying Will is wi… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 12:49 PM |
| 51 | Must cut! New Bill wants male circumcision made mandatory in KenyaThe UN and WHO say that the porous mucus membranes of the inner foreskin create an environment which allows HIV to hide and thrive, and therefor the routine mutilation of young or even infant boys is justified. Yet, the permeable and moist membranes of the labia minora, labia majora, and various structures/openings within the vulval vestibule are apparently without concern and unworthy of mention by the UN or WHO. This is despite the fact that those female genital structures likely contribute to… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 09:27 AM |
| 22 | Teens who frequently watch “girlboss” content exhibit lower professional sexismI read the actual study earlier today and it is insane how the authors frantically try to find excuses for their failed hypotheses. They had multiple hypotheses that were either unsupported or even directly contradicted. In their discussion section, not once do they concede the possibility that their hypotheses are just wrong, they do not consider the possibility that their basis for this study was proven incorrect. No, they just fill the entire Discussion section of the paper with possible “rea… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/23 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Male Survivors of Abuse by Women Can Heal Without MisogynyMeanwhile, prominent feminists like Julie Bindel (co-founder of a Feminist law firm/legislative lobby group, and she has held prominent director and research positions in multiple UK universities) publish articles encouraging women to hate men: https://thecritic.co.uk/feminist-fallacies-women-shouldnt-hate-men/ Well, I have news for you: sometimes we really do hate men and, oh boy, it is justified! Stop doing hateful things to us and we might like you a whole lot more Hating men is absolutely th… | /r/MensRights | 07/12/23 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Gender Missing Persons Coverage GapIn the same vein, remember the years long media uproar from 2015-2021 throughout Canada and the USA demanding federal funding and task groups to fright the “national crisis” and “epidemic” of “Missing and Murdered Aboriginal and Indigenous Women and Girls”? Even had their own slew of advocacy acronyms like MMAIWG, MMIWG, MMIW, etc? Well, they ended up getting all their funding and federal departmental interest in both countries… but the actual statistics show the number of missing or murdered in… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/23 06:02 PM |
| 34 | Why is the concept of men’s rights so controversial?It’s due to hyper-agency vs hypo-agency. We are socialized to see men as hyper-agent, meaning we have total control and can manipulate every aspect of our life. This means that every success is ours, we did that all on our own! But it also means our failures are entirely our own, there’s is nobody else to blame for your misery but yourself, meaning that your failure is not only a failure to succeed but also a failure of character, a failure of your humanity. We were socialized to see women as hy… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/23 04:13 PM |
| 15 | If we mapped an accurate pyramid of violence, would it look like this?I don’t think there would be an honest way to find this data in order to make this graphic truly representative of the population. What would be the criteria for the variables? Convicted criminals only? Or just charged suspects? Or Self-identified victims self-reporting info of their anonymous perpetrator, regardless of whether or not the victim reported the crime? This graph would be very different for each one of those criteria. Yes, I’d be interested to see this “pyramid” but this is the exac… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/23 03:41 PM |
| 9 | 20,000 Ukrainian men have fled the country to avoid being drafted, with dozens escaping daily - even swimming across rivers to avoid going to warI agree with all of your points, but there was a level of delusion/futile warmongering from the American side of the Vietnam war that I personally see today in the current war in Ukraine. Specific to the Crimea situation. Ukraine has stated that one of their primary goals is to reclaim Crimea, and while that is their right because Crimea is Ukraine’s land, it just isn’t feasible. It will cost so much blood and in the end will likely fail, unless NATO gets involved…and then it’s probably WWIII. I… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Why are more men not standing up against feminism and the way women are today?The men who defend Feminism hurt men more than the men who are silent on gender issues. “Vocal minority” and all that. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Queensland University of Technology defends removing 'merit' from hiring policyhttps://cms.qut.edu.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0004/1219315/qut-annual-report-2022.pdf 74% of their FT staff (1906M/2574F) is already female, and 82.7% of their entire student population (22638M/27344F) is female. I’m having quite a difficult time finding any faculty demographics. In the US, staff and faculty are counted separately, though it’s possible AUS institutions merge both into the Staff category? I’m not sure. Anyhow, I’m sure this new policy will help to bring in more male students and … | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 12:32 PM |
| 85 | 20,000 Ukrainian men have fled the country to avoid being drafted, with dozens escaping daily - even swimming across rivers to avoid going to warGood for them. 40+ years from now, their surviving families will thank his bravery and empathize with him, just as many US families of Vietnam draft evaders do today. Especially after a failed proposal in Ukraine to ban conscripted men leaving the country even after the war ends, whenever that may be, if ever. Such a blatant way to tell the men of Ukraine that they are just meat. Defend the rubble, and if you manage to not die then you get to spend years doing backbreaking labor rebuilding your … | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 11:48 AM |
| 16 | Why are more men not standing up against feminism and the way women are today?This is the crux; being anti-feminist is socially disadvantageous. It is even more disadvantageous when those who Feminism denounces as inhuman, or violent, or sociopathic, or narcissistic, “all men” rhetoric etc… “agree” with such rhetoric. Feminists cast an indiscriminate net upon all human males. Be they infants, children, teens, adults, middle age, elderly, even deceased. And when a minority of men choose to defend that rhetoric, Feminists use it as proof that their bigotry is valid or justi… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 11:08 AM |
| 8 | When gender wage inequality is brought up,,how come women dont specify that they are talking about cushy office boss jobs??They said it was racist because it discriminated against Native American cultural practices. This was despite the fact that only flame lit candles were banned (meaning wax warmers and incense were allowed), and also hot plates, kettles with an exposed heating element, and personal space heaters were banned for the same fire-safety reasons. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 11:31 AM |
| 129 | Are those young boys/ men who are raped by women end up paying child support in the future?Yes, multiple states have consistently ruled that minor boys are accountable for child support, even when the rapist mother is convicted. The states place the “well-being” of the unborn child above the well-being of the underage male victim. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/ And other states, such as Florida, have used these rulings as president to do the same within their own jurisdictions. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 02:41 AM |
| 15 | I was born in 1999. I don’t recognise this world anymore .I’m a bit older than you but I agree. Our future appears to be nothing but more isolation, more political conflict, and more financial struggle. The future just looks like anxiety. More anxiety with every passing day. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/23 01:16 AM |
| 43 | When gender wage inequality is brought up,,how come women dont specify that they are talking about cushy office boss jobs??in the same vein, it’s interesting that staff gender disparity among directors and VPs vs regular office was never discussed as a diversity deficit while I was working at a public university. Coincidentally, the majority of directors and VPs were women, while the daily office drones, maintenance, janitorial, IT, and on-call housing staff (AKA wake up at 3am Sunday morning to tell students to stop smoking pot) etc were nearly entirely men. Apparently that was not something worthy of discussion at… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 09:13 PM |
| 29 | What I am noticing about millennial men.Not sure that I agree, it sounds like you’re saying that the majority of men are either Feminist or are “not comfortable in their own skin”. I don’t really agree with that, I see a lot of non-Feminist men who appear comfortable with themselves and with their own masculinity. Although, I do live in a more rural area and my experience is that men are allowed to be more comfortable with themselves and with their masculinity within smaller communities, especially those small communities that are mor… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 08:33 PM |
| 36 | Many studies show black men face more discrimination than black women. Here is the evidence:The convenient absence of white women’s “privilege” over Black men within the history of Feminism, and especially within modern “intersectional” / “Fourth wave” Feminism, is one of the most blatant proofs that Feminism is not and was never about equality. Proof that it is about supremacy or punishment or retribution or control or all of the above. There is a long history (at least in the US) of white women using their privilege to demonize, convict, or even incite mob violence and/or murder agai… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 08:24 PM |
| 15 | The Marvels is proof of what happens when you alienate menDon’t let the Feminist media narrative blind you. Multiple outlets have reported that more men than women have attended screenings of this movie. https://www.celebtattler.com/news/news/cinema/32708/the-marvels-debut-at-47m-a-new-low-for-marvel-studios/ It’s not misogyny or supposed male “geek” aversion to women characters. People in general are not showing up to this film, yet the he majority of those who have been buying tickets are men. But somehow the failure of this film is still due to miso… | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 07:32 PM |
| 24 | Society's crusade against "toxic masculinty" keeps men eternal teenagers, then shames them for not being menAdolescent and Teen years are also extremely important for social development because it is when they must learn to be less dependent on parents as their social navigators. Teens with healthy parental relationships feel secure enough to initiate and maintain some separation from parents and begin bonding more meaningfully with peers. The mantra of Toxic Masculinity shames male-male peer boding, especially amongst teen boys. A group of teen boys in public is assumed to be up to no good or as an i… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/23 12:01 PM |
| 72 | "1/3 of the population have problems with penis size in the bedroom and this affects women more than men"Imagine a show on national television in a western country having a male narrator saying, completely seriously and referencing their ‘study’, that: “1/3rd of couples have problems with labia size in the bedroom…And this effects men more than women.” All while watching a group of men sit at a public coffee house laughing at a model vagina? Can you imagine that? Can you imagine the international online outrage? Well, imagining it is your only option because such a question would literally never be… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Kindhearted feminist shows her support for men's issuesThis is literally Incel behavior. When men post videos promoting this kind of sexist hatred and vitriol, they are demonetized and deplatformed, as they should be. But when women like this do the same, especially privileged upper class white women with feminist institutional privilege such as her (she has articles published in HuffPost, Yahoo, Telegraph, etc), not only do they go unpunished but they get promoted by these algorithms. Also found it incredibly disgusting that she apparently lives in… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 03:50 PM |
| 12 | UK: Children's nurse faked having her ex-partner's baby by sending him snaps of her 'baby bump', bogus scans and pictures of someone else's baby.And it’s not even guaranteed she will lose her job, which she literally used to facilitate the crimes she committed . Birmingham Women's and Children's NHS Foundation Trust said Gregory had been suspended pending the police investigation and that it would now 'conclude its own internal investigation'. She has literally been convicted of a crime which she could not have committed without malicious use of tools provided through her employment…there is no point in having your dogshit internal HR ‘i… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Pew Research study concluded that “Women are generally more religious than men, particularly among Christians”. Especially older women. Is this another type of control or feminism over men?Searched around and I think OP may be referencing this study: Pew Research Center, March 22, 2016, “The Gender Gap in Religion Around the World” Published in 2016, It’s a meta-analysis of a vast number studies from many different countries and with the oldest referenced study being published in 1981. I don’t doubt that the findings are likely relatively similar for today…but I certainly wouldn’t say it’s findings are recent or directly relevant to modern populations. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 01:26 PM |
| 5 | how much money did your first sexual partner make?I had a job! …I was a sample boy at a newly opened grocery store 😂 A two-week temp position, I believe I made 7.50/hr The day I lost my virginity I bought us froyo at one of those self-serve places that used to be popular…I was a provider! 😆😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 01:01 PM |
| 7 | The recent trend of women using "therapeutic language" to insult and stigmatize menI agree entirely. IMO, here are examples of weaponized therapeutic language: “Stating Boundaries” but they’re actually just limiting their partner’s independence, social circles, or any occasion for their partner to be away from them. Describing normal relationship disagreements as “abusive” or “manipulative” or a violation of previous “boundaries”. Overuse of the word “Trauma”, especially in reference to normal inconveniences or awkwardness of childhood or life in general. 9 times out of 10, ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Detention for all School Boys, Barred from Recess and Left Alone Inside, as to Celebrate International Women's Day, Where Freedom is for the Girls ExclusivelyHappened in 2019 at an IES (Institute for the International Education of Students) secondary school in Andévalo, Spain. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 04:40 AM |
| 56 | Why not many women-only communities?Huh? I think you’re not looking in the right places, because I see exclusive women’s groups everywhere. Every gym or yoga studio or pool or climbing gym or cycle gym etc has women only hours and women only workout groups. My university had women only study groups, academic clubs, and recreational clubs. Also had career fairs and research symposiums exclusively for women (probably not anymore due to the title IX changes in 2016-17). My local library has book clubs and other such meetings exclusiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:05 PM |
| 23 | Women aren't "getting tired of" the men. What she's describing is women are ABUSING the men they live with. But other women cheer because of course they do.reads like the jaded revenge fantasy of some terminally online high-school tumblr girl in 2009. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/23 04:40 PM |
| 57 | “What does Men Going Their Own Way even mean?” she asksIt’s insane how trusted national publications (at least in the US) will publish opinion articles that praise women for literally doing the exact same thing as MGTOW. They always say that when women do it, she is asserting her independence, she is fighting oppressive social norms, she is demanding ‘the bare minimum’ from men, etc etc. But when a man does literally the exact same thing, he’s a misogynistic perpetrator of subtle sexist violence. He secretly hates women and is probably just a hidden… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/23 02:55 PM |
| 11 | UK: Student Union bans blue shirts and beige chinos after 'reckless' incident involving a group of male students in the attire typically worn by sport clubsTwo questions: Does anyone know any detail of the supposed “reckless event” these guys supposedly promoted? The article gives absolutely zero detail of the supposed inciting event. Baseless and irresponsible ‘journalism’. Is it normal that Student Unions at UK universities have the authority to edit, mandate, and enforce a dress code? In the US, Student Unions do not have such authority; they basically only get to attend meetings with university admins to complain about meaningless bullshit, but… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/23 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Major study: Emotion regulation training in school makes boys worseI think this is similar to why “breathing exercises” do not work as a coping mechanism for me. They make me even more anxious because I become hyper-aware of my breathing and the physical tension in my body that the anxiety is causing. It becomes a negative feedback loop for me; I can see how mindfulness and common therapy techniques could do the same. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/23 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Major study: Emotion regulation training in school makes boys worseI agree. The best thing I ever did for my mental health was to no longer be a student. I no longer had stress over homework and essays, no more ‘test anxiety’, no more sleepless study nights. Essentially, being a student (both K-12 & college) is the same as having an extremely abusive employer that always messes up your hours and schedule, demands uncompensated labor, forces you to take work home with you every day and on vacations, and puts you on-call 24/7. And in a best case scenario your bos… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/23 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Androphobia - the hatred/fear of menI absolutely loved Banshees of Inisherin! But I went with a friend and he hated it haha. But I can understand how someone could be bored to tears with that kind of dialogue dense (yet slow spoken), slowly paced, ‘character study’ genre of film if that genre doesn’t already appeal to you. I loved the themes of male loneliness, male aging, male friendship, male purpose, death, etc that movie explores. It’s kind of similar to why I love The Lighthouse but every person I’ve ever watched it with hate… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 06:46 AM |
| 34 | Hamas Attack on Israel -- Weird Normalization of Male DeathsCivilian men of conscription age, typically considered 18-49 by the media, receive no empathy or rarely even acknowledgment in wartime deaths. Or terrorist attack deaths. Or natural disaster deaths. Or accidental mass deaths. Or…death, generally. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 01:14 PM |
| 13 | There were non stop headlines across all newspapers over the stabbing of ONE girl killed recently. In the same week of non stop wall to wall news coverage, at LEAST four boys of the same age got stabbed, and died. Not ONE got anything like the same news coverage or reaction from politicians.I think u/thetinmenblog’s post highlighted the discrepancy and sexism of this event really well. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed blue pillers/leftist twats all use the same handful of corny expressions and phraseology online?Ick Goddamn it, you can’t make this list without ick! | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 08:16 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] You oppose mandatory paternity tests at childbirth only because you have something to hideWhether or not that’s true, no politician wants to be seen as advocating for less revenue, especially lost revenue that can be maliciously presented as being a deficit for single mothers. Which, advocating for repercussions for paternity fraud or paternity testing at birth, would obviously be part of the counter narrative. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 02:30 PM |
| 13 | [CMV] You oppose mandatory paternity tests at childbirth only because you have something to hideThe real reason that mandatory paternity testing at birth will never happen (in the US) is that the federal government awards some federal funding to states based on the state’s successful pursuit of child support payments. States lose federal funding if they do not successfully find a person (overwhelmingly men) to demand child support from. The reality is: if paternity tests were mandatory at birth, there would be a substantial reduction in the number of mothers who are successfully awarded ch… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 09:58 AM |
| 8 | This doesn't make senseEducate yourself by looking into the history of white women falsely accusing black men of rape and assault as a form of legal lynching. Take a couple hours to learn about how that specific type of racism and sexism, maliciously perpetuated by white women, and its sizable impact on the start of the civil rights movement in the United States. Once you’ve done that, you’ll be at least slightly less ignorant than you are now. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/23 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else feel like only men get judged harshly for not giving into their moral and societal obligations, yet society permits women to circulate around life with complete hedonism and self-indulgence?I agree; I guess I emphasized “Liberals” because I consider myself very leftist so it really pisses me off when Dem’s think it’s OK shit on men for fleeting minute of moral grandstanding. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 01:34 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else feel like only men get judged harshly for not giving into their moral and societal obligations, yet society permits women to circulate around life with complete hedonism and self-indulgence?The complete 180° reversal of political morality that Liberals do when casting moral judgment upon single mothers vs single fathers is insane. Single mother = victim, needs help, give her money, the poor little baby, someone help them, let her give up for adoption without repercussion, all the welfare, discounted or free preschool and kindergarten, free transitional housing, state will gouge wages of husband even if she doesnt pursue it, she gets the federal child tax benefit as long as she file… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | bad fathers❤️ | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 12:03 PM |
| 4 | bad fathersI’d be able to have a real conversation with you if your original post wasn’t just a bunch of ad homonym, unsubstantiated bullshit. Also, you probably shouldn’t go on the internet when you’re drunk. It’s not a good look. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 11:53 AM |
| 3 | bad fathersHow do MRAs Feminists plan to tackle the issue of bad fathers mothers since that's a paradoxical (generational) issue that affects boys that turn into men that continue the cycle? Emphasis mine. The cycle of what, exactly? Because recent research has shown that men are equally victims of sexual abuse or rape at the hands of women, and also victims of IPV at the hands of women. No, I will not do the research for you, check the sidebar for sources on male victims of IPV and male victims of sexual … | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 6 | Former Yale student acquitted of rape in 2018 has been cleared to sue his accuserYeah I did, both the state of Connecticut and Hartford County don’t seem to post criminal court documents that did not result in conviction | /r/MensRights | 18/09/23 05:03 PM |
| 10 | Women are born with inherent value, men must earn thier value.Sorry for being blunt, but anyone who disagrees with this take is simply uneducated. Literal decades of peer-reviewed academic research, from both Feminists and Non-Feminist/Unaffiliated researchers, has shown this to be true. This is reliable and replicable research from respected academic institutions over decades, showing Masculinity to be a socially earned trait which can be lost. And not only is it an earned trait, it must be repeatedly performed and awarded, over-and-over, and it is much e… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 12:32 PM |
| -3 | Death threats for men's rights activistsNah this is cringe Nobody should be getting death threats for their advocacy, but this is the kind of shit that “edgy” kids would post as a “threat” to their “enemies” on YouTube back in 2009. It’s the same brand of cringe and it’s not something we want to embrace or bring back. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/23 12:04 PM |
| 26 | It's 2023 and feminists are still asking this assinine question.That person should speak to my old babysitter, she’s been a highly accomplished rapist and child molester since at least 1999. IMO a majority of people who proclaim that women can’t rape don’t actually believe their words; they’re actually just subtly fishing for stories to masturbate to, or for tips on how to be successful rapists and pedos. Sure there are some that really are just bigoted rape apologists, but I think a majority of them, at some level, derive a level of sexual thrill from the r… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/09/23 09:46 AM |
| 46 | Former Yale student acquitted of rape in 2018 has been cleared to sue his accuserIs there any way to see court documents from his original criminal case in 2018, in which he was acquitted? I’d like to read them to see what evidence the prosecution provided but I cannot find any kind of documentation anywhere. Closest I could get was an interview from an alternate juror on the case describing a video and some text messages provided by the prosecution, and the juror said these did not show what the prosecution claimed they did. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/23 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Why cant men immediately withdraw all their money and flee the country before a divorce to save their assets.Ok, well the average man about to be hit with a divorce from a wife who is also considering pulling money from their accounts, just like she wants to do, typically isn’t in a position to buy a private flight, especially to countries outside NATO or the Geneva convention or EU or interpol. Plus you’re really risking it if she successfully files and gets your passport flagged before you get out of country. Or even if your passport gets flagged while in-flight. You’re talking like this is a James B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Why cant men immediately withdraw all their money and flee the country before a divorce to save their assets.You can, but you’d need to do so before the divorce is filed and before she makes some bogus claim of DV alongside that divorce filing. Or, even if she makes no claim, in some states the judge can still issue a no-contact order as automatic alongside any divorce filing. The DV claim would put restrictions on your ability to travel until at least a first court date, regardless of guilt or innocence. And that restriction can continue afterward too. So let’s say you flee with all your money to anot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:36 AM |
| 49 | Seeking mental health treatment is ruining marriageThat post is fucked up. Her story sounds like an abuser realizing her target became confident in themselves and began challenging his abuser on her behavior. So she started blaming him for their arguments, which in her own words were caused by her telling him she was angry because he was not as passive or accommodating to her demands as he once was. Her entire post is about him rebelling against being her personal butler after getting on medication. She convinced him to go off his meds, now he’s… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/23 01:48 PM |
| 39 | Why do men get attacked for having boundaries and standards ,a husband got called “ pathetically insecure and territorial”. in popular subreddit because he wasn’t comfortable with his wife modelling underwear?If she won’t listen to him, then his counter offer should be that he will be volunteering free yard work or house work services to local young single mothers in need 🥺❤️ those struggling young mothers can’t do it all on their own, he just wants to help the community 🙏 | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 08:11 PM |
| 21 | Feminist critics of porn ignore male sex workersThey also disingenuously conflate sex trafficking with porn, as though there is no such thing as porn that doesn’t involve sex trafficking. Meanwhile, here in real-life, self published porn is more popular than ever. Yeah we all talk about OF, but there’s also tons of people on sites like Twitter, tumblr, the various porn-tubes, endless horny corners of Reddit, etc which are filled with people (women AND men!) who post erotic/naked pics and videos of themselves for FREE! Why?? Because they fucki… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 11:21 AM |
| 100 | It might seem like a minor thing but I hate how people make fun of men who don't last long enoughIt seems like heterosexual men are often solely responsible for her pleasure during sex. I’m a gay man so I don’t have first hand experience. But I think a lot of women would be shocked to hear what I do from my straight male friends after a few drinks. It seems like the most common form of sex among my 20-40 y/o straight male friends is really just her using his body/penis as a way for her to masturbate. I’ve heard this less and less as I get older, but I don’t know if that’s because it’s actua… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/23 09:07 AM |
| 84 | Teacher who pleaded guilty to four counts of sexual penetration of a child under her supervision was spared jail. Prosecutor has appealed her sentence claiming that Judge Smallwood might have acted differently had the accused teacher been male.On Friday, Supreme Court of Victoria Court of Appeal heard Ooms hoped her recent pregnancy might convince judges not to send her to jail should that appeal be successful. At this point, I assumed her pregnancy was an outcome of the boy she violated. But… Mr Gullaci told Justices Richard Niall, Maree Kennedy and Cameron Macaulay Ooms had got pregnant almost immediately after her sentence. 'Sometimes it can be argued that things happen at rather convenient timing. The date of conception - as we wo… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/23 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Men who were sexually abused by women tell their storiesNot even the “professionals” will tolerate a man seeking help recovering from abuse by a woman. The only person that I have ever told (other than the internet) about what I experienced as a child at he hands of two different women was a therapist in college. I had been seeing her for around 4 months at that point, finally felt like we had a good enough connection for me to tell her about what happened. I told her during a session, then 3 days later she emailed me and told me she couldn’t have me… | /r/MensRights | 12/08/23 09:12 AM |
| 10 | Feminists can find alternative explanations to everything but their problems.I wanted to reply the following to her, but I can be identified through my Twitter, so I’m just gonna put it here: Most millennials and younger have only been alive during the 3rd wave's prevalence. 3rd wave feminism has always been our social regulator & overseer. For many young adults Feminism IS the authoritarian traditionalism. We weren't here for your version of traditional. This is ours. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/23 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Google either isn’t aware of or is omitting results when you ask what the penalty/punishment is in regards to a custodial parent fraudulently reporting their income. By tens of thousands. Any help always appreciated #familylaw #childsupport #fraudreporting #dadsrights #mensrights #divorceI think a lot of what you’ll find online will be very general because the penalties, processes to enforce collection, and potential civil or criminal charges will all differ depending on what state you’re in. This might help you start: https://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/child-support-application-fraud.html And maybe this when tax season comes around: https://www.irs.gov/publications/p501#en_US_2022_publink1000221017 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 08:59 AM |
| 12 | Men tend to regulate their emotions through actions rather than words — The Centre for Male PsychologyThe examples given on the website of the Hotline are partly about clearly criminal offences, in the other part about freely legitimized expressions of opinion (statements against gender theories or gender language). The former belongs to the police and the judiciary, the latter should not appear in the context of a reporting office, because it is then pure intimidating denunciation. Finally, this is it, we’re officially living in the future! We’ve got our first Orwellian Thoughtcrime officially … | /r/MensRights | 09/08/23 07:56 AM |
| 8 | Private school overhauls English curriculum to challenge ‘pale, male and stale’ syllabusThe Onion has a fucking golden moment to write the same exact article but make the title “black, whack, and 2shac”. Sorry, i’ve had drinks and I think I have voice of Bill Burr whispering to me Edit: the English literature curriculum had been “stuck in a rut”, with the same texts including Lord of the Flies and Of Mice and Men Yeah, same here in the US. I thought that was the fucking point, they are classics that had massive impacts on the history of English literature, not even only in a fictio… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/23 07:18 AM |
| 8 | Venting about frustrations in NSFW/Kink spaces.Are these kink spaces on Twitter? Because that’s where i go and I feel like I know exactly what you are talking about, lol. My feed can be mostly porn, kink discussions, smutty stories, lighthearted chats, or coordinating meetups. But like one day a week, out of nowhere someone posts some molten hot shit opinion on sex or consent or flirting or even politics/society, and then my whole feed is infected by dreaded “discourse” for at least 3 days. It sucks and I hate it, but unfortunately there doe… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/23 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Over 81% of Innocence Project exonerations are men wrongly convicted of "Sex Crimes"I think it’s due to this case, which in 2022 exonerated an additional 96 people wrongly convicted in Illinois due to systemic Official Misconduct by Sgt. Ronald Watts and another officer. This brings the total exonerations due to this one shitstain human up to 182 since 2018. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/23 07:37 PM |
| 3 | She claimed to be the victim | Law graduate Extinction Rebellion activist, 28, who murdered her fiancé by stabbing him with a kitchen knife as he pleaded 'I love you, please' is jailed for lifeBoth were under the influence of heroin, cocaine and cannabis on this evening — Wallace claimed that Mr Mayo had a sharpened wooden chopstick which she believed he intended to use as a weapon. The jury rejected Wallace's claim Mr Mayo was armed and she was simply using the knife to ward him off to protect herself and her unborn child. No chopstick was found in the area during the subsequent police investigation. Pregnant, under the influence of three different Class A drugs which will cause this… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/23 07:24 PM |
| 7 | Over 81% of Innocence Project exonerations are men wrongly convicted of "Sex Crimes"Michigan State University has been attempting to keep track of all successful exonerations since 1989. They have cataloged 3,381 with about 20% of those being due to DNA evidence (The headline of the webpage says 3,381 total but it doesn’t look like this graph includes 2023 yet, so the graph reports on a total of 3,294 exonerations). They state that only 8-9% of their recorded exonerees are women. They also report that 63% of the exonerations have “Perjury or False Accusation” as at least 1 cont… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/23 07:02 PM |
| 6 | Some comments from a Reddit post of genderbend art from an scene in HelluvabossThat’s a good write up of something I know nothing about and didn’t know existed until just now, haha. As others said, and what your screenshots show, it definitely looks like the women are wonderful affect, “Benevolent” Sexism, and a handful of literary tropes, like “women are wiser” and “all abusers are male”. People who don’t like the gender flip version or who don’t see the problem with the female abusive character are honestly just inflicting cognitive dissonance upon themselves. Unfortunat… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/23 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Women now make up exactly 50% of the US workforce — only the third time in history to have been this highThe problem with these kind of statistics is that the amount of working people is not directly correlated to the amount of nonworking people, or to the amount of nonworking people who are not looking for employment. (At least, in the US) That last category is especially important, the category of unemployed people who are not seeking employment. Those are the chronically dependent people. https://www.bls.gov/web/empsit/cpseea38.htm These numbers are “in thousands” meaning you need to take the nu… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/23 05:27 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW influence on dating tendsMost of these articles define “up” by education and income, and in my experience, more heavily leaning towards education. Men are not earning degrees at the same rate as women these days, at least in the US. That alone is going to lead to a shortage of socially “higher” men available to socially “higher” women. The Census Bureau shows that there are 3-4% more 25+ men with only a HS degree than 25+ women, and around an 8% gap between women with any degree than men. This may seem like small percen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:24 PM |
| -2 | Single independent women are not really as independent as it seemsI definitely had quite a few male friends still doing a lot of daily/weekly tasks and paying for things for their exes back in college. Now as I’m nearly 30, I haven’t seen it in a few years. These days what i see a lot of is women wanting men around them to handle a crisis or unexpected problem for them. Most of my male friends are very independent. When my car brakes went out, I called a friend to ask what mechanic in town he’d recommend specifically for brakes. I didn’t ask him to fix them, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Guys make more on Onlyfans than womenDo you have a source for these numbers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 05:44 PM |
| 226 | So where exactly are those male privileges I have been promised?One of your points struck a chord with me, so excuse me for popping off for a moment: Just the other day there was a post on Instagram about how men on Uber make more money than women on Uber, and at least 50% of it is due to men working early morning and late night. There is more money at those times, due to lack of drivers. A lot of comments from women said women don’t work those hours because they fear for their safety. Yet the statistics show that that is not reality. Men are more likely to … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 05:00 AM |
| 62 | High school boys are trending conservative. “Among liberals, the future is female,” she wrote. “And among conservatives, the future is male.”Same here. I’m liberal, moreso leftist, but don’t participate in any liberal spaces that talk about social issues. Mention of any struggle of boys or men in those spaces is met at best with a groan or at worst with volatile outrage. TheTinMan shows that we can have these conversations about struggling boys without saying that women are the enemy (because the vast majority of them aren’t!) Societal expectations are the enemy, institutional negligence or outright institutional hostility is the ene… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 02:58 AM |
| 1 | How to debunk the idea that men doing dangerous jobs is a result of our own doingsDo you accept the fact that the brain is a sex-typed organ, and that there is something that exists called a "male brain"? Yes I really think it should be obvious that the structure and wiring of our brains significantly affects how we make decisions. I have not, and am not, disagreeing with you on this. Everything you are saying about biology and ingrained responses and sex-typed brains, and how they all “reinforce patterns of behavior”, I agree with! We are saying the same thing here. I agree … | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to debunk the idea that men doing dangerous jobs is a result of our own doingsNo, I don’t have studies right now, I was just trying to explain how I agree that the biology you’ve pointed out is important, but it is indirect. I think you would agree that when you’re making a determination on what job to take, or what to say in a social situation, or whether or not to flirt in a certain context, or what to wear to an important work event vs an import social event, that you don’t think about biology you think about the social impact of your decision. My point was that I do t… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | How to debunk the idea that men doing dangerous jobs is a result of our own doingsYes, of course biology has an impact, but I think our biology impacts the societal norms and as humans we’re more consciously aware of society’s impact on our lives than we are our direct biology. I am not advocating “blank slate”. Yes, it’s true that sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive, but when weighing whether we want to take a dangerous yet profitable job, versus a low income but safe job, what do you think enters a man’s mind? He doesn’t weigh the value of his sperm, he thinks about how s… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 4 | How to debunk the idea that men doing dangerous jobs is a result of our own doingsIt’s the same as a woman “choosing” to be a sex worker despite the risks, or many women “choosing” to peruse academic qualifications in fields that are not typically profitable. Men and women’s choices are influenced by the societies we each live in. Men are socialized to seek approval of our existence externally, from other people. Men do not inherently defend or back other men, typically we need to prove ourselves worthy of defense or even worthy of neutrality, and this worthiness is done thro… | /r/MensRights | 31/07/23 11:38 PM |
| 3 | 11-year-old girl arrested for faking abduction, charged with felony, sheriff saysMost social media sites technically don’t allow children under 13, but as you said, they lie. And it’s not guaranteed that she’ll be a felon for life. It’s very possible that her crimes as a minor will be sealed when she turns 18, so wouldn’t show on a background check as an adult. That also assumed they actually follow through to trial with the felony charges and don’t downgrade it. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 14 | More and more men are refusing to approach women in America and I hope the trend continuesYou're a self-admitted cocaine addict as of at least 6 months ago. I wish you luck on your journey to defeat addiction, but you're not exactly a person who should be respected or relied upon in any political or sociological or psychological discussion. https://ibb.co/HnwH9S2 https://ghostarchive.org/archive/1WhHc?wr=true https://web.archive.org/web/20230729101009/https://ibb.co/HnwH9S2 | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/07/23 10:15 AM |
| 3 | Stepparent Disciplining ChildIn Texas, a "Parenting Plan" or "SAPCR" (Suit Affecting the Parent-Child Relationship) are the document(s) that stipulate what is and is not acceptable forms of parenting the children of you and your ex, as well as most any other aspect of parenting. This document can be amended to exclude physical reprimand as a punishment tactic. If your lawyer does not realize this or is not willing to consider amending these documents, you need to get a new lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/23 05:00 AM |
| 57 | Do we downplay misandry?It really is wild to me that internet ideologues have continued to argue that both misandry and male disposability are not real, when men and boys from both Ukraine and Russia (and Belarus and Chechnya) have been sent against their will to death in trenches not unlike those those from WWI. On the sole basis of them being men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 3 | What do u call this in a relationship?Right, the paperwork wouldn't say anything about eviction specifically because eviction is a state or county or local municipal law that would be effective as soon as she has overstayed her legal presence in the property. If she overstays her legally mandated length of occupation, the option to evict is implied. Talk to your lawyer. Again, you have to stop having sex with her. You have to stop letting her into your home. You have to stop letting her visit your children during your own designated… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 12:55 PM |
| 4 | What do u call this in a relationship?She’s fucking with you on purpose. You need to live as though she does not live with you at all. Stop having sex with her. Stop buying her anything at all, including groceries. and most importantly, serve her an eviction notice. You have a court order stating she has overstayed her legal right to the space. You have delayed your response, so it will likely take anywhere from 1 week to 1 month to evict her (meaning, to serve the papers. Even longer to get her out of the home). Do you have a lawye… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 11:38 AM |
| 64 | The “male gaze”Yeah, some men might watch lesbian porn the same way women might watch gay porn. But lesbian porn doesn’t sexualise their sexuality the way gay porn does because lots of gay porn is targeted towards women with the focus being on the fact that they’re gay, rather then just two hot guys. This is something that really pisses me off as a gay guy. I really like reading gay erotica, it’s my preferred medium for porn. Not like full novels, just quick 10 min reads or something. But the overwhelming vast… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 09:48 AM |
| 46 | I started a new position in a government organisation and checked internal magazines. I noticed negligence toward events that relate to men. So, I raised the issue and it worked. A screenshot of the full page of our internal magazine that was published to thousands of workers. I call this progress.You’re right, this is progress. It always starts small-scale, grassroots advocacy is important. I especially like the part encouraging the use of paid time off/leave. Research has shown that men use substantially less PTO than women. Remember guys, work to live, don’t live to work. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Italian men cannot withdraw consent for IVFIt’s so strange how Italy is so socially conservative that they are constricting rights for same-sex parents of children, yet also so Feminist that they’re making rulings like this. It’s like they’re choosing the worst of both worlds. Whats in the damn water over there? | /r/MensRights | 28/07/23 07:55 AM |
| 51 | Miami woman,18, arrested after allegedly trying to hire hitman to kill her 3-year-old son, police sayThe only bright side of this story is that she was so goddamn stupid that she got caught. Seriously, $3k for a hit man? And you really think the hit man wouldn’t report a hit against a damn 3 year old? Apparently even contract murderers have higher morals than her. AND she ordered the hit through a website? Think you can order a hit like you order dominos you dumbass? I’m glad she was caught but I am concerned the only reason she was caught was because she’s so damn stupid, not because law enfor… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/23 04:47 PM |
| 3 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?And I am sure you’d be just as receptive to being told that women should just stop dating toxic men, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 04:20 PM |
| 2 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?I am gay. And I’m tired of watching my straight male friends be emotionally manipulated and degraded and abused by countless women who seem to believe that my male friends don’t deserve any level of empathy or displays of love. That it’s totally OK to manipulate his desire for love or meaningful relationship, for their personal economic or social gain just because he’s a guy. And then throw him away like an empty McDonald’s wrapper when she has attained whatever she sought to extract from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?I don’t really understand the point of this response. I’ve been explaining about how men are looking for somebody to love and commit to, and that physical attraction can and is impacted directly by non-physical aspects on a man, from women’s perspectives. And I also explained about how all the economic aspects of a person that you’re describing directly impact aspects of women’s physical attraction toward men, in a significantly more powerful manner than men’s physical attraction towards women. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfYou literally just argued that he is giving her something, you just said that he should open his wallet for her in order to show appreciation. That is literally giving her money. If she is young, beautiful, feminine, fit, and friendly 4 of those, probably all 5, are exponentially more likely to fade overtime than his salary is. Disregarding all of that, you are still looking at human companionship as an entirely economic transaction. It’s not. These men are looking for love and affection and lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfA token of appreciation toward what? Does she ever show him any kind of appreciation on the first date? Does she attempt to show what she has to offer in any respect on that first date compared to the man having to basically show a paycheck and explain his housing and vehicle and general level of wealth? All I’m saying is that women grilling men on their economic success as a point of physical attraction, especially on the first date, is pretty gross. It’s not a flattering look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:27 PM |
| 5 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?At least tits and ass are a physical aspect of the woman he is expressing attraction toward. At least they are literally parts of her. A man’s income is not actually a part of him. Being attracted to a man’s salary removes the man’s humanity from the relationship. It implies she has much less attraction towards him as a person, or affection towards him as a person. She’s only interested in the resources he can provide her. That’s not love, that’s not attraction, that’s not romance. That’s econom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?Different impacts of resources on opposite sex ratings of physical attractiveness by males and females Academic article is available on LibGen. There were 288 male subjects ranking females with or without salary info, and 356 female subjects ranking male subjects with or without salary info. Not all subjects ranked both salary groups. Subjects of both groups were slelected from worldwide cohorts. The results showed that American women were 7.5x more influenced by the salary of a man than America… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfWhy should a man open his wallet in an attempt to prevent her n count from increasing, when it’s already been increasing for years before she sought his wallet? Obviously, the men who opened their wallets for her previously did not succeed in preventing her n count from increasing, so why should the current man bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 01:03 PM |
| 14 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfJust because you don’t want to have children doesn’t mean that no other woman wants to. Or any man. You seem to lack empathy or the ability to place yourself in the mental frame of another person. For both women and men. I do hope you listen to your own advice and never have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 11:23 AM |
| 9 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?Academic research literally opposes that viewpoint. Multiple research articles, which you can very easily search on Google Scholar or the research webpage of your local library, have shown that women’s initial rating of the sexual attractiveness of a man does change when informed of the man’s income or job title. Her sexual attraction to the man is quite literally, directly impacted by being informed of his income. Emphasis on “sexual” attraction, the research showed that they literally found me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 11:06 AM |
| -1 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?Yeah and women don’t. I am attracted to men for their looks, and personality, and kindness, and funniness, and ability to banter, and be goofy, and so much more. A man’s paycheck, or his résumé, or his education credentials, or how expensive his car is, or if he has a roommate, or how expensive of a ring he can buy me, or how expensive of a honeymoon he can buy me, or how expensive of a wedding he can buy me, or how extravagant our anniversaries might be, or the quality of his cooking, or his pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:53 AM |
| 2 | CreepyIsn’t there some kind of medical ethics board you can report her to? Or whatever entity she is licensed through? At the very least she is taking advantage of her patients, and this really reeks as a path toward financial abuse of the patient through the grandsons. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 09:36 AM |
| 9 | Women shouldn't have to pay half…You literally just made an entire post about how your wallet is closed to your man specifically because you would have to birth the kid (if you had one). And that your wallet is closed in that specific scenario because of the physical load you have to endure as the child bearer. So according to your post, your wallet is literally closed if you are going to birth the kid. So your wallet is closed both when you’re not having a child, and when you are having a child? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:23 AM |
| 6 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfIsn’t one of the main complaints of so many women on the relationship sections of this website have, is that the men greatly delay or straight up say they don’t want children? I swear, most of the self post sections of Reddit are full of women complaining that men want her to get an abortion, or men don’t ever want to have children, or men want to wait 5+ more years for a child, etc etc. If you spend a single day on this website, you’ll find that the women posting here desire children far more t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:17 AM |
| 18 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfThen, don’t do it? The downsides of pregnancy are not the man’s fault. If you don’t want the downsides, then just don’t do it. You have the choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:10 AM |
| 16 | How do men pay for sex if partners split the costs and/or have similar spending levels?Disregard the concept of a man paying or not paying for the dates, let’s think beyond that. Even without that, a man’s earnings or a man’s earnings potential more often than not are a fundamental aspect of what makes a woman attracted to a man. Yes, a man needs to meet a certain threshold of physical attractiveness and possibly personality to even get to the economic aspect of attraction, but his economic standing is without a doubt a very impactful aspect of attraction for women toward men. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:17 AM |
| 5 | Do you agree that feminism also advocates for mens rights?Even feminists in r/askfeminism agree that feminism is not for men or for men’s issues, that feminism has no responsibility to advocate for men, no responsibility to reduce the privilege of women where they may have it, and that feminism is strictly for the benefit of women. They previously agreed that if men benefit as a side product, then that’s fine, but they believe they have no obligation and certainly no desire to advocate specifically for an issue impacting primarily men. And you know, i’… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/23 06:07 AM |
| 23 | Looking back on a childhood, and seeing parental alienation “…I decided to train as a counsellor. …When I spoke about my family and traumatic experience I was met with stony silence. … unconditional positive regard...Maybe this only applied if you had the ‘right’ sort of experience"I have a BS in psychology and the general atmosphere of distain against men in most courses was tangible, at least pre-2015. The most distressing experience I had in pursuit of my degree was in a developmental psychology course. Meaning, a course about children growing up and how their brains change over time during childhood development. The amount of anti-male, anti-boy, rhetoric in that course was obscene. Weekly narratives in the lectures about how boys develop slower, boys don’t understand … | /r/MensRights | 18/07/23 09:31 AM |
| 45 | I feel like i am going crazy - isn't it the de facto standard when the genders are reversed in marriage?It's really just a creative writing subreddit. A place for terminally online women seeking refuge after the implosion of Tumblr a few years ago. This is their porn; they literally get off to fictional tales of awful men degrading any/every woman in their lives, yet the masturbatory tale ends with the woman succeeding and destroying the man's social life. That's always what happens in the "Update!" posts. It's literally fictional erotica. It doesn't deserve any amount of discussion within normal … | /r/MensRights | 17/07/23 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Women would rather date/marry gay men than lower their standardsHuh? Go ahead, say what you want to say. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 08:16 AM |
| 20 | If you want another blackpill, visit plastic surgery subredditsLook at the top posts of the month/year/all time in that sub. The men almost exclusively get surgery to correct malformations that cause them physical discomfort or give them sleep apnea or other such medical problems. The majority of women are getting boob jobs for purely aesthetic reasons. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 05:43 AM |
| 18 | Women would rather date/marry gay men than lower their standardsAs a gay man, the fuck even is this video? Like, what point are they trying to make? Literally what the hell are they responding to? Why the fuck would I ever want to spend the rest of my life with a straight woman. Straight women fucking hate men. I don’t need that kind of awful energy in my life. Lesbians literally appreciate the company of straight men more than straight women do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 05:39 AM |
| 19 | When feminists, ass streamers and Only fans "models" realize the majority of their "fanbase" are sad lonely incel menHuh? Ass streamers, “models”, and all the other streamer wh*res know exactly who their audience is. They want the sad lonely men who are most likely to form parasocial relationships with her streams and send his money to her for the slightest chance that she might speak his username from her lips. She is by no means upset when she sees “sad lonely Incel men” are her primary fanbase, she probably celebrates! That means she has succeeded in turning male suicidal ideation into profit! 🤑 They don’t … | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 11:24 AM |
| 19 | Single Dads are great at raising children.Come to the dark side… we have fembois 😈😆 No but really, this kind of data, in addition to other data showing women are overwhelmingly more likely to have been divorced at nearly any age compared to men, and are the primary initiators of divorce, shows that women have overwhelming privilege in the social and romantic aspects of life. But nobody’s allowed to talk about it. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/23 08:01 AM |
| 11 | Being short is like being disabledObviously, OP was being hyperbolic. I think OP’s point was that short men are seen as less than human in the dating world, similar to the way that a lot of disabled people are seen as less than human in daily life. At best, ignored. At worst, purposefully degraded and demeaned. True for a lot of disabled people in daily life, true of a lot of less-than-average straight men in romantic pursuits | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 07:34 AM |
| 35 | Single Dads are great at raising children.75% of UK same-sex divorces in 2018 were between Women, 72% in 2019. article And, back in 2011 "62% of civil union dissolutions (i.e. divorces) in the UK are between women despite the fact that lesbian relationships only represent 44% of civil partnerships". Also "By the end of 2010, 1.6 % of male civil partnerships had ended in dissolution compared to 3.3 % of female partnerships" article I'd bet those Lesbian divorce rates and the numerous negative outcomes for children of single mothers share… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/23 03:17 AM |
| 8 | "The Human Rights Council concluded its 53rd session yesterday, and did not approve Reem Alsalem’s report on “Custody, Violence Against Women and Violence against Children.” "There is no mention of the report on the HRC’s summary report of the session"I believe this is a copy of Reem Alsalem's report which was not approved as part of the HRC's 53rd session. And this is a copy of the letter sent by Nick Woodall on behalf of "Family Separation Clinic" arguing against it's inclusion due to things like: the Report ... substantially misrepresents the the issue being reported upon and includes factual errors and misleading statements the consultation process ... lacked transparency and, therefore, does not allow for an informed debate ...recommenda… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/23 02:50 AM |
| 4 | You're walking home one day and you see a woman beating up a man. WYD?If I was alone, I would probably stay nearby and watch for escalation. If she has slapped him, I’m sorry to say that I probably wouldn’t instantly intervene. I’m not a physically strong man and I’d be afraid either of them would take offense to my interjection and then they would both focus their anger on me. So I’d sit back and watch, and if it gets worse, like she hits him more or blood is drawn or threats to life are made, I’d call 911 while still not making them aware of me. If I was with a … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/07/23 06:25 AM |
| 61 | Kevin Costner's ex-wife is challenging their prenup by staying in their house, thinking she will get it and a massive child support windfall. A judge has ordered her to move out by the end of July.In a court filing a month later, Costner said Baumgartner was refusing to leave their home in Carpinteria, near Santa Barbara, even though a prenuptial agreement she signed said he would keep the property in the event of a divorce. Pre-nups continue to be useless time and time again. And if she doesn’t move by the deadline, then what? I bet I know what: Kevin Costner probably would have to file for eviction which can take months and continues to allow the supposed tenants unrestricted access to … | /r/MensRights | 08/07/23 05:27 AM |
| 1 | IT FAANG mentors /tenured employees didn't inform about Firing Quotas & Internal transferIf this is a private company and you had an employment contract then you may have a civil case against them, so long as you did not actually have any relevant negative performance reviews or reprimands preceding the firing. Either way, also check, municipal, county, and state laws regarding loss of employment to be sure they didn’t commit a criminal act outside of federal law. Also, file for unemployment with whatever relevant state you’re in (or potentially the state they are in, if in differen… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/23 05:18 AM |
| 6 | ‘This is a death sentence for me’: Florida Republican women say they will switch parties after DeSantis approves alimony lawThis law should not be so controversial; Florida is/was one of only seven states that still allowed permanent alimony! Allowing permanent alimony is not the national norm! | /r/MensRights | 08/07/23 03:59 AM |
| 10 | UN says Gender bias hasn't improved.Here's a link to the actual report for you to read for yourself if you'd like. Click "English" on the left of the screen to download the PDF. This UN report is based on their "Gender Social Norms Index", which they define on page 3 of the report as: Without tackling biased gender social norms, we will not achieve gender equality, as reflected in the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs). Biased gender social norms—the undervaluation of women’s capabilities and rights in society and The Gender Soc… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/07/23 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Whats the stupidest reason you've been called an incel?Just posted a comment explaining my same experience! | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 04:48 AM |
| 17 | Whats the stupidest reason you've been called an incel?For explaining that I have no desire to ever have any romantic or sexual contact with a woman because I’m gay. Lol. Her girl group was very drunk and talking about their “first times”, asked me about my first kiss, explained it was a guy back in high school. She said “no, I mean your first kiss with a woman”, and I explained I have never kissed a woman. Then they all started going on about how one of them “needs” to “take [my] real first kiss tonight”. I refused for like 15 minutes until they go… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 04:45 AM |
| 10 | Do we need a Live chat?I'm not sure...this is a community that is usually going through a lot of pain, so not having a live chat requires you to write out your whole comment and gives you opportunities to re-read what you've typed before sending it. Non-live commenting allows people to reflect, if only for a moment, on what we've written, and that can be very beneficial for a community that is going through what could be the most difficult time of their lives. On the other hand, this community might need that kind of … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/23 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Is this place “going dark” too?I said this in a post on another subreddit but i think it applies here. I don’t think a small niche sub like this should participate in the blackout, even if we support it. Participating would only lower our user engagement and expose us to a wider range of people who are categorically opposed to the purpose of the subreddit. Participating would have little to no impact on the situation, yet would expose us to bad actors and decrease engagement amongst people who need this place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 03:00 AM |
| 3 | In the US, there is a bi-partisan Congressional Men's Health Caucus that is attempting to create an Office of Men's Health and generally promote male wellness. #progressThere’s a D representative from my state, nice! I already liked him for other reasons, but I’m happy to like him even more because of this. Unfortunately he is not in my district so I don’t get to vote for him. But, I’m happy he’s there. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/23 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Are we going to do anything about the new API charges on this subreddit?I support protest against the API changes but I don’t think this sub should participate. It would only expose us to users who categorically hate our stances, and we are much smaller than subs that have already signed on. Participating in the blackout would hurt this sub more than it would help the protest; our participation would likely have little-to-no effect on the protest but would probably lower our user engagement, increase participation from bad actors, and take quite some time to recover… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/23 04:43 AM |
| 19 | Male participants needed :)I find it very strange that the questionnaire never asked if you’ve actually been formally diagnosed with Autism or any other mental disorder/mental illness/learning disorder… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/23 04:36 AM |
| 12 | Story time, Have any of you ever experienced sexism when going to a female therapist or counselor?Yes, after meeting with her once a week for 4 months I finally disclosed my CSA experience from a female babysitter. She acted OK in the session but three days later she dropped me as a client via email. This was 10 years ago; I’ve now learned that this is a violation of psychologist licensing agreements for “patient abandonment”. But I had no way of knowing this at that time. She was my first therapist ever and was a low-cost therapist I accessed after a ~3 month waitlist as a college student. … | /r/MensRights | 05/06/23 08:29 AM |
| 21 | Anyone find it weird that June, which was men's mental health month is now pride month?I also thought November was the general male health awareness month. I’ve never heard of a month for male mental health specifically. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/23 08:19 AM |
| 26 | My wife just told my kids she wanted to stab them, told them they were cunts and that she hated all of us.No, as long as there haven’t been any court proceedings yet and you are both legally married and the child is legally both of yours, then each parent has the equal right to dictate custody of the children. Basically, it’s as if both parents have 100% custody at the same time. If one parent takes the children then the other parent has to go to court to get a temp custody order. Which is why if OP takes the kids he then needs to immediately file for a restraining order against his spouse to prohib… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 01:19 PM |
| 81 | My wife just told my kids she wanted to stab them, told them they were cunts and that she hated all of us.Start recording, pack the kid’s bags while recording, don’t leave them alone with her for a second, drive to a hotel with the kids, call the police and demand a restraining order against her. Get a lawyer. Provide recordings to your lawyer. In the US, if you are married and these children are biologically yours and hers, or you both adopted the children, then you BOTH have the right to take the children wherever you want without the approval of the other spouse/parent. In that scenario you both … | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 11:12 AM |
| 48 | Women in the USA/CANADA treating husbands as second option during birthThere are frequent posts here on Reddit about wives wanting to deny the father’s presence at the birth, but personally, I have never witnessed this in real life. Ever. I don’t deny that it happens…I guess I’m hoping it’s a ridiculous AITA/Relationships Reddit fiction that repeats itself multiple times a week in various subreddits. Comments are typically in favor of the mother. I think certain users justify their misandry via these likely fictional stories (not all fiction, but IMO the vast major… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 11:08 AM |
| 10 | Single mom implies men are obligated to serve her as her beast of burden, gets fumed when said beasts walk right off the plantationEdit: This article is just to stir controversy around her, the author (yet more evidence of narcissism) for the sole purpose of promoting her newly resleased “memoir”. AKA it’s an advertisement. The vast majority of society has nothing to learn from the memoir of a 37-year-old upper-class affluent Australian woman. “Memoir”…how ridiculous. OG reply: Each week – despite knowing that I am a solo mother by choice with a donor-conceived son and no partner at home – my neighbour watches me teeter ins… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/06/23 09:59 AM |
| 96 | The reason the group "Are we dating the same guy" is still upThey do not “genuinely believe” that nobody would lie or be purposefully malicious on these pages. They are lying. The truth is these kinds of people place the well-being of an anonymous, theoretical, individual woman infinitely above the quantifiable damage that could be done to a man who actually exists and has been identified. Their fantasy of a woman being saved by one of these posts outweighs the reality that these posts ruin lives of real and innocent men. Can’t reason with this lack of lo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/23 02:38 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.I think men are checking out of economic society in a much larger fashion then women because men have been unwitting cogs in the capitalist machine for generations longer than women. Whereas younger women are checking out of parenthood at slightly higher rates than men, (and this is 8 yrs old so likely more dramatic now). IMO because women have been held accountable for any/every pregnancy for generations longer than men. The sexual marketplace has changed more rapidly than society at large coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:37 PM |
| 28 | A female men's rights activist- The Doctor'sOmg, at 2:25 the host says she commented that an actress “looked terrific for her age, and I was accused of being anti-Feminist” she then says “have we slipped so far that I can’t give a simple compliment?” How many times have we read about men saying damn near these EXACT words and being absolutely trashed for it?! | /r/MensRights | 29/05/23 04:21 AM |
| 1 | POSTPONED: the publication of the new Title IX regulations that cut deep into accused students' due process protections has been pushed back from May to October 2023.No, it includes Kindergarten though 12th grade schooling as well. Any education institution receiving federal funding is subject to Title IX. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/23 11:31 AM |
| 7 | The Circumcision Decision - YouTubehttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/dec/07/foreskin-facial-treatment-baby-salon-wrinkles https://people.com/style/we-tried-it-cate-blanchett-sandra-bullock-penis-facial/ Ignorance doesn’t make you correct. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/23 11:27 AM |
| 1 | VolunteeringThere are very few organizations that you could volunteer with who identify as members of the MRA movement or even identify as a male-specific organization. But, volunteering at public homeless shelters will likely mean that you’re helping mostly men. Soup kitchens, food pantries, public (and non women-specific) homeless shelters. Also, though this is a lot more time consuming, you could consider being a Guardian ad litem. In the US this is usually a volunteer position, unfortunately (depends on… | /r/MensRights | 27/05/23 11:22 AM |
| 91 | What to do when a group of girls harass a boy & then falsely accuse him for groping/raping?I’d say to be with him as much as you can. Physically with him, to provide an alibi. Know where you were at with him, on which days and what times. Then if he is accused of more things, you can at least be witness to those periods of time. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 09:11 AM |
| 65 | Boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women, study findsIt's wild that PsyPost went with that headline, yet the article barely speaks about men & boys, or their isolation at all. The lede says: A study published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior has found that boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women Yet, for the rest of the article men are only mentioned in contrast to women. Any time a male disadvantage is mentioned, it is immediately countered with a contradicting statement of a different study or different sam… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 07:43 AM |
| 219 | What to do when a group of girls harass a boy & then falsely accuse him for groping/raping?The most important piece of information is, what country is this happening in? You said he is from India, but is this also happening in India? Edit : I’ve been banned from femaledatingstratergy, offmychest, rape as soon as I joined this subreddit. Why? They’re telling it’s red pill & female dating subreddit. Does it happen with everyone. Yes, happens to everyone who posts here. They have automatic bans set up for anyone who participates here. It is blatantly against site-wide rules but they’ve b… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 07:23 AM |
| 10 | U.S. NATIONAL PLAN TO END GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE: STRATEGIES FOR ACTION "This vision applies to all people, regardless of gender, sex, gender identity, sex characteristics, sexual orientation.."I’m reading through, so far all “goals” are either gender neutral or mention women specifically, no mention of supporting boys or men specifically so far (except as abusers). Also, on page 62, they say “fathers who abuse the mothers of their children are twice as likely to seek sole custody of their children compared to non-abusive fathers. Courts award sole or joint custody to fathers in 70% of these custody cases”. [Emphasis THEIRS. THEY bolded that claim] To me, this implies that courts are g… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 04:45 AM |
| 11 | Drove past a popular UK gym chain earlier. "Everybody Welcome" it said in big letters. Right next to "Women's only area inside" in a similar sized font. That's All.Feels very “all animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others”. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 04:45 AM |
| 13 | The comments are breaking my heart.Yup. I’m gay. Gay guys like this are basically gay simps. Literally, it’s real. They desire female approval just as much, if not more, than straight guys. Gay guys like this are desperate for the approval of heterosexual women. It’s kind of like the horseshoe theory of politics, but with sexuality. As in, these gay guys are so uninterested in sexual relationships with women that they’re desperate for social approval from women. They perform whatever role those women demand from him for their soc… | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Jennifer Lawrence's secret filming in AfghanistanI quite liked her in “Mother!” and “Silver Linings Playbook”. I guess that’s why I’m so adamant about pointing out her connection to Weinstein. I legit loved her performances, but looking back on them… the producers and production companies…it’s clear she was complicit with his actions in order to forward her own career. A damn shame because I thought she had talent. But talent doesn’t outweigh immorality. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I am screwDo not talk to her, at all. Ever. Not even casual conversation. Do not talk to her family or anyone in support of her. Don’t block them, because their texts may be useful in course, but do not ever reply. Get a lawyer. If you can’t afford one, find loans. At this point you can’t afford not to have a lawyer. Do you want to be in prison for 10 years, or in debt for 10 years? Debt is preferable. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/23 04:42 AM |
| 50 | There really is no upside to marriage, is there?Marriage is a business contract, not a declaration of love. You can be married religiously or culturally, but you don’t have to do the government piece. You can have the ceremony and fanfare and rings and devotion, without the contract. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/23 03:49 AM |
| 32 | Jennifer Lawrence's secret filming in AfghanistanShe’s trash, there’s a reason her career took such a massive downturn when Weinstein was charged. It’s not coincidence. She’s only recently began to rehabilitate her filmography. Seriously, look at the timeline of her filmography on IMDb alongside the timeline of Weinstein’s accusations, charges, and conviction. Her lack of castings is delayed by a couple of months behind each action in Weinstein‘s court case. It’s no surprise that she’s hopping onto Feminist middle-east narratives. It’s the saf… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 10:11 AM |
| 10 | Why are we all men only crying and not want to do anything?Unfortunately many US states are restricting voting. To start, all employers are required to give their employees time off (if they’re scheduled on Election Day) in order to vote in person. Yet there are practically no repercussions for employers who deny that right because the most common employees to be denied that right are the poorest employees. Employees who can neither afford to lose their job due to suing their employer, or can even afford a lawyer to file a suit in the first place. Not t… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 09:53 AM |
| 33 | Why are we all men only crying and not want to do anything?Because the labor force participation rate among US men 25-56 years old (AKA prime working years & our most able-bodied years) is 89.2%. Whereas women’s labor force participation rate for the same ages is 77.5%. That means there are nearly 20 million more women aged 25-56 who are unemployed than men of the same age. US men don’t have the time to march in the streets. We’re working. If we try to take off time to participate in protests, we will be fired. In the US we have very little worker prote… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 09:32 AM |
| 9 | Would you actually be offended by this? Many people assume most men would be offended. Personally I would take it as a compliment, or recognize the "condescension" and move on not really caring. I know I don't speak for everyone, but for them to assume that we all would be offended is annoying.“For a man” …this sounds like “negging”. 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 07:23 AM |
| 31 | "‘Bromance’ classes will fight ‘toxic masculinity’ in schools: teacher"Women need to stop sexualizing platonic friendships between men. I’m a gay man and I think it’s extremely fucking telling that the majority of gay male romance stories, both published and online wattpad smut, are written by women for women. It shows that there is a sizable group of women who choose to sexualize platonic affection between men for their own sexual gratification. I think this is the primary reason straight men are afraid to show platonic affection to other men and also what causes … | /r/MensRights | 21/05/23 06:56 AM |
| 9 | This says it all about today’s society. I read many websites publishing this same story but literally none of them use the word “rape” in their titles.Legally they typically can’t charge him for child support while he is underage. Though when he becomes 18 years of age, depending on the state, he certainly could be considered “in arrears” for support while he was a minor. This shit makes me so angry and it’s bullshit that we aren’t able to voice our anger on social media or news segments or even in court, without being labeled as deadbeat dads or abusive ex-partners. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/23 10:01 AM |
| 4 | I Am Finally Out From Under Child Support; WTF Now?Go during June or July. During that time there is like 18-22 hours of sunlight per day. It reminded me of childhood sleepovers, like i was 10 years old at 430am, not slept at all and fighting sleep as I play N64. It was the return of some kind of nostalgic childhood delirium. Lol. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 12:08 PM |
| 15 | Are there even any movies where men get revenge on the women who have mistreated them?Possibly the 1960 movie: Psycho? His mother emotionally abused him and it is sort of ambiguously implied that she sexually abused him as well, yet he is portrayed as the villain throughout the entire book and movie. The overall message is that his mother abused him so horribly that he created an alternate personality within himself after murdering her, a version of her personality under which he committed murders. After spending a few minutes googling this and writing this comment, I’ve realized… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/05/23 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Child placement denialTemporary restraining order. It’s typically imposed for 48 to 72 hours after an accusation has been approved by the police; this is to allow the accuser (and supposedly, the defendant) time to meet with a judge. Then, if the judge finds accusations of abuse or threat of violence or unsafe conditions to be probable, the judge can extend the restraining order beyond 72 hours. For weeks or months, based only on oral testimony; it is not held to the standard of “beyond a reasonable doubt “. It is so… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Dear President Trump: please stay strong and never give in (to E. Jean Carroll)I don’t think it is as mainstream as we perceive. For sure, there are some popular subs that impose this rule. But I think it only feels common because it’s specifically imposed by popular subs. Overall, I think it’s not a common rule among subs. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 08:46 AM |
| 7 | Child placement denialHe called me after her visit, and told me he charged her. Met with the DA today, he left it open for felony. Agreed this is felony but didn’t charge her yet. Are you sure the DA didn’t charge her? Or did the DA charge her but not remand her/put her in police custody? It’s possible she’s been charged but wasn’t required to be remanded, which allows criminal proceedings to continue just as if she had been jailed and bailed out. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 07:15 AM |
| 14 | I Am Finally Out From Under Child Support; WTF Now?Travel. Not the whole world is on fire, there is a lot to see. The first place I ever went abroad was Iceland and it was amazing. If you don’t want to gawk at man-made structures, Iceland is an amazing place to go. The whole country is full of jaw dropping natural beauty. Most destinations had 20 or less other tourists, and I went during peak tourist time. There were a few crowded spots, like the popular geyser and a very popular waterfall. But the rest was very peaceful with no crowds. Don’t st… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Dear President Trump: please stay strong and never give in (to E. Jean Carroll)Damnit, don’t bring political figureheads into this subreddit. There are so many other places you can post this, don’t bring dogshit politician worship into this sub. This post is yet more evidence that this subreddit needs to restrict new accounts from posting or commenting. There should be at least a 1-3 month restriction on posting for newly created accounts. (Not newly subscribed, just newly created) | /r/MensRights | 18/05/23 05:27 AM |
| 20 | STBXW taking my girls to new BF cottage this weekend overnight, we’re still living together and haven’t told them were divorcingDocument, document, document. Express in multiple formats, like text, IM, voicemail (record yourself leaving it) etc that you do not consent to this. This could become useful later during custody decisions, some states have rules against one parent putting the children in the presence of another unknown adult. Some states require you to show evidence which made you think the unknown adult could put your kids at risk, others only require the other parent object to the presence of that adult. And … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 01:50 AM |
| 2 | As an academic, I wish more people would be aware that the 60% majority of women in academia is entirely coming from adding to universities political departments and calling them "research departments" - gender studies, women's studies, sexuality studies.That biology knowledge is needed when the mandatory 200 level Psychology courses are discussing biological functions of the brain. Courses such as developmental psychology, abnormal psychology, and cognitive/behavioral psychology. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 05:12 PM |
| 91 | As an academic, I wish more people would be aware that the 60% majority of women in academia is entirely coming from adding to universities political departments and calling them "research departments" - gender studies, women's studies, sexuality studies.While pursuing my BS in Psychology, I was repeatedly shocked at how ignorant my classmates were to basic biological functions of the brain. Things like pre/postsynaptic neuron interfacing and how medications impact their ability to reuptake neurotransmitters. I was a biology minor and found it to be very useful in many of my psychology courses. I’d say 95% of my classmates minored in sociology, social work, or gender studies. Their ignorance was blatant and I was often embarrassed for them, but … | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 10:14 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts On BoysI agree with all of this…if you are a compassionate and empathetic parent, then if your boy comes home saying his teacher is bullying him or giving him unfair grades, or just overall being “mean” to him, then listen to him. Especially in the younger grades. You have to drag it out of them at the younger ages because they don’t have the words to describe the feelings. Don’t let yourself forget what it was like to be in school at his age. Looking back on yourself, you knew when you were being unfa… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 08:16 AM |
| 143 | Every feminist becomes Ben Shapiro when the topic is menI 100% agree. I talked about this in a different subreddit a few months ago, here was my comment: Feminists make very Pro Choice arguments for women when it comes to an unwanted pregnancy, but for men they make very Pro Life, even similar to far right extremist, arguments. "You had sex and these are the consequences deal with it". "Sex is for procreation, if you didn't want a child you shouldn't have had sex." "The (unborn) child's life matters more than yours (it will need a father/your money).… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Promising young woman is an amazing movie with an unfortunately poorly executed message.From what I’ve seen with BoJack (haven’t watched all of it) at least every character is some brand of immoral asshole. All the men are some type of awful but so are all the women (except maybe the deer mom, I don’t remember her in detail though). There are no morally pure characters, or if there are then they can be counted on one hand. Almost like a tamer cartoon version of the concept Always Sunny is based on. Everyone is awful and throughout the show, nobody ever matures as a person. Haha | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Promising young woman is an amazing movie with an unfortunately poorly executed message.I love Carey Mulligan but I avoided this movie for so long because I knew it would piss me off, and it did. I first saw her as Sally Sparrow in Doctor Who, but decided to follow her career when I saw her fantastic performance in Never Let Me Go (that film convinced me to follow Andrew Garfield too). I was disappointed to see her take this role, not only because of the obvious propaganda angle, but also because it’s such a one-dimensional role. Vengeance and revenge via an unrealistic premise (th… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 03:14 AM |
| 6 | A Boy Raised as a Girl Killed Himself 19 Years Ago TodayOne obvious lesson from David Reimer’s story is that gender identity cannot be imposed by upbringing alone. Genes and prenatal hormones do matter. Another lesson—perhaps less obvious—is that nuances of sex and gender exist, and if we ignore them, this can endanger those who do not fit neatly into a male or female box. But no lesson that routine male infant circumcision should be outlawed? Typical. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/23 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Tom Holland Is Lobbying for the Next Spider-Man Star to Be a WomanI thought Spider-Gwen in the animated Spiderverse movie was just as fun as Spider-Man (the whole movie was really dope). They didn’t make her sex an integral part of her character; she was still the sassy, quick witted, sometimes cringe, spider-“man” we’ve always known. If they can pull off that same aesthetic in live action, I’d be fine with it. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/23 07:32 PM |
| 12 | Have you ever been shamed by another man (or men in your life) for showing certain emotions?Honestly, only from bulling grade-school classmates. I can’t recall a single time in grade school where a friend shamed my crying or other emotions. Sure, there were times when a friend became awkward because they didn’t know what to do. But that’s reasonable, they weren’t trying to shame me. It only came from classmates (both male and female, but we’re specifically discussing males here) who said it for the express purpose of making the emotional boy feel worse. It became a lot less common in J… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/23 07:29 AM |
| 30 | I’m being falsely accusedI don’t believe you assaulted her, I think she’s a mentally unstable woman with a personality disorder. She wants to manipulate you in order to satisfy her disordered desires for interpersonal conflict because it makes her feel important. She sounds like a woman with a “Cluster B” personality disorder. She violated both you and your wife, and at the very least intended to manipulate one or both of you. Don’t speak to her directly ever again. You must both block her. If she ever finds either of y… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/23 10:00 AM |
| 1 | LiberalYes, I see your point. I don’t have much perspective on those countries so I can’t comment on why mens rights are seen as conservative outside the US. I believe that within the US, the men’s rights movement is seen as Conservative because the Conservative party is the only party which will speak in defense of men. I concede that it is performative speech, yet it is speech nonetheless. Liberals in the US ignore the entire conversation, and when the topic comes up, liberals discard all nuance, con… | /r/MensRights | 05/05/23 09:26 AM |
| 17 | 'CBS Mornings' TV show manblames and manshames men checking out of the labormarket along the lines of Nicholas Eberstadt's book 'Men without work'. Comments show guys aren't falling for the scam anymore.Notice how they never mention the labor participation rates for women? That’s because it’s consistently about 12% lower than the rate of men. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/23 03:53 AM |
| 31 | Discrimination in the name of 'Progress': "The first crewed mission to Mars should be all female"The study itself says that the reduced consumption in women is almost entirely due to the average woman being shorter and lighter than the average male. Rather than restrict based on sex, they could just impose a height limit and get very similar savings. Height restrictions aren’t unheard of for things like this, for example there are height restrictions for certain jobs throughout each branch of the US military. For submarine crews, certain flight crews, etc. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/23 03:44 AM |
| 12 | Why does reddit refuse to acknowledge the decline of males?When do you think Feminists first gained the money and representation needed to start influencing the power structures? | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 07:50 AM |
| 2 | LiberalBecause most European government bodies are fundamentally different than ours in the US. They don’t have two party systems, they have parliaments. This allows for multiple parties to be seated. Yes, most parties are minorities, but the majority is required to form an agreement with the rest of parliament, including those minority parties. This allows for further left parties to have influence on their government. Does it allow them to have a majority? No, but they have influence and negotiating … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 06:58 AM |
| 2 | LiberalYes you’re right; at the very least his book has had a positive impact on these issues. There has been a lot of talk about his book and he has been interviewed frequently. He’s getting the message to the masses. ETA: Redshirting is just…a huge thorn in my side and I hate when people promote it. But from what I’ve learned and listened to, that was my only gripe with him. It’s just a really big gripe haha | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 06:39 AM |
| 1 | LiberalYou misunderstand me, I agree with you. The only political groups promoting men’s issues in the US are right-wing groups. Republicans have radicalized the issue and Democrats are only providing lip service, if even that. There is no left-of-center party in the US, that’s why men’s issues are seen as extremist right ideology in the US. Because the extreme right talks about it much more than the center-right Democratic Party. So overall, it’s seen as a politically conservative position. ETA: Which… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 06:36 AM |
| 68 | Why does reddit refuse to acknowledge the decline of males?National Organization for Women Feminist Majority Foundation Nikki Beare Eleanor Smeal Molly Yard Dolores Huerta Lobbyists both for and against the Equal Rights Amendment over the course of nearly 5 decades. Feminists flipped on this issue in the end because they realized it could benefit men. Also, based on who lead these organizations at certain times: American Student Union American for Democratic Action | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 06:30 AM |
| 3 | LiberalUnfortunately he is neither a politician or an influential capitalist. Also he’s pro-Redshirting, which personally I find abhorrent. After listening to his audiobook, I found him aggravatingly center-right at best. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 06:14 AM |
| 129 | Why does reddit refuse to acknowledge the decline of males?Reddit is trying to become a public IPO this year and Feminism is a powerful capitalist, lobbiest, and government institution in the US. So if Reddit wants to maximize their value when they go public, they must cater to the pseudo-Academic institution of Feminism. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 06:01 AM |
| -5 | LiberalYes. I’m a leftist American and I agree. It is because the American Center-Right, aka mainstream Democrats, are in no way leftist. They are center right at best. They’re “Liberal” in the classical sense. Liberal isn’t leftist. It does not incorporate concepts of social equality or egalitarianism or labor force. The American Democratic Party are cowards. If they fully embraced Mens Rights via being anti-Draft, or publicized funding for male contraceptives, or publicized the damn near purposeful a… | /r/MensRights | 04/05/23 05:43 AM |
| 6 | Found out the emotional abuse has magically turned physicalI’m not a lawyer, but when it comes to cameras, I’d only recommend getting a doorbell camera. Then you can see what she is taking as she goes in-and-out. I have a feeling that placing new indoor cameras in anticipation of her move out would be seen unfavorably by mediators or a judge. A doorbell camera is exterior facing (meaning less/no expectation of privacy) and are a lot more common these days than indoor home cameras. If you have the opportunity before her move-out to to speak with your att… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 05:08 AM |
| 5 | "Gender stats are only real when men bad."https://i.imgur.com/McZQagB.jpg I think it was this one. The 3rd party twitter site OP used seems to be having issues. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/05/23 04:45 AM |
| 28 | 6 year old boy raped for months on school busI appreciate the weight with which that man (I assume is her lawyer?) said the word “rape”. He really punctuated and emphasized the meaning of the word. It really contrasts the reporter’s calm, casual, yet repeated use of the lesser phrase “sexual assault”. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/23 07:33 AM |
| 15 | Female babysitter accused of raping 13-year-old boy, telling him to ‘take it like man’They only used the word “rape” in the headline for clicks. The actual body of the article doesn’t say “rape”. It says “had sex with” or “performed sex acts on”. It’s ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/23 06:38 AM |
| 17 | Female babysitter accused of raping 13-year-old boy, telling him to ‘take it like man’The original article from ABC13 described her actions as sexual assault, but the NYPost article decided to use phrases like ‘had sex with him’’ and ‘performing sex acts on him’. There is no reason for the NYPost to purposefully use such reductive language. It’s just sexism. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/23 04:38 AM |
| 2 | UK: Father of 23-month-old twins killed by their mother slams 'decision to release her on the fifth anniversary of their deaths'/ OP: A man would never be released after 5 years for double murder.Despite Googling 'how to drown someone' in the weeks before the crime, Ford escaped a double murder conviction after the Crown Prosecution Service accepted her guilty pleas to manslaughter on the grounds of diminished responsibility. She never should have been offered this plea deal. 1st degree murder with proof of premeditation, and the court offers a plea deal reducing it all the way down to manslaughter via insanity? Absoutly disgusting. Also, it’s been 5 years and he still can’t get divorced… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/23 04:30 AM |
| 0 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Yes. Both parties have to work. I agree, that’s the point. The stats show both parties aren’t working. The women aren’t working and it’s not affordable, and even amongst those women who do work, a minority of them work full-time. It’s a problem. Luckily I’m a gay man, so I don’t have to worry about a partner that won’t contribute their economic weight to the household. Unfortunately, my fellow men who are heterosexual do not have such a luxury. They cannot assume their partner intends to be fisc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:31 AM |
| 1 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Because employed men work more hours than employed women, even today. Especially today. These are stats from Pew research and the US DOL within the last 8 years. Only 62.5% of US women over 20 are in the workforce, and 63% of those employed women are only part-time. Majority of employed women are part-time! Yet 70.5% of US men over 20 are in the workforce and of those employed men only 43% are part-time. Not to mention those US men die about 5.5 years earlier than the women! So what is it, are w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 07:30 AM |
| 1 | US Deputy Defense Secretary confirms Selective Service aka "The Draft" is still a viable option [Interview dated 04/06/2023 via C-SPAN]Uh I posted this 3 days ago, keep up | /r/MensRights | 26/04/23 02:24 AM |
| 7 | I don't hate women, I hate how they're treated so much better.One thing men need to start doing is caring more about men. Just like how women support other women, we need to care more about men. Help men, make groups for men, empower men and boys This is the solution. Men and the women who support our issues need to unabashedly and unapologetically support, promote, and fund said issues. We need to stop trying to appeal to those who categorically oppose our issues. They cannot be convinced; any comprise with them results in them taking another step away. I… | /r/MensRights | 24/04/23 05:41 AM |
| 22 | Why men are less likely report their abuseStudies have shown that for many men, reporting their abuse has a net negative impact on their wellbeing. They found that men who report often experience “secondary victimization” due to organization’s or professional’s services being influenced by stereotypical gender norms. Additionally, men are seen as “unacceptable” victims. It is a social taboo for a man to be a victim, especially if his abuser is a woman. This is further compounded by the victimized men themselves reluctance to recognize t… | /r/MalePsychology | 23/04/23 09:02 AM |
| 4 | US Deputy Defense Secretary confirms Selective Service aka "The Draft" is still a viable option [Interview dated 04/06/2023 via C-SPAN]Also, check out 38:00 in the C-SPAN video. "Forget about the political appointee, Why is it that this organization that is the most well funded department out of anyone in our government [Department of Defense], can't pass an audit...?" ETA: Also, just...go to 42:52 in the C-SPAN video. When I see a State Department get a certain amount of money and a military budget be get 10x that, and I see a struggle within government to get people more basic services, and then that department that got that.… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/23 07:35 AM |
| 12 | US Deputy Defense Secretary confirms Selective Service aka "The Draft" is still a viable option [Interview dated 04/06/2023 via C-SPAN]“We still have selective service, I wish to remind you” “Are you breaking news right now?” Jon realized the weight of that statement and called it out; the Deputy immediately backpedaled because she realized she fucked up by acknowledging that the Draft remains a legitimate option . | /r/MensRights | 22/04/23 07:00 AM |
| 7 | US Deputy Defense Secretary confirms Selective Service aka "The Draft" is still a viable option [Interview dated 04/06/2023 via C-SPAN]FYI the video has been sped up by 15% (I think people talk too slow ok?!) You can watch the full interview on C-SPAN here. The posted clip starts at 21:58. Though the whole interview is very enlightening. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/23 06:56 AM |
| 14 | New lawsuit against against University of Illinois alleges male student falsely accused of sexual assault was himself the victim, but was found guilty and expelled via a sham Title IX process.Is there any info about the judge’s reasoning for recusing himself? If not, do you have any theories? Is he just tired of being involved with these kinds of cases? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/23 03:29 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone done a long term study comparing childhood mental stability regarding child rearing? Particularly regarding Boys?There probably isn’t one because the results, no matter what they’d be, would be very contentious. No researcher would want to put themselves into that crosshair that would end their career. Also there’s inherent differences in those populations which would be very difficult to remove from the equation. For example, the average single/divorced father is older than the average single/divorced mother. The fathers being older means they are usually more financially stable than mothers, which result… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/23 01:19 AM |
| 9 | ContraPoints blames everything on men, because some things never change.I was literally halfway through this video when I stumbled upon this post, very coincidental haha. I'm still watching, but I was similarly caught off guard but the Dworkin quotes in part 2 (I think?) which appeared to literally defend the fecal matter Bryant vomited into television airwaves. I was caught off guard because, from my experience, Feminists basically treat Dworkin as a Saint within the Cannon of Feminism, so how could Dworkin be defending Bryant?! Gasp! I paused and looked into it; f… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/23 07:57 AM |
| 12 | Example #43,076 of Male Disposability, with a little "Men Slaughtered in War, Women Most Effected" for extra Misandry pointsAlso for a little extra context, from 1914 to 1921 the American female population increased by 10.40%, while the male population increased by 8.66%. Now that obviously does not directly translate to the % of men who suffered awful deaths in those European trenches, but it certainly gives us a starting point. Just to start, if the male population had increased at the same rate as the female population during those years, there would be an additional 885,365 American men in 1921 than there actuall… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/04/23 07:28 AM |
| 4 | What will it take to change your mind?Hey now, for some of us the fry is merely a delivery mechanism for the sauce! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Another day , another misandric crosspost in AmITheAngelThe post had absolutely nothing with her being a woman. Every other woman in that boat chose not to put on a damsel-in-distress performance. She was the only person on that craft that actively chose to make their collective situation even worse. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 29 | Mother jailed for hiding kids from their father for three years despite custody agreement | A rare case of successful enforcement against a motherSo a network of kidnappers. I wish I could get a small peek into one of these pro-kidnapping FB groups the article mentions. If only to tally the number of times they self righteously compare themselves to the Underground Railroad of the 1700s US used to sneak Southern slaves to free states or to Mexico. You just know they’re at least occasionally patting themselves on the back with such a comparison. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/23 05:25 AM |
| 47 | Mother jailed for hiding kids from their father for three years despite custody agreement | A rare case of successful enforcement against a motherI’m pretty sure this was the case of the twin Watter girls, right? AU press just isn’t allowed to name them now. (Supposedly a law meant to protect the identities of the underage children, though it’s always very convenient when child abusing mothers cannot be named…) The mother, Cassie Watter/Doubleday was a local prominent Feminist before she fled in 2014. avoiceformen. com/featured/cassie-watter-child-abuser-child-abductor-fugitive-feminist/ Then she fled and an anonymous “maternal family mem… | /r/MensRights | 17/04/23 03:22 AM |
| 36 | Rep. Katie Porter scalded ex-husband’s scalp with potatoes: documentsThe DailyMail article that this article cites has more information. It actually has screenshots of the documents filed in court. (It doesn’t paint her in any better light, just an opportunity to read her ex’s accusations in his own words) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11934223/Allegations-Democrat-Katie-Porters-abusive-marriage-resurface.html What a massive disappointment. I’ve been impressed with how she holds corporations accountable in those House hearings, so it’s pretty depressin… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Florida woman found with 24 pipe bombs pleads guilty to avoid jail, focus on mental healthu/cromchyseaweed pretty pathetic to reply to me and then block me lol. Especially when I wasn’t even talking to you. You should stay in the creepy horse girl section of reddit. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Florida woman found with 24 pipe bombs pleads guilty to avoid jail, focus on mental healthShe created 24 pipe bombs. Last I checked, pipe bombs don’t have any fucking altruistic use case. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/23 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sThen women should get jobs instead of getting pregnant. If they’re looking for a “family“ income they need to contribute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 06:07 AM |
| 14 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sYou’ve got a pick a narrative here; are men incels who never fuck, or are they absent fathers seeding any woman they can and running away to be deadbeat dads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 05:26 AM |
| 5 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sSeems to me that most employed women aren’t pulling their economic weight, nevermind the ones that are unemployed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 04:50 AM |
| 8 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sI’m living in reality. Only 62.5% of US women over 20 are in the workforce, and 63% of those employed women are only part-time. 70.5% of US men over 20 are in the workforce and of those employed men only 43% are part-time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Men who want women in their early 20s should just date them when they are in their mid 20sMarriageable women at 23 have a job. A job they’ll quit the second they get pregnant. That’s why they want a man with a successful and profitable career. Which men (and women) at 23 do not have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 02:23 AM |
| 101 | Florida woman found with 24 pipe bombs pleads guilty to avoid jail, focus on mental healthHer mental health treatment will include counseling at an in-house facility. There will be no record of a criminal conviction as well That is absoutly fucking insane. Future employers or neighbors or romantic partners will be blind to the violence she is capable of. Also, the article said she’s only going to be committed to a mental health ward for two years. Absoutly irresponsible. It is extremely common for schizophrenics to go off their medications and descend into psychosis repeatedly throug… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/23 04:43 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Because emotions aren’t logical. If you’re going to take a biologically determinist approach, then a man would want a woman to dedicate herself to him because he wants to know that she is dedicated to producing his offspring and no other man’s offspring. Her leaving him would mean that she is now going to produce offspring with another man which might jeopardize any offspring he has with her, or it cuts off his avenue of producing offspring in the future with her. But regular humans do not think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 02:24 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.It’s not specific to divorcing couples though. The man in unmarried relationships show the same experience, hell I’m pretty sure I read that high school boys adhere to this trend too. (this was back when I used to have free access to research journals and read them when I was bored) This is my opinion now, but the emotions men feel after a break up are not about replacing the woman that they just lost; they aren’t emotional over the prospect of having to find another woman. They’re emotional abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 01:59 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Nah. Research has repeatedly shown that, generally, men report higher levels of emotional distress after a relationship break up than women do. In fact, one of the primary causes of suicide amongst men is relationship break ups. And it’s not because they’ve lost the warm wet hole to stick their dick into. They’re experiencing a genuine feeling of loss, not sexual frustration. Also, to clarify, I’m not saying that women don’t feel similarly during break ups. I’m just pointing out the research sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | as a girl, im posting on this to just find out something - what do you guys think of feminism (equal rights between women and men)You might get more nuanced responses in r/FeMRADebates, though you’ll probably need to define your question a bit more and explain your stance/reasoning. But I think you have to be approved to post there, I think you just have to message the mods to be approved. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/23 01:17 AM |
| 4 | as a girl, im posting on this to just find out something - what do you guys think of feminism (equal rights between women and men)I agree that men and women should have equal rights. I don’t believe that is the goal of Feminism. Do you think there are rights one sex has but the other does not (in the US)? | /r/MensRights | 06/04/23 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Child SupportYou need to talk to a lawyer. Depending on where you live, previous support payments may or may not count as child support. Some states say that any payments made without a actual support order in place don’t count as support payments, they’re just considered gifts. Then after the support order is official they say you’re now in arrears. This is extremely dependent on where you live, so it’s very important to speak to a lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 06/04/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Judgement coming todayHoly shit, how long were you married to justify giving him a 42k/yr salary? Same sex marriage hasn’t even been legal for 10 whole years, do you live in a common law marriage state or something? Is this a mediation agreement or did you actually go in front of a judge? If this is mediation or some other kind of agreement below making your case in front of the judge, you might consider spending the money to take it to the judge. Less than 5% of divorce proceedings actually have their divorce decree… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Oh God Help Me? Please?I’m not sure that I sensed it, I just also haven’t resolved my issues with booze and I know that if I went through what you’re going through, I would retreat to the bottle. And I very much encourage you not to do that. Like I said, pot talking to the kettle. Do as I say not as I do, haha. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Oh God Help Me? Please?I can’t speak to where OP is mentally, but when you’re deep in the sauce the embarrassment isn’t enough to stop some of us…because you can just drink the embarrassment away. IMO, to get out of the death spiral of alcoholism you have to really want something that the alcohol is preventing you from getting. If you don’t find that thing then I’m not sure what comes next. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Oh God Help Me? Please?I’m on mobile, please re-read, I edited it to make sense lol u/thr08wayNow | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 09:10 PM |
| 10 | Oh God Help Me? Please?Affair during separation? Had divorce proceedings started? Had you moved out? Had you told anyone you were separating? If any of that happened, I’d send a text out to friends that you have made a bad choice during one of the lowest points of your life, to hook up with a mentally unstable woman. That you realize you should not have hooked up with this woman, much less any woman, at such a turbulent time in your life. That you would very much appreciate their support in your life at this time when… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Are there any movies or TV shows where a child is abused by their mother, and the hero steps in to save the day?Tonya’s mother in “I, Tonya”. Run (2020) with Sarah Paulson. Precious (2009). Oculus (2013), less sure about this one because it’s about a demonic mirror that makes people go crazy. Lol | /r/MensRights | 31/03/23 01:21 AM |
| 21 | Son needs to get circumcisedIf steroid creams and stretching have not been effective, there are surgical options that are less radical than a full circumcision that can be utilized. Here is one medical paper describing them: https://gs.amegroups.com/article/view/18649/html More info: https://www.topdoctors.co.uk/medical-dictionary/preputioplasty | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/03/23 07:02 AM |
| 11 | This is a quote from an article about a Female Teacher accused of "indecent act" with their Male student.Found the article… they write about this alleged child molester as if she’s a celebrity spotted on a glamorous vacation. It’s literally written with the same ambiguous sexual themes as softcore Wattpad smut. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/23 03:25 AM |
| 14 | The idea that men's dating issues is merely the result of them having to treat women as an equal now is to reductive and dismissive of their actual dating issues.It's literally a fact, backed by research, that men have out-group gender bias. Men literally put the interests of women before the interests of their fellow men, as a matter of fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 04:31 AM |
| 5 | I feel like homophobia is a huge men's issueI think it is too, even for heterosexual men. In fact, especially for heterosexual men. Homophobia in society, especially from women, discourages men from forming emotionally meaningful relationships with other men. It discourages men from relying on their male friends for emotional support, lest they be ridiculed for being "too gay". It discourages men from casual affectionate touch with eachother, like hugging. This is one of the reasons men become so touch starved, because western society sha… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Judge Judy on Parent Rights. [Tigger Warning]Ok, OP has the wrong take on this. Judge Judy is very pro-fathers rights. But, y’all should go to 14:20 in the video. Judge Judy blatantly calls out Ex-Parte orders of protection as a manipulative legal tool which that mother used to her advantage. I appreciate Judge Judy’s unapologetic hostility toward bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/23 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Judge Judy on Parent Rights. [Tigger Warning]Seriously, she was being hypothetical . She’s saying that it doesn’t matter what her opinion of him is, that man is the father of the child and he has rights to see that child no matter the slander she may sling at him. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/23 03:10 AM |
| 194 | MPs have approved plans to make street sexual harassment a crime carrying jail sentences of up to two years. Catcalling, following someone or blocking their path will become an offence in England and Wales under a bill backed by the British governmentThe private member's bill will criminalise: Deliberately walking closely behind someone as they walk home at night Making obscene or aggressive comments towards a person in the street Making obscene or offensive gestures towards a person in the street Obstructing someone's path Driving or riding a vehicle slowly near someone making a journey The first, fourth, and fifth ones are so subjective. They’re basically criminalizing the intent of the person, not the action. How will they prove a person … | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 03:36 PM |
| 10 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?He literally got a TBI due to the job that provided for our whole immediate family, when I was 6 edit: actually, thinking back i must have been 4 or 5!. Mom could’ve gotten a job three years later when my little sister started going to preschool for the majority of the day. But no. My mother thought vacuuming three times a day and making sure that when you wash the windows, there weren’t any streaks on them was more important than actually bringing an income into the household. I never got to kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 22 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?Sorry for expressing empathy for my father as I watched my mother treat him as nothing more than a checkbook throughout my entire childhood? Sorry that she taught me what a financially abusive person looks like? When I was 14 or 15 years old and she was like 41 she literally got pregnant again, after my father had suffered a TBI mind you, so that she could secure her position as a stay at home mother for another 18 years. So my now mentally disabled father continues to toil away in a physically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 04:37 AM |
| 42 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?Yes, very much this. They’ll say he has “no passion”, “no drive”, “no ambition”. AKA he has no desire to break his back to climb the corporate ladder so that she can quit her job to be a stay-at-home bum who won’t give him any children, sex, or affection. (Yes, I’m a bit bitter because I watched my slovenly mother do this to my father since I was 3 years old. She hasn’t held a job since 1996 despite all her children being in school for the at least the last 11 years) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Men’s Help Seeking for Depression: The Efficacy of a Male-Sensitive Brochure About CounselingDid you post the wrong article? This one doesn't mention anything about a brochure. | /r/Male_Studies | 23/03/23 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Just feeling useless. Vent.Damn, that is a lot of hardship for one person to go through. Anyone in your situation would feel lost. Have you looked into copy editing? You have the qualification, it can be done remote and likely part-time or full-time. Look for open positions at local regional newspapers. Large businesses also need copy editors to maintain their websites, edit newsletters and publications, and advertisements. ETA: You could also look into the requirements to be an English lecturer at a local community colle… | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/03/23 05:15 PM |
| 36 | Woman found guilty of murdering her eight-week old son and attempting to murder his two-year-old sister. The woman, who cannot be named for legal reasons, accepted she stabbed the children in July 2021 but denied the chargesThis article from when she was originally arrested names her. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 04:39 PM |
| 21 | Freezing their eggs, highly paid highly educated women victims of men's bad behavior once againEighty-two percent of all the women in the study were single, with no partner in sight. Wonderful! Let’s create more single mothers! Nevermind that single mothers are a population whose children are twice as likely to drop out of high school, 2.5 times more likely to become teen moms, 1.5 times as likely to be unemployed and not looking for work, and are less likely to go to college, have lower GPAs, and have more unexcused absences while attending K-12 education. I may be dating myself here, th… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 08:40 AM |
| 39 | Woah! A senator coming out against circumcision! Hope she doesn't back down like Yang.To clarify, this is STATE senator representing a district of Nebraska in the Nebraska STATE legislature. Not a member of the Federal government Senate. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 05:35 AM |
| 33 | Woman have been less happy than men since around 1990. Feminists explain that women achieved all their goals and twist themselves into pretzels trying to explain why feminism isn't making for happy women.Women’s increasing participation in the workforce has not been met with proportionally decreasing responsibilities at home In 2019 42.6% of US women were not participating in the workforce, compared to 30.8% of men. Additionally, 23% of employed women were working less than 35 hours per week, compared to only 12% of employed men working less than 35 hours per week. But Feminists never want to talk about this massive population of women who are economic freeloaders and financially dependent on ei… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 05:28 AM |
| 32 | How do you guys feel about ballbustingI think it’s hilarious that most men genuinely do not give a fuck that there are porn genres that exist solely based on male humiliation and degradation, and we just don’t care because most men are not concerned with what other people are masturbating to. Yet there are entire subReddits (such as r-BanFemaleHateSubs) that dedicate who knows how many damn hours per day, trying to identify pornography that they choose to be victimized by. I mean there’s countless porn out there of men getting their… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/23 08:04 AM |
| 8 | ChatGPT out here straight up lyingIt’s a little different for ChatGPT to be spreading ideological narratives which it has learned from online spaces, versus it straight up lying about supposed ‘research’ it is extrapolating and ‘citing’ but upon further questioning admits there’s no actual research to cite. I mean, I expect that kind of response from your anonymous online forum goblin, but not a supposed intelligent AI. Maybe it has learned a little too well about how to be a terminally online ideologue? Lol | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 06:51 AM |
| 82 | ChatGPT out here straight up lyingWhenever you ask ChatGPT about anything involving research, ask it to give you citations. I have found that like 1/3rd of the time it says, oops I lied, there are no citations. Lol. You can really tell this chat AI has been trained with some Feminist websites and forums. With a little more training, I’m sure it will learn how to distort research findings instead of admitting it was wrong, just like real terminally online Feminists 🥲 Also, any time you ever ask about gender differences, it always… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 02:58 AM |
| 34 | What is considered ‘rape’? The public’s definition differs greatly from the law — YouGov survey results, UK, surprisingly positive.Wow, I knew the UK law required some kind of penetration to meet the legal definition of rape, but I didn't know it goes so far as the specify that a penis must do the penetrating. I thought objects and other body parts were already included, but no, it's even more restrictive than I thought. How infuriating. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/23 10:55 PM |
| 85 | My ex won’t pay me in child support! How can I find out which bank she has so I can levy it?Your state's department that handles child support should have a hotline you can call for help. Yes you're probably going to be on hold for a while, but this is worth your time. The rules differ by state. For example, in my state asset seizure (including bank accounts) to satisfy child support obligations require that the paying parent be at least 12 months in arrears, and that there is a court order for asset seizure. But, there is no form on their website to request the department get a court … | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:58 PM |
| 34 | "Society hates single moms for raising their kids."Also, so many of these single mothers are raising a kid that the father never consented to creating. Their birth control fails, or they lie about taking birth control, and then when the man expresses that he doesn't want to be father to a child with her, she goes off on her own. More often than not, they are single mothers because they selfishly decided to bring a fetus to term knowing that the father did not want it. This is what my aunt did to my cousin's father. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/03/23 03:19 PM |
| 6 | I(19m)was falsely accused of being a creep by a woman(45?) in my office. I can't take this anymore.For what it’s worth, it sounds like your reputation is intact. Everyone stood up for you and defended you, she’s the one whose reputation and possibly job are both now completely screwed. What she did is awful, but when you’re feeling down about this don’t think about why she did what she did. Bad people do bad things for no reason, it just makes them feel good to tear other down. Instead, think about the fact that so many people came to your defense, stood up for you, and cared about you! If th… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 02:55 PM |
| 21 | These are all recent and typical images from some of the UK's leading mental health orgs. How many guys would think "this service is for me" if they were looking for help?It’s called Corporate Memphis and it is pretty much universally hated. It’s just so…soulless. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | HypocrisyYes, I agree with what you’re saying about 2 income families and I agree that Feminism technically started in the mid 1800s. My point was that it didn’t start having a tangible impact on the everyday western wage slave until after WWII. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | HypocrisyFeminism started with women whispering their complaints to each other when WWII ended, because US women had to suddenly compete for employment against men returning from war. It took like 15+ years of women quietly debating with eachother in order to for Feminism to actually develop an effective political movement. Do you really think this movement is 15 years old yet? My earliest interaction with it was probably around 2011. The political framework to address men’s issues in the West is still g… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 03:26 AM |
| 49 | if there is any slack to be cut on boys, up until when is it "acceptable"?In my opinion, the inflection point you mention happens at whatever age a boy starts showing overt signs of puberty. Could be anywhere between 10 and 14. That’s when, societally, boys are no longer seen as innocent and start being seen as a bubbling cauldron of untapped aggression at best, or covert agent of violence at worst. It’s the same reason that the majority of homeless “family” housing in the United States does not allow a male child over the age of 12 to stay in a “family“ homeless shel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/23 03:12 AM |
| 11 | “Happy Marriage” The only people I know who are happily married drink alcohol every night. They avoid any type of meaningful conversations and just want to escape. Am I just around the wrong people or is this the only way to sustain a long term relationship?The only happily married people I know are retired people who diligently funded their retirement accounts and now don’t have to work. They’re by no means rich but they know exactly what’ll come in every month and it’s enough that they don’t have to work. Finding a way out of being a mandatory piece in the economic machine seems to do wonders for every social relationship a person has. Romantic, familial, friends. Too bad most of us born after 1975ish will never get to retire. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 02:50 AM |
| 25 | Study: Findings indicate people (especially women) are less willing to accept instrumental harm befalling women (vs. men).Sounds like a natural consequence of women having an in-group bias and men having a slight out-group bias. Meaning that, on average, both men and women care more about the well-being of women. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 11:31 PM |
| 20 | I've been accused by two people I THOUGHT were my friendsYou are way too fixated on these girls. It is unhealthy. They certainly aren’t completely innocent in this story but neither are you. Both sides have done bad things, the issue is that what you’ve done has gotten you in trouble with the school and could get you in trouble again. You have made bad decisions because it appears that you become emotionally overwhelmed, causing you to act impulsively. You have got to drop these girls completely. Block them and never message them or speak to them or t… | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 05:02 PM |
| 66 | Apparently MRAs are censoring feminist voices now.In the United States, Feminism is a government institution. It is ingrained in K-12 public education, in colleges and universities, in many state legislatures, and in all branches of the federal government. Feminism is the literal definition of institutional privilege now. Men have little to no government advocacy, yet Feminist ideology permeates every sector of public discourse. Feminism gets the government funding. It is weaved into the public education curriculum. It is a core factor in decid… | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 08:20 AM |
| 24 | What do you guys think of this statement? “The only reason you hear men 32+ saying they want a young “pure” women is because they want to get away with substandard treatment. “Data shows that women of the age of 30-44 are much more likely to have been previously divorced than men in the same age brackets. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2021/demo/p70-167.pdf (Pages 10 and 12) Women 30 - 34 : 22.3% 35 - 44 : 30.8% Men 30 - 34 : 15.9% 35 - 44 : 27.4% So, in their 30s and 40s, women are much more likely to have baggage than men are (especially in their 30s). A woman is much more likely to have an ex-husband or children that the man has to d… | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 08:11 AM |
| 37 | Woman who killed her three-year-old non-verbally autistic stepson and filmed him as he lay dying has been given a 15-year prison sentenceBorrington was also convicted of inflicting grievous bodily harm for previously breaking Harvey's arm, and assault occasioning actual bodily harm for an incident in which she squeezed his cheeks. She was given a two-year prison sentence and a six-month term for these offences, to be served concurrently with her manslaughter sentence. He also said she would serve two-thirds of the 15-year sentence in prison before being released on licence. Concurrent sentences are so fucking stupid. Plus she’ll … | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 09:58 PM |
| 41 | Stanford University employee charged with lying about rapesYep…they always have to draw attention away from male victims to highlight the “real” victims, AKA women. Imagine the media saying that the real victims of the 21 year old white woman who got 14 year old Black boy Emmitt Till sentenced to death at 15 years old as a result of a false rape accusation, that the real victims were the white women who really were raped by 14 year old Black boys. That’s the kind of deceit we need to be loudly pointing out every time this shit happens…Feminists purposef… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 04:05 AM |
| 81 | Stanford University employee charged with lying about rapesFYI this is a new case, she was literally arrested today (March 15th 2023) A 25-year-old Stanford University employee [Jennifer Gries] was arrested Wednesday and charged with felony perjury for allegedly lying about being raped twice last year on campus, authorities said. Gries is said to have admitted to lying about the rapes and written an apology letter to the man who was the target of her allegations. The rape reports led Stanford University police to issue campus-wide electronic alerts, whi… | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 03:11 AM |
| 17 | Boys in my class were given less food than girls to show the unfairness of the "wage gap" on International Womens DayYou should audio record your classes next international men’s day (Nov 19) and next international women’s day (March 8) so that you have proof of this bigotry when it happens again. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/23 03:35 AM |
| 100 | Girl threatened to accuse me of rape what do?Record conversations with her. Start recording on your phone and walk up to her and start casual conversation and then eventually dip into “Were you serious when you said you were going to accuse me of a crime that never happened?” And follow up with things like “why would you accuse me of something you know I never did?” “What are you trying to get out of falsely accusing me of a crime?” “Why are you considering accusing me of something I never did ?” “do you honestly think that I did this to y… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 27 | Mother of TV star Caroline Flack rejects an apology given by Metropolitan Police over the handling of her daughter's case. Flack was facing prosecution for assaulting her boyfriend when she killed herself in February 2020A coroner later ruled the presenter killed herself because she knew she was facing prosecution and feared the publicity a trial would attract. Uh, since when do coroners give motive behind any person's death? I have only ever seen them include the medical cause of death, and whether it was homicide, suicide, accident, or unknown. Also, it's not like the incident was that she "only" slapped him or pushed him or something: https://www.cnn.com/2019/12/23/entertainment/caroline-flack-pleads-intl-scl… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/23 05:43 PM |
| 19 | Oshkosh woman claims she saw 'dark, shadowy figure' when she stabbed ex-boyfriend 19 timesIt sounds like he lived through it, he’s incredibly lucky. His screams snapped her back into reality, Lund told the responding officer, according to the affidavit. She got 19 stabs in before his screaming “snapped her back into reality”?? Really, 19?! | /r/MensRights | 13/03/23 03:00 PM |
| 14 | A Film to Slam Us AgainAw man, I’m so sad to see Toni Collette wasting her time with such trash. She’s an amazing talent, she has no need to lower herself to this kind of pandering media. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 06:04 AM |
| 8 | Should I reach out to my ex who I haven't talked to in nearly 2 years?Nope, no. Don't message her. You need to find new things to occupy your leisure time, or whenever it is you find yourself thinking about her. Occupy the time that you are idle and drift into thoughts about her. Exercise, videogames, reading, running, cleaning your place, journaling, knitting or cross-stitching (they really are very mentally occupying), or anything else. You have to find ways to distract your mind when you inadvertently focus on her or your past relationship. Eventually you will … | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/03/23 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in an abusive relationshipIs it possible to temporarily have your dog stay with one friend while you stay with another friend? Until you find a more permanent living situation? | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/03/23 05:45 AM |
| 10 | This PSA shows a man who's legs are paralyzed giving up a seat for a woman. People are calling him a "real man". Do you agree with the comments praising him?I had SUCH a similar experience! I broke my ankle in a relatively low-speed car crash when I was a freshmen in college. I was on crutches and in a boot for a little over 2 months and I had to use the campus bus system to get around. Damn near the ONLY people who offered a me their seat were other guys. I mean, we're talking about a university bus system, meaning that the vast majority of riders were young people with zero physical impairments. 95% of riders could stand without issue. I'd get on … | /r/MensRights | 11/03/23 05:08 AM |
| 42 | Oklahoma cheerleader coach who had sex with student 300 times was 'manipulative and controlling': copsDo not read the comments on that article. Absolute cesspit. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 33 | AP Article about declining college enrollment doesn't even mention the gender disparity - roughly 60% female/40% male; the "Lace Curtain" in actionI work as staff at a public state college and nobody talks about declining male enrollment at all. It’s pretty crazy because my state has a well known “enrollment cliff” that’s going to happen around 2026-2028. Basically, we know the number of graduating high schoolers is going to drastically plummet in those years because the birth rate 18 years prior plummeted. So it’s a matter of there literally less young people existing. Despite this knowledge, there’s absolutely zero discussion of targetin… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 04:26 PM |
| 8 | who are some male heroes from history that you admire?I'll forever simp for Alan Turing. It's so insane to me that it was legal to forcibly subject a person to chemical castration as a punishment for homosexuality. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/03/23 03:34 PM |
| 7 | In No Hard Feelings, the Oscar-winner stars as a sex-positive young woman, who needs some extra cash—and is willing to go to extreme lengths to get that dough. A girl's gotta do what a girl’s gotta do.Her career has really fucking tanked ever since Weinstein was ousted. She was in 1-2 movies per year with high profile directors, costars, and franchises, up until 2018. The Weinstein accusations were published in the New York Times in late 2017. In the following 4.5 years she was only in 3 movies. I think she spent those years trying to find new producer connections; I mean it’s no coincidence how drastically her movie appearances dropped after Weinstein was ousted. Plus, the movies she has bee… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 05:59 AM |
| 7 | Please contact the Virginia Governor to tell him that men and others who go to adult websites shouldn’t be forced to turn over personally identifying information.Honestly insane and practically unenforceable. Straight up ignorant boomer ideology. It’s called the World Wide Web. How they hell would they enforce, let anyone prosecute, a porn site hosted abroad who didn’t follow their verification rules? They literally wouldn’t be able to, and the same goes for companies in other US states. The only way they could practically enforce this is to punish Virginian consumers, and even then they’d have to set up some China-esque firewall just for Virginia, in or… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 05:33 AM |
| 63 | What are some examples of the "blue tax?"Well, there's the fact that men literally pay more in taxes (both income tax and sales tax) than women do, and women use more publicly funded services than men. So women are paying less taxes while also using more services funded by tax dollars. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/roiw.12165 The data illustrated in the figure suggest that, on average, males start having a positive net fiscal impact—per capita tax revenue exceeds the (allocated) expenditure they receive—in their early… | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 09:49 PM |
| 15 | Saw something on "Popular" that really stuck out to meAccording to unddit.com, 72.7% of comments in that thread have been removed. Fucking hilarious. Gotta keep artificially propagating the Feminist narrative! Literal propaganda. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Former Labor politician, Miss Australia accused of emotional abuse of partnerformer Tasmanian government MP is alleged to have punched her partner in the face Kathryn Hay accused of emotional abuse and intimidation Uhhhh...why isn't 'assault' or 'domestic violence' in the headline? Ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 03:45 PM |
| 7 | We need a lawyer/legislator that is sympathetic to men's rights.Your account is 13 hours old lmao. This sub should have a restriction on accounts less than 1 month old. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 03:38 PM |
| 67 | From short king spring to ‘short men are psychopaths’. When will the obsession with men’s height end? | Simon UsborneResearchers at the University of Padua, Italy, had set out to find evidence to support the idea of a Napoleon complex, AKA small man syndrome, AKA a derogatory stereotype Of course they did; Feminists can't let the body positivity movement expand to help men in any way. The Feminist infected world of Academia had to jump in and put a stop that that nonsense! Feminism's and Academia's distain for men is so damn blatant these days. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 03:35 PM |
| 23 | Men’s history monthInternational Women’s Day is this coming Wednesday… everyone here should monitor their social media that day and document how many posts are actually advocating for action against discrimination towards women, versus how many posts are just categorically shitting on and demonizing men. I’ll be trying to keep a record, especially in regards to NGOs and nonprofits and governments. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 04:49 AM |
| 141 | Child groomer and rapist rapes 13 year old and gets custody, child support and no jailAnd if she has custody when he turns 18 in 5 years, she'll go after him for child support too. And she'll get it. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/23 10:37 PM |
| 80 | Millions of men are leaving the workforce. Here's the lasting impact that has on the economy.In January, the share of 25- to 54-year-old men working or job-hunting was at 88.5%, below the pre-pandemic mark of 89.2%. By contrast, the participation rate for women in that age group had climbed to 76.9%, effectively back to its pre-COVID level of 77%. Maybe the government should ask themselves why they’re focusing so much on men leaving the job market, instead of why so many women never even enter it. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 04:58 AM |
| 13 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?Totally valid. The next time a woman speaks about being groped at a bar, I’ll be sure to point out that the only women speaking out are the victimized ones. Such a disproportionate narrative, right? We can’t trust that obviously, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 10:59 AM |
| 95 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?Literally just read this thread https://reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/yy2rcv/men_who_encourage_other_men_not_to_open_up_to/ Read it. Every single man has had an experience of women demanding that he show more vulnerability towards her and been stabbed in the ass for filling that request. Every. Single. Man I’m fucking gay, I have never been in a romantic relationship with a woman, and I have still been subject to female friends or family or teachers demanding that I be more emotionally exposed, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinityPretty damn infuriating that I took it upon myself to spend an hour getting the sources you requested, and your response is to dip. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 04:44 AM |
| 20 | Patriarchy, Internalized Misogyny, Toxic MasculinityIt’s ironic because Feminists claim they want to give women choices; that they want women to have agency. But the very idea of toxic masculinity, or internalized misogyny, or the patriarchy, all depends upon the assumption that women have no agency at all. That women are only Items to be acted upon. That women’s participation in society consists only of reaction, never any self-directed action . That women have no ability to express their own desire in life; they are always subject male desire. … | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 04:38 AM |
| 17 | “Seoul removes women-only parking spaces - BBC News.” What do you guys think of this?Right, it’s on purpose. Feminism isn’t about facts; its a movement that exalts gender over the importance of an individual. Ones gender supersedes one’s individuality. It’s about their perception of victimization. It’s about how they feel; facts and statistics are never relevant, unless they support the Feminist position. Feminists have social and institutional privilege now. They will never admit it because victimization is a core piece of the Feminist identity. To admit that they hold the powe… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 05:56 AM |
| 34 | “Seoul removes women-only parking spaces - BBC News.” What do you guys think of this?I think that women’s fear of being assaulted by strangers is outweighed by the measurable fact that men are significantly more likely to be violently victimized by a stranger than women are. Yet men get no special treatment to mitigate their much higher likelihood of violent victimization from strangers. https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/en/pub/85-002-x/85-002-x1998009-eng.pdf?st=yDx1fcYt males aged 15 to 24 (24%) made up the largest proportion of those victimized by strangers. Men between the age… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Mid-week check-inGot on new pills about a month ago and I’m feeling happier, more content. Still drinking way too much alcohol, but I’m less sad, less anxious. Could be the start of better times. I hope so. | /r/MenSupportMen | 21/02/23 04:58 AM |
| 13 | An Irish Times article which I found surprisingly good, highlighting various issues rarely highlighted in the mainstream media here. "What’s it like [for a man] to work in a women-dominated profession? A nurse, SNA, drama teacher, childcare worker and occupational therapist share their experiences"I only have a male friend who is in one of those 5 careers, but he has complained repeatedly about how certain duties are forced on him because he is a man. He is a nurse in an ER. He complains frequently that he always has to be the bad guy. Even though the patient is not his, he is frequently told to go tell a patient things like; no you don’t get any painkillers. No, there is nothing wrong with you, go home. (During Covid) No, you can’t have more than one person in your room per day. No, we w… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/23 04:17 AM |
| 15 | Helping you understand positive masculinity and toxic masculinitytl;dr: The APA guidelines are steeped in anti-male ideology, pathologize masculinity, and often focuses on how therapy for men impacts those around the man, not on the man himself. https://www.apa.org/about/policy/boys-men-practice-guidelines.pdf conforming to traditional masculinity ideology has been shown to limit males’ psychological development, constrain their behavior, result in gender role strain and gender role conflict, and negatively influence mental health and physical health Although… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 06:03 PM |
| 13 | Austrian state news presenting data that shows men disadvantaged in health, but twisting it to the opposite.I wonder what the difference is between "cardiovascular diseases" vs "heart disease". They're both catch-all terms for multiple diseases but the CDC says more men than women die of heart disease (21% more men than women). https://www.cdc.gov/heartdisease/men.htm | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, only white male billionaires are bad:Nevermind the estimation that the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation has saved ~50 Million lives in Africa thanks to his efforts fighting AIDS, TB, and Malaria. Steve Jobs was probably a legit sociopath, but created at least 3 major tech companies that literally shaped the way we use technology today. Warren Buffett has donated more than half of his entire wealth, has pledged to donate 99% of it when he dies, and has set a record for most money donated by one person. Listen, I think excessive wealt… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/23 10:00 PM |
| 26 | Police brutality is a men's issueIt's a controlled opposition sub. The point is to provide just enough Feminist branded lip service to disgruntled men in order to keep them within the Feminist framework. The goal isn't to discuss men's issues in good faith, it's to stop men from seeing that Feminism is part of the system keeping the boot on men's necks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/02/23 03:40 PM |
| 26 | Do we care less about missing boys and men?Another example of the same issue is the nonexistent search for Mark Bishop whereas the search for Nicola Bulley has been receiving near daily coverage for over 2 weeks. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/02/23 03:42 PM |
| 32 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesWell hold on, it’s a bit more positive than that. A Facebook page posted one photoshopped image that was anti-circumcision(aka anti-MGM), then other women responded with real pictures of themselves holding real messages that were anti-MGM with #IfIWereABoy on it. So there was authentic engagement by anti-MGM women in backlash to the original hashtag. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/23 03:42 AM |
| 8 | The court system is a nightmare for fathers and childrenTory tried extremely hard to get custody of Eli. Unfortunately, more false Orders of Protection were filed, which postponed custody hearings. Meanwhile, Feminists continue to deny that these false accusations resulting in Orders of Protection are a problem in family court. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 07:57 PM |
| 9 | Counter points?Most male sexual abuse is done by other men, especially in the prison system. Not exactly true. You have to remember that there are literally more than 13x more male prisoners than female, so you’re taking the raw % of male perpetrators of sexual abuse in prison, of course men are going to outnumber women due to the sheer difference in population size. You’d need it broken down by rate per capita to truly compare the rate of male vs female perpetrators of sex abuse in prison, which I can’t find … | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Are there any politicians/parties that actually support mens rights?In the US, the National Coalition for Men is a nonprofit that has helped bring state and federal lawsuits against sexist laws. Justice for Men & Boys is a very small political party in the UK. Though it appears they have changed their name to the Children & Family party. Gender Parity UK is a group that tries to raise awareness for various men's and boys issues | /r/MensRights | 10/02/23 03:15 PM |
| 20 | How do I quickly record video that can not be deleted, if I am in danger?copwatch.app might be what you're looking for. The ACLU also has an app called "Mobile Justice" | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 06:00 PM |
| 144 | TIFU by getting circumcised for my girlfriendShe was “very encouraging and excited” for him to get the operation? Sounds like she was getting off on it. Degenerate. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 03:20 PM |
| 21 | The Guardian casually publishing a sexist article about long-haired men.Goddamn, the bar for what qualifies as journalism is so fucking low. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/02/23 07:43 AM |
| 9 | I’m a women that’s an avid supporter of men’s rights.. but some discussion here is concerning…I am an involved member of these communities and I wholeheartedly agree. I am so goddamn tired of seeing comments from people who treat the words “woman” and “Feminist” as interchangeable. It is my biggest gripe with this movement and I believe it a our biggest failing. Stop accusing all women of being Feminist misandrists. Assuming every woman is a Feminist is just as bad as the whole “all men are xyz awful thing” trope. Lets not not lower ourselves to Feminism’s level of bigotry. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 07:10 AM |
| 94 | Are boys discriminated against in schools?Teachers give higher marks to girls Boys have had worse exam results than girls for 30 years Black students, boys, and students with disabilities were disproportionately disciplined (e.g., suspensions and expulsions) in K-12 public schools, Universities frequently apply Title IX protections unequally between men and women, or use Title IX to discriminate against men | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Men, Do You Feel Uncomfortable At The Gym With The Current Trend Of Girls Filming For TikTok? Have You Changed You Mentality/Routine/ETC. While At The Gym?Yes, I agree. I don’t think they take into account the other person at all. They only care about content generation; empathy or consideration about how their actions impact others never influences their thought processes. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 06:59 AM |
| 16 | there are just 2 genders: being depressed and being abusiveIf we think about it, maybe they’re right? Maybe men actually do have lower rates of depression compared to women… at least, men that are still alive… because depressed women are more likely to still be alive. Men with depression put guns in our mouths or ropes around our necks instead of chugging a bottle of Tylenol which typically is a bad suicide method and only results in having liver issues for the next 45 years. I guess men being more successful at suicide than women is yet another form of… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/02/23 06:48 AM |
| 6 | Men, Do You Feel Uncomfortable At The Gym With The Current Trend Of Girls Filming For TikTok? Have You Changed You Mentality/Routine/ETC. While At The Gym?I’m saying these men’s faces on the social media of these “look at me look at me” women is certainly enough to get them fired from their jobs and sabotage their careers. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 06:40 AM |
| 7 | Men, Do You Feel Uncomfortable At The Gym With The Current Trend Of Girls Filming For TikTok? Have You Changed You Mentality/Routine/ETC. While At The Gym?There are no “requirements“ of any kind if you work in a “at will“ employment country or state. You can be fired for “no reason”; or any unprotected discriminatory reason, or for cause. So in the vast majority of US states if you’re giving the company a bad name on social media, whether you’re at fault or not, it is completely lawful for them to fire you based only on community rumors and you have no legal recourse against your employer. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 06:32 AM |
| 34 | Men, Do You Feel Uncomfortable At The Gym With The Current Trend Of Girls Filming For TikTok? Have You Changed You Mentality/Routine/ETC. While At The Gym?They post the men’s faces on social media. https://www.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/comments/vb0hlc/girl_recording_at_the_gym_gets_offended_when/ https://www.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/comments/10huybj/influencer_records_man_in_gym_while_muttering_to/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/10vhnad/woman_accused_me_of_staring_during_an_exercise/ Other women and feminist/simp men on the Internet unfortunately do take these women seriously. They aren’t all getting called out, it’s… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Child support WAUnfortunately, you really are going to have to pay out for a lawyer. You have to go to court. You have to show to the judge that your other children are going to suffer measurable negative impacts as a result of the child support, and you need to show that you have never once over 7+ years assumed a parental role over this child, and that the mother of his child deliberately concealed your paternity of this child from you, so you never had the chance to assume the role of father directly because… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | You Never Hear About the "Rapists"I’m not sure if I understood correctly; it sounded like at the point of this interview, two years after being arrested, he still wasn’t allowed to know who is accuser is? | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 06:23 AM |
| 8 | Are any of you in therapy?I’ve tried multiple times. It hasn’t helped. 4 therapists over the last 6-7ish years, 3 female 1 male. It’s hasn’t done anything for me so far. And I do try, I really do. I have a BS in Psychology, I know the research and the techniques. It just never works for me. I legitimately don’t know what to say in sessions. They ask what’s wrong, I say my life is shit and I have no direction, they ask why, I say a lot of reasons but no big main reason. Then they ask what kind of help I need, and I say, i… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 03:48 AM |
| 3 | A corrupt Chicago cop destroyed hundreds of lives. Now victims want justice.ACAB. Police do not protect the people, they protect the class structure. Men are more likely to be at the extreme end of poverty. Who do you think has the most interaction with police? The homeless. https://abc7amarillo.com/features/invisible/3-reasons-why-men-are-overrepresented-in-the-homeless-population Recent research shows that nearly 50,000 men seeking shelter each year are fresh out of prison. It's possible these men don't have anything or anyone to return to after serving their sentence… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 02:09 AM |
| 8 | A corrupt Chicago cop destroyed hundreds of lives. Now victims want justice.Since then, prosecutors have moved to dismiss at least 226 convictions and juvenile adjudications connected to Watts and his team. Collectively, the wrongful prosecutions cost 183 people sentences of 459 years in prison (not including pre-trial detention), plus 57 probation and 10 boot camp sentences. Because how many of those overturned convictions do you think were male? Probably all of them, or damn near. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 02:01 AM |
| 35 | All disagreeing comments were removed due to "derailing"It’s so crazy to me how quickly the Feminist narrative on this did a complete 180. 10 years ago the overwhelming mantra was that men need to open up more and talk about their feelings. But when the younger generation of men actually started doing that…suddenly they invent new terms like “emotional labor” and “mental load” and tell men to stop “trauma dumping” on the women in their lives. Feminism doesn’t actually want men do to the things they tell us. Their only goal is to demonize men. The sec… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/23 01:36 AM |
| 21 | "Men/Boys' Advocacy Intrinsically On the Left" - National Men & Boys' Movement LeaderHmm…I consider myself a very far left person politically, but I don’t think “sounding like a Feminist for men” is a good thing. I don’t know who these guys are, but it really feels like they are just repeating some of the same generic platitudes that Feminism gives men. More words without action. I hesitate to believe that it’s a good thing to “sound like a Feminist” when it comes to men’s issues. That just makes me think of r-MensLib. Feminists who make space for men’s issues don’t ever actuall… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/23 04:18 AM |
| 22 | Why Most false allegations come from women?That study says 60% of those charged with falsifying were never prosecuted. Insane. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/23 07:54 PM |
| 1 | "The witch trials came from brewers."This is so blatantly false. A group of three girls were the primary instigators of the Salem witch trials. https://salem.lib.virginia.edu/people/hubbard.html | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/23 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Weekend check-inI got on new pills, again. Been having repeated panic attacks at work recently when I’ve gone like…2ish years without them. Psych gave me some kind of “beta blocker” that can help with anxiety, so it’s not like a benzo which IMO just knocks you out, which obviously isn’t ideal to use at work. Hopefully things improve. | /r/MenSupportMen | 03/02/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | USA: Nick Carter of the Backstreet Boys is counter-suing alleged rape victim and claims suit is a 'smear campaign'Ruth's attorney Mark J. Boskovich said three other women - named only as Jane Doe - were named in a joint lawsuit alongside her. Does Carter even get to know who the other three accusers are? If not, that’s insane. To be accused of a violent crime yet not even entitled to know who some of your accusers are. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/23 03:58 PM |
| 20 | "MILF Manor" TV show and the hypocrisy and double standard exposed by itThe idea of a show about older women dating younger men is already weird, why'd the have to go an make it 10x weirder by having the men consist of only their sons?! Also, for a reality show, nobody in the trailer is especially attractive...some of both the men and women look straight up unfortunate lol. It probably wont make it past season 1 because of that alone. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/23 08:37 PM |
| 67 | British men quit their jobs 'when too many women join their departments'Here's a link to the actual study. Notable bits from the Results and Discussion sections: The results show a substantial and clear tendency of men to leave occupations when more women enter (θ = − 2.08, p < 0.001). Combined with the main parameter, this allows to calculate changes in men’s probability to leave their occupation dependent on female inflow. For example, an increase of 10% in the proportion of women moving into an occupation reduces the probability of men to stay by ~12%. Men are ap… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/23 04:10 PM |
| 7 | About the Mods:Maybe we need to post something at RedditRequest about this? Though it needs to be done as a community, not just one or two people here gunning for ownership. And it does come with the risk of the whole sub just being banned outright for inactive moderation and a desire by admins to eliminate these kind of spaces. Basically, a request would be shining a spotlight on us to the admins. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/23 03:37 AM |
| 16 | I am done pretending men are safe (even my sons)As a single mother Wow, didn't see that coming at all... /s But what all of these men share in common, even my sons, is a relentless questioning and disbelief of the female experience. I do not want to prove my pain, or provide enough evidence to convince anyone that my trauma is merited. I’m through wasting my time on people who are more interested in ideas than feelings Oh, like your son's feelings? His feelings that you see him as a predator, that he is dangerous to women based on the sole fa… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What human rights issues Iranian men are facing?My second source speaks primarily about ISIS which operates in Iran, debatably in an even more violent manner because Iran is majority Shia which ISIS denounces. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/23 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Is there a mole in the moderation team? Someone is removing threads that aren’t violating sub rules or Reddit TOS, how is it that even in fucking here, the LAST safe space on Reddit to vent we have a woman/simp mod??It’s only on that subreddit though, and I believe shadowbanning is an admin/Reddit wide thing, not specific to subreddits. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/23 01:27 PM |
| 6 | A lot of "left wing" people revert to "bootstraps" mentality when it comes to men and dating. Has anybody else noticed this?I’m gonna link to a comment I made in MensLib, but I promise it was a really good discussion that agrees with your point that sexism against men is always blamed on individual men, rather than society at large. I’m linking to my comment, but you NEED to read the one I’m replying to too, for it to make sense. https://np.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/yd9ka5/_/itrpdgs/?context=1 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | A lot of "left wing" people revert to "bootstraps" mentality when it comes to men and dating. Has anybody else noticed this?I’m gonna link to a comment I made in MensLib, but I promise it was a really good discussion that agrees with your point that sexism against men is always blamed on individual men, rather than society at large. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/23 12:00 PM |
| 14 | the different roots of racism and sexismRacism is an expression of in-group preference against an outgroup, whereas sexism is an expression of in-group normative pressure. I can’t speak much on racism bias groups, but sexism in-group bias is not equally influential between the sexes. Gender Differences in Automatic In-Group Bias High scores on the gender attitude, self-esteem, and gender identity IATs reflect preference for own gender, self (compared with others), and identification with own gender, respectively. Planned contrasts sho… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | What human rights issues Iranian men are facing?I’m not sure how it is now that the Taliban is running the whole country, but from at least 2000, and very likely decades earlier, bands of terrorist groups would small rural communities throughout the entire country. These religious terrorist groups would come into a town, murder, whatever, protective services that town may, or may not have had, take over the town, and then demand that male children and young men join their cause or die. That is how they’d recruit, take over a town and basicall… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/23 11:19 AM |
| 8 | Is there a mole in the moderation team? Someone is removing threads that aren’t violating sub rules or Reddit TOS, how is it that even in fucking here, the LAST safe space on Reddit to vent we have a woman/simp mod??I posted a screenshot of some blatant hate in Reddit comments yesterday, and it seemed like it was autoremoved without notifying me. When I came to this sub while logged in, it would show my post. But if I came in incognito browser and not logged in, my post didn’t appear. The post never got a single upvote or downvote, and while we are a small subreddit, I think we are pretty interactive. Most posts get at least a couple up or down votes. So to not get any of either was suspicious. The same thi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/23 10:49 AM |
| – | Feminists literally hate womenFYI, this was posted in a Feminist subreddit within the last year and was met with widespread support via upvotes and commenters. This is some straight up misogynistic shit. They are literally saying that if a woman isn’t a Feminist then she just must be too stupid, or too naïve, or too horny for her own good. I honestly think the only thing Feminists hate more than men is non-feminist women in happy, loving relationships with a man. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/01/23 05:48 AM |
| 40 | The forgotten men of feminismThat report to Congress that you cited is interesting... In Fiscal Year 2018, OVW made 535 discretionary awards totaling just over $269 million. Overall, VAWA-funded grantees conducted 20,160 educational and public awareness programs and events that reached 668,132 students and 540,591 other community members. Huh? With $269 Million they only managed to reach .3% of the US population? Seems wildly inefficient... Findings from a nationally representative study of children exposed to violence, sho… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/23 04:31 PM |
| 47 | What does the war in Ukraine tell us about Feminism?It’s taught me that this Bill Burr quote was spot-on: There are no Feminists in a house fire. You can take the most hard-core Feminist […] you know, short little haircut. The second those flames break out she’ll twist those little hairs into pigtails “oh I’m just a girl!” You know what it’s called when you are spared the horrifying realities of warfare (in which you are likely to suffer a grievous injury if not death) solely due to an innate and inherent quality of your being that you had to exp… | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | doesn’t it seem odd how weirdly pollar opposite this Reddit and the feminist one is ?Outrage and appeals to emotion get clicks. It’s what users want to interact with, it’s the same problem on Facebook and Twitter. The most extreme positions get elevated because people passionately agree or disagree with the extremes. Which further encourages people to become more extreme so that they too can get the dopamine hit that comes with emotionally charged ‘debate’. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Highschool girls falsely accused a boy of sexual assault (he was charged) because they "just don’t like to hear him talk. … I don’t like to look at him.” THIS IS FAKE, RIGHT???Not even being gay can shield you from false accusations http://web.archive.org/web/20091025092103/http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/6399226/Waitress-jailed-for-inventing-sexual-assault-after-sacking.html | /r/MensRights | 19/01/23 11:05 PM |
| 15 | This is for all the people who claim that Mens mental health issues is caused by the patriarchyNot even touching on the whole video, right at the very beginning, you notice how his mother only recognizes his depression in the context of what labor he can provide to her? He no longer does all that work for her that he used to do, and that's the only problem she sees. She doesn't care about his mental health at all, she just wants her workhorse back. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Feminists have gotten to Harvard and are ruining society.Intersex infants would be considered a sexual minority. The 'sexual' in gender and sexual minority doesn't refer to only sexuality. This guy is assuming a lot, I imagine they are not discussing gay or trans infants. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 11:56 PM |
| 24 | Genuinely finding any excuse to blame menMy apartment neighbors and I agreed to change any virtual assistant voice to men’s voices because our walls are too thin and we were all hearing the higher pitched female voices through the walls. Changing them to deeper male voices helped; it didn’t totally eliminate the issue but there has been a noticeable improvement. Still hear my neighbor having sex loud and clear though 😑 | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/01/23 07:49 PM |
| 14 | Ukraine: All men are conscripted and the women set up anti male feminist apartment blocks.They talk about a pet rat, but no mention of any of their brothers, husbands, fathers, boyfriends, nephews, uncles…absolutely no acknowledgement of their privileged circumstances. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/23 04:13 AM |
| 74 | “I hate the women against men argument, but”… proceeds to fuel the argument more. Also, ignores the fact a lot of conversations from there show toxicity from both men and women.locker room talk As usual, they’re projecting. They are the ones that gossip to all their girlfriends about the dick size of guys they all know, about how their girlfriend told them her bf got really drunk and sappy and cuddly last weekend, about how her teenage brother had his first breakup and he’s been crying to sad music all weekend, etc etc. Almost every guy has had at least one moment, likely more than one, where a woman has bodyshamed him to her friends or gossiped about a very vulnerable… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Exposing Conservative hypocrisy and double standard: Conservative hate that Feminists stereotype all men as rapists and untrustworthy, yet they stereotype all LGBT people as "groomers", "pedophiles" and "a threat to children and society" and the very existence of LGBT people as "inherently sexual".What LGBT lobby group is trying to show children porn | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/01/23 10:54 PM |
| 32 | I honestly never thought I’d be here, in this subreddit, yet here we are.Another former feminist here! Still consider myself left-of-center but not a feminist. I’m starting to feel that Feminism is less of a political stance and more of a…religious one. Like a moral code. The only male supporters that Feminism allows are men who sit quietly, and nod and clap on queue. Be seen, not heard. That was my experience. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/23 04:57 AM |
| 5 | How’s this an incel?Edit: Folks. The following comment explains how Feminism purposefully gives women more options but purposefully gives men less, yet expects both men and women to see Feminism as a force for good. I think this is a pretty good take honestly. Feminism didn’t exactly demolish the former definition of femininity, they expanded it. They allowed alternative expressions of femininity, (mostly) without demonizing the traditional definition. The messaging was that women can be whatever they want, they ca… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/01/23 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Please help meCan you try donating him to an organization? Like a hospital, homeless shelter, group home, firefighters or cops, city hall, a school toy donation drive, big brothers big sisters, YMCA, or even goodwill or any secondhand store. Especially if he is new, lots of places would be glad to take him and give him to a loving kid. A lot of fire stations and ambulances keep a stash of stuffed animals to give to young children when they arrive to a traumatic scene, it helps them get through the bad moment … | /r/MenSupportMen | 03/01/23 02:35 AM |
| 2 | extortionate wife. considering going expatWhat Other Consequences Are There? If an intending immigrant becomes a lawful permanent resident in the United States based on a Form I-864 that you have signed, then, until your obligations under Form I-864 terminate, the U.S. Government may consider (deem) your income and assets as available to that person, in determining whether he or she is eligible for certain Federal means-tested public benefits and also for state or local means-tested public benefits, if the state or local government's ru… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/23 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Are there any real positive affirmations for men?Positive affirmations are a real therapy technique, and repeating them to yourself in the mirror is an attempt to associate those positive feelings with your own image. It’s an attempt to ‘reprogram’ you to the your self image to positive emotions instead of negative ones. So, if you have a negative association with the phrase ‘strong man’ then you probably shouldn’t use that phrase, and explain to your therapist why that is not a ‘positive’ affirmation for you. Yes, positive affirmations feel w… | /r/MenSupportMen | 02/01/23 02:28 AM |
| 4 | England's female player of the year blames men for her menstrual crampsAround 11-13% of all NIH funding is dedicated to female specific diseases, while around 6% was toward male specific. Feminists say that women’s health is underfunded because they assume that the entire rest of the funding which isn’t gender specific is dedicated to men. Which is ridiculous; just because men are slightly more likely to get heart disease doesn’t mean that funding toward heart disease is dedicated to men. Women receive more dedicated funding than any other demographic group. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/22 01:24 AM |
| 19 | bruhPower plants would likely be unable to function, as well as line workers for phone lines and internet. Shipping lanes would be halted. Postal services would be paralyzed. Snow clearing crews and asphalt road crews and basically any form of construction would be unable to function. I could keep going but I think everyone here understands. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/12/22 08:01 AM |
| 24 | Just wanted to take a moment to say happy holidays!Wait, why did that sub go private?? Happy Christmas and Holidays to all, I’ve enjoyed it by having some very much needed sleep afforded by these days off from work 😴 Edit: oh is it just because they can’t enforce their strict 4th wave Feminist moderation during a holiday? Lamo. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/22 07:57 AM |
| 10 | Keep in mind, he did nothing wrong other than advocate for himself and his art. This is what feminists want. Complete control.They’re mad because he would not stop advocating for the integrity and dedication to the original story. I believe he has stated himself that he spoke to writers and the Director multiple times about how he didn’t like the direction the show was going because it was deviating from the storyline and he was unhappy with how the Witcher was being portrayed as a silent, grunting brute because that’s not the full picture. Those writers and directors happened to be women and now here we are, with them… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/12/22 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Majority of top comments trying to justify or excuse a younger sister’s sexual attraction to her older brother. All trying to make her a victim, when the older brother (OP of the thread) is clearly traumatized by her ‘confession’Can y’all imagine the comments if OP was a woman and the younger sibling was male?? There would be NO upvoted justifications or sympathy for incestuous feelings if OP was a woman talking about her brother. OP is clearly in shock from his sisters confession, yet so many of the top comments are saying “but what happened to HER? What about HER feelings? This isn’t the time for you to pull away from HER! Think about how bad SHE feels because of YOUR reaction!” | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/12/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | The pansy mods at r / offmychest banned me for participating in this “redpill” sub 😂Well my posts are auto-removed from that sub until approved by a mod 🤷♂️ | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/12/22 04:29 PM |
| 8 | The pansy mods at r / offmychest banned me for participating in this “redpill” sub 😂Was banned from that sub years ago for commenting in rMensrights. I‘ve been kind-of shadow banned from rMensLib, my comments are always auto removed and have to be approved by a moderator. This is literally against the Reddit sitewide rules. It is blatent “vote manipulation” (“Forming or joining a group that votes together, either on a specific post, a user's posts, posts from a domain, etc.”) and evidence that those mods activly particiape in: “following [a user] around the site, encouraging ot… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/12/22 05:17 AM |
| 10 | TERFsI…feel like this is a good take, actually? This is a Feminist saying the TERFs are the worst version of Feminism, yet that they’re still Feminists and that these kind of Feminists have always existed. The poster says these Feminists can’t be ignored by mainstream Feminism because to ignore them is to validate them. Put aside whether or not its only TERFs or if it’s all of Feminism that are diminishing men’s issues, it’s besides the point for this comment. The point is that the commenter is a sel… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/22 02:44 AM |
| 8 | what do you my friends have to say abaut Andrew tate and why?I agree with that, but I think the majority of his message is unproductive and bad for the mental health and social lives of his audience. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | what do you my friends have to say abaut Andrew tate and why?He’s a douche who occasionally makes a good point. He mostly stokes the fire of identity politics and profits off of convincing lonely single men to hate/blame women for everything bad in their lives, causing them to stay single and lonely, so that they keep coming back to him. The nuggets of truth sprinkled throughout his messaging are there on purpose, to lend legitimacy to his more extreme views. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Incredible she will be charged with murder and not infanticide. DNA is amazing. Another sad case of the father never knowing of his child’s existence, so I wonder if this can be used to prevent situations of the father only finding out he had a child 5 or 20 years after the fact.It looks like Florida infanticide laws refer specifically to the death of an unborn child as the result of injury to the mother or death of the mother. So infanticide would not be relevant. Though I don’t know if there is an applicable federal infanticide charge. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/12/22 08:25 PM |
| 33 | misandry in LGBT community?Holy hell, thank you for finding and linking this, that was an intense journey. I find myself, as a gay cis man who used to consider myself a Feminist, identifying with a lot of that essay. Especially the bits about not having the “credentials” to speak on gendered experiences according to Feminists, and the awkward chuckling I did when I heard blatant mysandric speech in majority women or majority Feminist spaces. Like the essay states, I felt deeply uncomfortable with it and wanted to speak ag… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/12/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Women are openly allowed to hate men anywhere and anytime they like!!! Why?I feel anger and disgust if a black man talks to me, flirts with me, jokes with me, or even looks at me for too long. I again, am not trying to be mean, this is truly where I am not with them. The trauma inflicted upon me by literally every black man I’ve ever been involved with from romantic relationships, family or even random black men on the street has lead me to feel literal disgust towards them This is literally what KKK members say. That they have never met a ‘civilized’ black man. That t… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Getting triggered by people living their lives.From fourthwavewomen.Some people don't like to be hairy. I am a man and I shave my armpits, thighs, feet (would have goblin feet if I didn't). I trim my arms (totally shaving them looks weird/is noticeable to people). Maybe she prefers to not have body hair. Once again, Feminism denying women's autonomy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/12/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Sheer unwelcomenessWell my issue is that I strongly agree with a lot of other leftist policies outside of gender issues, yet I vehemently disagree with leftist gender politics. So I have to make an exhausting cost/benefit analysis whenever I take a political position. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Sheer unwelcomenessI think the left has no idea how to talk about men’s issues without saying the exact same thing the right is saying, which obviously wouldn’t be politically productive for them. So they avoid the topic. Any time men’s issues come up they deflect and change the topic because they have no idea how to address it without repeating what the right has been saying for ~25 years. They are nearly 3 decades behind on the topic and they won’t admit fault. So all they can do is push it under the rug, keep i… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Sheer unwelcomenessAre you talking about the DV call-center thing? I’m a leftist and I generally agree. The American left and complete abandoned lower class, middle class, and blue collar men in America. They used to be the party of labor, but when they manufacturing jobs left they didn’t give a fuck. That was the start of their casual disregard for working class men. They assumed they’d always get the working class male vote, that they were entitled to it. So they didn’t fight for them. Same thing with Hispanic v… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Found on TwitterYeah, I’d reply in agreement that reverse racism doesn’t exist because it’s just racism | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/12/22 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Possible reasoning behind today's war on masculinityPeople who comment and/or upvote this kind of trash need to leave this sub and go back to 4chan. Anyone who subscribes here and upvoted this comment: you are not advocating for men’s issues. You’re only promoting the bashing of women. Disparaging the rights of people, any people, of their fundamental rights is unconscionable and horrifying. It’s really awful to see these comments upvoted here. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Trans men noticing they no longer have female privilegeA comment from that thread: Kind of the same reason people aren’t as angry about women being lesbian than guys being gay Me: Oh right, because men who deviate from the norm of masculinity are no longer seen as productive or valuable to society, right? The male who deviates from traditional masculinity is assumed to now have less ability to produce, thus less economic value, thus less social value! Makes sense! Being associated with femininity when you’re a guy = bad. Oh. How foolish of me. Of co… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | A principal at a local school committed suicide yesterday for a possible false domestic violence claim. Last fb post hereYes you’re right, I neglected the impact of the “court of public opinion”, especially when one works in a very visible and public local government role like he did. I’m sure public opinion impacted him more than court proceedings. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | A principal at a local school committed suicide yesterday for a possible false domestic violence claim. Last fb post hereWow. Really makes you wonder how bad the court case was getting that he thought death was the only way out. It had only been 2 weeks since the once sent too. I wonder if a TRO was issued against him, barring him from his home and children, plus the admin leave from his job which was a recent promotion. Would explain why he was at Disney seemingly by himself (no mention of family at Disney with him in the article). What an awful thing to have to live through, and at the instigation of your own sp… | /r/MensRights | 05/12/22 02:01 AM |
| 0 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismOnce again, read the comment that I posted with the post. It explains my entire reason for the post, and is currently at the top of the thread. I will no longer reply to any comment from you that does not address the topic of the post. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismIt is an entire Feminist community that bans a specific topic that mens rights advocates see as very important. Any other mods on that sub are supporting that decision. If the sub truly did not support the outright ban of the topic, that user would’ve been removed as a mod. Anyway, this isn’t about a specific user or a specific mod or semantics. I will not respond to any further replies that do not address the topic of the post. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 05:17 AM |
| -1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismWhat is the obsession with the difference between hypocrisy and double standard? Hypocrisy means to hold a belief but not adhere to it, and double standards mean to hold one standard for one population in a different standard for another population. IMO there a sizable overlap between those two things. Stop arguing semantics and argue the actual point of my post. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of Feminism“They” are Feminists. There is a reason that the entire topic of paper abortion is banned in the Feminist subreddit r/MensLib | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The shameless hypocrisy of Feminism. Men have no such equivalent right and Feminists actively oppose such a right.So you’re saying that paper abortion exists in Australia and European countries? Because that’s what “giving up parental rights” means. It means no longer being seen as a parent in the eyes of the law. In the US, you can’t do that unless you put your child up for adoption or the other parent agrees to absolve you of the legal obligations to the child. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/12/22 04:56 AM |
| -1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismIt’s hypocrisy in the sense that feminists often claim to be champions of the choice to be a parent. Their support vanishes when men enter the conversation. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismI said: If her statement was centered on men and fatherhood it would be vilified. Read my comment. The hypocrisy is that feminists fight for autonomy for women but when men ask for the same, they deride us. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 04:50 AM |
| -1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismBecause if a man were to say the exact same statement, feminists would fight it. Once a woman is pregnant he has no autonomy. Read my comment that I posted at the same time as the post. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismDon’t be stupid. That wasn’t part of my post at all. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The blatant, unabashed hypocrisy of FeminismThis isn’t an anti abortion post…it’s showing how hypocritical feminists are. They fight for this right for women but when men say they should have a similar option, we’re told we’re misogynists. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | The shameless hypocrisy of Feminism. Men have no such equivalent right and Feminists actively oppose such a right.Men can’t just “give up” parental rights, it’s not an option unless the mother agrees to it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/11/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Grieving Father: The taboo topicYou’re not alone. I’ve never been in your position so all I can do is point you to things that I hope might help. It’s Time to Talk Aboit Men and Miscarrage WARNING: song that will probably make you feel not good - Idles - June Men’s mental health after miscarriage from perspective of the woman I’d also encourage you to ask r/Daddit if they have any suggestions of places men experiencing miscarriage might find support. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | The shameless hypocrisy of Feminism. Men have no such equivalent right and Feminists actively oppose such a right.A man has NO RIGHT to decide if he is a father; parenthood is entirely dependent on the decision of the woman. This is used to turn men into literal slaves for the women who un-consensually bore those children. That man must now perform labor for 18-21+ years (depending on country) for HER benefit. In some countries (including US), if the man is unable to earn the government mandated $$ from his labor to subsidize his perpetrator, he can become a convicted criminal and be sent to prison! It’s fu… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/11/22 05:35 AM |
| 7 | MediaThe Perks of Being a Wallflower. It’s a coming of age movie about a high school boy who is very depressed, trying to stop being a “wallflower” in life and make friends. It includes the theme you mention though it takes a long time to become obvious. The movie is a bit heavy handed with certain themes at times, but I think it’s worth it for the overall message and story. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/22 04:17 AM |
| 15 | The ersased victims (credits: "TheTinMen" on Instagram)Research within the last 2 decades have shown that more male prisoners have been raped by female staff members than prisoners raped by other male prisoners. https://www.uclalawreview.org/pdf/59-6-6.pdf But since 2007, survey and correctional data have indicated that the main perpetrators of prison sexual abuse seem to be women. In men’s facilities, inmates report much more sexual victimization by female staff than by male inmates; in women’s facilities, inmates report much higher rates of sexual… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Swift fans on twitter calling men misogynysts for preferring Rihanna's music, im sorry but isnt it natural for men to rather listen to a Sexy Charismatic women rather than a Whiny annoying one?The only Swift album I like is 1989. When that came out I thought multiple tracks were very good, and I was excited to see a bit of a shift in her music. I thought she was turning a corner into something new and was looking forward to future albums. But...everything since then has been back to her usual stuff. I had a 2.5 hour drive last week and decided to listen to an 'Intro to Taylor Swift' playlist I heard about. I really tried, but damn I really didn't like any of it, ended up skipping most… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/11/22 03:16 PM |
| 29 | What do you love about being a man?Well 70% of the planet is ocean so there's a pretty good chance of death in the teleporting option lol. I agree, we are very good at having fun. I was going to say I enjoy the camaraderie men have with eachother, but I think I'm saying essentially the same thing you are. Get a group of guys together with no pretext or planning, and we'll still find something to entertain ourselves within 15 minutes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/22 03:05 PM |
| 15 | Julia Fox is pretty sure all p*d*ph*les are maleI have no idea who this woman is, and after googling her I have only heard of 1 of the 10 movies she's been in. Just another irrelevant idiot shouting into the void. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:33 AM |
| 5 | "Fan service is sexism."Warning: Way too long and unsolicited opinion/rant incoming: Some of these quotes are certainly more rational than others. A producer-director said to me, 'Well, you know how it is in these big tentpole movies with the big boys. This is the budget for the girl, and we can't move beyond that,' If the target demo for a generic action flick is 18-39 y/o males…I don’t know what to tell you lady. Everyone in the movie is a prop, it’s probably not a movie with complex characters. They’re casting to th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/11/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | OMG. obvious misandry posing as research to validate demeaning attitudes to men and boys.The journal this study was published in has a very poor SJR rank. It’s 1.149, which basically means that for every 1 article they publish, they receive 1.149 citations, but that also includes self-citations, where they cite studies published in their own journal! In 2021 self-cites were 11% of their total citations. So their score is honestly even worse than it appears. The top scores in the category of Psychology are ~8.0, for reference. Basically this is a poorly performing journal which indic… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 03:41 AM |
| 27 | Fairborn man awarded $45M for wrongful conviction after 20 years in prisonOfficer was not charged with a crime Title of this article is in reference to another case, Gillespie is mentioned further down and it states the officer who hid exculpatory evidence was never investigated by a neutral party (meaning he was probably only investigated by his fellow officers). https://www.huffpost.com/entry/for-the-first-time-ever-a_b_4221000 I don’t believe the accusers were charged, in the article Gillespie sounds sympathetic to them, but I can’t find anything to clarify if thei… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/22 01:59 AM |
| 46 | Fairborn man awarded $45M for wrongful conviction after 20 years in prisonWhen he was 24 years old, he was accused of raping three women, a crime he says he never had anything to do with. Today, he was declared a wrongfully imprisoned person by the state of Ohio. The evidence at trial showed that the detective created an unfair lineup of potential suspects, claimed a witness had made an identification when they had not, destroyed evidence showing Gillispie was out of town camping in Kentucky when two of the crimes occurred and altered witness’s audio recordings. Gilli… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/22 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Again!Since the UN doesn’t even recognize international men’s day, they could’ve just said nothing. But no, they have to say something because they want people to know without question that they really don’t give a fuck | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/11/22 08:42 PM |
| 10 | Survivors UK: Why aren't we a ‘men’s rights’ campaign?There is so much doublespeak throughout that drivel I damn near went cross-eyed. The whole section trying to justify how men have structural power and women don't is pure feminist dogma. Propaganda. I was going to reply pointing out every instance of sexist doctrine they're using to deny that women have any structural power over men (especially in sex abuse, IMO that's where they have some of the most structural power [in the West]) but I'd literally be replying to every other sentence on that p… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Rent is sky high. Women most affected.This is what Feminists do, they make un-gendered issues gendered so that Feminist non-profits and organizations can get government money which they use to benefit women exclusively. They've done it with poverty, wage stagnation, homeless shelters/assistance, transitional housing, small business tax credits, returning to the workforce post COVID, intimate partner violence, rape, sexual assault, and much more. All these issues impact men and women equally or close to equality. They are not issue… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Eton College boys booed visiting state schoolgirlsClaims made anonymously on social media, by a person who said they were a parent of one of the girls who attended the speech last week It wasn't even a student who complained! Just a random internet person who claims to be a parent. Did nobody even try to verify their identity?! This is the BBC, I expect better journalism than this...there is nothing on Eton's Twitter, Facebook, their news webpage, or their blog about an apology. It almost sounds like they just apologized to the BBC when they in… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | A man was killed by the brother of a false accuser.. A man is dead and another's life is over while I can't find a single thing about her so much as being charged with anything..https://www.hjnews.com/news/crime_courts/teen-to-serve-30-days-for-homeless-mans-death/article_3a0eb242-2965-529b-8689-06f8709366b4.html The brother got 30 days for "homicide by assault", and the sister who made the false accusation: ...faced consequences for the events leading up to Fife’s death. However due to her age and the lower level of offense, that information is not public information So she got even less than 30 days. Insanity. How did she not at lease get "Abetting" or "Accessory befo… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Many of the biggest feminist organizations in USA and other countries have written an open letter to support Amber heard despite the availability of incriminating evidence( videos) where Heard admitted to hitting Depp.Well, at least they gave us a nice list of organizations to make sure we never donate to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/22 07:41 PM |
| 14 | Feminist asking Feminists what Men’s Advocates want from Feminism. Feminists respond to the very unbiased question w/ inclusive & unbiased answers… /s [Archive link]I wasn't aware of that site, I'll post an alternate link from there in the comments. Thanks! https://ghostarchive.org/archive/KaeUf | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | why do some women enjoy invading male spaces?I agree. But you really can't stop them unless it is a business or institutionally mandated space. They only time you see men revolting against a women-only space is when a previously gender neutral space has been reduced or eliminated for the sole benefit of women. For example, when public swimming pool hours become restricted to women only hours. Or gyms. Or university tutoring (happened at my university). Or homeless shelters. Or public government assistance in basically every single aspect. … | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 06:41 AM |
| 18 | Feminist asking Feminists what Men’s Advocates want from Feminism. Feminists respond to the very unbiased question w/ inclusive & unbiased answers… /s [Archive link]Can't forget the mandatory mention of Feminist controlled opposition subreddit, MensL*b Potentially faster archive link: https://ghostarchive.org/archive/KaeUf | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/11/22 06:25 AM |
| 9 | International Men's Day Article; Mental Health, Societal Expectations, etc.Due to The patriarchal norms and expectations, there are few emotional outlets for men I’m thankful the author put this feminist dog whistle at the beginning of the article so that i could prepare for the dogshit that is to follow. Sulay: Mental health more or less impacts genders equally Right, that’s why suicide rates between men and women are equal! What? They’re not? 🤔 it is also interesting to see that females tend to internalize emotions which generally leads to signs of depression, loneli… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Help in NYCPost this in r/divorce_men too and maybe r/supportfortheaccused, hopefully between the 3 subreddits someone knows of something. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | OnlyFans murderer sobs in court, prosecutors release gruesome evidence photosHe [Assistant State Attorney Khalil Quinan] conceded that it was a "mutually abusive relationship" but described her as the aggressor when she stabbed Obumseli "I [Det. Yermaine Briceno] learned that Christian was always the one trying to calm the situation down," he said. "Based off of the messages and everything, he was always the one that ended up getting hurt and the defendant is just the one that always is unable to control herself." Text messages and recordings extracted from Obumseli's ph… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | UK Renourish ad banned for sexualizing menAt first I thought it was an overreaction, I've seen ads for lotion or cologne or soap like that with similarly naked men and women...then I kept reading and realized it was an ad for SOUP! That is hilariously absurd. I don't think it's tasteless or obscene, but really, a fully naked man for a damn SOUP AD?! How ridiculous. Reminds me of those old Arby's and GoDaddy commercials. Just absurd because naked people have nothing to do with the products | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Divorce courts are biased against men?What are the actual statistics on custody? Answering that question is more complicated than one might think. American judges, according to Robert Seidenberg, grant paternal custody in approximately 10% of the cases (Seidenberg 11) and only in 3% to 5% of them when custody is contested (Seidenberg 15). Canadian judges, according to Glenn Cheriton, are not much different. They grant paternal custody in 11% of the cases, joint custody in 12%, and maternal custody in 76% (other arrangements being ma… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 10:39 PM |
| 30 | USA: We Need to Face Facts About Boys' Academic StrugglesAnother article reporting that boys are fundamentally broken and need to conform to our education system, rather than admit the education system is completely broken for boys and needs to be rebuilt. Boys speak later and have smaller vocabulary than girls in early childhood because parents don’t talk to or read with their boys as much as they do with their girls. It’s not an inherent biological difference that boys are not as language-adept as girls, it’s a failure of a sexist society. Fuck reds… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Cases in the UK of statutory rape victims being forced to pay child support.Here's one from a 2001 Guardian article Man who fathered child at 15 refuses to pay maintenance It's a little different in the UK because the age to consent to sex is 15, but I'm not sure if there are any 'Romeo and Juliet" laws. For example, in some US states a 16 year old can consent to sex with a 17 year old, but not a 16 year old with a 25 year old. Not sure if there are similar laws in the UK. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/22 03:48 PM |
| 7 | UK: Mayor’s ‘allyship training’ to empower young Londoners to take a stand and help prevent violence against women and girlsThere was already a well upvoted post about this yesterday. https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ypvniv/pupils_in_london_to_be_trained_to_recognise/ Stop link spamming. You've made 5 link posts to this sub in the last 7 minutes. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 11:30 PM |
| -1 | Attractive female students no longer earned higher grades when classes moved online during COVID-19There is already an article about this at the top of this subreddit's front page right now. Repetitious posting happens so often here, it's so annoying. Contribute to the conversation that has already been started. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 11:11 PM |
| 88 | Top AskFeminists post: "zero pity for men for not having sex"I don't think pity is even the correct response, just some level of empathy to be afforded. The number of young men not having sex is a societal problem, it's not healthy for the individual or the group. Standing around laughing and saying "I don't give a damn" is going to make things worse, it's going to further political and gender polarization, it's going to exacerbate men's susceptibly to hateful movements. They think they're holding some kind of position of power by saying they don't care, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts? Should Men be more feminine if it feels right to them?I don’t understand how feminists are simultaneously gender abolitionists yet define and propagate what is or is not feminine or masculine. If you’re truly in favor of letting men be feminine without ridicule, then you should be saying that you’re in favor of men doing whatever the fuck they want to do. Not that you want men to perform femininity. If they would stop defining what femininity is, then maybe we could take a step towards letting everyone be whoever the fuck it is they want to be! | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | It’s absurd to me not even gay men are safe from false allegationsI’m a gay man too and I honestly think I get more hate from women, not men. I think men are more likely to scoff or say something under their breath and move on. Whereas women have no issue being loud and verbal about their displeasure with my existence. But there is a minority of men who react in a physically aggressive way, and those are the instances that I remember the most because they’re obviously more dangerous. I’ve been shouted at and cursed and damned to hell and called a f*g by, hones… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Domestic Abuse Experiment - Man Fights Back In Public!Men don’t have ingroup bias because monkey brain. It is ingrained in us to side with a woman more often than not in these situations because women are the sexual selectors. Intervening on behalf of a man doesn’t gain you anything at best, and at worst it could lower your status amongst women because women monkey brain needs to protect that sexual selector status to remain a valuable asset to the group. I’m not saying that we are actually thinking any of this. It’s mostly subliminal on both sides… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 01:41 AM |
| 123 | "UN women" figures 1 in 10 killed journalists is a woman, guess what they demand?62 journalists killed in 2020, 4 were women 55 journalists killed in 2021, 6 were women Source The increase in % of dead journalists who were women isn't even primarily due to more women dying. It's primarily due to less journalists dying overall! They're being deliberately misleading, you honestly can't make this shit up. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/22 11:14 PM |
| 77 | Hating on men“Political Lesbianism” had a loud voice in 2nd wave feminism. They had a phrase “Feminism is the theory; lesbianism is the practice”. So their feeling of moral superiority as a result of being lesbian isn’t new, it’s actually pretty in-line with original feminist ideas. At least they’re consistent? 😂 | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 36 | International Men's Day, otherwise known in the UN and WHO as World Toilet DayIn case anyone wants proof that the UN literally refers to November 19th, which is International Men's Day, as "World Toilet Day", here you go. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/22 05:29 AM |
| 21 | The ONLY situation in which family courts should apply a starting presumption in favor of the mother (first-hand perspective of an LWMA who is also a new dad)I still don’t think it necessary to prioritize a breastfeeding mother for a child under 2 because breastfeeding is a choice. Formula exists, and by 6 months of age the child should be starting to have solid foods alongside breast milk or formula. Personally I would say that the bonding between child and father within those first two years is more important than a mothers choice to breastfeed for those years. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Arizona Governor Candidate Kari Lake: 'There's No Such Thing as Toxic Masculinity' [Author of Article is furious over a public figure not shaming a group of people for their identity]Even a broken clock is right twice a day. Please do not take this as reason to vote for her, the woman is insane. She has treated the idea of AZ secedeing as serious, said abortion is “the ultimate sin”, is an election denier, called for imprisoning journalists (which she used to be!), criticized drag queens performing in front of children then it was revealed she had paid drag queens to come to her home and perform for her child multiple times. She was previously a registered democrat and suppo… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.What about children in the Macys Day parade or Super Bowl halftime or Nickelodeon kids choice awards, or taking them to Hooters or football games with cheerleaders, or taking them on field trips to churches, or childrens books about “mommy and daddy” before puberty, or weird teachers getting a rush out of announcing their engagement to their class, or the right pushing kids to get married before they can even drink or get a piercing. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Yes he’s entitled to his opinion, but he is not shielded from criticism for holding that opinion, and my opinion is that statement is homophobic and it’s concerning to see it approved of here. If someone said they didn’t like having Mexican main characters in children’s tv shows because they think it promotes an “agenda”, that’s still a racist idea and a racist statement. Just because they don’t do anything about it doesn’t make it less racist. Same applies for homophobia with my example comment… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Do you think it’s possible to dislike the normalization of homosexuality in media aimed at children without disliking or hating homosexuals? No, I don’t. That is inherently homophobic. There are gay children who want gay role models and want to see themselves;vets in the world. sexuality and gender identity are different things. Entirely different topics. Whether sexuality is a cognizant choice is not up for debate, in this sub Reddit we respect the science and The science has repeatedly shown t… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Being gay doesn’t mean it’s inherently sexual. Children have crushes. Bridge to Terabithia? Moonrise Kingdom? Napoleon dynamite? Perks of being a wallflower? The fault in our stars? Even the Hunger Games and Twilight, they’re teens. Why are these heterosexual underage love movies OK, but doing the same with gay characters, or even gay side characters, is “sexualized”? | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Lmao ok so you care when people break NAP when addressing you, but it’s ok when you do it 😂 | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Copied from my other reply: Allowing gay people to be in TV shows isn’t an “agenda”. Gay people exist, gay kids exist (i was one of them!), and can be in media just to be there…the mere presence of gay people in media, be it HBO or PBS, isn’t pushing some kind of ambiguous authoritarian “agenda”. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Allowing gay people to be in TV shows isn’t an “agenda”. Gay people exist and can be in media just to be there…the mere presence of gay people in media, be it HBO or PBS, isn’t pushing some kind of ambiguous authoritarian “agenda”. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.Ok but saying that being gay is a “lifestyle choice” is an aggressive statement. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | As a gay guy, whenever a MRA says we're disgusting/repulsive, it puts me off and makes me want to leave the general men's rights movement.I’m a gay guy and I’ve seen homophobic comments here too. They are rare, probably 1-2 times a month, and they’re not posts, they’re comments on posts. What irks me is that, when I’ve seen them they aren’t downvoted, sometimes they’re even well upvoted. Example Yes it’s only one example. My concern is that it got a good amount of upvotes for this sub and wasn’t rebutted. Again, comments like this are very occasional, yet when they happen they don’t seem to be contested. Which is concerning becaus… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Stressed-out dads are to blame for their child's 'terrible twos'The study itself is less critical of fathers than the article is. Here's a quote (emphasis mine): One of the most compelling of our results was the robust effect of paternal stress over and above paternal depression and anxiety. This emphasises and further elaborates the idea that for a father it is not necessarily mood symptoms that should be targeted for screening in the perinatal period. Furthermore, we also found that paternal stress had an independent effect on child’s emotional problems af… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/22 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Did anyone have a good college experience?Yes, 53% of white women voted Trump in this CNN exit poll of 24.5k people | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/10/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?What do you mean by "slapping"? Like, guys straight up slapping her pussy with his hand? Or a guy lightly slapping her pussy with his dick? I'm a gay guy so I am not familiar, but the later one happens a lot in gay porn and IRL, and it doesn't hurt because you can't really get a dick moving through the air fast enough to make it hurt lol. But straight up slapping a guy's asshole?? That does not happen outside of kinky stuff, so if straight dudes are out there literally slapping pussy...why???! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What counts as sexual harassment these days….IMO that is not harassment lol but all the white knights were out in full force 😂If she's literally the only woman being told not to wear shorts, she should probably ask herself if she's doing something differently to be singled out. If she's truly not doing anything wrong, then it could be harassment or discrimination by the manager, but it's certainly not sexual harassment by the men. She didn't say she was even aware of any looks her way, and she had only been there for 10 minutes. Sounds like a bitter older woman jealous of a younger fit woman. The manager is at fault, n… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Women, can you share experiences of male partners opening up to you and you not losing attraction to them over it?This probably needs to be specific to women who are still romantically and sexually actively with the man who opened up to them…if you were never sexually/romantically involved, or if you broke up, it won’t be relevant to the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how?You can get a prenup, but it's not a guarantee. Judges can throw out prenups at their own discretion. If they think the prenup is too 'unfair' or if they think the spouse signed it under 'duress' (and saying you wont marry without a prenup can be considered duress!!) they can completely invalidate the prenup. This website says prenups get invalidated a little less than 50% of the time, though they don't cite any sources. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 12:15 AM |
| 19 | Ideas for safe places for men to volunteer?Public food pantries/kitchens, though in my experience you will likely be one of the only men there, thus asked to do all the heavy lifting. My city does “clean up” days for public parks and other spaces, usually a good mix of gender and ages there, and the people are social. Though there are clearly a few people who go just for the socializing and do little cleaning…but everyone who does actually put in effort doesn’t like them haha. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/22 04:01 AM |
| 17 | I just came from r/MensRightsThere also isn't much actual discussion or substance there. Sure, every so often there is a good post with good conversation and insight, but they are not common. Most of the time it is a rant/rage/venting sub. Just angry people being angry, which does have its place, but I just wish it wasn't there. Take it to r/EveryDayMisandry or something. Also, while most of reddit has a problem with commenters not reading the linked article, r/MensRights seems to be THE WORST with this. You can that tell w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | California Bans Selling Women’s Products For More Money Than Men’sSeems like a pretty toothless law. They can get around it if: costs of items can be different if the price is based on how much time it takes to make the items, how difficult it is to make them, the “cost incurred in manufacturing,” “[t]he labor used,” [t]he materials used,” as well as “[a]ny other gender-neutral reason for charging a different price for those goods.” So as long as a company has higher prices on a women's product for a legitimate business reason, and not just arbitrarily pricing… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | If I donate to a sperm bank is there a chance I could get sued for child support?In the US if you do it through a real sperm bank, no. There have been a couple close calls for men who did it unofficially and without a real contract. For example there was a guy who basically nutted in a cup and give it to his lesbian friends, and one of them later went after him for child support. It was initially ruled that he was financially responsible, then it was overturned in appeals. There have been other cases similar to that. So as long as you’re doing it through an official sperm ba… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/22 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Free Speech on College CampusesI'm not saying we can conclude anything from numbers alone, only that when the rate of an incident is so incongruous with the population, it's safe to infer that there's other variables influencing the incidence rate. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 6 | Free Speech on College CampusesI think the raw numbers are notable regardless of the context of the speech. When men are only 42% of enrolled college students but make up 71% of free speech disciplinary action, there's more at play than the student's speech alone. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Taking a closer look at Department of Homeland Security report on r/menrights- because the thread and user have just been deleted. It's bad, and you need to see it.A student’s thesis has to be approved by their academic advisors or by an institutional review board, depending on the school. It doesn’t mean the advisers views align with the thesis, it just means they approved it as an acceptable thesis topic. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Taking a closer look at Department of Homeland Security report on r/menrights- because the thread and user have just been deleted. It's bad, and you need to see it.I’m pretty sure the school archives every student thesis on that website, so it isn’t very notable for this one to be there. https://libguides.nps.edu/copyright/students I said investigation because that was the language used in the last post, and that was what was on my mind. My point is that don’t think this document carries the weight you’re giving it. I think it’s near worthless, except maybe to use the citation list to see what the real researchers are saying about us (but we already know w… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Taking a closer look at Department of Homeland Security report on r/menrights- because the thread and user have just been deleted. It's bad, and you need to see it.I feel the need to point out, again, that this is a master's thesis from one student. It is not an 'investigation' on the part of any government body, it is not stating the position of the school or of any other federal entity. It is the sole work of one student. They reference other individual investigations into crimes committed by people who claim to be 'members' of the 'manosphere' in some capacity, but those where not investigations into the 'manosphere' specifically, they were criminal mur… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | UK: Female prison librarian, 45, 'sexually assaulted male inmates six times over an eight-month period'Incorrect. https://bjs.ojp.gov/library/publications/victim-perpetrator-and-incident-characteristics-sexual-victimization-youth In most-serious incidents of staff sexual misconduct, an estimated 91% of incidents involved only female staff, while 6% involved only male staff. https://bjs.ojp.gov/content/pub/pdf/svpjri0809.pdf Most victims of staff sexual misconduct were males; most perpetrators were females. Among male victims of staff sexual misconduct, 69% of those in prison and 64% of those in j… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Fun fact: "The manosphere“ is currently being investigated by the FBI, including r/Mensrights!This is an individual student’s masters thesis, not an investigation by the FBI or any other government entity. It looks like she is making an argument that the “manosphere” should be observed in a more official capacity by a homeland security entity because previous mass shooters have claimed to ascribe to related ideologies. It doesn’t seem like, according to this document, there are any official investigations into the “manosphere” as a whole right now; there have only been investigations of … | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone realize that historically so many more men died of cancer?Huh, I’ve always heard that prostate cancer is very survivable and that’s why it doesn’t get the attention other cancers do, but according to that site both breast and prostate cancer have similar survivability. Breast cancer kills less than 10k more people yearly. And cancer.org says 1 in 41 men dies of prostate cancer, while 1 in 39 women die of breast cancer. So they’re pretty damn comparable… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 15 | Question what do y’all think of against men’s rights sub Reddit ?It’s a hate subreddit. They say they’re not against mens rights as a concept, that they are only against this subreddit specifically. Yet they often post content from outside of this subreddit. So they are not just against this subreddit, they are against the whole idea of mens rights. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 03:15 PM |
| 17 | Is The Left Finally Waking Up On Men's Issues?Yeah, I don't feel great about the left 'waking up' to men's issues because it's completely reactionary. I don't think it's genuine, they just finally realized they are hemorrhaging male voters at an unsustainable rate due to this topic. I feel like the recent support is mostly performative. There's no actual action, they still speak through a lens of feminism, prominent leftists still denigrate men, but now they tack on 'but we care about you!' when they finish blaming us for every societal iss… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/10/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | USA: Woman who poisoned her ex partner to death handed 115 years in prison. Falsely accused partner of being violent.And they murdered him over a child custody dispute. Wow. They were mad because he told their family court judge that the mother was violating his parenting time. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | “Misandry irritates men misogyny kills women”Because it’s mostly other men who will shame men for opening up emotionally. Most women seem to encourage that. Completely not my experience at all. In my experience, it takes a lot of courage for a man to open up to another man because of this exact assumption, but if he does open up, men are typically receptive to that vulnerability, especially in a group setting. Women might encourage it, but that encouragement is a farce. When men do actually open up to women, men’s vulnerability is often wa… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | “Misandry irritates men misogyny kills women”Misandry makes men kill themselves. Misandry makes civilian men not be counted in “collateral damage“ civilian death reports because men are assumed to be combatants. Misandry makes men take all the extremely physically laborious jobs and bear the burden of all on the job deaths. Misandry makes men have to sign up for mandatory military service or sign up for the draft. I could keep going, but I know I’m preaching to the choir here. We all know that misandry literally murders men on a immeasurab… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/22 05:44 AM |
| 13 | Can bullying shape violent fantasies?Also confirming from experience. I was bullied pretty heavily in school from around ages 8 to 14. It was honestly beyond bullying, it was straight up physical and emotional abuse. I had a lot of revenge fantasies, I would mostly play them out while trying to fall asleep at night or in the shower. But, they were always only fantasies. It's not like I ever made real plans or ever had any real intent to fulfil them. Playing out these scenarios in my head gave me some kind of catharsis. The bulling … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 30 | What's happening to boys in school?Overall, I like the post and I enjoy your work, so thank you for all the effort you put in. I have a specific bone to pick with redshirting. I just posted the below Redshirting rant on Menslib yesterday, and I also ranted about it earlier in the week. I highly dislike the idea and I find the recent uptick in media pieces about it to be distasteful, or even disparaging towards boy's mental capabilities. Anyway, here is a copy of my previous rant on this stuff: Here we go with the redshirting agai… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Making Fun of Stay At Home Dads is Misogynistic Towards WomenI agree, I was ready for a whole article saying "Insults toward stay at home dads are more hurtful toward women actually, so quit your whining". But it wasn't that. It only does that in the article's lead, the rest of it was beneficial. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:06 PM |
| 8 | Redistribute unpaid work | UN WomenNice, the reference link to whatever study they used to claim their labor discrepancy is dead, so I can't see the data. Anyway, Pew Research disagrees with their infographic on multiple fronts. They show that when paid and unpaid work are combined, there is a less then 2 hr/week difference in time spent on labor between men and women, with men actually spending slightly more time. Additionally, that UN graphic, converted to weekly hours instead of daily, has women in developed countries at 53.8 … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/10/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for all you men.Yes, I did in college. I went to some Feminist events/meetings on campus and had a friend who became very...passionate. By my 3rd year of undergrad I had become pretty disillusioned with the movement. I didn't like how Feminist talking points had become prominently featured in my courses (Psychology), how my friend basically only wanted to talk about Feminism and because mean about it, how the events and meetings I'd go to became aggressive and a competition who could be more oppressed. Not to m… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 04:30 PM |
| 12 | Mandated diversity statements in academia & male advocacyResearch has repeatedly shown that workplace diversity trainings literally do not work, and sometimes even make discrimination worse. But employers keep implementing them, not to make their staff more accepting, but to keep up appearances and to shield themselves from litigation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/10/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Trying to help a friend (canada)If he is on the child’s birth certificate or they are married, and there is no court order regarding custody of the child at this time, he can take the child with him. Without an existing court order or custody agreement, both parents have the equal rights to make decisions for their child. It would be wise for him to file a request for a temporary custody agreement before she tries to file one. Take the child to a safe location, then file ASAP. He should get a lawyer for this. Keep a record of … | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | looking for opinions on this messA fool and his money are soon parted. Any man that actually pays these Venmo “requests” is a fool. Someone can request money through Venmo all they want, there is no obligation for the recipient to fulfill their request. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Bias in Political workI experienced the same thing when I worked for the Census a few years ago. There were 10 of us for the whole city, only 2 of us men. The other man was in is 50s or 60s, so they assigned me the most dangerous neighborhood. 21 y/o, 130lb 5’11” me. There were women who were much larger and more intimidating who could have had that area, but nope, it didn’t even cross their minds. To make it worse, I was driving a 92 Ford bronco with shit AC, while all of the women had new modern cars. They all sat … | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women have bizarre and delusional ideas about how men are treated in society. Which one is you favorite?That men walk around at midnight with no fear of harm, that it doesn’t even cross our minds. Uh, no. I always avoid walking around alone at night and if I have to do it, my head is on a swivel constantly checking my surroundings (depending on where I am). I don’t just brazenly swagger through dark alleyways on a moonless night basking in my ”privilege”. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the biggest issue men are facing right now?A boy being a shade too boyish risks finding himself under the scrutiny of parents, teachers, guidance counselors, child therapists -- all of them on watch for the early glimmerings of a medical syndrome, a bona fide behavioral disorder. Does the boy disregard authority, make snide comments in class, push other kids around and play hooky? Maybe he has a conduct disorder. Is he fidgety, impulsive, disruptive, easily bored?Perhaps he is suffering from attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, or A… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | AOC: Abortion is an economic issue because giving birth 'conscripts' parents to work ‘against their will’. Men forced to pay child support wonder where that concern is for their plight.Consent to sex is not consent to have a child. End of discussion. no two people have ever gotten naked, inserted a penis, then came inside accidentally. Are you so unintelligent that you’re being completely serious in that statement? Or are you just rage baiting? | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the biggest issue men are facing right now?Education. Boys and men are disadvantaged and, at times, directly discriminated against at every single level of education. Teachers give higher marks to girls (Of course they end the article basically saying ‘but you should be concerned for girls because this is bad for them, actually) Boys suffer more at bad schools. They agent worse grades and are suspended more often. Early behavioral problems more negatively impact high school and college completion rates for boys than girls. “It suggests t… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | The difference between women's issues and men's issuesThe idea that mens issues are personal, individual, “your own fault”, is ironically a very conservative position for Feminism, an ideologically leftist institution, to take. Conservative ideologies constantly make societal issues personal issues, “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” is a ideologically conservative approach and that’s what feminists tell men to do. They have leftist solutions to every single societal problem that women face, but the second they hear about men’s societal problems… | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | AOC: Abortion is an economic issue because giving birth 'conscripts' parents to work ‘against their will’. Men forced to pay child support wonder where that concern is for their plight.Well, to her credit, he statement was gender-neutral Forcing poor and working-class people to give birth against their will, against their consent, against their ability to provide for themselves or a child, is a profound economic issue and it’s certainly a way to keep a workforce basically conscripted to large-scale employers Now, do I think she was being gender neutral because she was trying to recognize that an unwanted pregnancy impacts both men and women? No, I doubt that’s the reason. She … | /r/MensRights | 01/10/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | At what age do male persons cease to be considered just as innocent and worthy of protection as their female counterparts?At least by the time they are teenagers. Teenage boys are routinely barred from staying at family homeless shelters because they assume he’s going he’s immodestly going to beat and rape a girl if they let him in. So mom (not dad), little siblings, and older sister can go into the family shelter but 13 year old Billy either has to go to an adult mens shelter which is probably already full (and he would be on his own there if dad isn’t around), or he gets to sleep on the street while the rest of h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/22 02:15 AM |
| 38 | The Boy Crisis: Experimental Evidence on the Acceptance of Males Falling BehindSounds like a symptom of the gender empathy gap. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I’m an alcoholic, it’s getting really bad, and I don’t know how to stopI dont like religion so I haven’t tried AA, my sister is in AA and says it helps her but she is also religious and has told me about her experience. Idk if it depends on each group, but from what she says it sounds like religion or “god” is very central to it. That’s just not for me, if god is central to the program id probably end up drinking more | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 3 | I’m an alcoholic, it’s getting really bad, and I don’t know how to stopYes there are other factors. I’ve had 4 therapists in the last 5ish years to try to move past childhood issues but my therapists keep getting new jobs and leaving me. The most recent I just wasn’t connecting with an I ghosted him. Finding good therapists is really hard, a lot harder than just buying a bottle. | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/09/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | The role of women in promoting voluntary medical male circumcision uptake: Literature reviewThis article seems to want women to promote male circumcision…? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/09/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Should boys start school a year later than girls?https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30726177/ From the abstract The present longitudinal study aimed to unravel sex effects in cortical brain structure, development, and variance, in relation to the development of educationally relevant cognitive domains and executive functions (EFs). From the article The goal of this study was to examine the relation between sex effects in structural brain development and cognitive (EF) development and unravel the ongoing debate about the possible differences betwe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Should boys start school a year later than girls?No, because it is a way deeper issue than physical brain development, if that even is part of the issue at all. Parents spend more time engaging in "teaching activities" with their girl children than their boy children. This includes reading, storytelling, and teaching letters and numbers. Even with boy-girl twins, the girl twin gets more of these activities. And this research was with children ages 0-4, so before they go to school. I think this feeds into the "boys are easier to raise" mantra t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 08:40 PM |
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