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Judgement

3happy5u

January 20, 2016

127 upvotes

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Title	Judgement
Author	3happy5u
Upvotes	127
Comments	23
Date	January 20, 2016 6:57 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/41vrml/judgement/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/judgement.958100 https://theredarchive.com/post/958100

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[–]Clockw0rk 17 points18 points19 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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Nobody owes you their attention

Lol you sound just like Anita Sarkeesian.

We get it: male virgins make you feel icky. Same as sluts make men feel icky (at least when it comes to long term relationships). That's what this comic is pointing out: the usual feminist double standard. Indeed I was just reading Against Men's Rights and the top-voted comment was something like, "for a bunch of guys who've never had sex they sure are concerned about cuckolding."

This is an example of (unsupported) female shaming language. Male virgins are supposed to be "lesser" beings (as you imply) when in fact female sexual selection is extremely shallow, and sometimes selects for negative traits like psychopathy. Any two-bit crack dealer can get laid on a regular basis, whereas some awesome men (and to a lesser extent, women) have a tough go of it. We should show compassion to these men in the same way that feminists show compassion to fat women. However, because you are gynocentric you assume that a man's value should be judged by women.

You also need to check your ableism. Men with eg autism, or some physical disability, may have a very difficult time getting laid; indeed some countries are starting to provide prostitution services to said disabled men, which is a great idea.

And in case you were wondering, not that it matters, but no I'm not a virgin and yes I am currently in a relationship.

[–]chavelah 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ableism? Jesus Christ.

Virgins of either sex don't make me feel icky. Promiscuous people of either sex don't make me feel icky. But neither do I find it unacceptable when other people are put off by a potential partner who has an unusual sexual history. If your sexual behavior is way outside the cultural norm, it's a fairly decent indication that you may be fucked up. Both the feminist and the terper in this comic are being completely unreasonable.

Look at your own examples! Autistic people and fat people don't have trouble getting laid because their desired partners are "shallow." They have trouble getting laid because there is actually something wrong with them. They are objectively undesirable as partners. In the case of autism or a physical disability it's rotten luck, and in the case of obesity it's a self-inflicted and curable condition... but there is no problem with society that needs to be addressed here. The problems exist at the level of the individual.

I reiterate - if you (general you) are a 30-year-old involuntary virgin in the Western world, there is something wrong with you. Stop whining, stop looking for somebody else to blame, and work on your damn self. (If you can't, because you are disabled, then I agree that society should help you out with therapeutic sex workers, etc.)

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