She Claimed He Sexually Assaulted Her Months After He Declined To Date Her. He Was Expelled Despite Her Own Witnesses Backing His Story.

McFeely_Smackup · 2021-12-30T17:56:13+00:00

On December 24, 2021, the school and John filed a notice of voluntary dismissal, indicating a settlement had been reached, though the details have not been disclosed.

this is only going to stop when the settlement checks start adding up to more than they can afford to pay. So long as a few bucks makes problems go away, expect it to continue.

63daddy · 2021-12-30T17:37:03+00:00

I used to work I higher education and sadly, this is very typical of most title ix cases I’ve heard of.

When most people hear the term rape, or sexual assault, they think of forced sex, but from what I’ve seen in most title ix cases, the complainant consented at the time and did not feel any assault was committed at the time. The event only comes to be viewed as an assault retrospectively.

I’ve seen cases where the woman never filed a complaint, but a feminist administrator filed a complaint on behalf of that person or the student body. Often face saving and embarrassment as in this story comes into play. The woman later regrets the encounter because it was over heard, because her friends don’t approve of the guy, etc. and of course mental health issues can play a part as well.

Often the woman says she only had sex because she was drunk, didn’t feel she could say no, etc. Often at this point she’s not trying to get the guy in trouble, she’s just trying to save face, but of course once she says this her woke friends tell her she was raped. Feminist title ix officers get involved and pressure the woman to file title ix charges. Often accelerating this is mandatory reporting. Confidentiality doesn’t exist. If a student reported something to me which might possibly have been a sexual assault I’m regally bound to report it even if the student isn’t claiming she was assaulted or didn’t want me to report it.

Of course once this happens the deck is stacked against the accused male. Due process rights such as a right to a lawyer, a right of discovery and guilt beyond a reasonable doubt don’t exist when it comes to most college tribunals.

As this case shows, it doesn’t even matter that the accuser lied about the dates in question. It doesn’t matter that her friends come forward and say she wasn’t assaulted. All that matters is an accusation has been made and someone needs to be held accountable.

hellraisinhardass · 2021-12-31T05:24:13+00:00

I've seen the lead up to this exact thing (though thankfully the outcome was different).:

1- Female friend (Jane), age 19, gets drunk at sorority mixer and fucks some random frat boy (Chad)

2- Jane excitedly tells us about the encounter the next day

3- Chad doesn't call Jane

4-Jane gets less excited about having fucked Chad as the week goes by

5- 2 weeks has passed and Jane now feels 'used' by Chad. Starts calling it assault because her sorority sisters are slut shaming her and other friends are trying to make it 'not her fault'. "You were drunk and he assaulted you" (no bitch, you were both drunk, and you fucked, YOU got yourself drunk")

6- I straight up tell Jane that I will testify against her if she elevates it (I don't even know Chad's real name).

7- Jane and Jane's roommate both get mad at me that I'm 'not being supportive'. Fuck you.

Eastonberg9 · 2021-12-31T09:50:33+00:00

Girl: Lies, once

Society: "I believe you."

Girl: Lies, twice

Society: "I believe you."

Girl: Lies, three times

Society: "I believe you."

Girl: Lies, four times

Society: "I believe you."

Guy: Tells truth

Society: "You're lying."

Guy: Presents exculpatory evidence

Society: "You're lying."

Girl: Recants story

Society: "He's lying."

👏👏👏👏

SYNONYM_CRUNCH · 2021-12-30T18:14:11+00:00

The two talked after the encounter, during which time John asked Jane about her semicolon tattoo. Jane said it related to her mental health struggles and thoughts of suicide

Oof, if only he'd known this beforehand.

Pz5 · 2021-12-30T20:08:12+00:00

He needs to sue. Sex discrimination and violation of Title IX

dukunt · 2021-12-30T23:03:06+00:00

Damn patriarchy

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