My husband is twice diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum. While doctor of oncology ManoloAndMartinis44 may disagree with this, doctor of philosophy Mr ManoloAndMartinis44 told me to ask my boss for a raise last night first thing in the morning. I dressed my best, ran this by a girlfriend at a coffee shop near work who was supportive, which gave me an additional confidence boost.

I walked into my boss' office, sat down, crossed my legs and told him that I'd like an additional £30,000 on my future paycheques. As I was asking, I could feel my knees shake. Boss took a look at me, then up, back at me, then agreed to do this.

I don't know how husband knew this would be the outcome -- I certainly didn't.