I've been married 8 years, as of December, hubby and my birthdays are 10 days apart. We're both 44. My father passed in 2013 and my parents were divorced when I was 10. I was raised by my mother and uncle.

In our marriage, I defer to him, as an RPW should, in all areas. For example, my husband prefers me in skirts/dresses/heels around the home, but trousers/flats outside, so I oblige him. We're in central London (Zone 1) and the weather isn't the most agreeable to showing skin anyway.

My question is, should i also be submissive towards males in general, husband's family only, the males in his family only, or only him? Thank you, in advance!