The moderation team wanted to make sure everyone is on the same page about private messages.

Gentlemen: Any messages that make a female user uncomfortable will be considered an offense over which you can be banned. For this reason, it is best to consider the content of any private message carefully prior to sending one. Please do not hit on any woman. If you make someone feel bothered or harassed, you may be banned and then reported to the reddit administration. Remember: this community is not a dating pool for RP men.

Ladies: if you receive explicit or unwanted private messages from a man, please reach out to the moderators and let them know.

Everyone should report spam messages as well.