Interesting thread regarding guys who keep texting girls who are not interested in them

nicethingyoucanthave · 2013-04-23T18:05:41+00:00

Once you get a girl's number, you have two or at most three texts to get her to meet up with you. When you meet up, you have one chance to build a lot of attraction. You probably wont get another meeting if you blow it.

If you go three texts and haven't seen her again, no matter the reason (doesn't matter if her entire family just died and that's why she couldn't meet up) then you need to drop it.

These rules aren't for the benefit of women - they're for your own benefit. It's to stop you from being an emotional whore (one who gives something of value to a person who does not value it). It's to stop you from ruining your own life and passing up on actual opportunities for happiness because you're hoping for something that isn't going to happen.

See, if you haven't had sex with a girl (and sometimes even if you have), she is not thinking about you when you aren't around. That's a little Red Pill fact for you. A hot girl is getting messages from at least 20 guys throughout the day. She's posting shit on facebook and getting attention there too.

So if you're pining over her and longing for her and thinking about her all the time, then you're losing the game because you're wasting the only life you'll ever have.

You need to be out there getting rejected by a lot of women. Because in between those rejections, you'll find one or two that are really into you. Those are the ones that are worth more of your time. It's a great feeling to have more than one such girl after you - it's a great feeling to be able to choose, even if it's only a choice between three or four women. That should be your goal.

These guys who never have any choice, who go their whole lives never talking to anyone, and then they somehow snag a phone number and they just flip the fuck out, inventing this whole fantasy future life where she's their One True Love, then they get told "I was never interested in you" - those guys are fucking pathetic.

Hypnot0ad · 2013-04-23T17:07:22+00:00

initially did a face palm when reading those texts, but then realized that's the exact same thing I was doing a couple years back, so I can't judge. Stunning how some new ideas, after being vetted for their legitimacy, can make the past seem so distant and "not me" cause the new me has a new sense of self-worth and improvement in mind.

[deleted] · 2013-04-23T17:28:12+00:00

Definitely not following the 2/3 rule.

DavidTIntellectual · 2013-04-23T15:25:55+00:00

TL;DR If you text me more than twice in a row and I don't reply - you are a creepy stalker and should get the hint I'm not interested. Oh, but sometimes I will be busy and not text back, in which case you shouldn't think I'm not interested. Also: It is a man's job to text first. If a man isn't willing to chase me, I'm not interested. Ah, fuck it... text me as many times as you like as long as I'm attracted to you. If I'm not attracted to you, you're a creep.

Speed9402 · 2013-04-23T18:23:13+00:00

I was bad, but never that bad. I would always be the one texting the girl, always initiating the conversation, which would have been great if we actually had a spark. She rarely did anything at all, and eventually she started getting more direct and cutting with me. She actually did shoot me a text to meet her when she came back to my town, but I didn't bother responding. It's hard to take a loss, but you save yourself a lot of dignity and time by moving on.

2StandardDeviations · 2013-04-23T18:48:26+00:00

I've said this before because I don't think everyone who reads this subreddit has actually had to deal with an e-stalker.

Terrible game (and manners) on his part, but calling him a stalker is a little dramatic.

Keep in mind that some of the lulls include her drinking his booze and smoking his drugs.

Title	Interesting thread regarding guys who keep texting girls who are not interested in them
Author	DavidTIntellectual
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	April 23, 2013 3:23 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1cxuku/interesting_thread_regarding_guys_who_keep/
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