I don't know if you've ever had the experience of showing up to meet a girl to find that she's brought an orbiter or two with her. It's happened to me once before, it didn't really slow me down, typically if a guy has any game at all, he doesn't end up in that position, but I still can't help feeling a bit sorry for them when it happens. Last night was a special case. The orbiter she brought with her was a woman.

I wasn't there to pick up this girl, she was an old friend from high school I hadn't seen in almost 13 years, I just went out to catch up and hang out, plus I'm in a bit of a holding pattern right now, I've got some issues to work out, so I'm taking a break from women while I get my shit together. Still, just by virtue of being familiar with the concept of game, I was still scoring a bit of attraction from her. I'm not the same guy I was in high school, I'm older, wiser, I dress well, I take care of myself, I'm well groomed, and I smell nice. Plus I was in the military for much of that time, so I carry myself with a great deal of confidence and purpose, which women respond well to. When I socialize with females, I'm bound to get a little attention from them, especially considering I'm coming from a place where I'm not seeking it right now, which is a powerful state of mind to be in.

The girl she brought with her was a quiet, well mannered, slightly heavyset girl who dressed boyishly with short cropped hair and a backwards hat. Pretty much a textbook illustration of a lesbian archetype. No gaydar was necessary, and it soon also became clear to me that she was interested in being more than friends with the girl I came to meet.

I pretty much just drank and socialized with them for a few hours while the lesbian orbiter became progressively more cold and distant with me. I eventually excused myself and left. If I had been interested in hooking up with this girl, however, I think I might have had trouble. When it's a male orbiter, it's relatively easy to handle, all you have to do is stay in frame and they freeze themselves out as they watch you get more and more attention from the target. When it's a lesbian friend, it doesn't quite work that way. Women are far better at cock blocking than socially inept men. Normally responding to women who cockblock is as easy as handling a shit test or two and getting them to feel attraction toward you as well, but for obvious reasons this is a futile task with lesbians.

In retrospect one possible solution would be to game them like you game mixed sets. Win the men over as friends, get their respect, and ignore the target until you've won their approval. How would you handle it, assuming you were actually interested in gaming the target?

tl;dr: How to handle Lesbian orbiters.