Summary: Attraction is experienced at first as a binary sensation, which then evolves into the scale equivalent of an electronic thermostat, where (wo)men can go from extreme hot, to freezing cold, and everything in between.
Body: Sex is a choice, but attraction is not a choice.
When a women first gazes upon a man, her heart, mind, and vagina have immediately decided in perfect unison whether the man before her is aesthetic enough to fuck her glorious pussy out of carnal, natural, aruarian desire. This is the binary. When she fee-fee's that you are indeed fuckable, she then fee-fee's you into a certain "temperature," or "attractive percentage." Fear not, for as Red Pill men, we are Pussy Technicians, and know exactly how to adjust a thermostat for proper moisture.
Super hot setting, 100°C - I just wanna tear off his clothes, touch his muscles, and feel his cock shoved down my throat.
Everything in between - Yeah, I'm open to getting fucked by this guy, lets see what he's got.
Just above freezing, 1°C - He's just so... eugh... MAYBE I MIGHT fuck him.
Below freezing - Yeah, no. This pussy's dry 4 u bucko!
I made a visual graph so we can better understand what I'm explaining. 2
So for example, we're gonna look at an average guy. He aint too bad looking, but nothing special. Not too autistic, but he aint charming neither.
First of all, he has to get through a woman's binary attraction screening - For the average guy, 10-20%1 of women will never fuck him as he is now, out of desire. For the rest of the girls, he passed their binary screening, which leads us to the dimmer switch, or the scale.
Now, say for some reason, some girls like the way Joe Average's skull is shaped or some arbitrary dumbfuck reason. Whatever it is, Joe's gonna have 10-20%1 of women throwing their asses onto his face.
For the remaining percentage of women, their feelings will be something in the range of "he's kinda cute," to wow I like this guy alot! , the I'm open to your game section.
If you fall within that category, congrats, you passed the most important test- the binary test.
Passing that means you are now in control of how much this girl wants to fuck you. Great game = you moving yourself further into the "I'll fuck you here and now" section.
I also included the unattractive, and attractive for comparison.
Whenever you feel that you dont wanna lift, or dont wanna game, just take a look at the graph and ask yourself who's experience of the scale you'd rather have.
Conclusions:
Attraction is dualistic - First is whether she will fuck you or not, second is how much she wants to.
If a women is not carnally attracted to you, she will never fuck you out of pure desire. Some girls will just never fuck you bro.
If a woman decides you're fuckable, it's up to you to control her feelings in regards to how much she wants to fuck you.
Hot guys still get rejected. Ugly guys still get laid.
You can start yourself in the "I'll fuck you here and now" side of the scale, but autist yourself all the way to "I'll never fuck you."
This is what it looks like in a woman's mind:
Ew, No, I wouldn't fuck him - Failed binary screening.
Yeah, I'd fuck him... - Passed binary screening, onto the scale.
But I wouldn't be too excited about it ---all the way to--- So bring that cock over here right now!
Further Reading:
Foot Notes:
1 this percentage does NOT reflect the amount of women you encounter in your day to day life, but rather, the entirety of the female population.
2 the graph is representative of everything extrinsic of the words that come out your mouth in conversation (frame.) So, where you start on the graph reflects looks, social status, reputation, pre-selection. Where you end up in the graph is based on your frame.
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