In theory, being approved by other women would generate huge amounts of attraction in women. But is it really true? Talking to other women while being in a relationship is really worth and necessary? NO! and not only that, It's ruining your relationships.

I saw many posts here that when you have a girlfriend, you need to KEEP talking to other women in order to create jealosy and keeping her attracted. Does it work? Yeah, to some extend. But they are not telling you the side effects of this shitty attitude.

First we have to understand why the guys are doing this. Why are they talking to other women while being in a serios relationship.
They are doing that because:

  1. they want her girl to be highly attracted to them.
  2. They want the option to monkey branch (change the woman he is with, at any time)
  3. They are afraid of losing their girls
  4. They want to create abundance mentality
  5. They want to cheat

Well, is it really worth sacrificing your own girlfriend's mind just to make her attracted to you? It would create stress in the relationship. You want a best friend or some long term fuck buddy?
Well, I want my girls to rise. To become relaxed. A relationship that she will be proud she had, that enhanced her life. Not only that. I want peace. The jealosy thing will generate so much fights and stress that your life will be like living in hell.

Some guys can't be even a week without fucking some girl. It's an addiction, thinking: "if she leaves me, at least I will have some other girl to fuck".
Well, if she leaves you, you can build everything from scratch. Don't worry about it. Today it's very very easy to fuck girls if you focus on your success. If you have money, shape, good pictures, leader attitude, and so on.

If the guy has a really Strong frame, he will not need a backup plan. There is no backup plan!! If your relationship ends, you don't need to imediately fuck other girls. You can go NOFAP and improve in everything. It's amazing being alone and focusing on yourself. The best time to develop yourself is after a breakup. We have to much energy to rebuild ourselves, and we would waste this AWESOME moment to go after another random girl.

What about if she cheats on you? Well, you simply leave her. No need for backup plan. You are pretty amazing being alone.
If you are glad being alone, you already have abundance mentality. The abundance mentality is equals to not being needy at all!! And this is one of the best frames you can get!