The 10 Point Scale Doesn’t Matter.
Men have a binary scale, 1 & 0: Would bang, would not bang. ‘Nuff said.
Women have a three-point scale: 9, 5 &1.
9 is a guy she is actively attracted to and wants to fuck or is actively fucking already.
5 is a guy who she doesn’t want to fuck but there isn’t anything wrong with him, i.e. “average” guy.
1 is they guy from whom she recoils in horror.
Most of us are 5s. The same guy can be all three to 3 different women. It’s all subjective. A young friend of mine whose “game” at music festivals was basically “walk around with his shirt off” is a genuine Chad, but some smallish-percentage of women think he’s average. Ofc, women will often “reject” (if given the chance) a man who is clearly way above her in SMV because she realizes she’s just going to be a “pump-n-dump”. Pretty People Problems, one imagines.
Some months ago, I had a guy DM me links to his photos to tell him what he rated – like I would know. Girls would sometimes send me the same back before we were quarantined. They also, for some reason, assumed I was Canadian although I don’t know why. Anyway, since I’m a guy I handed my phone to whatever girl I was with and she said, “He’s a 5. But he could be a 6 if he fixed his hair.” That last part was her way of being kind, but “He’s a 5” meant “There’s nothing wrong with him, but I don’t want to bang him.”
Here's the trick, though: If you are a “9” to a girl, she assumes you are a “9” to pretty much every other girl. The girl known as “OLTR2” in my tales was hot like “the inside of the sun” hot but who had fallen for the Devastating Vaz Charm once admonished me to “be careful” which, loosely translated from Womanese, meant, “Please don’t cheat on me.” If one of us had the immediate capability to cheat it was clearly the 5’11” Dream Girl with the Athletic/Model Body1 who gets offered dick 25 times a day, and an ass that looks like it was manufactured in an underground laboratory in Switzerland by my favorite Jewish doctor, Dr. Finetush. Her: “I don’t want other men. I want you. And you got me, so there are a million other pretty girls out there you could get.”2
One imagines that this is a form of “gender blindness” – they think that (in another form of gender blindness) we give an actual shit about their education/work as if that somehow matters as opposed to “Level of Hotness” – just like how we imagine that, if we were hot chicks, we would spend all of our time at home, lezzing out with other hot girls.3
Takeaways
-Don’t get all twisted up with numbers and start playing “A Beautiful Mind – The Home Game.” The numbers are made up and the points count for nothing.
-Girls can suffer from “gender blindness” in a way that makes them susceptible to Dread. You got her, and you can therefore get a lot of hot women.
Further Reading:
Uncle Vasya’s Guide On Dating Models
-You Landed a 10. How to keep her in line.
Become the Prize
-Master your life. Become the Prize.
Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady
-Because Really, Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady.
Abundance Mentality - Why It's Good For You.
-If You Really Want To Know, Go And Build It.
1 You know, the kind of body that models would have if they were chosen by straight men and not gay guys and skinny old ladies trying to hang on. The kind of model with abs, but also some Booty on Duty and some Titty on the Committee. Kind of “Girl Next Door, but 20% Hotter”.
2 A million is a big number, but I decided to say nothing to dissuade her from this line of thinking. Better to keep her compliant and eager to please.
3 NGL, that’s EXACTLY what I would do, at least until Shark Week arrived. I’d spend that week “getting shit for free”, I think. Something like that. Anyway, I make a much better dude, so there’s that. Everyone’s better off.
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What do you think is the ratio of 1 to 5 to 9 guys for most girls? There was a some survey from some dating website going around that suggested girls rate like 80% guys as below average.
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