I have identified some counter-intuitive behavior in my wife and it was suggested I post here for help.

I swear she trys to get me to wrestle or fight her before sex. She will initiate sex then move away from my advances and encourage me to chase her. Sometimes I will initiate and she accepts but then just talks horrible shit. The problem is, she REFUSES to acknowledge it and even hints that discussing it is a turnoff.

Here is the biggest issue. She is really physically aggressive and has kickboxed, etc. She also says super mean shit. I used to get butt hurt and walk away. Then I found MRP and started stfu.

Since I implemented stfu I have noticed that on a few occasions now she has said things like "we should do it tonite, but I may be bitchy and you just have to push past". In the past I saw that as a duty sex and was butthurt. However, I am beginning to think that she wants me to be more physically aggressive with her. She seems to want to say things like "hurry up, ive gotta do the laundry" while were fucking. This is a huge turnoff, but I toyed with telling her to shut up and she responded well.

Bottom Line I am down for some rough play, but her starting point seems to be demanding lots of aggression and lots of mean talk. I mentally am having a hard time going there without discussing.

TL:DR I think my wife wants me to be more aggressive physically and sexually with her. Way more aggressive than basic stuff and she is turned off by talking. I am too big a pussy and lose my boner when she complains while we are fucking, I think she wants me to yell at her and pound her harder, but its tough. I need to learn to be able to be ultra dominant in bed.