What are shit tests?

desire_engineer · 2013-08-03T02:14:29+00:00

They are basically qualifiers to determine her level of control over you, which should quickly show her if you are some bitchnigga spewing out false-confidence that can be broken easily... She tests in many ways to see if you could easily be swindled out of value or confidence, it's a win-win filtering approach.

I think you will get a good idea from other people what some direct examples are... but most are 'loaded questions' or loaded premises for arguments, they are mostly illogical if you believe yourself to be inherently more valuable than the interviewers loaded ideals, and easy to detect if you understand what most people value/find interesting and are confident about who you are.

enticingasthatmaybe · 2013-08-02T21:12:11+00:00

Shit tests are not the female version of a neg. Shit tests are fitness tests given to see how much of her shit you'll take. The more you let her dominate you, the more her attraction drops.

Keep in mind that they only shit test if they're initially attracted. They aren't a bad thing, so to speak. It's their method of flirting.

raikku_ · 2013-08-02T23:08:28+00:00

Here's a very good explanation: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/shit-test/

luxury_banana · 2013-08-03T14:58:24+00:00

It's essentially testing your boundaries to see what kinds of various shit she can get away with. It's a stupid dominance game type thing that most of us could do without but are stuck with.

Opioidus · 2013-08-03T12:06:11+00:00

Shit test is when a woman asks something insane/irrational/harmful from you to see 'if you love her enough to do it'. Indirectly it's about seeing how far can she push you, and will you ever say no and stand up for yourself or not.

Unlike most of the PUA community, I believe there's absolutely no winning once the shit-testing begins. If you comply, you are conquered and therefore will have no attraction whatsoever, if you don't, there's a horde of beta-males out there willing to do that exact thing that has been demanded from you, and she will have this nag in the back of her mind all the time telling her there's someone ''better'' out there.

So your main goal should be to avoid allowing the female to get to this point of shit-testing. In my experience it starts when you start a relationship and cut off your former relations with the 'pool'(pool of women: your player friends, the bars you frequented and so on), or better put, when the threat of you 'getting away' is gone from the relationship.

All you can do to defend yourself is not allowing the shit-testing the start, but once it's there, you can't do anything to survive, and should get out of that relationship as fast as you can.

RedSunBlue · 2013-08-03T00:18:08+00:00

You are talking to a girl. You think it's going okay. Out of the blue, she asks:

"Are you gay?"

What is your response?

[deleted] · 2013-08-03T09:23:49+00:00

Shit tests are fitness tests to determine the value of a potential mate. Its like a litmus test based in verbal and physical cues.

RedHonest · 2013-08-03T23:50:22+00:00

Shit tests are indicators of interest. This is the most important thing you need to know. Internalizing this, in itself, will help your game in spades.

Basically, shit tests are opportunities to increase your attraction.

Title	What are shit tests?
Author	IrvingFischer
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	August 2, 2013 5:00 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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