When you notice right from the beginning that between all the faces there is a certain woman that stands out to you. When you are developing feelings way too fast for a girl you have not even fucked, when you notice that somehow it matters to you. How do you deal with it?

Assuming you have abundance, hobbies, strength, and have your shit together while still working very hard on your inner life.

Is this inevitable? I can see it as a cocktail of hormones firing certain neutrons in my brain, but i can not evade my gut instinct to see it as an opportunity to learn more about myself and as a test from the universe.

If i am not mistaken the TRP way would be to do not waste time and next. But would not that be a lost opportunity at an exercise in self control? How do you deal with it? Do you just let it go and always stick to girls you do not really care about? This is a very huge inner frame test and i try my hardest not to fail it, but it just never feels right.

Somehow whenever i had a meaningful relationship it was accompanied by these "feelings" and my ability to control them or my failure at it, determined the outcome. I somehow feel very exhausted right now and would like to just kill them. How do i go about it?