I agree with a lot of red pill's philosophy about dating and other stuff. Though a lot of red pill's teachings seems to teach to use anger as a motivator to improve yourself. Be upfront, be blunt, forget those who make you feel bad about yourself etc.

But I'm currently going through some difficulties in my life. My father recently passed away, he was a god to me, and I have to take care of my mother, this kinda includes some financial difficulties, and a whole lot of responsibility was thrown at me. I'm stuck with all of this sadness and difficulties, and I can't just ditch reality. I can't just throw away family. I do want a relationship, but I also don't feel like I am ready for one yet.

So I wonder where does the red pill fit in all of this? How can I be happy and content with my choices?

Happiness and TRP doesn't seem to actually go hand in hand..