Just a simple question.

Want to make an ex LTR into a plate.

She texts me asking how I am doing and stuff. I keep it short and sweet, but I dont know how to make it so we start having casual sex.

So she might invite me out for a few drinks in her town (we live like 25 mins apart) but I dont want to go all the way there to meet her at a bar and end up just going home at the end of it like we were old friends meeting up just to chat up.

Same about inviting her to my place for a movie. Do I just make a move and if she says no tell her to leave?

Asking because I went radio silent and she finally broke it.

Her : Quite a festival spree coming up for you I see (stalking my facebook)

Me : hopefully

Her : sounds good, long time no speak, you ok?

Me : yeah same old, about to go gym so talk later

Her : If you dont want to talk to me anymore just say and ill leave you alone lovely, its cool

Me : dont be weird, just busy, talk later ok.

Her : I'm not being weird. ok, chat later.

I dont want any friend bullshit, I just want raw sex, and I want to make it clear that I want that. But I know if I just say "look I only want sex from you" her hamster will go crazy and its a sure no.

What do I say when we talk later