Got standed by a tinder date bitch

RedVillain · 2016-09-11T03:40:54+00:00

I'll just address your first paragraph:

She brought up dancing and you shot her down. She wanted to go out and dance and have fun but you wanted to sit down and drink coffee. Some girls want to date and some girls want to go out and have fun. You didn't gauge her very well and she never confirmed a meet-up with you. All of this frustration is on you. She doesn't owe you anything.

loyalcitizen · 2016-09-11T03:47:06+00:00

Weak attempt at trolling.

PiperTheGreat · 2016-09-11T04:02:38+00:00

Fucking pathetic. Hope this is a joke. Stop your self loathing and keep fucking going if your For real.

exquecher · 2016-09-11T04:48:00+00:00

you haven't used tinder much have you?

dogmeater · 2016-09-11T03:33:10+00:00

You need outcome independence. Don't let the flake ruin your day - have other things to do in your life - it's your time, not hers. Don't come off as needy over text (I wouldn't have gone to the coffee shop unless she gave some indication that she'd be there after you told her the time either, Tinder has a barrier to meeting up for a lot of girls), and keep developing yourself and your social skills.

Tinder is full of flakes, and it's not necessarily because of you as well. Don't get caught up on this one girl, and don't focus on you being Indian and bald - sure it might handicap you in a specific dating pool, but rather focus on what you can improve. Accept reality and make the best of it.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-09-11T03:55:07+00:00

Are you drunk right now? You sound incredibly angry.

You're basing way too much of your self-worth on the attention of women. Women can smell that crap. Work on not giving a fuck about women. If a woman doesn't regard you and doesn't want to follow your leadership, she has 0% value to you. You should disregard and do something else with your valuable time, rather than getting hung up on a woman who has no value.

have courage to fucking ignore me all the time.

Nobody owes you attention.

WHY THE FUCK THIS IS SO DIFFICULT?

You were expecting, like a trophy, or something? Life deals shitty hands of cards to some people.

This is super distracting from what I want to achieve.

If the jealousy is really distracting you, consider hiring a professional/escort. Have fun, relax, and get off. It may not be ideal, but remember that guys in LTR's waste a lot of their time and energy on the relationship.

pocketriki · 2016-09-11T04:28:03+00:00

You just listed a whole bunch of reasons to qualify yourself to us about why women don't like you. You're obviously emotionally insecure, maybe try not calling every girl who turns you down a cunt. You're 31 and have never had a girlfriend, have you tried not being such an uptight dick about life? She wanted to go dancing and have fun, and you made a big deal of it and she had 0 problems finding another guy that would take her out that night. Get over it and stop making yourself miserable

robochadtc · 2016-09-11T05:06:55+00:00

You sound like a "nice guy" here's a few tips

Never tell women you want a family or commitment even if you do, they will think you are a slut and low value, if a commitment is what you want push and pull,letting her do most of the work getting you there, if a comfort test about this comes up be vague leaning toward the possibility, but you must never show yourself to be a commitment slut even if you are.

Don't give compliments about looks, compliment behavior you admire and rarely, when she compliments you simply say thank you.

Never get emotional when they challenge shit test you, be the fucking oak, all she wants is to feel safe,and when you get butt hurt it scares her which dries her up, and makes her want to seek stronger males, a shit test is natures way of seeing if you are good enough to pass on your genes, being pissed and emotional about it will only ruin your day and cause you to fail the test.

Respect your mood man, make everything about you, make boundaries, women will challenge them,but stand your ground, not compromising yourself for women is what makes them desire you , have a back bone.

play_time_is_over · 2016-09-11T05:22:13+00:00

Go find a wife back in indian. You simply arent going to be slaying pussy if you're bald and indian.

corsega · 2016-09-11T06:08:37+00:00

She never confirmed though.

There's your problem. You have much to learn, sensei.

This has nothing to do with being Indian. Normal guys get stood up and flaked on all the time. It's all in the game.

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2016-09-11T15:27:46+00:00

If you feel like that about her why would she want to meet you?

And yes, chicks usually can tell.

tridentmark · 2016-09-12T01:41:45+00:00

You sound like an angry idiot.

Nizz0matic · 2016-09-12T06:22:38+00:00

Epic fucking troll post. you had me up until the part where you are going to "save the world and cure diseases". that was a bit over the top. great work though.

Title	Got standed by a tinder date bitch
Author	Heu95
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	September 11, 2016 3:23 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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