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Enjoy your hobbies. Stop caring what others think, improve yourself and reap the benefits. I like video games, computers and reading fantasy novels, that has nothing to do with my career, my success with women, or how I interact with others.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:02 AM
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I'm assuming you live within driving distance of a bigger city? I meet girls on tinder and drive a city over which is just under an hour away. I go there for the trendy bars. If the night goes well I either get her back to her place or back to my car.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:40 PM
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My understanding is that the hierarchy is: High value male > high value female > low value female > low value male You have to understand that if you feel like you don't have options, you are low value. Women can get sex and women can get commitment from low value males, you will have an easier time getting sex from high value women than high value women will have getting commitment from high value men. Don't confuse the multiple structures at play. To answer ops question, don't worry about the …
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:36 PM
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No problem. I don't live in Toronto anymore but I used to go there with friends. You live in a good city for casual dating lots of good coffee shops and bars.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 01:36 AM
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Go to snakes and lattes if you like board games. Coffee and something to do while you chat. Toronto is full of places.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 10:23 PM
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The issue isn't coupons, the issue is that you go to a place that uses coupons. My go to place is an upscale hipster pizza joint/bar. We sit at the bar, I order a beer, she orders her own drink, if we like each other we split one of their $9 pizzas and get another drink. This place has a cool atmosphere, good drinks, and awesome pizza and works great for a first date. Girls always love it, the pizza is light and no one is bothered by waiters, specials, reading a menu, or paying a bill. You're no…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 10:24 PM
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Why don't you drink? I don't like getting drunk but 1-2 beers and I feel amazing, socially way more adept. I understand if for family or former abuse with alcohol or religious or cultural reasons though.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 11:10 PM
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I am going to try this. I'll have her come to my place tonight, she's already agreed for some more casual drinking and fun. And then I'll move it to once a week. I don't care if she sees other guys, I already heavily implied I am seeing other girls. I'll just work on enjoying the company and not getting attached.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:08 PM
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Thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:13 PM
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My schedule during the week is gym, work, school. I don't even attempt to have a social life during the week, I sleep at 9 and wake up at 4:45. I'm usually in bed at 8 or so though and read or browse reddit. Weekends I'm usually exhausted and sleep in or take naps if I have night plans.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:22 AM
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Cats are fine man. Dogs are awesome because you can take them out for a walk and approach a woman while doing so. They can be a camping or hiking buddy if you are in to that. But they require a lot more time, effort, and dedication. Cats hardly care if you are home all day if you feed them and give them a window to look out of. Personally, I have known so many girls that love cats. Cats aren't alpha or beta, get a couple, treat them well, make them your relaxing buddies, and I guarantee any girl…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:46 PM
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You probably don't need any supplements if you're that young. Good healthy diet, and exercise will probably net you so much more results than someone in their 20's and 30's. Everything I have read suggests there shouldn't be any negatives other than dehydration or kidney issues maybe related to dehydration. I think just try to up your water intake slightly.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 11:22 AM
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Oh. Yes whey most definitely contains dairy. I don't have any recommendations for you then.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:27 AM
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Not the first guy, but for supplements just get a good quality whey protein and a creatine powder. And then stick to eating good healthy foods. Oats, bananas, tuna, chicken, steak, brown rice, wheat pasta, veggies. I made a bad mistake of bulking indiscriminately when I started and gained a lot of fat.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:17 AM
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This post is lame. Being a bully doesn't make you respectable. You obviously need to get over your childhood issues. Learn to live your life happily bro.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 01:24 AM
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Grocery stores. Even hot chicks have to buy food.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:06 AM
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No one can answer that but you. You probably will face a lot of rejection if you are overweight AND you don't have your shit together, but focus on what you can do today. Make the gym important starting now and make school important starting now. Work on what you want in life and try to have fun while doing it. Don't actively seek out girls, but maybe starting now don't avoid any possible good situations you see. Take a chance to flirt or date if you get it.
/r/askTRP22/10/16 04:06 AM
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No fat chicks.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 09:47 PM
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I played a taurine warrior back in WoW.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 02:43 AM
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In the US melatonin is available over the counter, usually in the same sections as vitamins. I take one a night and it does help me, I also wear earplugs as I am a light sleeper. My big recommendations: Limit caffeine intake. 1 cup of coffee in the morning is all you need. Avoid energy drinks, soda and anything past noon. Work out. I mean you should already be lifting, exhaust yourself during the day so your body craves sleep at night. Be consistent. Even on work days off, go to bed and wake up …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:59 AM
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Starbucks/coffee shop. Starbucks management forced us to make small talks with customers, learn the regular's names, and approach/chat with samples. If you don't look at it as a negative, it could help you. Not the best paying job, but they're pretty great about scheduling part time if you want to look for higher paying work and keep the job recreationally. I am not going to say it gives you status, but if you have tattoos, or appear artsy, you could probably pick up girls or at least practice f…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 01:51 AM
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Aye.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 10:16 PM
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Again, it's fair criticism. I don't drink alcohol, I don't eat anything sugary, I spent too much money fixing my teeth. Most people tell me I look skinny because they see me with my clothing on. Most days I am eating plain oats with milk, a banana, black coffee for breakfast, greek yogurt and a protein shake and chicken breasts plus rice and veggies for dinner. But I am also a emotional eater, so when I get stressed out or anxious I go after chips and pizza which is at least 2 times a week. I am…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 09:59 PM
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No, I just want to make as much progress as possible for 3 months. I have already been lifting for 3 months.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 09:36 PM
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That's okay, it's fair criticism. The diet has been the hardest part for me, everyone keeps saying bulk, bulk, bulk but I have a stomach and man boobs. I am not looking for an easy fix, but I do want to look better and get stronger, so when you are saying eating correctly, do you mean keep bulking until I get bigger and stronger? Or should I be able to cut and still increase my lifts? I am legitimately looking for feedback, I have no problem spending every day in the gym and busting my ass,
/r/askTRP16/10/16 09:29 PM
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404 errror
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:45 PM
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225 DL, I know SL recommends not switching programs until you can lift more, but now that I have been trying PPL my uper body lifts are pathetically weak.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 08:35 PM
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Get used to it bro. Keeping most girls attention is fucking impossible. Girls will lose interest for no reason a lot of the time. I've had girls on tinder message me first, ask me out and then when I send them a single text, I never hear from them again I've had girls send me nudes and beg me to come over to fuck them and they ghost. You send her dms and texts, so do a ton of other thirsty guys, and she's more interested in one of them than you, move on and find another girl, don't waste your ti…
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:26 PM
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I'll give you a good line if you can pull it off. Ask them where the closest Starbucks is, and if you chat her up and she gives you directions, ask for her number, tell her with a smirk that you know this great coffee shop if she wants to join you sometimes. Most people aren't going to have time to drop what they are doing to go on a coffee date right then and there.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:17 PM
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Push-ups are a chest exercise. What I do on push days are bench press, incline bench press, triceps pushdowns, lateral raises and overhead press. If you want abs you don't specifically need to target abs, it's just a matter of low body fat to show your muscle definition.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:15 PM
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You just have to make it something tolerable. I workout 6 days a week now, but I hated it when I started. I do a Push, pull, legs split, you can't skip legs because you think you don't need them. Plus squats are going to help other parts of your body. What I did, is make sure to go right after finishing work, I couldn't miss work if I dislike it right? It's just tacked on to what I have to do to get through my day, i have good podcasts or music to listen to to occupy my time, I always make sure …
/r/askTRP15/10/16 05:12 PM
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I understand where you are coming from, my advice wasn't to try to salvage this situation, as a first date, I was only recommending in the future not to make plans, just keep it casual, to reduce the chance of flaking. While changing your plans to meet her schedule might be beta, intentionally blowing someone off because you're upset is pretty beta too. I thought it was pretty obvious she wasn't into OP, no reason to waste time or energy on a girl who could care less about you.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:07 AM
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Why be this petty? You don't get anything out of it. I would have not bought her dinner, asked her to coffee, if there is no chemistry, or she still isn't interested you don't talk to her again. No big deal. It could be that when asking to cut a date short, she doesn't know if she's that interested to make a whole night out of it, keep it short for a first date.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:39 AM
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Yeah, but do I continue to eat at surplus? I want to lose bodyfat and keep gaining muscle mass.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:21 PM
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You'll see her in class again? Make that interaction good and set up some sort of out of class activity.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:42 AM
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Are you 16?
/r/askTRP28/09/16 09:10 PM
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Flip the tables and make yourself the desirable one. Your choice is either to keep doing what you are doing and be miserable or improve yourself, have fun with other girls and be happy with your life and don't even think about her, if she becomes interested as a byproduct, two birds one stone, either way the worst choice you can make is letting her be your oneitis
/r/askTRP28/09/16 02:39 AM
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Bro. You're the dumbest fucking guy ever. You dread by hinting that you are desirable, not calling your girlfriend ugly. It is supposed to be positive for you, not negative for her idiot.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:05 PM
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Look up Soylent. Someone already did this for you and will deliver it to your home. You can't just wat vegetables, you need proteins, fats and carbs.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 10:02 PM
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Well, you got an attractive girl into bed and you didn't physically escalate there? Were you making out, cuddling, hand-holding, or anything? If a girl allows you into her bed after, 99.99% of the time she wants to do something physically with you. She made it blatantly obvious for you, but she wanted you to make the moves. Next time you are with a girl, and yes there will be a next time, you need to escalate see how she reacts to touching, kissing, etc. You messed up, and that's why she's with …
/r/askTRP19/09/16 07:14 PM
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I don't recommend using the 1-10 scale, what purpose does it serve? Are you using it and saying this girl is a 9 so I can't talk to her because she will turn me down? It's subjective and just puts women on a pedestal. I wouldn't spend so much time trying to categorize every number between 1-10, girls who are obese, girls with mental deficiencies or deformities I am not going to waste my time labeling as a 1 or 2, because I wouldn't date, have sex with or be attracted to in any way. One guys 6 mi…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 03:17 PM
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Is there a source for this?
/r/askTRP17/09/16 04:01 PM
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Well, I don't have any tattoos at the moment. I am not rushing to get one, but eventually after I scout a good artists and figure out what I want done.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 01:59 AM
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Pay bills on time, no exceptions, late fees are never worth it. You can have a credit card for emergencies, or for purchases you were going to make anyway (if you have cashback rewards.) If you have any amount of high interest debt, it needs to be paid off immediately. This includes credit cards. Until you get this debt paid off, you're not allowed to buy anything that isn't necessary to survive. Check your credit report on creditkarma.com. Having good credit can save you money, I have a 0% inte…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:26 AM
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Thank you for the reply. "Looking good" is too much pressure on me, I have braces at 27, posture issues due to sitting all day, in dire need of a haircut and new clothes which I can't afford. Looking in the mirror makes me hate myself. While I do try to eat well and work out, the minute I get stressed I take it in the opposite direction, binge on food and games.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:15 AM
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Thank you for your reply. I applied for a community college to go back to school in January. I'm not sure what I want to do, and I have no idea how to find my purpose. I was on an SNRI before and it didn't help, the withdrawals when I came off of it was a living hell for a week, so it has scared me away from drugs so bad. I had a debilitating week in bed, constant migraines and nausea, cold sweats and the feeling of my brain being shocked.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 10:32 PM
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Yeah
/r/askTRP13/09/16 10:04 PM
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All of my protein comes from milk, Greek yogurt, chicken and steak and whey protein. Buy yourself a whey protein and you can get 50gs of supplementary protein this way. Nuts have a decent amount of fat and protein if you're needing to bulk.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 10:32 PM
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If you are only trying to lose the fat, then no it really doesn't matter what you eat, just keep in mind that eating 1500 calories worth of crap might make you feel terrible compared to eating 1500 calories of lean meats, veggies, oats, and dairy. If you're trying to make long lasting decisions, I'd find a balance that you can stick with, although the ocassional pizza or soft drink is fine too.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 05:22 PM
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You just listed a whole bunch of reasons to qualify yourself to us about why women don't like you. You're obviously emotionally insecure, maybe try not calling every girl who turns you down a cunt. You're 31 and have never had a girlfriend, have you tried not being such an uptight dick about life? She wanted to go dancing and have fun, and you made a big deal of it and she had 0 problems finding another guy that would take her out that night. Get over it and stop making yourself miserable
/r/askTRP11/09/16 04:28 AM
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3 hours a week is all you need. People who say they don't have time or workout just don't make the time to work out.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 01:57 AM
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I am not sure what my fitness goals are. Probably mostly aesthetic. I've always been skinnier with no muscle but I'm not happy with the way I look now either. My only job goal is to have something that I don't hate, that actually gives me some control of my independence. I make 9 an hour at my current job and I cant find anything better where I am but u can't move somewhere else because I don't have the money to do so. I would want to do something in the medical field but I have no clue how I'll…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:03 AM
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Depends where you live though. San Francisco it might be meagre, somewhere more rural and you never have to work another day and you'll live in comfort.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:28 AM
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Myfitnesspal, jefit for fitness and health. Google play music for podcasts, material audio book for audio books. Reddit official app for Reddit. Tinder. Mint and your banking app and credit card apps for financial tracking. Khan academy and Duolingo for self improvement. Mostly everything else I have is for entertainment or games.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:27 AM
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I think you are missing the message. It's highly probably that a lot of guys on TRP are exaggerating their success or bragging, but is it worthwhile to ever compare yourself? Fuck no it isn't. The biggest thing I got out of TRP is bettering yourself. Don't live your life by other people's standards. You want a job that pays 50,000-100,000. That sounds pretty sweet. That's more than I make now, and I'd also be happy with that amount. You can live and thrive off that kind of salary and if you enjo…
/r/askTRP03/09/16 06:39 PM
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Bro. Why are you even worrying about confidence and frame? Don't worry about girls, worry about finding a job and a place to live. Then worry about girls. Girls don't matter, put yourself first and everyone else second.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 06:24 PM
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No. A girl isn't seeing your dick until she's already ready to go. At that point she probably isn't going to turn you down. But you may never get to that point because you have no self confidence and are self conscious about the size. Plus what does below average mean?
/r/askTRP02/09/16 06:22 PM
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You want a gap year so you can be lazy. You are using not getting into a dorm as an extra excuse. Just suck it up and go to university. I'm not a programmer, everything I've heard says you can do it with practical experience, but are you structured, do you have the tools or connections or ability to learn all that on your own? If you're already school just finish it. A CS degree is almost certainly worth what you are paying for it.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:28 AM
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No. For $1000 pay a personal trainer to get in better shape. Or buy better clothes. All the information you want is already available in books, stop being lazy and read them.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:25 AM
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"Yeah, just drinks." Or "sounds good, see you then." She has already shown she has a track record of drinking and sleeping with you, why wouldn't she do it again? Physically escalate anyway.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:23 AM
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ROFL. Are you serious OP? It's common if you think an ID is fake to ask them to verify information on it. Fake ones will often have random information on it and some kids are too dumb to memorize the card before trying to use it.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 12:03 AM
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Develop discipline. I play video games, I love DotA and wow. I work a 40 hour workweek, lift 6 days a week, working in getting back into school. I'm exhausted at the end of the day, I play on my days off work, or I play a few hours in the evening. No one is saying you can't play, but stop binging, stop playing when you have better things to do. Video games have diminishing returns, honestly when I go on a big losing streak in DotA and I wasted a whole day playing it feels meaningless anyway and …
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:58 PM
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I don't advise of monk mode. It's an excuse people use so they don't have to improve socially. Start reading books and make tough decisions that affect your long-term happiness. It sucks for a very long time, but it will pay off. I used to tell myself that as long as I was making some improvement, it was enough and you can push yourself harder I guarantee it. I was anxious and depressed last year after my ex divorced me and I had to start my life over in scratch. I told myself I was in monk mode…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 11:52 PM
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It's a shit test. If your nose bothers you, get it fixed or learn to live with it. I had shitty teeth growing up so at 27, I got braces. That said, look at Owen Wilson. That guys nose is fucked up and do you think he wouldn't get laid? Ways you could have replied are like telling her you got in a fight and the other guy looks worse, or telling her she needs a boob job. Whatever works simple shit test so don't get butt hurt over it.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:23 PM
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Personally never had any sort of STI, but if I had something that was going to go away in time, I would get that cleared up before the possibility of spreading it to someone else. If I had something permanent, I would give disclosure before sleeping with a girl. I am not saying every girl is that responsible, as a man you should be, and as a man you should try not to be desperate to stick your dick in something that is in question.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:30 PM
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I don't think every girl is that mentally fucked, maybe just the ones that you attract.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:52 PM
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From all your replies you sound deadly scared of getting an STD, just wrap it up, don't fuck any hookers, ask the girl if she's clean beforehand. That's probably going to minimize most risk.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:44 PM
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Don't worry about whether you are going to fuck her now, you are not entitled to that whether you have to pay for that or night, and thinking so is going to cloud your judgement. Have fun and physically escalate if given the chance. If you think she's into you, tell her she's got this one but you'll take her out to your favorite spot next time.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:42 PM
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I had a lot of trouble with girls online because I was showing too little interest and trying to be mysterious. That probably works better if you have model looks. Being mysterious still means you can be passionate and lively, you just need to be non-needy, don't say things to get her to like you, and don't look for her approval, you need to have fun, tell stories and have a personality. Don't be an open book and start telling her boring details about your life, you should embellish, but don't l…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:39 PM
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Stop rating girls on a scale, she's a single mom and you are putting her on a pedestal. You also sounded butthurt in your reply, if you still want to fuck her, tell her to come over to your place sooner rather than later. If she's a slut and is actually into you, then why are you telling her to come by on the weekend? She'll probably have fucked 5 more guys by then. Alternatively, have some self respect, don't get HPV and ignore girls who tell you about other guys they are fucking while simultan…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:37 PM
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Lol, no one starts out an expert bro.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:03 PM
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Yes? Why is it impossible at 31? Maybe something to due with hardening bone density if I had to guess. My orthodontist wouldn't give me the option of invisalign or anything, I've had a bad overbite, spacing and gap issues all my life, and with 8 months of braces they look tremendously better. It wasn't that expensive for me, total cost of treatment is $5,500, my insurance covers half, I pay about $120 a month with 0% interest.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:55 PM
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I drive a Toyota Corolla motherfucker. Get on my level.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:30 PM
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All really good points. I wouldn't say I have abundance mentality at this point, but I am not desperate for female attention either. I haven't gotten laid in a while, but I wouldn't even feel like putting in effort to take a girl out unless she's like a 7+.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:28 PM
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Probably not.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:24 PM
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Not even. If I'm a beginning lifter and she's done it for a few years, it's pretty reasonable. She has a good body and isn't bulky at all, we were comparing lifts and if she's not exaggerating I couldn't get any where near her squats or deadlift right now. Her bench is only slightly better than mine, but it's not a contest anyway.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:23 PM
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I wouldn't want the married girl tbh. Also I do care about a girl who has ambition. I have no plan to be any girl's meal ticket and if a girl also has no ambitions or hobbies then she def. isn't my type.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:16 AM
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She is. A good majority of them are.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 12:14 AM
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I swear it isn't bro. I took a temporary ego hit, I was thinking what the fuck, is that the type of girl people think I would go for.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 12:01 AM
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Got it.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 11:06 PM
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I try not to have any.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:56 PM
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Yeah that's how I would expect the conversation to play out, so that's how I am going to reply for sure.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:52 PM
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Yeah now that everyone brings up this point, she probably was thinking she was doing her friend a favor rather than me.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:51 PM
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People here don't eat vegetables, not that they dislike them, they just as a way of living won't eat them. Everything is deep friend, and seems like everyone exists on a diet of junk food, fast food and friend foods. Most people don't see obesity as a problem, to them it's just how people are shaped
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:48 PM
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That's actually a good line.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:46 PM
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I am 27, so no worries there. I got braces to fix my teeth and got back in school after getting divorced, for sure I could use a self-esteem boost with girls, but I am trying to get things done and don't seem to be able to land the girls I want. My ex was in a relationship months after we got divorced, I don't live anywhere near her, but she's a pretty girl who also works hard, she had no problems finding a guy. If we were in our later 30's maybe that would be different, but mid 20's she probabl…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:46 PM
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Yeah you're right, if I am offended, it's me being insecure.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:21 PM
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This is in the Southern US, it's not even fat acceptance so much as fat normalcy. I only flirt with 1-2 girls at work and surprise surprise, one is super into fitness and could lift more than me, the other is petite and takes care of herself. That was my plan, ignore it and don't even bring it up. I don't put in much effort with girls anymore, so I don't get a lot in return, but I mentally can not settle even to be nice.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:03 PM
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That was how I thought of the situation as well. Now I don't consider myself high value, but I am working on getting there. I am very okay with progress for now. I figured since I was not the one asking for the setup, she must also find me attractive. But seeing as these girls hang out according to Facebook, yeah that seems like the idea, that if I dated this girl, it implies we would hang out. The girl who asked just got married, her husband seems pretty beta from what I can tell. She complaine…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 08:58 PM
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Do you read any of the sidebar content? Why are you getting worked up over one particular girl? If you want an introverted, shy, artsy, whatever type of girl start looking for one. You shouldn't be committed to any girl until you find your type, and then if she changes you find another girl who doesn't.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:12 PM
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Yeah, but I don't see what burning bridges gets me, I can move out find roomates in another city and get another low skill, low paying job? At the current center I work at, there are some english/spanish employees, I think they make $1 more an hour, so probably not worth it.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:36 PM
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I am familiar with the subreddit. I can only cut down expenses so much and I have no money to invest, I need to make more income, that's the part I am missing.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:32 PM
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This really is the only answer. Feel free to change your attitude or self esteem, man boobs still aren't going anywhere until you are losing fat.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:15 AM
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Yeah, you have to use some of your skill points to reduce the cool down. Peraonally, I used all of mine for increased critical hits and life leech, but you do you man.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 12:13 AM
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Inner peace, self-esteem, self-confidence, maybe that falls under game, but guys get by with pickup tactics and memorizing lines, so that really is up to you if you want to reflect on yourself and imrpove things,
/r/askTRP20/08/16 08:25 PM
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Yeah that subreddit is a joke sometimes. Stick with basic and classic styles, good fitting dark denim, black denim, khaki chinos, grey slacks, mix with plain tshirts, OCBDs, sweaters in the fall. White or black sneakers, brown or black leather shoes and boots, belts to match, a decent watch. That's all you really need. If you workout and properly groom you'll look like a fucking boss.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:48 PM
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Did she provide proof she donated everything? I don't care actually, just curious about that point.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:41 PM
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You don't have money or time to go to the gym? Nice excuse. You probably have a school gym included in your tuition. My city has a cheap, but I'll argue very shitty planet fitness for $10 a month, you probably have something inexpensive. Take out student loans if your budget is that tight. Don't kid anyone here, we all went to school and unless you're also working a full time job, you have time.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:40 PM
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Workout, money and game? That's all you have? You need a plan for all of those, blind pursuit will get you nowhere. Figure out your fitness goals, do you need to lose fat or gain muscle more right now? Money means a new career or education. Game means start reading the recommended books list and putting into practice everyday what you have red. You need to develop an internal attitude about life. Find some interesting hobbies make friends. Top 20% is pretty relative and arguably subjective.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:38 PM
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A scoop is relative. ON Whey protein is usually 28-29 g protein per scoop, I usually have two scoops per day to hit my protein goals. But I agree, peanut butter, milk and oats are all you need to gain weight cheaply.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:35 PM
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100 bucks isn't going to break the bank. If you already bought it and she'll like it, just gift it to her. If you liked the watch she got you don't worry about the price tag. I have nice watches that were $30, it's all relative.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:37 PM
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Not op, but since tinder doesn't give you unlimited swipes, it is a little more effort/time efficient to be somewhat selective. I don't read bios or check out instagrams, but a quick would fuck/would not fuck even if drunk check has been my go to.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:44 AM
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I think an alpha would forget both people existed and move on. Are you going to follow up with every new guy your slut of an ex fucks? Because it sounds like you are going to live a pretty busy, hateful life if that's the case. Neither of those people did anything to make you personally angry, it's only your own toxic thoughts that are doing that to yourself. Move on, life your life, be a bigger, better person.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:41 AM
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Good point. Terrible execution. Cargo shorts are not attractive, you can dress well and not look gay.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:31 AM
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Straight white teeth. 8 weeks. Does not compute. I'm 27 got braces on 8 months ago, gonna have them for another 14 months, then I can get them whitened. If you don't have straight teeth you aren't going to get them quickly. Whitening strips work well enough to whiten but if you don't have straight teeth it's not a quick fix. Will agree that shaving, hair cut, facial cleanser, and a new outfit does good. And if you're out of shape 8 weeks is enough to lose some fat and build some muscle.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:29 AM
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Become one and then look in a mirror.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:25 AM
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I think cheating is dishonest if your SO assumes you are monogamous. Is it immoral? That's relative. Are you a douche? Probably. If you want to sleep around, you should, either open up your relationship or end it. A man should do what he wants and not feel bad about it, but you probably go through lengths to hide your cheating and that's what makes cheating lame.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:11 AM
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Why do you want the divorce? No one asked you this yet and you haven't given that information.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:13 AM
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Lift, yoga, stretching, active posture correcting. If you have a pelvic tilt, there no immediate fix.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:10 AM
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That's really though to say. You can improve yourself to be a better partner, that's for sure, but if your goal is to find a top 10% alpha male being a single mom probably disqualifies you. If you do find a guy you want to commit to you, make it clear that unless it's his decision that he does not need to take care of you or your child. No matter how much you need it, you need to take care of yourselves. If the dad is a loser, I'd still try to get child support from him, as much as guys here are…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:51 PM
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Why? Have you read all the books this subreddit lists? Those are a great resource to start with, I guarantee if you take the time to read this stuff you won't feel like you need to blow money on a coach who won't fix your problems permanently anyway.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:40 PM
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No that's stupid. Some people have a great relationship with their parents, I dated a girl for years who spent weekends at her parents house, and usually ate dinner with them 2 nights during the week. They were nice people and just because most people have dysfunctional families doesn't mean she isn't actually hanging out with her mom.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:37 PM
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Do you get upset? No. You can't negotiate attraction. That's a basic rule. You can try to apply dread, but if you're already working out or hanging out with friends without her, you may need to think about your relationship. If she's not occasionally initiating sex and isn't receptive when you initiate, then she's not worthy of your LTR. You don't give commitment to girls who aren't giving you what you want in return. Find a girl who does. She doesn't get to sleep or cuddle if you don't get sex,…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:35 PM
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I met a tinder girl a couple weeks back who was giving me head and in the middle of it said that she wasn't going to go any further that night, that we definitely were not going to have sex. I just replied I don't know why you keep saying that when you want me to fuck you right now anyway. She couldn't help herself and we were fucking 5 minutes later. She woke me up in the morning to fuck again. Don't listen to the words she says, judge her actions, tell her you're not going to be doing anything…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:29 PM
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If she rants about her boyfriend in private, don't agree with anything she says. Don't be her emotional tampon and agree that the guy sucks unless you want to be the guy she always goes to complain about him. Just tell her if she's ever bored of him to come hang out with you. Women are great about covert communication and if she likes you she knows what you mean by it.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:24 PM
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None of the things you listed cause stress, it's only the thoughts you have in your head that cause emotional stress. While it's true things like sleep, diet, lack of proper planning can help you sort some of this out, you have to change your way of thinking. While not strictly a TRP book Feeling Good by David Burns is a good introduction to cognitive therapy and may help you start learning to deal with stressful factors.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:22 PM
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Not the original guy, but one downside is that it is an excuse. You're always going to have some story you tell yourself in your head that you're not attractive enough, not in shape, your clothes could be better, you could wait until you're making more money. Attractive guys get rejected, normal or even ugly guys still get laid. Keep telling yourself you have to get to a certain plateau to start approaching women and you will never get around to it. I'm in the same boat as you, I am working out …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:20 PM
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Yeah, I glazed over your post while on my phone, you're right I missed some detail. It doesn't really change my point, I don't think a woman's identity is based entirely on youth and beauty. I think something that is universal for both men and women is to have self-esteem whether you alone or not, whether you are physically desirable or not. I'd recommend reading Feeling Good by David Burns, it's not exactly TRP, but it finally helped me break my depressive cycle and build self-confidence and se…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 09:02 PM
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People have different standards. If I had a wife and even if I could afford to keep a good lifestyle on just my income, she better be pursuing a career or a worthwhile hobby. That sounds boring to come home to the same woman every day that does nothing but laundry and Netflix. Don't let your woman be complacent and don't marry a woman who is. She should be there to enhance your life and if she isn't, then she's not worth commitment to that hard. Even if you have kids, they go to school a good ma…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:08 PM
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Do you believe that women's only worth is from being attractive and fucking you? I am going to guess that it is you that has self esteem and self worth issues. Women's lives are not over because they're over 30, you're delusional and generalizing. Do you define your worth to others based on how they see you? Grow up. Stop trolling.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:38 PM
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Coffee dates are fine, they're supposed to be more quick, casual, cheap and less investment is required if you don't like the girl.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:35 PM
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/r/ThatHappened
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:34 PM
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Women's attraction is based on your confidence and non-neediness. If she didn't have time for your plans, that's okay. What you do is try again in about 3-4 days. Radio silence until then, no asking her how she is. If she is reluctant to make plans with you again, she's not into you as much as you are into her. The idea with new relationships and attractions is not to invest less interest in them, but to get them to invest more interest in you. So try logistics again in a few days if she doesn't…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:48 PM
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"Hey haven't seen you around in a while, let's meet up for coffee at x at x"
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:21 AM
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don't want to drive 5-10 minutes to her house and back to my crib to fuck What was the actual reason? I don't get girls texting me telling me that they are horny, if they did a quick drive wouldn't bother me. You should be honest with yourself, you were tired, or weren't in the mood, or were busy? What was it? It's not even important here, but understand that if you want a girl to be a fuck buddy, how many times are you going to convince her to come over on your terms? Additionally if you just s…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:20 AM
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All of the best tips I have gotten, no porn, but masturbation is fine. Try to lower the frequency to once a week, only think about girls you want to get with, it definitely will give you the energy and motivation to pursue them.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:06 AM
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You're confusing that people here on this subreddit have different goals. You're misunderstanding multiple concepts, pretty much just understand that the lifestyle a lot of guys here are trying to live is to have multiple girls that you have a casual relationship mostly based around sex, fun activities and low commitment. Not everyone girl is going to go for that kind of relationship so you're just trying to weed out the ones who can, which are the ones who will sleep with you because of your al…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:50 PM
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Although that isn't an absolute fact, I understand the idea. That definitely is a hard pill to swallow. I'm actually cringing thinking about it.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:22 PM
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Yeah as long as you have time apart from her, don't be one of those couples that does everything together. And as long as she isn't causing you to lose focus or anything.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:38 PM
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Stop rating girls on scale, you're putting them on a pedestal. The reason that Chad got laid and you didn't is because you are ashamed of your sexuality and you do not push it with girls. Your friend actually thinks of you as a friend and will now think of you as a dishonest asshole when you try to fuck her, because the only reason you were nice was because you wanted to fuck her. You're misunderstanding that she has to have this deep social connection to sleep with a guy, she fucked the other g…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:33 PM
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If the girl has already agreed to a movie at your house, then she isn't an idiot, she is already looking to sleep with you. The reason coffee dates are suggested here is because it is low risk, low effort, inexpensive and fast. You can screen a girl quickly to see if you want to pursue her more, if she flakes on you then who cares you've got coffee and you chat up someone else while you're there. Generally you don't even have to pay for girls at a coffee shop and even if you do, spending 5 bucks…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:24 PM
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I also recommend models by Mark Manson. It explains how to attract women honestly and get your life in shape. I can honestly say it has made me happier and yielded more result than any PUA stuff has.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:18 PM
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Meeting women is always a numbers game, and your numbers probably sound better than most guys here. Try removing the mirror selfies, get a photo of you at the beach with your shirt off, girls will see that as more natural. Also, you seem to be craving validation as much as girls, I'd suggest skipping the social media unless you really get off on the ego boost. Don't swap Snapchat or instagrams, girls don't need that stuff to fuck you and you think you look great there, but that's their playgroun…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:16 PM
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Not even really going to comment on what you're asking, why are you staying awake for that long? Missing sleep fucks up your hormones and if you're also working out how are you making progress without sleep?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:08 PM
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Go read Models by Mark Manson. Your behavior is needy even when it seems like it isn't. She can tell and that is why you are unattractive to her. Women don't like men treating then like crap, women, and people in general, are attracted to non-neediness and low investment in the interaction. You would need to make your intentions clear that she is sexually attractive, but that you could care less what she thinks of you. It's a fine line and treating girls poorly just to get them to like you is se…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:07 PM
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I already posted on your thread last time and told you what I am going to tell you now. It seems like you spend a lot of them and energy planning an idealized version of your life and yourself, so much so that you are rejecting the possibility of failure. You need to start with small goals and work your way up to see what is liveable. Getting in shape is a good first goal, you can start just by counting calories and tracking stronglifts with the app. That's how I started, I missed workouts and I…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:59 AM
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You invited friends, told her to invite friends. That's not a date, and she probably doesn't see it as one either. Invite her out again, or ask her out on a real date. You know this girl more than a random acquaintance, doesn't sound like she flaked if she texted you back. It's probably worth a second chance, but not a third.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 12:08 AM
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So, I said this in my post. I didn't care what she thought of what I said. I wasn't looking to get her number or for her to like me. I was tired from working and soaking wet from the rain. I said it because I felt like it and that's literally my only goal right now is to be more outgoing with what I actually think. My goal isn't to game waitresses and cashiers, it's to literally say words to a warm body so I can convince myself it isn't so scary. Thanks for your post though, I'm not delusional, …
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:07 PM
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Working on abs and chest. That doesn't happen overnight. Hence me getting some whey so I have it after mt workout tomorrow morning. I'll try teasing girls, I have a hard time thinking of things on the spot, but I'll keep that in mind, thanks.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 11:05 PM
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I'm bad at flirting, and talking to girls I don't know.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:46 PM
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Have you tried being attractive? That's usually what you need to do first.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 08:19 PM
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It made me realize that the reason I have no success with women is because I have unresolved anxiety and fears that permeate every action I have with people. I care far too much about what people think of me, and so I decide to stay neutral. I am generally likable, and I never scare anyone away, but I never positively polarize people either. I pretty much expect a girl to approach me and tell me that she likes me, because that has happened with every girlfriend I have had. I know there are situa…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 03:23 PM
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Have you read any books recently? I know TRP is pretty toxic but there is generally good advice here about turning your life around. I've got the audiobook Models by Mark Manson, I know it's linked and mentioned here quite a lot. But as an anxious, depressed, and angry adult that has had no luck with women since I got divorced a year ago, this book is helping me tremendously. I don't really advocate piracy, but if you pm me, I will send you a link for it. If you have anger towards women, it will…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:04 PM
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Do it. Women in relationships don't cheat unless the relationship is bad. She wants to cheat and if not with you it will be with someone else. She's telling you she has a boyfriend because shes still trying to justify it to herself. She's going to complain about him to you. Just tell her you don't care she has a boyfriend, but that she's fun, etc.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:06 AM
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Nah, shows you have more investment in her than she would in you. It just says needy.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 10:07 PM
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"Best relationship you have been in," but how many relationships have you been in? How do you know you don't just feel great about any woman that shows interest in you. If this girl is fun, you don't have to stop seeing her, is she worth committing 14 years to? At 220 pounds (whatever you like is fine) and openly admits to being a cheater, I would just not recommend LTRing her. Keep her as a plate if you're having fun, and this may sound like a broken record if you read this sub a lot, just keep…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:24 PM
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If you don't care about strength, just go ahead and starve yourself and draw on abs with a sharpie, there you go problem solved.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:35 PM
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How do you spend 6 days a week at the gym and do none of the major lifts? What do you spend your time on? I am asking seriously, I just don't get it, I am probably the least in shape person at the gym I go to, but every single guy and girl there, from bulky meatheads to the petite, but toned 115 pound girl does these lifts.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:34 PM
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Are you a troll? Deadlifts and squats work out more than just your legs, there's a reason those two lifts are in every single real workout plan. You say you don't have infinite time to go to the gym, but you plan a workout routine that requires 6 days a week, and a diet that requires a substantial amount of time to prepare and upkeep.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:10 PM
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But cardio, he has to use legs to run doesn't he? /sarcasm
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:30 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. Enjoy the ride is solid advice. My goal is not a relationship itself, I am trying to free myself of codependency, that was the old me. I am just missing things from my past relationship, dating can be fun. I'm just trying to get away from tinder and Netflix and chill, I'm probably not going to find LTR worthy girls there.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 02:37 AM
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Thanks. I don't want to cut, I've flip-flopped through diet and exercise for too long, I'd rather just stick with one thing for now. I am pretty sure I have a hormonal imbalance. I probably only masturbate like once a week. It would probably explain why I am told I have feminine facial features, man boobs, and the inability to shave. I regularly get told I look 19, when I am 27. Tbh, I can get laid if I want, just not to girls I even like. I met one girl on Tinder a few months back, that I fuck …
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:53 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I am just aggravated, this all feels like a negative feedback loop where the fact that I know I am lonely but I am too self-conscious to make friends or get dates, so I work on an improvement, but it's too slow to make progress in any area, and because I see little progress and I don't have any positive outcomes, I lose motivation to want to improve at all. I don't care at all about one girl in particular, it just makes me want to drive off a cliff thinking/knowing that …
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:49 PM
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"There's no magic tip," that's not what your mother said last night. But seriously op, there's a sidebar for a reason. That's how you stop being so beta, lift, socialize, improve yourself, gain confidence slowly, fake it for a while if you have to.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:48 AM
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You don't worry about proportions. Follow the guide which actually tells you to start with an empty bar for most of those lifts. There's no such thing as x needing to be within 10% of y. You just try to lift the heaviest you can 5x5 without any failures. If you succeed, up the weight by 5 pounds next workout. No one is going to stop progressing on one lift because they failed on another.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:43 AM
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Gym 4-6 times a week? Why is it so unspecific? Are you actually going a minimum of 4 times a week? I have a hard time believing that as a beginner you have the energy to keep that kind of routine up. Less than 40 carbs a day? What's wrong with carbs? You can lose weight/gain muscle while eating carbs. 6 pack body in 3-4 months. Does not compute. I feel like you are over-exaggerating your ability to make this much progress. That's great that you feel like you are making progress. Keep that up. Do…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:21 AM
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You should probably clarify some. Are you starting out lifting for the first time? As a beginner myself, I am seeing progress without bulking. I cleaned up my diet and am getting most of my calories from better sources, but my calories haven't increased a ton. What's your food budget like? Just stick to oats, bananas, whole milk, chicken breasts/thighs, rice, beans. The best stuff to bulk with is also fairly inexpensive. I would buy whey protein when you have extra money, but just do what you ca…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:13 AM
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You can't really use games and movies to your advantage, that are not personality traits. I'm not even going to be someone that tells you to stop playing them, personally I love video games and see nothing wrong with them in moderation. Don't portray a typical gamer on the outside, don't wear any gaming related clothing, be hygienic, be active and get in shape some way. Personally I would try to develop one additional hobby, I play guitar and scuba dive/kayak when I can. But to be truthful, no g…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 06:40 AM
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So you're butt hurt about her not putting out? Why don't you make it easier on her then? Sounds like the issue, like you actually admitted, is that she's working 14 hour days. That would take its toll on anyone. Shes obviously interested in you if she's spending time with you despite the long days. Try taking her out on a night where she is not on a time limit. Or if your life is so fucking awesome, just invite her over for sex without the date.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:34 AM
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Go at it hard bro, but realize you're setting yourself up for failure with this much planning. I'm probably not as bad as some of the things you listed, but the mindset that "tomorrow is the day I turn my life around," is toxic, you will get burnt out and stumble. I try to be consistent in the same things you do, but just realize you will make mistakes. I do when my brother brings over snacks and beer and wants to play video games, when my body physically has no energy and I fall asleep for 12 h…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 09:26 AM
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Lul
/r/askTRP15/07/16 04:26 PM
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She doesn't see it as a date, or she feels unsafe.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 08:06 AM
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Why does this question get asked so much? Yes, in America it probably is going to rule you out from some girls, and some girls will like it. You (like everyone else) improve your odds by reading the sidebar and increasing your SMV.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:01 AM
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Eh. There's good advice here to be found, but a good bunch of stuff here is also circle jerk bs. I think there are quite a few people that drink the koolaid a little too heavily. TRP was great for me because self-improvement, positivity, confidence those are objectively good and useful in all areas of life. Things like what women actually find attractive are great, and there's some pretty solid advice on how to to approach casual dating, online dating, and approaching women. I also feel that it'…
/r/askTRP10/07/16 11:59 PM
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Take this with a grain of salt, this guy puts space in between his commas.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 07:12 PM
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This is so fucking dumb it hurts. People need to wear glasses, I know girls who love glasses. I get compliments on my new ones all the time, I have had a girl take them off and wear them as a way to flirt with me. Different girls like different things, but I don't think glasses are going to exclude you from a girl fucking you.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:18 PM
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Why do you need to ask here? You seem to understand the situation well enough. If you want to take her out, take her out, if you don't, then don't. I don't see how that's a shit test, unless you feel like she is controlling this third date. You mentioned movies, rephrase it like it's one you wanted to see anyway, but she can come along. Pick a restaurant/bar/activity if you don't want her making plans for you. Keep in mind that some girls aren't going to keep seeing you without some level of com…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 03:23 PM
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You can gain weight, you just have to be consistent. It is going to take a long while too. I'm eating 2,800 calories a day, while lifting every other day. I am putting on 3/4 of a pound every week. It takes a month to gain 3 pounds, that sounds shitty doesn't it? It is, but half a year and you are up 25 pounds. That's a decent amount of muscle gain and for your weight you just keep that up. You can cut after you put on 30-40 pounds.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:43 PM
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How old are you? You say "still" live with your parents, if you are older than 20 or not in university, then your bigger concern should be moving out (with or without roommates) and getting a car (or any transportation.) Trust me, it makes things a ton easier, and women aren't going to want to figure out the logistics for you. But to answer the question you asked, you just ask. If she has a place available, you just invite yourself. "Movie at your place? I'll bring beer." You don't mention you d…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:45 AM
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I am 27, but yeah I have no muscle and I know lifting is supposed to help with testosterone level. As far as male friends, that's tough where I live. It's a small southern town, and I lived in New York/Canada prior to moving here. I am not into guns or hunting or trucks so I haven't met many people I get a long with here. I hang out with a group of people at work occasionally, but one of the guys is gay, and the other is pretty beta, still friends are better than none. Thanks for the tips.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:27 PM
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No, that's okay, and thanks for not sugar coating it for me. This is the harsh reality I have learned from TRP, I don't have much to offer women, and no wonder I was having such a hard time. I'm starting a bulk right now, gonna hit the gym harder than ever, to at least be able to get physically where I should be. I am aiming for a 20 pound gain by the end of the year, I got braces a few months ago to fix my poor teeth, and while my current job is going okay, I am going to start aiming higher and…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:25 PM
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I'm not bald or receding hairline, lots of hair, but I can't grow facial hair for shit. My social contacts are shit, I get along with everyone I meet, and I talk to people, but I wouldn't say I have many friends. I've been lurking on TRP for about 6 months, it helped me emotionally cope with my divorce. No, I don't think I've ever been redpill, I was pretty beta in my relationship, I cooked cleaned wrote love notes, bought flowers, cried in front of her. I don't think she's crazy, I was a textbo…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:08 AM
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You're not wrong bro, but gaining 40 pounds of pure muscle doesn't happen that quickly. I'm not looking for a quick fix, but saying not to try for a year, two years is ridiculous too
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:35 PM
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Yes. I think when I started the relationship, I was still seeing another girl from time to time, I think she was kind of attracted to the fact that I had a regular plate. I was definitley more aloof, and being that young I was more impulsive and less reserved. My tangibles are better now, but she didn't give a fuck that our first date was a shitty diner at 10pm. I groped and made out with her on a street corner and then took her to a hotel for the night. I became a whiny bitch after we got marri…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:57 AM
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I have like 150 tinder matches right now, replies/dates/hookups don't happen though.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:54 AM
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Nah bro, I was pretty codependent. It was a bad situation she made three times what I did in a year, and she wore the pants in the relationship. That's never happening again. I haven't seen/talked to her in ~8 months, so no worries there.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:52 AM
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She told me that therapy and medication wasn't worth the amount it cost. Other people have mental disorders, but not me. She grew up in a rich, sheltered family, I was poor, abused mentally and physically as a kid. My worst memory now, is a few days before she kicked me out. I had a panic attack, lost control of my breathing, my heart was racing, and the person that I thought cared for me as much as I cared for her told me to get over it, to stop being a child. This is the least manly thing I'll…
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:36 AM
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I'm better now. I wasn't in a good state of mind. The thing about depression, and for me it is genetic, is that there are literally chemicals in your head telling you nothing will work out, you are doomed and that you shouldn't even try. You and I realize we are in control of our lives, yes, but people still going themselves off bridges thinking there are no better options, right?
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:29 AM
3

Eh. I live in a small town in a dry county (no alcohol or bars) and work a ton. There are two bigger cities about 45 mins and an hour away. I'm not saying you're wrong, but the kind of girls I can meet at the local Walmart aren't the kind of girls I am interested in.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:50 AM
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I know I am small. Bulking takes time and even though I am tracking my calories and eating at a surplus, I am still not gaining more than a half pound a week. I know the top percentile of guys are the ones who get laid, it's fucking depressing, I can't do the monk mode shit for a year, two years. It makes me feel physically ill to think I shouldn't even try. Reading the stuff here makes me think I can't even be myself or the slightest bit inconsistent.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:48 AM
8

I have depressive episodes, she actively dissuaded me from therapy, medication and self-improvement. I threatened to kill myself in a fit of rage, had a very visible mental breakdown because of how cold and emotionless she had become. Yes I was a beta, but she didn't cheat on me, and yes she is fucking some Chad now.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 04:44 AM
3

"call me when you feel 100%" soft next, do other things. Sounds like you have feels for this girl, if you want an LTR with her that's fine, but if she's flaking this early you may want to not get too much more invested.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 07:10 PM
2

It's fine if you are 17, it's not like you can go to a bar, and a girl that age is just going to enjoy being on a date.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:00 AM
1

I think you are overthinking it. Again that amount of money isn't very much. Pick literally any job, do it with pride. Improve at it, until it no longer benefits you and you can do something better.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 04:11 PM
2

Literally anything. $10 an hour at 10 hours a week is $400. How is this a TRP question, this is a common sense question.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:05 AM
2

Bro. Half the shit here is useless circle jerky bs.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:29 AM
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From personal experience, let her know, but then do all the work/counseling/medication on your own. She isn't there to be your emotional/mental punching bag or sponge. I lost a 7 year relationship, because I thought my now ex-wife would understand what I was growing through and be eager to help. Maybe your girlfriend is a bit kinder, but mine mocked me, called me names, activley tried to stop me going to therapy or counseling. You can confide in your woman, but she isn't going to solve anything …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:40 PM
1

Brah, no. I am in Arkansas, there are just as many transgender, SJW, dyed hair, fat, ugly, whatevers here.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 09:08 PM
2

No worries bro. that she knew we would share something special Those were her words, not mine, I am lonely, but I am not delusional. I have read the sidebar, but I will go reread it. I understand that attraction is not negotiable, that is why I decided I wasn't going to play her games. All she did was confirm firsthand things I read here.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 12:30 AM
2

I don't think any girl sees me as an alpha type. I am 6'0" and 160 pounds, I have glasses and at 27 years old, I have braces (they're clear like what Tom Cruise has, but they are visible). I know I dress well, and I am bulking and lifting, but I understand this stuff puts me at a disadvantage. Everything just pissed me off, because she basically had no problem looking at me and deciding sex was off the table, but I am a good little beta, and I will fulfill whatever emotional neediness she has.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 12:27 AM
3

I understand why abundance mentality can make you attractive. It's not like I have girls that I can just snap my fingers to have them drop by, but I know that if I seem desperate for sex or a relationship, I am less likely to get one. TBH, I am not even sure if I feel abundant or just apathetic because I am used to rejection.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 12:24 AM
2

Maybe. My ex-wife never needed anything from me, she had her own friends, more money, I cooked and cleaned, I moved across country so she could be close to her family, I gave up my schooling and a shot at a good career to make it work with her, she never initiated sex, and throughout the divorce she made it very well known that that while the relationship was dying, I had nothing of value to offer her. My outlook now is that for me to consider an LTR with any girl now, I have to be objectively b…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 12:22 AM
8

I understand that, that is my policy now too. The thing that sucks though, is that I find tattoos and piercings very attractive. Add in glasses and I am fucking sold.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 11:58 PM
2

Gym, playing guitar, I got braces to fix my teeth, saving money, training for a promotion at work, developing my social skills so I can feel confident enough to start dating again.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 06:00 AM
1

Yes. It's called a prenuptial agreement? Get it in writing before the divorce.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 05:20 AM
3

There's no standard for any age. I am 27, divorced last year to a girl I was with since I was 20. Now I am picking up pieces, working an entry level job to get back in school, I got braces to fix my teeth, I am lifting hard to put on muscle, I care more about friends than relationships.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:48 AM
2

No worries man. I am still a beginner too, but it didn't take much for me to use some of this stuff to have better luck with Tinder and texting. Just keep the idea that girls are like vampire bats for attention and validation. Don't give it up, make yourself the prize, seem confident even when you are not. Your time is what is valuable, not her presence. That is what abundance mentality is about. It's hard to have that starting out, but no girl is going to be turned on assuming you are not the m…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:36 AM
2

Working is a reasonable excuse. Her seeing someone else is also a reasonable excuse. Those two things were not in your control, so don't sweat it too much; where you did go wrong however is asking her to pick a date. You need to lead, and you need to not seem needy. If you think a girl is interested in you and you ask her out, and she replies she can't because "x" reason, just reply "no problem," and then say nothing else. If she is interested she would then reply "I am free on x day though." If…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 03:08 AM
1

You went to the gym, but you didn't mention anything about diet. You can work out all day and not lose a pound if you eat enough. If you are fat, track your calories and eat at a deficit. It isn't rocket science, it is slow as fuck and it sucks when you get into the habit of it and get food cravings because you know you shouldn't indulge at all.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:29 PM
1

I guess this is a pretty typical case then. No, I did not have a dad growing up. I have 4 brothers and 1 sister, but I was the oldest. My mom was a drug addict/whore/gambling addict, who blamed all of her problems on her kids. I never had any positive male role models in my life, maybe other than some teachers. I am lifting and eating enough to gain muscle mass. I had worked a summer at a white water rafting company, so I know how to kayak, but thinking back that makes sense. I worked in the kit…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 11:54 PM
3

Will do, eye exam scheduled for the end of the month.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:29 PM
6

I raise my pinky so high
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:26 PM
6

Why didn't I think of that?
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:25 PM
1

I am not sure, I used to stutter and stammer a lot. I worked on my speech, a lot of people tell me I should work in radio because of how clearly I speak now. But I have a somewhat Canadian accent after living there a couple of years and now I live in the south.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:24 PM
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Brb uninstalling tinder, reinstalling grindr
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:22 PM
9

Its a litmus test, right? If girls that don't know much about me assume I take it up the ass, what do girls that actually know nothing about me assume at first glance/conversation.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:21 PM
5

I am not going to take half this advice. I don't enjoy watching sports, I'm not going to pretend I like football and say lame shit to get people to like me. You're right, about subjectivity, she was petite, blonde, very feminine, she got approached often. All I meant by saying that was that I can pull good women.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 09:20 PM
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God dammit, I clean and sanitize my desk every day.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:38 PM
7

Same age range, it's an unskilled job, so a lot of 20-30 year olds.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:33 PM
2

I don't understand the comments. Are you sleeping with this girl? If she is sending you nudes, it is an open invitation. Don't compliment her, just tell her when to come over.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:18 PM
7

Last girl I was with told me she wouldn't fuck on the first date. That she wanted to but just on principal wouldn't do it. That if she did that night, I would never call or see her again. I gave her a vibe that my SMV was higher than hers and she wasn't worth my commitment. She wasn't wrong either. Since we had been drinking, I fell asleep and thought nothing of it. In the morning she initiated, in her head it was no longer the first night, so the next day was okay to have sex apparently. Of cou…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:10 AM
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She asks "what's wrong?" and you say "nothing"? That's what women do man, you are not instilling dread at all. If she is being annoying, you just be straightforward and tell her not to do that. You don't backtrack and apologize, correct her first and if she keeps up the action you then instill dread, but if this is an LTR you don't want her to despise you either, use a lighter touch.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 05:16 AM
6

Did you read the sidebar? Men offer commitment, women offer sex. That's the tradeoff. She doesn't get one without the other. If you just made her an LTR, tell her it is off the table now. Go lift some heavy shit, then find some other girl and fuck her. If this girl is as worthwhile as you say she will make it up to you.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:57 AM
1

2016 Toyota corolla. Cheap, reliable, looks nice enough.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 02:57 PM
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If you commit an LTR and she cheats, you hard next her and move on to your next option. If you have commited to an LTR and feel tempted to cheat you also just end it because what point is there being an LTR if you do not want to be tied down and you have options?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:00 PM
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Eh, you should always take ALL advice you get with a grain of salt, even half the stuff that gets posted here. He does make a lot of really good points in his videos, and a lot of things he has mentioned about social anxiety and presence has helped me out a lot. I think for a lot of people who grew up beta or with mental health issues, he is easier to relate to, but yeah I don't think it's realistic to assume I can just grab a girl, call her a slut and have her and her friend make out with me.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:06 PM
1

Sorry to break it to you, if she replies that she is too busy to hang out with you, then she is not going to agree to be your FWB, and you are delusional to think so. I ask girls to hang out, and the ones that say yes know what I am asking without saying it. You don't directly ask a girl if she wants to fuck, you ask her with subtext. "Come have some beers at my place." If she is interested she will hang out, any push back and you just bail because she does not want what you want. Keep working o…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:09 AM
1

Yeah exactly. I love Tinder, but I can't keep that many convos going, not for lack of skill, it's just a waste of time. I love mindless entertainment, but I'd rather spend that playing video games than inflating some girl's ego. Just pick a few you like, get their number and set something up. I f-closed with a 19 year old girl the other week, probably took less than 20 texts over the span of two days.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:28 AM
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This is fucking dumb. How the hell do you spend 5-6 hours on dating sites? I am not even opposed to them, tinder is fucking easy and I don't spend that much time on it. You also allot like 5-6 hours of sleep when you work and go clubbing? That's not sustainable and good luck with lifting on that kind of energy.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 11:57 PM
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