First things first this is not Oneitis. I am spinning another one at the same time and making way with a third one.

I met this girl online. We have been chatting for long and voice calls more recently. She knows I like to fuck around. Now I am totally confused by the signals here. She would keep mentioning her BF sometimes and I just told her I am not really interested in knowing about him so can she stop boring me off. So, I just shut her down and stopped answering all her texts.

Now she seems to have changed. Keeps bringing up sextual topics. Telling me about her fantasies and then how she would blow me if I was there. We sexted few days back but I stopped midway to keep her hanging. She keeps insisting we shouldn't meet (I asked to meetup only once long back) because we'll end up fucking each other hard (yes she said exactly that). She invited me out for drinks recently but I was busy and didn't check the phone. The last text being something like I changed my mind and this isn't a good idea. I just ignored the complete thing.

I have no clue how to handle this. I feel if I ask her to hangout I loose the frame of not giving a fuck which I have maintained well. Help!