Plates do not suck

MattyAnon · 2018-04-16T11:45:09+00:00

but "I have been pushing them to do that, which makes them uncomfortable, making them avoid the bj altogether",

This is a lie. She doesn't want to do it, but now blames you for suggesting it and then it is YOU that makes her not want to.

Women do this a lot. Example: "He's so handsy and pushy with me, that's why I don't like him" she'll say. I say "I grope you nonstop and you don't seem to mind" and she says "well that's different, that's with you".

In short, you suggesting/pushing for a BJ is not putting her off it.

Therefore I can see 2 ways they are behaving like that: 1)Not enough attraction 2)Playing games

Not enough attraction most likely. Some girls like it more than others. The vast majority love it, you might have gotten unlucky.

What could be the best course of action in this case?

There's a simple enough strategy here that consists of less commitment from you, and declaring that they are not allowed to suck you and that it's not a problem, you can get that need met elsewhere.

? I am thinking about giving them the ultimatum of suck or go home next time I see them

Terrible plan. This will not make them WANT to suck, which is what you need. Dump them if you like, but don't threaten.

I am reaching the point where I can get new girls for sex quite easily.

No you're not, or you'd do it and not be posting here.

Fulp_Piction · 2018-04-16T11:54:29+00:00

Been here. Next. Pick up new plates from the two you should have in the kitty.

Whether you want to admit it or not, you're not AF for these girls. You're probably not BB, but you're not where you need to be. It sucks, but let it light a fire under your ass.

Mistake 1: Overt Communication.

You went full retard. You broke frame when you tried to negotiate a blow job. You cant logic a girl, they don't work that way. You can't negotiate attraction.

Mistake 2: Controlling behaviour/mindset.

You can't force a human to do something like that. Give her the option, have expectations and standards and if she doesn't meet them, find someone who does. You want someone who's happy to keep you happy, but at the minute you're settling. Abundance mentality. Don't let people judge your expectations, go after what you think would make you more fulfilled, when you reach your goals you'll know if it's all it's cracked up to be.

Edit: Dont give an ultimatum. Either they really 'dont suck dick' (haha) in which case you'll get a shitty obligation bj, or you'll always be paying more for what some other guy got for less (maybe) . Neither of those are solutions imo.

nofilmynofucky · 2018-04-16T09:49:14+00:00

How's your dick hygiene?

Anyway ime girls don't want to suck your dick if they don't see you as high value enough.

anusbleach11111 · 2018-04-16T15:23:38+00:00

Depends on the girl. Some girls won’t blow you unless you commit, others will only blow you and not let you hit until you commit. Ultimately though it has to do with smv.

ThrowAwayLayter · 2018-04-16T11:16:09+00:00

Try the ultimatum if you have zero problems with losing them as plates...just PLEASE tell me that you're not going down on them if they refuse to reciprocate by sucking your dick.

fnordsnord · 2018-04-16T13:10:25+00:00

They don't like giving head.

Ok. They don't have to give head.

They're plates. They don't have to be plates.

Game other women until you find ones that give acceptable, enthusiastic head.

In the meantime, enjoy the banging.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-04-16T15:48:56+00:00

I have noticed that both of them complained to me that they want to suck it, but "I have been pushing them to do that, which makes them uncomfortable, making them avoid the bj altogether", which I see as a big bunch of bullshit

That's because it is. The Hamster can never accept criticism or blame, and it's gotta be someone's fault, and that leaves...YOU.

poochman · 2018-04-16T17:02:54+00:00

Are you eating them out? Eat their pussy amazingly well and make them cum. Like seriously, eat her out like you're a diabetic and her pussy has insulin in it. 10 minutes minimum. Then when you are done say calmly yet sternly, "I want you to suck my dick."

This is what works for me.

fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- · 2018-04-16T19:08:06+00:00

Girls who claim they “want to suck it but you’re pushing/pressuring too much” are lying. It’s the excuse to get you to stop asking and stop trying.

P.S. They want Brad Pitt to make them suck his dick.

zboo1h · 2018-04-16T19:01:52+00:00

Girls that don't give head just make me fucking sick, dude. Why would you even want to "convince" them? Just get new ones.

vodkasodalimez · 2018-04-16T10:30:57+00:00

Attraction or dominance issue imo.

Keep working on yourself and keep banging these until you find better plates who know how to properly please a man.

GrowingasanAlpha · 2018-04-16T10:31:29+00:00

Shave

Ricklogical · 2018-04-17T17:33:59+00:00

Dude I told my fiancee awhile back that sucking it is essential to a smooth entry. If we don't do it there is a chance that she will get an STI or there wont be enough lubrication and we will have to stop because the rough sex I put out can cause temporary soreness for a few days.

So she goes down on me at the start of each and every session.

Except for this morning, so lets see if she's in pain when i get home.

Title	Plates do not suck
Author	JustLetMeImprove
Upvotes	3
Comments	36
Date	April 16, 2018 9:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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