Need advice on soft nexting

McVaghunter · 2018-04-17T08:37:05+00:00

Should I still message her as if nothing happened?

If you have no abundance and she's the only option you have, then yes you can text her first and become her bitch.

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-04-17T09:18:58+00:00

it’s been several days and she also hasn’t messaged me

I have bad news for you, she’s not your ltr anymore. Move on and be glad that you got this chance. 80% of guys clinch onto their dead relationship.

cl3537 · 2018-04-17T12:38:42+00:00

Wait longer.

4thAndLong · 2018-04-17T15:43:51+00:00

No. If you message her you lose your frame. If she never messages you then you just managed to end an LTR without any drama which is nice.

laughatthisin20years · 2018-04-17T14:22:17+00:00

You don't have an LTR any more. She's going to bang some dude pretty soon. Go start banging other chicks. If she calls you out, just inform her: "we're over"

infamous3238 · 2018-04-17T17:42:24+00:00

No, wait until she replies first.

MattyAnon · 2018-04-17T13:00:40+00:00

Should I still message her as if nothing happened?

Yes, but make it three days. Next time 5.

If she gives you shit, ignore again.

Title	Need advice on soft nexting
Author	pathfinder52
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	April 17, 2018 8:21 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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