i feel like i'm going insane... hell/bandersnatch existence?

plumo123 · 2018-12-29T23:04:22+00:00

I believe you have a major problem with happiness. TRP suggests (correctly), same as many many classical philosophers, that happiness comes from within. You propose 2 options, MGTOW and virgin marriage. Both of your examples are built upon women right in the center of them.

Your question is not wrong. It is however asked in a wrong community. TRP advocates for de-pedestalisation of women and true happiness as a man where you're the only person who controls your life.

Stop watching bullshit TV shows and start learning from concrete materials and practice in real life. Throw women out of your equations, read a bit of sidebar and good philosophy books. Then come back to the topic. Currently your thoughts revolve around women and how to build your life around them - bluepill to the bone I'm afraid!

HitMan8811 · 2018-12-29T23:38:12+00:00

Pain is certain, suffering is optional.

Onidramon · 2018-12-30T00:14:46+00:00

What you're feeling makes complete sense. You're seeing the glass of the fish bowl and getting claustrophobic. It's natural. Men want freedom, and when you're faced with a finite barrier, you get antsy. Even if it's just temporal and existential, shit's real. I'm projecting because I get that too. I'm big into gamification, and while it's good for productivity to see the grind just like any other game that's based in points and detachment, you also get that little flash of existential dread at it being what it is. A game. A temporary flicker. A program. Just let it come and pass. It'll come around every now and then, but that's just the price of sentience.

HotN00b · 2018-12-29T23:07:38+00:00

Remember that the universe throws challenges like this at you to test you. To see how you RESPOND. It might or might not be your fault that you can't get bitches, but it will always be your responsibility how you proceed from now on. You can let it break you or you can let it make you.

Use the anger, improve yourself. You choose your battles and your sufferings. We all suffer like you said yourself, but what sufferings will you give a fuck about? Will you spend all your time giving so many fucks about something that really doesn't matter, or do you want to spend your limited fucks on something that matters?

Remember this key point: your happiness is defined by what metric you measure it by.

Let me give you an example: the guy from Metallica, David Mustaine. He got kicked out of the band right when they got their first record deal. He was infuriated. He spent all this anger to prove to them he was better. And he eventually ended up starting another rock band that sold 125m in records. You would define that as success right? According to my personal metric, that is success. But according this guy's own metric, he was never good enough. Even though he was a rich rock star, he was never happy. Why? Because his success was measured against the Beatles success. And u know already that they sold Alot more than 125m records. He eventually went into depression and really never found his happiness.

Edit: the temporary fix thing is very true. And most people live by these temporary highs. It's untrue happiness. To find true happiness you must first learn to appreciate your suffering and next try to fix it.

This will eventually be eternal fixing instead of temporary, because you will always encounter suffering throughout your life. Choose what battles you want to fight, don't escape them with temporary fixes.

Best of love,

Dr. Adadya

Auxfite · 2018-12-29T22:59:22+00:00

Hey man. This year I probably approached over 500 girls and I haven’t found any one who could be my wife just a bunch of sluts to pass time. The saying “she’s never yours just your turn” is true . Yesterday I shallowed another pill which hurt but I learned that marriage is a BP fantasy.

I’m going number 2 as well. Going this route gives you a shit ton of energy which is a bonus 2. I live a MGTOW monk life, always resist the temptation of women, die and go to heaven.

But if you lack self control aka have the urge for sexual desires/lust you should marry

1 Corinthians 7:9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion

Happy holidays

neurochemicalwarfare · 2018-12-30T05:14:49+00:00

glad you’re finally realizing that most of mgtows/redpillers are just incels in denial. would say that i feel bad for you, but i don’t expect men to feel any emotions other hate and anger.

Musicgoon · 2018-12-30T08:57:58+00:00

People that are bold and TRY are rewarded with results. The rest are Incels. I find that there is inherent beauty and adventure in uncertainty. Nothing is permanent, nothing is guaranteed. A lot of things will go wrong. But that makes the victories and good moments so much sweeter. Polarity.

Now I don't mince words. You are choosing to stay stuck and choosing to be miserable. I get this game. It's a ploy for attention. I wish you luck on your journey. You may want to dabble in gayness before you go full black pill. Eventually this negativity will consume you.

You're sleepwalking through life.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2018-12-30T10:58:17+00:00

If you were able to watch the entire episode I would say that's a pretty good demonstration of free will. It ducked man.

Auxfite · 2018-12-29T23:25:22+00:00

The more I think the more I’m reminded this is hell we live in. We aren’t supposed to get married, not supposed to have lustful sex, advised not to have kids but yet we have a dick that can’t be used. I hate this world

SilenceOnTheWire · 2018-12-30T04:24:14+00:00

Can't go gay, cause again, that's only a temporary fix.

You could give it a try. There's more to intimacy than sex and you might get the kind closeness you are looking for more easily from a man than from a woman. Another man is more likely to understand you and putting on a front like TRP advises to do with women I assume doesn't work so well on men because they can probably see through it. I'm serious btw.

Title	i feel like i'm going insane... hell/bandersnatch existence?
Author	HotN00b
Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	December 29, 2018 10:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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