So to keep it short, I ltr'd a bad chick from my Uni (bad move) for one year. before that we dated for 3 months. To my knowing I was the alpha and a true leader but everything collapsed at the end (1month to now).

The situation I got myself in was like this and still, even reconizing the shit/comfort test I failed.

We were hanging out and all (at the moment I was applying some subtle dread), then suddenly she decided to take my phone to see something. She wanted to see her name that I named on WhatsApp. I said no you can't take my phone and I named you "." After our last fight ( I lost my contacts and when she reached that's what I did).

She got upset and I gave some comfort directly and switched to teasing mode, but still she rejected that energy and esclated it to more drama. After that I remained silent and left and she followed me and said "if you want to make this up, change that stupid dot I don't deserve it". I said sure (got autismo kicked in), and I opened my phone and she saw a few girl contacts that got recovered from my last Android. She raged and I tried to explain calmly that, that was not what she thought and it's just my phone (I didn't even check that they were there).

After this she texted me how she is disappointed and she doesn't trust me anymore. I responded with "if you don't have any trust on me we're finished". She blocked me and while I'm typing this post she unblocked me saying some bullshit to betabait me in her frame.

I'm not even buthurt but I would like to know what caused her behavior and why I failed so hard at keeping my frame.

The relationship got more background so I kept it short.

Ask me questions if possible.