Risks in marriage/divorce? The official TRP's recommendation is to never have a long term relationship?

jojojijo333 · 2019-12-16T03:20:59+00:00

Female nature make it impossible to have guaranteed loyalty. The official recommendation is to accept reality. That's why it's called the redpill.

serynada · 2019-12-16T03:13:08+00:00

there’s a whole sub for this called married red pill. check it out, you’ll get all the answers you need and then some.

athrowaway-9001 · 2019-12-16T04:45:52+00:00

I'm looking for clarification and explanation on the "best practices" of long term commitment. Never have a long term relationship?

It is possible to attain an LTR, but you must vet your women well. Marriage is another matter all together.

I fear might get married (for many valid reasons) & then have a ~55% chance of losing half my assets (which I think I'll grow up over 10-40 years).

Bluepilled part of you that is still thinking, but also the RP part of you knowing the risks. Detrimental to yourself in the long run; I advise to pick one or the other.

I know marriage is voluntary, that's not the point: it also has advantages like long term stability. The problem I have is that I also want a long term committed relationship (with the romantic, social, and sexual advantages that come from it).

Long term stability depends on a lot of what ifs? What if this girl you are seeing decides she wants her turn on the cock carousel. What if she finds another branch to swing to and Hypergamy kicks in? What if she starts blatantly disrespecting you? Are you going to divorce her? Too many what ifs for my liking.

Because of my fear of divorce I've been even avoiding having a girlfriend for some time which is also problematic. (Yes I get I'm making a leap of logic: that a long term girlfriend will automatically become my wife.)

For good reason. RP has taught you that there is more risk than reward. See the plethora of examples on MRP if you truly want to commit to thinking about marriage.

What's the "best practices"?

Vetting, learning Sidebar and visiting MRP.

What can be done to reduce or limit "risk"?

Same as above. You cannot reduce a risk that is inherently against you in the courts. Especially here in the states (even more so in some states).

I know red pill stuff is useful, but... I'm struggling to find pragmatic information: anti-feminist rants, psychological explanations, and descriptions of broken systems/social norms really are great. However they are not helpful to me here. I feel like I'm asking someone more educated than me to google for me, but really links to relevant content would also be very helpful... or just basic advice before I continue the practice of never having a relationship again as a best practice...

All the information is here on all RP subreddits. We can't do all the dirty work and spoon feed you every answer. MRP will be especially relevant for your case.

Title	Risks in marriage/divorce? The official TRP's recommendation is to never have a long term relationship?
Author	Aspiring127
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	December 16, 2019 3:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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