Trust my gut?

unnatural_by_nature · 2020-01-13T19:55:10+00:00

She’s just giving herself an out. If she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t be going at all.

Had an early afternoon date last week that said she had to go by 4. By 6pm I was balls deep at hers.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-01-13T20:39:44+00:00

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CainPrice · 2020-01-13T20:15:39+00:00

Women often give themselves a pre-arranged excuse to get out of sex. "Oh, look at the time. It's 9:00, like I said, so I gotta bounce. I'll text you!" If the date's going well and she's horny and down to go home with you, she'll conveniently forget that she told you that.

This girl probably doesn't plan to have sex with you. She's still feeling you out.

Mondays are bad nights for sex. And she wanted to start the date at 7. And she told you she's leaving at 9.

Things are stacked up to make sex really unlikely and inconvenient. She's most likely going to use this as a date-date, not a fuck-date, to screen you. I wouldn't go in with high hopes of scoring on the first date. That doesn't mean you can't get laid on date #2 or 3. No need to blow it off if you've had good chemistry so far.

Typically, with first dates, I aim for Thursday nights. Occasionally Sundays. Weekends are typically reserved for guys a girl is already sleeping with, but Sunday is still kind of the weekend, and Thursday is close enough that if she brings you home, she only has to muscle through Friday at work. But Mondays are bad. She's probably not planning to be up late having sex Monday night.

I try to start the dates late - after 8, using work as an excuse. A date starting at 8, 8:30, or even 9 is after dinner, too late for a movie or something stupid like that, but enough time for a drink or two to feel each other out and see if she's down. But not so late as to take sex off the table. If you start the date at 8 and are back at her place or yours a little after 9, you guys can both be home and in bed between 10 and 11 and still be okay for work tomorrow.

Drinks Thursday night at 8:00 was pretty much my go-to first date.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-01-13T22:55:23+00:00

She is saying that as an out in case you're wack and she's not interested. If you're dope and she's very interested, she'll stay at your house for 4 days with no fresh clothes just for good dick.

Takeaway: Go on date, and put your best RP foot forward and escalate and score. How u present yourself will determine how late she stays.

red_philosopher · 2020-01-13T21:18:28+00:00

Go because you said you would.

Besides, how unconfident do you have to be to worry about whether or not it turns out well or not? You said yourself you have nothing better to do. So fucking go like you said you would.

Title	Trust my gut?
Author	Backthatpassup451
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	January 13, 2020 7:51 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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