Escorts/Prostitution

RedLifts · 2020-12-22T00:01:25+00:00

As someone who is finally free from an addiction to escorts, let me share my insight. I have had passionate sex with girlfriends and hollow sex with escorts, and I can say that 100% of the time sex with a girl who genuinely desires you is better. It is a testament to the work you have done on yourself and there is a genuine connection which I believe is a necessary aspect of healthy relationships.

Without getting too “woo woo”, the emotional connection you share with someone, that leads and pervades the sexual experience, is what makes “great” sex exactly that. Sex with hookers, for me personally, leaves me hollow and empty. I know deep down that I have a lot to work on in myself to get to a point where I can easily fuck girls who desire me and so fucking hookers serves to only remind me of this fact and really prod at my self esteem. Even if all sex is transactional (logically speaking), you cannot compare sex with a girl who desires you and a hooker because there is so much more to consider beyond the “transaction”.

But I digress. I found that my addiction to porn created a sense of entitlement to orgasm. Yes, orgasm is natural and healthy for males but the sense of entitlement surrounding it is not. When I got sick of feeling like a loser and wanking to porn I decided to fuck escorts instead. But neither of these solutions solved the problem of being a low value male with self esteem issues, in fact, they made it worse.

If you also struggle with porn addiction, i.e you feel guilty or shameful after wanking then read read the “pmohackbook - easypeasy”. Use your sexual energy to get to a place where you can fuck plates.

fortuitouslylucky · 2020-12-21T21:13:07+00:00

There's nothing inherently wrong with sex between two consenting adults. The only thing is how you will view yourself for paying for sex. Whatever you want to do you should be able to do. It doesn't make one less alpha for paying for sex. I find its guys who are so insecure about their masculinity that throw around these alpha and beta terms around everywhere. If you really want to give it a go then by all means give it a go. If you didn't enjoy it then you'll know not to go down that rabbit hole again. If you do end up enjoying it then be very mindful of how often you indulge. Life is too short my friend do whatever you want to do.

tropicislandexplorer · 2020-12-22T01:08:14+00:00

I was 27 years old the first time I went to an AMP(AsianMassageParlor). I had heard they offered "full service", I was going through my divorce at the time, and was lonely. I went in, put $120 on the table(I had read online that the masseuse would know what that meant).She was a sweet, cute korean lady in her early thirties. Put me right at ease, gave me a wonderful massage, and slowly worked up to the other stuff. I'll just say she did everything I was hoping for. Afterwards I felt amazing, like I had just stumbled across an amazing life hack. For the first time in my life, I felt I didn't NEED to be in a relationship.

LandSharkRoyale · 2020-12-21T23:59:53+00:00

On the contrary I just deleted tinder. Shit feels like I’m constantly wasting my time and energy

redpillbrazil · 2020-12-22T02:37:04+00:00

If you live in any developed, first world country then absolutely not worth bro.

If you are in a place like Brazil, then yes, it is so worth because the type of pussy you get here, it is the type of pussy most people will only dream about. The price is fair, a bargain if you have dollars or euros, there is a reason the place is paradise for hooker oriented tourism.

You fuck straight out 10s with fit, huge asses and slim waists.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-12-22T01:05:56+00:00

Its alot cheaper then divorce, child support and alimony.

I see alot of shame about sex workers on mgtow and RP sites, of all places. They provide an honest service that is needed. In my view there is no prostitution, as what someone does in their bedroom is their business. If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around, does it make a noise?

SublimePimp · 2020-12-21T22:40:20+00:00

In my opinion, as someone who’s fucked 50 girls, and then subsequently 66 hookers, I think it would be extremely destructive to your psyche if you haven’t already validated your own sexual prowess organically through sexually satisfying women without paying (directly). Fucking hookers is fun, but it leaves you feeling hollow. If you’re a virgin or sexually inexperienced, I don’t think you want your initially sexual experiences to be “colored” with the interactions of a hooker. I wouldn’t even recommend people losing their virginity to a hooker.

BBCinParis · 2020-12-21T23:42:19+00:00

IMO, this is the ultimate pedestal. The reason why women act the way they act, thinking their body is better than our. I guarantee you if no men pay for it, they're going to give it for free.

MazerTag · 2020-12-21T23:48:18+00:00

Prostitution is way more honest than dating. I wouldn't think twice, if I thought I wouldn't get caught. I have a sort of public job, though, so I would need a referral to someone discreet. I couldn't go looking or anything, and I don't think I'd want the ones hanging out on street corners downtown. ha!

youcantdenythat · 2020-12-22T02:45:53+00:00

I've enjoyed a few some years ago. I think it was positive because it made me realize how little sex maters and how girls are not that big of a deal.

Musicgoon · 2020-12-22T00:56:03+00:00

All sex isn't transactional. Some is validational. That's when a woman genuinely wants you for you.

I would say in this climate it's not the worst idea. Just don't make it a habit and don't stop gaming women.

This can turn you into someone that doesn't improve himself because he can just pay for sex.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-12-22T01:07:38+00:00

I'm on this planet to eat and fuck. Luckily I'm on the top of the food chain.

cfbovernfl · 2020-12-22T03:55:03+00:00

I don't think it's morally wrong, though I don't get why any guy here (or in general) would resort to this. To me it's giving up. Improve yourself and you should be able to get with women.

strawsoaker775 · 2020-12-21T20:31:58+00:00

if you want to be betabux it's fine. You get the feeling it's wrong because you know you are not alpha enough for girls to want to fuck you and it seems you don't want to become one.

PepinoSF · 2020-12-22T00:06:42+00:00

Although not advising you to dive into hookers, how would you feel if you pay 5 dinners for tne new date and end up with nothing?

Title	Escorts/Prostitution
Author	alphaonthecomeup
Upvotes	20
Comments	68
Date	December 21, 2020 8:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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