Me and my girl have been living together about 3 weeks now, and things are starting to get ridiculously annoying. Literally about 15 hours ago I went with her to buy a puppy(6weeks Old). Mind you I didn’t want this pup and I explicitly told her if she wanted the pup it is entirely her responsibility. I DoorDash part time, stocks and in the process of starting my business as well as making music ,consistently marketing & releasing Instagram content. She is a server at a restaurant part time and currently does online college. I’ve had a few dogs in my life and I know the work and dedication it takes in order to train them especially a newborn 6 week old. Neither of us really have the time to dedicate to this pupper. For some reason she expects me to take this pup on my DoorDash deliveries along with me. Watch the dog whilst she’s not here etc etc. I’m not here for it, I don’t have time for it. She insists on having the pup sleep in the bed with us. Told her this is a terrible idea, especially since I am light sleeper and she is a heavy one. I went to bed pretty late tonight probably 2 am, I got woken up by the pup 3 times in a 2 hour span. It’s now 430 am puppy biting my pillow, biting my fingers and shit So I got up, grabbed a blanket and headed to the couch. When she noticed I was gone here she comes out of the room.

Her: What are you doing? Me: I’m sleeping on the couch because the pup keeps waking me up. Her: well I want you to come back to bed. I’ll move the pup near me. Me: I’m good i need some rest Her: tantrum brews I don’t know why you can’t just ever talk to me. You’ve been mad all day since we got the pup. Anytime you get mad I ask you to explain yourself and you just give me a blank stare. Me: baby go back to bed I’ll see you in the morning Her: I feel like something is off you been acting weird lately. Me: okay we’ll talk abt it later go back to bed Her: finally goes back to bed after hovering over me for 5 minutes

(The reason I “blank stare” is because I am truly not mad. I will tell her I’m not mad and she’ll say yes you are, tell me why you’re mad. Keeps going until I say something other than “I’m not mad” So at some point I just look at her like she’s got chopsticks up her nose until she leaves me alone. I guess she thinks I’m mad at her because I left the bed? She is a bit insecure. In reality I just need some fucking sleep.

It’s like she has this expectation, this fairytale world where we are taking care of this dog together or some shit and she keeps trying to force it on me. I deny her attempts especially since I feel like we should be focusing more on our relationship than a fucking dog after 3 weeks of living together.

I’m up at 5:45AM writing this because after that whole situation I can’t fuckng sleep. Good Morning!