Quick field report about an awesome question

_FAPSTRADAMUS_ · 2013-02-21T00:52:51+00:00

you were at a rave... of course everyone was happy to meet you. I made eye contact with a girl in line at a rave and she came up to me later and said "but what if I never see you again?!" I'm not saying that wasn't a good line but you gotta take that with a grain of MDMA cause that's what everybody was on.

RonnieLibra · 2013-02-20T16:23:06+00:00

This reminds me of some of the reports on Masf back in the day.

I walked into the club and started using "the look". I gave, "the look" to girls and they would start getting horny and soon, I started making out with some girls so I pulled her to the bathroom and started fucking her.

The thing is, I would tell people to try this, and find out that NO GIRL is going to just start making out with you.

Sorry man. In real life there is no magic pill to get girls to just start making out with you, and it's certainly not walking up with the "Magic" opener about "what are you passionate about?"

You think you're the first person to say that?

I'll even say this, if you go up to a girl and use this opener I'm willing to bet some girls are going to look at you funny, or say, "I don't know, why are you asking me this?"

At least at the clubs I go to, which are usually very loud, have kickass house music going and are filled with beautiful, high value people.

There's one exception. Maybe you found some random girl who was Rolling on E. ;)

But don't listen to me. I would urge people to try this for themselves and gather your own results. I am willing to bet they wont be anything like this guy is saying.

However, if you are in the right part of the conversation asking someone what they are passionate about, but not just in some cheesy, contrived way, but where you really take an interest in it, can be pretty effective. Usually more like once you actually have some pretty solid rapport going. Then, with a little comfort building and what El Topo calls the Rapport Cycle you can definitely amp her up and get her horny, but asking someone, "What are you passionate about?" in and of itself is no magical "make out" question.

sed-caelys · 2013-02-20T16:10:18+00:00

Definitely going to try this one out this weekend.

2013-02-20T18:44:02+00:00

Great share!

At times, if I sense that the woman is interesting, I use this: You know how when you meet people it's always the same question... name, what you do for a living.... let's do this: no name (we can guess it later), and just tell me what turns you on in life, you know, your passions, interests....

If you want to make it even more interesting, depending on her, and on her stories, and common interests, after escalating to some flirting and kino, make up a name for her, base it on someone famous and glamourous like:

Marilin (Monroe)
Jackie / Jacqueline
Coco (chanel)
Janis (Joplin)

And ask her to name you, make sure that you suggest someone appropriate that's alpha and bodes well with her new-found alter-ego.

Women (and guys too) LOVE fantasy, the right woman, compatibility, some alcohol, the right environment, you can take it as far as you want.

If you're good, and you want to do deep psychological research, if you play that game convincingly, NEVER going out of character, and you get her to play along, you can take it far, very far, because in her mind, it's not her doing all those things but it's someone else, an alter ego.

Case study/miniFR: Once I started this way a 4 year long relationship with a married woman, and every time that we talked, we called each other by our alter ego names. In front of people, we called each other our normal name.

Title	Quick field report about an awesome question
Author	BurningOwl
Upvotes	42
Comments	10
Date	February 20, 2013 3:56 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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