Probably going to get mostly trolls but I lately I've been getting really close to giving up.

To put this into perspective, I'll give a quick backstory. I'm a 20 yr old in college and for all of my freshman year and half of my sophomore year I had a long term relationship. Things ended really poorly and I took a break before really getting into the seddit community last year in September.

However, I have experienced little luck and have struck out with most girls and have not had a successful K close or F close. My slump for either of those is pretty much a year and a half and counting. I'm able to get a first date and try kino but everything falls apart afterwards. My most recent failures has been striking out with 4 girls I've liked in a row. I guess the most frustrating part is that I dress well, work out and I have hobbies, passions and do a lot of fun/interesting things (I already work part time in the music industry). I know I'm not hideous either. I guess my biggest knock is that I'm short (5'6/5'7).

I realize the positives as I have been able to get first dates and I have chosen not to pursue things further with 2 girls.

I know the common response will be to meet more girls. I have anxiety and it's especially common in social settings. I eventually warm up and I'm ok but starting is the hardest part. Considering my recent failures, my motivation is at an all time low. Anyways, what do you guys do when you are in a prolonged slumped? How do you overcome frustration?