Game is just finesse

Big_Accountant8489 · 2024-07-04T14:07:47+00:00

You’re correct but please explain in English

drewster23 · 2024-07-04T09:51:48+00:00

Dude...you didn't have to try to be plato here, making up your own theories for what's boiled down to charisma /conversational ability ol.

Banhammer40000 · 2024-07-04T16:00:15+00:00

“The Game”(ugh I detest PUA lingo. It’s not a game. It’s your life.) is just an extension of the inter personal power dynamics between people that we engage in on a daily basis as social creatures.

You don’t just seduce your potential chamber mates but you seduce your investors, business partners, mother in laws, cops, waiters, etc. it’s just that the end goal is different. (Though if you wanna get your mother in law to bed, I don’t judge nor kink shame)

It’s the recognition of these power dynamics and subtle manipulation of the said power dynamics in your favor. It’s absolutely a learnable skill.

However, an important distinction between chasing and attracting needs to be made here. You create an imbalance in the power dynamics and attraction sits in one end and chasing sits on the other end.

The way to become a person who attracts as opposed to the one who chases, is to become a person worthy of attraction.

I know. That sounds stupid and way too simple. But to become a person worthy of attraction takes a lot of work.

In short, be better.

Than you were yesterday. Strive to be better tomorrow than you were today. As you become “better”(a term wholly subjective, I know. Some things you have to figure out yourself), the more people you’ll attract and higher the quality of selection will become.

No_Hat9118 · 2024-07-04T06:19:09+00:00

Nah you’re alright

VrilHunter · 2024-07-04T14:41:21+00:00

Absolutely. Well said.

Title	Game is just finesse
Author	Full_Worker_9821
Upvotes	18
Comments	10
Date	July 4, 2024 5:40 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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