First date in a long time

Dwerg1 · 2024-11-21T17:42:45+00:00

Throw aside the idea that there are leagues. Someone being out of your league is not them actually being above you, it's you putting yourself below them, basically rejecting yourself before they even have a chance to. She's either worthy of you or she isn't.

Worry way more about whether you actually like her than whether she likes you or not. You're probably not going to do this even if you try, but I'm saying it anyways.

If it doesn't go the way you hoped then try to learn from it while the memory is still fresh in your mind, it could offer valuable lessons for next time.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-11-21T17:35:35+00:00

It's unlikely the date will happen, because it's scheduled so far in advance. The longer in advance a date is planned, the higher the chance that she will cancel or ghost you. Just something to keep in mind. It's not guaranteed but I'm just giving you a warning.

Why do you worry if she's in your league or not? Are you afraid the league police will arrest you if you date a girl in a different league? Lol. Don't be silly. It doesn't matter what leagues you're both in.

Why are you bad at escalating? How does that usually go wrong? What part of the escalation is troubling you and why?

play2008 · 2024-11-21T17:23:03+00:00

Yeah see how it goes. If you get some indicators of interest from her then keep escalating.

Ashamed_Bobcat_7237 · 2024-11-21T19:10:57+00:00

I think you will be cock blocking yourself if you overthink it, because if she already seems visibly excited about this date, the only way you fail is If you mess it up for yourself.

Did you ever look up Pete Davidson?

Or have a friend who looked like he hit his face at birth, but he makes the girls laugh and feel connected to him?

You're already on her good side, from what you say, so all you have to do is chill, be a good mood, be moderately flirty, and you will definitely get all the dates you want next.

I don't know if you will drive, but for a first date, when you're clearly not feeling confortable with her yet, if you take a drink or something, it will help you break the ice for the first 15 minutes, just enough to make you feel loose.

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-11-21T19:11:14+00:00

Go for a walk somewhere and offer your arm to escort her. Easiest physical escalation ever.

FirmGuitar5411 · 2024-11-21T21:12:06+00:00

Where are you guys going?

Fast-Expert-9799 · 2024-11-21T20:12:02+00:00

Hi why can't I make my own posts in this subreddit

Title	First date in a long time
Author	sompl2000
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	November 21, 2024 5:18 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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