I decided to develop my social muscles and seduction skills that by interacting with strangers when I'm out and progressively increasing the difficulty of the social context. This includes cold approaching women.

This ladder approach has helped a lot, but now I've reached a wall where I struggle to approach girls that are my age and/or attractive. I try to mentally persuade myself to approach anyways, but I have realized that I need an external push, at least in this early stage.

The "3-second" rule has been somewhat helpful, but a phone-a-wingman type situation would be ideal.

Can you recommend a peer accountability system or community where I can message or call someone to get motivated before practicing social interactions? Like a wingman I can telephone? Not really interested in paying for a coach. If this doesn't exist, I'm happy to make a group chat or something and maybe we can all help each other out with wingman motivational calls - just leave a comment or DM me.