What is next after an initial open

Seiiiiiii · 2025-07-18T07:41:29+00:00

Yes that’s a common issue especially if you’re using gimmicky openers.

The transition you want to aim for depends on how much time and depends on logistics, that’s why you want to enquire about those early on:

« So what are you doing here, you have a date? »

« Are you visiting? »

« You have a train to catch? »

Once you know a bit more about that, if you see it’s not the best time to chat you can ask for her contact and continue this another time; and if it’s actually a good time you can then transition into getting to know each other but include teasing and positive vibes. You could ask to walk the street together, or grab a coffee etc. Basically an instant date.

ProfitisAlethia · 2025-07-18T20:07:36+00:00

We're having a zoom meet-up tonight for this sub where a group of us get together and talk about logistics stuff like this. It's at 7pm central time. If you want to have a conversation and hear from people that have some experience with this I can send you a link!

StardustIIX · 2025-07-19T04:08:19+00:00

Try getting them to invest. After you do the initial open/cold read and you have their attention try asking a qualifying question.

Basically a question that prompts to think about an answer she thinks would impress you like:

What's something you secretly wish you could get away with? On a scale of 1-10 how adventurous are you? Tell me, what's your most positive quality?

Base it off of things that you think would be engaging to talk about.

Challenge/tease her even, like: I bet you have bad taste in movies, haha.

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-07-18T06:22:25+00:00

If u want to go into technical details.

Once you open. You throw emotional spikes until you get the hook point.

The hook point is when she starts asking questions about you.

After hook point u can relax. Because it’s high possibility she will either give u number or go on insta date.

However, u don’t close straight away. Instead u qualify her. Don’t forget that. It is import.

U throw shone push and pull. Some spikes to keep it interesting. And then u close it.

There is another hook point called sex hook. It’s the moment she decides she wants to sleep with you. But it’s advanced topic.

Also do false or true time constraints. Basically is when u say that u have only two minutes and you have to run.

You can also time constraint through body language like you are about to leave by turning your body sideways.

Title	What is next after an initial open
Author	hjkaden
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Date	July 18, 2025 5:58 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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