Beginner missions to reach intermediate

epimpstyle · 2025-10-19T08:27:51+00:00

In short, it’s about staying in the conversation as long as possible, not just a "hit and run".

You start as you did with a simple question that will take only 2-3 seconds: "Excuse me, is XYZ (a bus station) that way? ... Okay, thanks." Repeat this process, and after a while, you’ll notice it starts to feel easy, even boring. That’s when you know you’re ready for the next step.

This time it takes a bit longer: "excuse me, is the XYZ-that way? I want to go to XYZ-shop/mall.... ok, thanks". ...

Next time, even longer: "Excuse me, is XYZ in that direction?" [point to the opposite way] "Oh, really? Someone else told me it was there... Alright, thanks!"

This way, you'll reach the point where you can hold a one-minute conversation.

"Excuse me, is XYZ that way? So... it's straight ahead and then to the left! (insert a deliberate mistake). Oh, it's actually to the right? I want to go to XYZ-shop because I'll meet my friend who is an accountant.... you also look like an accountant. [she say she is a cashier for example] Not an accountant? Are you a cashier? No way! Two seconds to tell you a quick story... I have a friend who told me about her ex that she is a cashier and he said .... [insert a short funny/interesting story]..."

At this point, you're making jokes and telling stories, but remember, you started with just a brief 2-3 second question.

EDIT - ‘"Inner game’" is a never-ending topic, stay away from it. Take from it just a few basic ideas, and that’s all from that chapter.

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2025-10-19T18:38:26+00:00

I actually started recording myself approaching and taking girls on dates. In some.of those clips you can see everything from the warm up to the proper approach, to the game itself, to me taking her on a date on the spot . It's better to show than write about it I think. It will give you a clear idea of what to do/say, how, and when . Dm me i will share some of those clips in private.

Viking-Warrior-King · 2025-10-19T08:25:50+00:00

You don't know how to to relax yourself and if you're relaxed and you go into panic mode you need to switch states quickly.

I did this originally by meditating but meditation is a long proces. Switching states by self hypnosis is far quicker.

d0x360 · 2025-10-20T12:22:54+00:00

no no all this stop it stop it get out of here forever. treat it like a game you're going to fail. try to pro tip cheat code it you're going to fail.. the very active being here talking about this this way.. not a good thing. I understand why people are doing it but trust me.. 99% of the advice I see here is the opposite of what people should do.

you shouldn't have a goal of approaches per day. the only thing that controls that should be I think that person is interesting or I'm attracted to them then you go.. no missions the only way to overcome your anxiety is to stop trying to overcome it it's natural.

just feel the anxiety and go for it anyways.. it'll go away on its own have faith.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-10-20T21:26:13+00:00

Give 30 compliments to women.

Try out the Fearless program by RSD Max.

Title	Beginner missions to reach intermediate
Author	ThenSignificance1726
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Date	October 19, 2025 8:12 AM UTC (9 months ago)
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