Suppose-

A girl followed you and you started the texting part. Couple of messages here and there then you suddenly feel like "what to text now so that she may fall for me" or like "how to impress her sort of" or "what to say to fix a successful date through texts?"

This is me btw.

I have kind of scarcity mindset which make me attached to women even with couple of days of texting which gave no result.

What pharases should I stick to or what is the correct mindset in this situation?

Should I stick with "girls who are interested do not make it hard for the guy they like"

What's your key?