I also posted this to asktrp, with some minor edits

I had some resistance kiss-closing last night, and I'd like some constructive criticism as to what I can do better

I picked up this girl who asked me out(this is the first time we've hung out in a year). We went over to a burger joint. There was some pre-date tension between us and the conversation was pretty boring at first, but quickly turned into us having banter, playful negs (I patted her head, called her my bratty sister, made her kiss me on the cheek when she spilled a drink on me, proposing to her with a ring made out of a straw wrapper).

We go to coffee with my arm around her, and she starts talking about how she's never blown a middle eastern guy (me being middle eastern) and deep throating a banana and touching me. I would tell her that shes ruining her chances with me, that she needs to "slow down". She's laughing and loving every bit of it.

So far so good

We go pick up some Tequila and redbull, but here's where I think things got strange. She asked me if she could invite a guy who was an old fuck buddy, to which I reply "sure, only if I can invite (beta orbiter guy)", to which she agrees. I Thought for some reason she was joking, but she pressed on about it when we get to my place ( Shit test, yea?). I told her to invite him, along with her mom, sister, cousin,dad, all listed by name in a humorous fashion.

I grab a blanket from my room and walk over to her on the couch - she says "nice blanket, where's mine?" to which I respond "this one here" (is this a good enough response, is there anything funnier?)

We're on the couch watching a movie, under a blanket, and my arm's wrapped around her. She's laughing and having a good time, talking about other men she perceives as weak/beta. I do the David D kiss test, playing with her hair and gazing from her lips to her eyes, she's looking back into my eyes.

I go in for the kiss and she moves her head, giggling. I tease her about it and try again, same result.

She then says "Didn't you say I'm like a bratty little sister to you? Are you into incest?", I reply "Oh yea, I want to have a whole farm of mutant babies" (something to this effect)

-Was this response a good agree and amplify?

So after the two failed kiss-closes, she does something that throws me off. She starts fidgeting closer and closer to me, I'm playing footsie now and stroking her arm and caressing/holding her hand, to which she doesn't reciprocate, but doesn't resist. She just sits there with her hands in her lap.

I did not attempt to kiss her at this point, partly because I was confused, and partly because I perceived her becoming afraid of me trying again (this sounds like some nice guy shit I need to work on yes?)

She asks me to take her home around 3am, as she has a family thing at 8. She obviously had a nice time (not as good as it could have been ), but I'm sitting here wondering where I failed to act and how to improve.

The only text she sent me was "Happy thanksgiving!"

to which I responded "happy thanks giving applebutt" (she had a nice ass and like to talk about it). She didn't respond

What could I have done to improve? Should I make plans to meet up with her again or just next her?

Here are my questions :

1) Can I reschedule another meet up with her? Whats an alpha way to schedule through text?

2) Should I mention the kiss attempt?

3) When I meet up with her, can I start to kino her like its no big deal right off the bat,(i.e grabbing her arm, walking arm in arm), or do I have to start over, as if nothing happened between us?

4) Are there any good souces for texting game(i.e with openers, understanding text shit-tests?)

All criticism welcome