Dating apps

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-07-24T18:56:18+00:00

My rule of thumb is, never use dating apps as your #1 way of meeting women. It's secondary.

Becuase the problem with dating apps is it gives a false idea of what it's like out there epsecially for men. There are 2 times more men than women on the apps, and men swipe on everyone which causes women to have their pick of the litter. So even if you get likes you get drowned out. Plus, a friend of mine had a good metaphor for dating apps. It's like finding a parking spot in a lot that is full, you find one that's like a 3-5 minute walk to the door all the way in the back, so you have two choices take it or risk someone else taking it to find a better one. That's dating apps, if you onlyu get a limited amount of swipes, you see someoen whose attractive but the idea that there could be an even more attractive person out there and you only have a few swipes left have people swiping left for the "what if".

Ill also put it like this, say you are at a party with 100 men, 50 women. You have to leave with a date. What would ahppen? same as dating apps, men are talking to every girl they see women have their pick of the litter so they are only talking to the most attractive guys in the room.

My advice, use this new glow up and actually go out and meet girls at bars, clubs, etc. I promise you the success rate is much better at the bars and clubs. You already got very positive feedback from two women (one sounds like is a random woman who barely knows you). That should tell you that if you went out and tried youd get somee interest. Just know, dont expect women to kiss your feet or chase you, you still gotta do some chasing to show them that you are fun to be around and worht their while.

laterral · 2026-07-24T20:37:20+00:00

Interested in this glow up!! Tell us more re what you did

ReindeerFun3762 · 2026-07-25T19:43:16+00:00

Girls are jaded from using dating apps. Just like there's a bunch of hot girls on there there's a bunch of good looking guys

haftzabaa · 2026-07-26T10:52:12+00:00

At your height and ethnicity apps are always going to be kind of hard.

You're handsome and seem to have decent social skills and dress sense and some good dating experience already, I think you're the kind of guy who would probably do quite well with daygame as long as you can learn to wear down your fear of approaching and approach it with a disciplined skill-building attitude.

That said, if getting better photos made your results worse I wouldn't discount that you may have done something with your bio or maybe even though your photos are better there is something with the exact combination or there is one photo dragging you down. I found that when I improved my top photo this improved my results a little bit but I found that the ROI still seemed low so I just stopped bothering with apps.

Title	Dating apps
Author	No-Forever-7283
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	July 24, 2026 6:47 PM UTC (3 days ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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