Tinder

dnaPUA · 2014-02-18T14:42:51+00:00

As you indicated, the main point with Tinder is to set yourself apart, since these girls are probably getting at least five matches every time they open the app. Be playful and seek to polarize quickly.

The good news is, if you live in a decently populated area, Tinder is lesson in abundance mentality. Err on the side of being more bold, try things you normally wouldn't. And by all means, seek to transition to texting as soon as possible.

I once matched a girl who was holding a chicken in her main picture. I opened with "bold move, making your first picture the one where you're holding a cock." That one elicited a laugh, a number, and a few nude shots that day.

sh0nuff · 2014-02-19T03:57:14+00:00

I'll often type something like "lol, no, the black salty kind" or some random non sequitur. She'll often say something about forgetting what we were talking about, and assume she was already talking to you at an earlier time. This works well with Tinder because girls frequently will have a number of conversations open and close them, forgetting what the conversation was about.

__JeRM · 2014-02-18T15:04:20+00:00

I use the "You're cute. It's a shame you only go for the jock type."

This has works amazingly well for me with the matches.

2014-02-18T16:55:20+00:00

I'll toss in my 2 cents. Tinder is no different from any other method for meeting people except that women are not inundated with messages. At my peak usage, I would get 5 to 10 legit matches per day. of those, I would wonder why i hit like on about half. The remaing few actually have a conversation. Of those, 1 is typically interested in meeting right away. So I was meeting up with a few differebt women per week, as opposed to cold approaches which was netting me a few per month.

Met a super awesome girl who i am meeting up with this week. Funny smart and sexy. She's sent me several selfies, so I know exactly what I am getting. Pretty excited, to be honest.

Some will say Tinder is easy mode: I agree completely! Why make it harder thN it has to be? Oh yeah, I'm late 30s and every woman so far has been under 30 (except one milf).

mr_positron · 2014-02-18T13:56:35+00:00

Tease them about one of their pictures.
Ask them a stupid question that is locally relevant, ie, "Important question! NY Giants or NY Jets?"

Even then, for me, it's a huge crap shoot.

drallcom3 · 2014-02-24T01:11:32+00:00

Doesn't really matter what you write. You can only write her if she already finds you attractive.

HappyJerk · 2014-02-18T17:42:28+00:00

Don't waste your time on Tinder. Most of the girls just want validation or just to talk to somebody.

Source: I have lots of hot girl friends who use Tinder and they admit that they just use it for attention.

supersnowstorm · 2014-02-18T13:39:35+00:00

I'm not going to do your work for you!

ItsNotAScam · 2014-02-18T14:55:47+00:00

Tinder is similar to prostitution in that you're basically just having sex only. Avoid. Stick to irl game and avoid online dating like you're supposed to.

Title	Tinder
Author	supersnowstorm
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	February 18, 2014 1:38 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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