Just one question, what to do about OUR double standard? I love to meet new girls and get closer but whats up with that double standard where a guy should offer to pay for the date? If a guy approaches, does all the leading conversationally, brings his value to the table and takes responsibility for the sexual things that could happen... why is it on a date women are still expected to be paid for.. just for her company? We are both on a date having fun getting to know each other, I dont want to have the frame that i should pay just for her good company! Maybe its false underlying belief on my part hoping I can hear others way of thinking and change this nice-guy belief I have.