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[–]twelvedayslate 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ugh. I don't even know what to make of this post. But I'll try.
You don't have to wait an hour to respond. That's weird. Sure, if every response is within seconds, maybe slow it down a liiittle, but you don't need to wait like that. Don't play games.
Sending another text saying you're looking forward to tonight isn't needy.
[–]Psych40[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh I didn't deliberately wait an hour. I was busy, literally!
[–]twelvedayslate 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah, okay. Makes more sense now!
I sent the additional text. You guys are right, heck, I am looking forward to tonight and so is she, clearly. :-)
[–]drgreenair 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! Enjoy! Please don't play games. Just answer the texts naturally as an extension of the person you are.
[–]joshsway 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sending a text you're looking forward to tonight is ok because it is a good confirmation of the date as girls are very flakey. This is actually one of the few types of texts you SHOULD be sending (i.e. confirmation texts) The other type is logistical texts (e.g. lets meet at XYZ location). Save shooting the shit for real life.
[–]ThePUA_Baddie 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she's messaging you out of the blue you definitely have a green light. You should only be texting as much as her or less than, ideally less than. Seems like you already have this situation secured, you probably could've kissed her on the first date if you tried to (not sure if you tried)
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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