First date, couple of noob questions

AttractandSeduce · 2015-07-26T22:11:56+00:00

Hey Lanaru,

Monthlyduck is right, pick her up the first time/first few times. After hanging out with her a few times/dates, let her come and see you. You don't want to go every single time because then you would be investing more in the relationship during the beginning.

Ideally you want to both invest in the relationship in a balanced way or have her invest more then you.

I'm a bit confused by the second question.

Here are some first date tips though:

Make sure you touch her right away to establish kino. Give her a hug when you first see her.
Sit on a booth and sit right beside her if you go out to eat. Not across her. Ideally you want to sit really close to her that both of your asses are touching each other. You can even tease her by saying, "just don't get any thoughts now", or "hey, that's my ass that your touching".
Remain calm throughout the whole time
Keep good eye contact with her.
Be attentive on what she tells you including what her body language is telling you.
If you want to stay out of the friend zone and allow her to see you as a romantic option/sexual option, keep getting her used to your touch. Start in socially acceptable ways and slowly get more intimate.
Avoid waiting till the end of the date to get a kiss. Kiss her in the middle of the date. This is only if she has been comfortable with you and she is already used to your touch and you FEEL that there is a green light.
Tease her when possible but don't over do it. Know when it's time to tease and when it's time to be real with her.

I could go on and on. Whether your date goes good or not, learn from it. Learn from the good as well as the bad. I'm sure you know that this is what winners do.

Check out this blog post I made. You will discover some good and bad date ideas. I mean, don't you want to have a great date.

http://www.attractandseducehotwomen.com/attraction/the-best-and-worst-dates-to-take-her-on/#sthash.xXy71fdT.dpbs

Have fun!

monthlyduck · 2015-07-26T21:18:11+00:00

Pick her up man! Be a gentleman and meet her at the door, open the car door for her etc.
Order something for you and look at her when it's her turn to order. But you may or may not know what she likes beforehand, if you do order for her.

bl1y · 2015-07-26T23:18:46+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

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Title	First date, couple of noob questions
Author	Lanaru
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	July 26, 2015 8:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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