Disclaimer: I know this post is sloppily formatted. I'd like to be more organized with bullet points for the rules as well as have the drills divided into categories of sticking points (physicality, approach, escalation, etc) but I'm in a hurry and just wanted to make sure some people had SOMETHING to work on tonight (Saturday, Halloween weekend - best night of the year, mother fuckers) because I've been in the position of being in the club and just being pissed at myself and feeling stuck, so here's a tid bit of value. Get creative with the drills, and lower your standards of what makes a good drill. Make it as easy as you need.

The more specific the better the drill, the better.

RULES: Don't beat yourself up or judge yourself, have expectations or standards you are trying to live up to. It doesn't matter how well you even do the drill. Just DO THE DRILL. If you don't do the drill DON'T BEAT YOURSELF UP. Be compassionate towards yourself and reward yourself for any kind of success. "Well at least I left the house". Good enough.

So if it's socializing IN GENERAL that you suck at then don't beat yourself up about not being able to approach. DRILL: say "beautiful day!" or give a passing compliment to someone walking by you.

Drill: If you haven't yet approached or it's been a while since you have approached, set a timer for 5 minutes and do an approach before 0. This will light a fire under yourass.

Physicality Drills:

Go for an instant makeout

TIME IN BETWEEN INTERACTIONS: If you typically do lets say 2 approaches a night, spread out by 2 hours, tonight give yourself 1 hour and 55 minutes until next one. Adjust this to where your at. you have an infinite amount of time. no pressure

AA: vibe with some dudes, fuck it, it's all apart of being that social guy

PHYSICALITY: Hug a girl on opener OR give a girl a highfive OR put your arm around her as some point in the set. The earlier there is physicality the better but do what you can.

Ask every girl you talk to for her phone number no matter what

If you're having AA, make fun of it in your approach. "Hey can you stop intimidating me? Kinda rude" or "I had to get some water to work up the courage to talk to you" or "Hey I'm kinda nervous right now but... oh shit i just peed my pants" OR "you're the first girl i've ever talked to. Do cute girls fart?" or "Hey soooo are exclusive/facebook official?" or "Hey youre my first approach of the night" or "Hey i'm a pick up artist, wanna come back to my lair" or (got this one from RSD Jeffy) "Hello. I'm the next idiot of the night takling to you". OR go up to the tallest girl in the group and put our arm over her shoulder/around her "You are the perfect height for me!" - This one opens up sets really well, then just game the girl you want the most or you have the best shot with. The shorter you are the better.Mock the fear. Own it. If you're getting overwhelmed, it's cool.

Venue changing - try to bounce every set to another venue. Ask for phone number if it doesn't work. Doesn't matter how well you think it'll be received, just execute. Get used to executing.

Even if you go out, intend to do a drill, and don't get it done, fuck it, AT LEAST YOU WENT OUT. Don't be a perfectionist with high standards.