So I met a girl and over some days I developed a massive crush on her. She was very friendly and nice, got her number, chatted some time. I've been reading on dating and related self help for almost a year now (Mark Manson) and I never thought I'd find someone as awesome as this person. I asked her out yesterday and she said no. I don't know why she said no. To think about it, she dint shown any interest in the first place. So I'm guessing the rejection had nothing to do with me. She even hinted in a conversation before that she isn't looking for anyone. Now my instinct says that I haven't done anything to influence a "no" and neither am I taking this personally. But it still hurts. A little reassurance from her would go a long way. And there's still a little doubt that it might be me and that I could've done something differently. So should I ask? To be honest I don't care even if she lies. I just wanna be done with it and move on.