I need a bit of advice. First time I've posted here and I've never really ever been unsuccessful with attaining women, but I do however have a problem maintaining them now, especially when the majority of them are hot. I find myself becoming more invested, especially when they're out clubbing and living the wild and free lives they should be. I would never allow myself to become controlling, but I'd rather learn how to tackle these doubts and insecurities when, and as they arise. How can I be less invested yet still open to the possibility of being hurt? I've been damaged by past relationships and never really learnt how to tame that side of my emotional mentality.