Seduction community have often preach importance of being congruent, whatever you're feeling at the moment express it unfiltered. But with a touch of social gesture and awareness of social context.

I'm attracted to chubby girls, here's my problem Often time they don't have pretty face to me so I can't say you look pretty. It felt forced. If I could I rather say "you got a hot looking body", cause that's the reason my dick are drawn to them. But social context beg otherwise cuz I'm in a daylight mall I felt inappropriate saying that. Now even if they have a pretty face and I compliment them, I felt urge to just say " God I wanna squeeze your butt". Which is creepy unless is at bar or club i guess.

Small problem of mine any tip on this being congruent thing? Or do I just have to fake and pretend I'm talking to her not because of her fucking huge booty.