I was often attractive with the whole package, good body/six pack/muscular/lien throughout my life. This is currently not the case, at all. I recently went through a very long and stressful breakup from a relationship. Last year I gained weight (which was common) but I gained a LOT more than normal and through the continuation of a relationship that was downhill, I gained by far more weight than I had ever previously imagined would occur to me in life. I’ve certainly suffered depression concurrently with weight gain as I started hating my appearance and the effects of having such a change in weight. I spent a LOT of time gaming and accomplished absolutely zero exercise until recently. The moment we finally broke it off, I have been working out nonstop for a bit short of two weeks.

I feel a complete change in my body and mind. I feel like I can recover from this current state. But it will certainly take time. I’ve had a LOT of experience talking to women throughout life and had attractive hookups/Dates/relationships. But now looking back I feel like its easy mode when you are attractive. After I finally left my cave recently and started going out again with friends, I have noticed the different look new people give you. I have always been a very humorous person- and I still certainly believe that I am funny, as I can surely make people laugh. HOWEVER, I have noticed certain types of humor do not work (or do not work as well) anymore.

Its really been an eye opening experience for me. I started with seduction a long time ago. I used to go out with others from seduction communities and I recall going out with overweight people. The interesting part was that they would look to me for mentorship as I had great results- but I could clearly see a difference being attractive vs fat and the effects it had (especially at intro). When you are attractive, I feel like openers are very simple and making girls laugh is pretty damn simple.

TLDR/MAIN POINT: After being fit/attractive throughout life, I am currently fat (working out now that I’m recently single) HOWEVER, I am interested in going to Las Vegas/EDC music festival because I have been in a long term relationship for so long that I feel I have lost a LOT of seduction skills. There is a very high volume of practice that can be done at this event.

Despite the bad situation I am deeply curious to experience seduction as an overweight/fat person and see how it is. I will walk the strip on Las Vegas doing seduction/pickup and also EDC festival, as a (very out of seduction practiced) fat man.

I am wondering if anyone has similar experience to share with me? Or any advice or tips from someone who has experienced something similar? If anyone is interested I will come back along as I gain experience from this new perspective and tell you guys how things worked out.